tfw no bf thread

>tfw unkissed virgin

FOR HOW LONG WILL THIS CONTINUE, I have recurrent dreams where I go on dates and just cuddle and spoon with someone, they're killing me

I'm not even ugly or mean, I just want to be a slut for that one special someone

>>6220188
You do know /pol/ is satire, right?

>>6221417
>FOR HOW LONG WILL THIS CONTINUE, I have recurrent dreams where I go on dates and just cuddle and spoon with someone

I wish I did, I usually collect images of qts from Tumblr blogs and imagine myself in a relationship with them. I want to stay as far away as possible from the hookup scene, but it seems to be the only way gays get to meet each other. There is no way to meet that one special someone without first becoming a slut thanks to the toxic lgbt culture promoting promiscuity

>>6221453
4/pol/ is indeed 50% satire, I usually browse 8/pol/. I also frequent Fascist forums if that counts as /pol/.

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>>6221465
>There is no way to meet that one special someone without first becoming a slut thanks to the toxic lgbt culture promoting promiscuity

it's honestly one of those truths that hurt a lot
thinking about hooking up with someone without feeling anything disgusts me, and it hurts to admit, but my way of thinking is the wrong way of thinking
My feelings toward it is not something I can't openly discuss because people will just laugh at me and it will make me sound creepy/needy
but then again, I do guess I'm needy, but it's something I need to hide since nobody wants a needy person
it's a big headache I tell you

I have a collection too, but it's just of cute moments

>>6220188
>virgin
>gay man
Why don't you just download Grindr?

>>6221499
I would rather die alone than get in a relationship with a reformed slut or lose my virginity on fucking Grindr. If it was this easy I wouldn't be making this thread. There is nothing more disgusting than hooking up, but you lustful subhuman faggots have made it the norm within the community, which leaves people like me in a desperate position.

>>6221494
No, you are 100% in the right. If you betray your morals you will become a lustful slut just like them, jumping from relationship to relationship, fucking some new meet every week and being involved in polyamory and open marriages. This degenerate lifestyle will only lead you into a downward spiral of misery.

>>6221494
Do you think that you will ever be able to find your soulmate this way? Faggots who slut it up disconnect sex from love and think with their genitals. People like that will never genuinely love you, and even if they do it will not be absolute but subject to change depending on their carnal desires. If you date someone with a sexual past expect him to fantasize about the sex he had with previous fuckbuddies while you are fucking, also expect him to compare you to them. His loyalty and devotion will always be in question. If you find someone to lose your virginity with together the bond that will form from sharing this significant experience in a lustless spirit of mutual love and affection will be one of soul.

>>6221524
I don't plan on becoming a slut
but I already feel pretty miserable
I try not to let it depress me but when it gets quiet and there's nothing to do it just makes me really glum
Sometimes I feel that it's wrong of me to feel lonely since I don't really understand what it's like to have someone, and I probably romanticize most of it in my head as a consequence, I think that I'm setting myself up for a major let down. Not to mention that if I do ever find someone, they already have had someone in the past and the whole thing would be way more important and special to me than to them
It just feels that as I grow older I'll get more lonely which will make me crave more and romanticize it more which will hinder me actually getting someone
I don't know what to do

>tfw too cripplingly autistic to get a bf
I can function fine at high level normie activities, but I blow up at the first sign of intimacy.

I kinda dated a boy once online I met over an MMO and I learned that the hard way.

>>6221555
>Sometimes I feel that it's wrong of me to feel lonely since I don't really understand what it's like to have someone, and I probably romanticize most of it in my head as a consequence

While this is true for the majority of relationships, it is only true because it is normies having them. Normies nowadays base their relationships firstly on sex and secondarily on friendship. They rush into relationships with the wrong people either out of loneliness, peer pressure, not wanting to be virgins or pure lust. Relationships that first start as deep and personal friendships and then develop into sexual unions are as ideal as you imagine them to be.

>>6221555
>ever find someone, they already have had someone in the past and the whole thing would be way more important and special to me than to them

Which is why the used goods meme applies to males too. If he is not a virgin he is not relationship material.

