What does /lgbt/ think of escorts/sex workers? Have you worked

>>6745308
Im not a whore banger,im above paying for sex. I also would feel like a loser if i did have to pay for sex.
That being said prostitution should be legal. The whores need a union.
One reason i h8 tindr is i literally never get a response from a girl unless she is a prostitute.
Their price seems to be like $170/hr but again im not paying that shit, most of them arent even hot

>>6745317
>i literally never get a response from a girl unless she is a prostitute
>I also would feel like a loser if i did have to pay for sex

>>6745329
I get plenty of sex, i just get no love on tindr

Gotta do what you gotta do, but every one I know who did regrets the fuck out of it and has problems with relationships and sex after.

>>6745329

Tindr and other online shit anymore only has two types on there:

Move in with me, marry me, take care of me, I need someone to pay my rent or that's $200/hour.

There's nobody normal on online dating.

>>6745396
I know someone who had to pay to lose his virginty then regretted it because the girl who spurned him all through hs realized she was ugly and had no real dating options so she settled and married him.
>>6745401
Grindr is good online dating. Omegle too.

>>6745410
>Omegle too.

Get the fuck out of here. I don't want to date somebody who lives nine time zones away.

>>6745415
ur retarded if you cant figure out a way to find local people on omegle. Dont expect me to educate you on the matter but ive found 5 hookups on omegle on this year.

>9 time zones away, what a retard

It shouldn't be illegal and the workers should be able to organise freely.

>>6745727
This. It would still be 'problematic' in the way that porn is, where I'm sure a lot of people with few options are 'cohersed' into it, but no one thinks a kid who really needs the money is being 'cohersed' or forced into cleaning the shit off an Arby's toilet, so I can make peace with that one.

I would actually love to pay for sex.

Worked as one for 5 years. I'd say you're free to do what you want but it's not the fun life people think it is.

>>6745770
Who thinks whoring is a fun life?

>>6745775
i was just going to say this.
>its not glamorous

>>6745775
It's just that I've seen posts by guys saying that they'd love to be able to have sex and get paid for it, quit their regular jobs, etc... They have an attitude like "no problem dude".

>>6745785
Well, no shit. That's the kind of trash mentality men like to spout about catcalling. ( I'd LOVE if a broad came up to me and told me she wanted to fuck me! Whaddya complaining about?)
They're retards.

>>6745785
arent most people forced into prostitution because of drug use or destitution?
>its very few peoples first career choice.
>maybe it wouldnt be so shitty for the prostitutes if they had a union, and could rely on police protection, and didnt have to hide in a black market

I can't say whether prostitution came before addiction or visa versa for anyone else. For me my drinking problems started after I started prostitution. Yes, I needed money but I wasn't destitute.

>>6745799
I mean, it's gonna happen. Either you're already hooked on something or you start getting hooked on something because it sucks and you're with that element.
I mean, if you're just some chick, sucking off fat bubba in his truck or Tyrone by the dumpsters is gonna make you fucking kill yourself.
If it were regulated, not only would I imagine you'd get higher clientele in there (and I don't mean the rich weirdos taking part now, that pay tons to take a shit on you or something, I mean like you or I wanted a fuck that night), without a pimp you'd probably be able to be more discerning with your customers, if all that means is making less money for yourself.

>>6745814
Maybe for women it makes sense. I'm a guy and generally speaking gay guys can get sex almost on demand if they are decent looking and are looking for "average" sex. The guys who pay for sex with other guys are usually either fat, old, fat and old or so kinky that their tastes just don't appeal to average gay guys.

>>6745846
But if you didn't mind taking a hit in profits, so long as it was legalized, you wouldn't be forced into fucking uggos if ya didn't want to.

>>6745814

This isn't what most escorts are like - there's few street walkers now, almost all work in hotels/apartments, and pimping has dried up.

Because the internet.

