Am I wrong to compliment a butch/dyke? I work with the black girl whos cool as fuck, I consider her a friend. She's a dyke, dresses like a boy/man talks trash everybody respects her. Like she's not a tumblr woman, she's just hood. And she's built like a god. Abs biceps, looks like a crossfit chick. But she wants to be fat and have a kid, she thinks shes too skinny. I try to tell her that it's unhealthy to be fat and that she looks good. She once told me I was cute and had a good haircut. It was a long time ago. But yesterday I saw she looked great, like physically fit. And I complimented her physique, tryed to be respectful as possible. She thanked me but was kinda meek? about it. I don't think she was offended, but I wondered if she took it the wrong way.
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You're fine OP. She's insecure. She probably has a hard time with accepting her body image and compliments. Keep being sincere and hopefully she'll realize she's as great as you say she is.
>>6705105
>She thanked me but was kinda meek? about it
It's fine to compliment her on looking good, but expect her reactions to the compliments to always be 'meek' like that. Enthusiastically responding to those sorts of compliments is typically just when they come from sexual prospects.
>>6705105
once i saw an half-asian dyke get called white (as a compliment) and she started freaking out and screeching
>>6705105
say no homo and its chill
>sheboon
just back away
Thanks guys. Everytime I ask lgbt questions I get ripped apart because I somehow offended someone. I am genuinely grateful for responses. She can be mean but overall I gotta work with her and maintain a friendly Atmosphere.
>>6705176
Calling a mixed person white isn't a fucking compliment you lobotomy patient.