>>6221571
My thoughts exactly, I definitely wouldn't be able to get intimate with someone right away before really connecting, but would it be just of me to demand the same from an eventual partner who has different expectations and ways of thinking? I'd need to find someone really patient and caring enough to get me confortable


>>6221584
Unfortunately, losing my first kiss and virginity together with someone is a dream long gone, that's a thing that happens in the teens and I already pasted trough that whole stage as the shy kid nobody wanted to talk to (thank goodness puberty hit me like a truck and I'm handsome now lol)
I'd definitely not date someone who had lots of random sexual encounters, but again, would it be just of me to not want someone who also connected romantically with someone in the past? I mean, if things did not work between us in the end, I would get to have other chances at love, right?

>>6220188
Can I participate in this thread if I'm not a virgin, but I don't engage in hook-up culture whatsoever?

>>6221617
>My thoughts exactly, I definitely wouldn't be able to get intimate with someone right away before really connecting, but would it be just of me to demand the same from an eventual partner who has different expectations and ways of thinking? I'd need to find someone really patient and caring enough to get me confortable

The solution is to find someone who shares your mentality. Someone who shares your belief in exclusivity and emotional commitment. Do not rush into a relationship with someone who doesn't out of loneliness. It may be hard, but it will reward you with all the ideals you dreamed of.


>I'd definitely not date someone who had lots of random sexual encounters, but again, would it be just of me to not want someone who also connected romantically with someone in the past? I mean, if things did not work between us in the end, I would get to have other chances at love, right?

This is why prior to losing your virginity there should be a deep and personal friendship of at least 1 year. If you consider that person your dearest friend, and he does too, then the chances of things not working out are negligible. Do not trust reformed sluts, just make sure you don't make the same mistakes they made.

>>6221618
Alright I guess

I dunno guys, I met a pretty cool dude on grindr.

lil hipster femboy in art school. pretty cute.

he wanted something real, he wanted to develop some affection before getting physical

i dunno maybe grindr has changed it's been a year, i'm back to fucking pussy again (it's self lubricating, really great)

>>6221617
> would it be just of me to not want someone who also connected romantically with someone in the past?

While not degenerate, his loyalty will not be absolute. He has experienced love before, and still has fragments of loving memories with another person who is not you, perhaps even feelings for him. If you desire an absolute and unquestionable union of soul you should avoid this.

>>6221653
all of that is very nice in theory
but to this day I have not found anyone, be it either girl, straight or gay guy that has ever agreed with my notion
It always gets laughed off as some fairytale world idea
I think I'll just end up dying alone, the world can't live up to my ideals
but there's always that hope on the back of my head that I can't explain, which makes it hurt a lot more
If I could just genuinely believe there's nobody for me then I'd probably feel more at ease
but this? it just makes me think how long will it take until I do find someone that I can trust and show weakness with

>>6221668
Gtfo and die biscum

>>6221653
While two people losing their virginities to each other sounds romantic and beautiful, it seems rare outside of the teen and early 20s years, as you've said. I do agree though that if you've formed a significant connection with someone whom you trust completely, losing your virginity to him can be almost just as special.

>>6221678
It also shows that his judgement was poor, something he may repeat with you.

>>6221689
I used to think like you, but I have found at least 5 people who fully agree with me on this very board. There are people, but you wont find them IRL. Search online.

tfw have had sex with guys on a random hookups

but I haven't had a relationship with a boy at all

i want one so bad I'm so lonely

tfw no boyfriend

>>6221693
>it seems rare outside of the teen and early 20s years, as you've said

It is indeed, but I am willing to do everything it takes to achieve that ideal relationship. It is my number one priority in life and I am willing to sacrifice everything to get it if needed.

>tfw no qtbf who lets me fall asleep in his arms
>tfw always have leftover bc no one to cook for
>tfw no one to tell me that my hair smells like almonds and kiss me on the forehead
>tfw no one to smile at across the street bc he picked me up from classes as a surprise

why live?