>>6745846
>so kinky that their tastes just don't appeal to average gay guys.
got examples, id love to hear this

>>6745857
Even if it were legalized, decent looking gay guys seeking "normal" sex don't need escorts/prostitutes. Grindr, craigslist, a4a,etc... any of these are available for casual hookups for these guys. They don't have to pay for it.

>>6745873
I'm sure some of the things I encountered can be found on gay dating sites. Watersports, scat, foot worship, bondage, spanking, vomit... things like that. If you want that and don't want to pay for it, you may have to hunt for a while to find someone to do that for free. But wave enough money n front of me and you can piss down my throat all you want.

>>6745863
Not in my area, friend. You can see the whole life-cycle of girls fairly quickly. They get into it kinda pretty and you see them just get more and more fucked up until you find out they ODed behind a dumpster somewhere. You can drive up and down Mt Ephraim Ave in Camden and see tens of them.
I didn't realize we were talking about escorts, sorry.

>>6745885
Ok? I know where we are, but the OP is pretty general.

>>6745863
>there's few street walkers now, almost all work in hotels/apartments, and pimping has dried up.
thats not the case in every state that borders mexico.
>kidnapping, pimping and human trafficing are huge here. sure their are fewer streetwalkers but you still got pimps arranging internet dates constantly for vulnerable/abused persons

>its grimy dude, its not this "omg prostitutes are so liberated, female power"

>>6745911
Aside from this semi-half baked thought I have somewhere in my mind about men practically having a 'right' to pussy that doesn't sit quite right with me (but I can't defend/articulate on this point) I think we could at least get close to that 'liberated' thing, once it's legalized.

I mean. Ya get a camera involved and it'd fucking legal currently.

>>6745897
>Mt Ephraim Ave

Camden also has the highest crime rate in the country, so it's not the most representative.

>>6745924
yea its totally legal to pay someone to take erotic pictures
>its not legal to pay someone to have sex with you
Retarded distinction.

and i agree if its legal its not a black market. police protection and higher wages
>literally no disadvantages of legalizing it at all
>all the arguments to the contrary are very childish "it makes jesus cry" level retarded

>>6745308
>What does /lgbt/ think of escorts/sex workers?

Gross; and it's kind of presumptuous for anyone to think they have something worth paying for in the first place.

>Have you worked as one?

No. I think I would actually starve to death before I would sell my dignity to total strangers.

>Have you used the services of one?

No, thanks. If I ever have to pay for sex, I think I've pretty much hit rock bottom by then.

I'd also never consider sleeping with any guy I knew to have solicited services from a sex worker.

>How do you feel about the industry as a whole?

I have a pretty libertarian view of most things. I don't approve of it morally, but I'm frankly not concerned with what other people choose to do with (or to) their own bodies.

If you want to go around being a human disease factory, I guess society will just have to live with the consequences of that. But I doubt I would interject if a lynch mob of cross-infected individuals showed up at your corner and stoned you to death.

>>6745846
>>6745873
>>6745893
As a gay guy who sometimes accepts money for sex, I can say that this is true. The ones who are both uggo and ultra kinky will pay even more.

>>6745951
Don't make it a habit bro. It was a long 5 years for me.

>>6745926
Oh true. I just thought that's what we were talking about. It's like five minutes away.

>>6745934
Especially when there is no porn regulations across the board. It's not like what we're actually requiring by making it 'porn' is testing and condoms and shit because anyone can make amateur porn with no regulation.

>>6745946
Wew lad. Chill on condescending.

>>6745959
Yeah, i quit accepting money from a guy recently because i felt really shitty about myself. But now i miss my $100 for 40 minutes of my time even if i had to give a BJ to a fat guy.

>>6745946

Are you gay male or bi woman?

I've been considering escorting to pay for facial feminization surgery. Thoughts? I'd advertise as trans female, not gay male

>>6746015
You can probably get lots of clientele, but you have to weigh the pros and cons yourself. Is it worth it to you? Can you handle feeling a little degraded because of it?

