Anyone else on here a muscular bottom?
I feel like I don't fit in. I'm 5'11' and 190 lbs and very muscular, but I'm a total bottom. Never fucked anything and I don't think I ever want to. In an ideal world, I'd have a bf that was bigger and more muscly than me, but I have yet to meet in person, irl a gay person thats more muscular than me. And it sucks!! and I get mislabeled a lot as a top which is annoying.
Who else has this problem? How do you deal with it? Vent your shitty love problems!!
In addition, don't look for muscle. There are very few huge guys with just muscle. Accept the fact you have to look for guys with fat on them, it's the only way you'll find someone bigger than you.
Oh I would be fine with that and totally find that sexy.
Also, totally jealous of you!!
Probably. Would depend on the person. I have a pretty big dick as is, I guess im ok with their dick being smaller than mine but I don't really like it cause sometimes guys pressure me to fuck them and that makes me really uncomfortable
Go on Scruff. At least what I've seen so far, all the big muscular guys tend to be attracted to big muscular guys.
I'm relatively thin, and if it weren't for my face, I would not be getting any messages on there because I don't lift.
Isn't it annoying all the twinky bottoms who are like "omgomgfuckme" but its like im totally not into you
Maybe this is my issue, I have only really been on grindr (and CL before I came out lol)
Honestly happy that ANYONE who is a top is attracted to dudes like me. Like I know most guys like muscles but its like how do you like them ya know??
I LOVE hairy muscles. Muscles can basicly save anything - if the guy is overweight or has a gorilla-hairy back, a decent amoynt of mucle just makes it so much hotter. Lean nd ripped is bretty good too, obv. Super-jacked manlets are also hot.
Basicly, think people doing martial arts.
It's a bit annoying yeah, but I just let them off easy. Last night I was dancing at bar and these completely bottom looking guys kept tipping me.
They came up to me when I was on a break so I told them I wasn't a top so they stopped tipping lol
Thank you!! :)
I wish you good luck on your searches, big handsome men are very few and far between, and remember, you don't have to settle. If you're hot, go for a hot big guy. If you think you're an 8 per say, go for a 9. Good luck
I know your feel OP. I really dislike the pressure to top people, so I decided for myself I'm gonna save the anal sex for when I really like someone.
I don't doubt a lot of people would want to top you. It's just that being overpowered is the #1 abundant fetish, and you are more muscular than most. Give it time