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>>6745308
I knew I recognised that picture.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qKoLGDbUQSo

>>6745946
>I'd also never consider sleeping with any guy I knew to have solicited services from a sex worker.
just running with this idea: A large number of US servicemen get prostitutes while deployed, i mean after spending 3 months on a boat (straights dont get laid or masterbate during and lgbt dating in service is non existant) they get to honk kong, have 12 hrs off only to unwind/get drunk/ look to get some.
So in your view are US servicemen undate-able? or do you not ask

>>6745308
really annoying people desu.

you are on your way to your work and these gross women come up to you, "hey sweetie, sex and a blowjob?"

disgusting, I honestly hate them, but whatever it's fine if it's legal I guess

>>6746015
i could be wrong but as other anons have stated gay men get sex easily
>i dont see you getting paid top dollar and i see the odds of getting seriously abused as high

>>6746042
>You can probably get lots of clientele
Do transgirls get more and higher quality clientele?
>Is it worth it to you?
It's the only way I'll pass so yes
>Can you handle feeling a little degraded because of it?
I like a little degradation but I'm not into kink stuff. Just fuck my ass or I suck your dick, I can do that.

>>6745588
That's now how you greentext. Jesus christ.

>>6746002

Gay cis male. Not sure why that matters.

>>6745963

That's not what condescending is. You seem to think it means generally berating others.

>>6746071
Just try and think about how shitty a situation they must be in to be street walking like that. Even if they brought it all entirely on themselves, it's still really sad.
I hate asshole homeless too, but if they've gotta be that 100% of the time, I can be annoyed for a passing moment.

>>6746103
You're not going to call how you phrase your post as coming with the tone of superiority? Honey....

>>6746068
>So in your view are US servicemen undate-able?

That's a pretty board generalization. But no, I wouldn't date a serviceman who had solicited sex from anyone. I wouldn't date anyone who had, regardless of their profession.

I've gone years at a time without sex. Hell, the last time I had sex was literally more than 5 years ago. While I'm sure not everyone is the same as me, it still seems they'd have a little more self-respect than to pay for sex with some sleazebag prostitute.

>>6745946
>libertarian

>>6746117
Why would you think that, though? Not everyone has the same view of sex as you do.
I mean, date what you want, but you're being incredibly shitty about it here.

>>6746117

You know, that self-righteousness might be why you're not having more sex.

>>6746110

superiority =/= having a shred of self-respect

If you jump into a vat of shit, I think it's pretty appropriate for anyone to call you out for your disgusting behavior. Is that condescending?

I actually don't care. Believe what you want. I'm not getting sidetracked over semantics.

>>6746082
>>You can probably get lots of clientele
>Do transgirls get more and higher quality clientele?

That's the "kink" aspect I mentioned above. If it's vanilla sex, a guy isn't going to pay for it with another guy. But a trans girl is viewed as more "kinky" (sorry, but true. not putting you down) and a trans girl, assuming passable, can get laid easily. They can also get paid for sex more easily than a gay guy.

Personally if I were you I'd rather get into a sugar daddy arrangement with one guy who will pay you for sex without your having to look for multiple clients.

>>6746139
Friend, can you not see that this is the most condescension post of your's yet? Jumping into a vat of shit, really? Lad...

>>6746131
>Not everyone has the same view of sex as you do.

Of course. But what are you asking me to do, exactly? I can't make myself more comfortable with the idea of soliciting a prostitute, or being with someone who has. Those are just my standards, and I'm perfectly entitled to them.

I don't go around telling other people how they should and should not date. I mean, I may criticize someone's standards, but that doesn't mean I'm encroaching on their right to practice said standards.

>>6746117
I get it, its not too far off from where my views are
>see
>>6745317
but at the same time
my bf is a serviceman and he told me about a time he got an asian prostitute and it was a hilarious story, i dont begrudge him at all for it. i mean its not what i would do but it doesnt eliminate him from the dating pool, he's a great guy and i love him so much. seems shortsighted to eliminate people in that way, id be without a great bf if i did

>>6746140
>They can also get paid for sex more easily than a gay guy
Yay!
>Personally if I were you I'd rather get into a sugar daddy arrangement with one guy who will pay you for sex without your having to look for multiple clients.
K I'll try thanks.

>>6746105
Yes it's sad and it's not like I don't pity them, but I don't have to like them

>>6746157
It's your tone, friend. I expect you not to be a cunt. Or at least admit that you're being a cunt.

>>6746161
Oh, no. For sure.

>>6746173
I probably wouldn't even hate them so much if I didn't have to endure their offers so often, but that is what I get for living downtown

Legalize, organize, protect the workers and move the trade off the streets.

As long as it's illegal or gray area, there will be a black market. Disgusting or not, public morals will never win out against lust.
Compare the sin of selling and buying sex to those of the human traffickers who supply the inevitable black market, plus all the violence and abuse against workers that goes unchecked. That's the real underbelly.

>>6746117
>no, I wouldn't date a serviceman who had solicited sex from anyone
You can't tell if they have dummy. At least not untill you are well into a relationship. If you ask someone that question they will probably lie to you. So given the odds, would you date a US serviceman?

>>6746181
I'm surprised they wouldn't remember you at this point, but I guess crack melts your brain.

>>6746173
>do something to put your health and the health of all your future partners at risk
>get called out for it
>"Watch your tone, FRIEND!"

Yeah, okay. Fuck you too, jerk.

>>6746194
Look at you, still operating on assumptions. You're adorable.

>>6746192
There are an awful lot of them desu, but there is one in particular I see ALL THE TIME who is definitely brain damaged by crack or SOMETHING

>>6746203
Accept her offer but drop her off on a fucking farm somewhere, bro.

>>6746212
In my dreams I drop her off a fucking cliff

>>6745308
I dont know if i want it to be legal or not. On one hand it would be good to make it safer and legal, on the other hand if it was legal i would certainly have done it in the past, so it does create a barrier for some people. Pros and cons to both..

>>6746217
You just got a legitimately audible laugh from me, sir

>>6746194
>do something to put your health and the health of all your future partners at risk

Sex workers are more likely to practice safe sex than hookups. Do you also refuse to date anyone that's ever had sex outside of a comitted relationship?

So when I was 14 I hung out with a group of underage gays. One of the guys, who was 17, was able to move out and had his own place. He got the money hooking and he told us we should do it too because the money is good. So I became a 14 year old rent boy. So there were three main ways you can do it. The first way is what I did the most because it was during the day time, but I would go to a park known for cruising and just hang out at the urinal. When a guy came in if he stood next to me I knew he was interested and I would talk him I needed some money. I didn't say it had to be X amount, but most guys gave me between $20-60 for a handjob/blowjob. This was probably the best because it was quick and easy, during the day time and I could either just get a quick $20 before the mall or stay all day and make a few hundred dollars.

The next way was to go to the gay bar and hang out. When I saw a guy alone outside I would ask for a smoke. He would always say I was too young and I would say I am old enough for a lot of stuff. Some guys would bite but others would not.

The third way was on yahoo groups. I would tell these guys I am a horny 14 year old and wanted to have phone sex. They would then send me phone cards and I would call them and have phone sex. We never used the whole time on the card and I could then sell the cards. But I would tell these guys about x thing I wanted and they would send me k mart cards. Those would sell a lot better or I would buy stuff and then return it for the cash.

>>6746263
>Do you also refuse to date anyone that's ever had sex outside of a comitted relationship?
Not him, but yeah. I think much less of anybody who's had casual sex. If I wanted a loose slut for a partner then I'd just ring somebody off backpage.