>>6221678
if I require absolute and unquestionable union of soul from someone, I feel like that thought would just consume me and it would ruin the trust I'd feel
I'd like to know I can depend on someone if I need, but be independent as a default, not in the sense of using my significant other albeit, it's something I find hard to explain

>>6221693
>I do agree though that if you've formed a significant connection with someone whom you trust completely, losing your virginity to him can be almost just as special.
Yes, I agree too, and in a way it puts me at ease that I it's someone who already knows how gentle he needs to be. I'm guessing that's why girls don't like virgins

>>6221716
I admire your determination. I will say however that you can likely achieve this type of relationship with someone who does not necessarily have zero experience. To use myself as an example, although I'm not a virgin, anything I've done was as a stupid teenager and I certainly didn't comprehend any of my actions. Any fling I've had fizzled out extremely early on due to emotional incompatibility. So with this in mind, I don't agree that someone who isn't a virgin is incapable of forming your ideal relationship with you. In this case, I'm a virgin in terms of legitimate love.

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>Meet an amazing guy online
>Meet up and and fuck, give him my virginity
>Sex is amazing
>Month later realize he's actually really shit, incredibly depressing to talk to and getting worse
>Break up
>Realize he was still better than most guys
>Feel like shit
>Grades in the toilet
>Slowly get over it, manage to pull my shitty semester up to all Bs
>Realize I don't want him back even if I think about him near daily
>Don't want to be with anyone, everyone I meet is shit or straight
>Resolve to be forever alone due to standards being too high
>Refuse to partake in hookup culture
>Tfw will never have sex again
>Tfw no bf
I almost wish it never happened but at least I know how I'd feel both ways instead of wondering what ifs

>>6221753
>if I require absolute and unquestionable union of soul from someone, I feel like that thought would just consume me and it would ruin the trust I'd feel
I'd like to know I can depend on someone if I need, but be independent as a default, not in the sense of using my significant other albeit, it's something I find hard to explain

I am even more idealistic than you in that regard, my ideal relationship would be such a union. To become "one flesh" as they say in marriage rites, in that you love someone as an inseparable part of yourself.

>>6221754
If one is aware of the degenerate nature of his past actions and has repented for it bitterly I would reluctantly consider it as a possibility.

>>6221781
It's not even the penitence I'm focusing on though. It's the objective fact that having never truly loved someone, such a person would be a candidate for forming a bond that transcends "love". Your love for each other would be equally new and unknown.

>>6221807
It sounds really romantic, the way you put it. It ultimately boils down to my own selfish obsession to lose my virginity together with someone as part of the entire ideal. If the chance presented itself and the person was truly worthwhile I would very likely retract this position.

>>6221823
Fair enough, I can't say I disagree with your "obsession" even though I would just call it a dream or fantasy because it's way too cute to be called compulsive. Well I hope you find your virgin boyfriend, or someone who is a love-virgin some day. You sound like a beautiful person.

>>6221851
Thank you anon, I really appreciate your words. I hope you find your special someone too someday.

>>6221774
I am not as extreme
I think that such an overtly strong union would deprive a person of their individuality.
I'd want to not get sick and lost if not alongside my partner, and I'd want the same for him

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>tell a guy you're a virgin
>"you probably say that to every guy ;)"

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Does anyone here want to date a sad, grumpy bear?

>>6222063
No but I'll date Miltank.

>>6222074
I would too.

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>meet blonde-haired and blue-eyed qt who's also nice to me, spend time together and text a lot
>easy to talk to and good listener
>until the topic of elections comes up
>he can't understand how I can support Trump, I try to make him realize a lot of things
>might be too sperging because he gets just angry with me that I'm trying to "push an agenda" on him
>one day he sends me a text that he doesn't really understand me and my way of thinking and he knows he probably can't change me even if he wanted to
>get a little pissed off and answer back a bit harshly
>try to send apology text later but never get a reply
>be lonely and miserable again but don't want to bother him
I'm sorry... I won't talk about those things anymore so give me another chance. I don't care who you vote. Just don't ignore me anymore.

I'm literally this close to just finding someone to hookup with online so I won't be a virgin anymore since I am clearly incapable of forming a romantic relationship

Please talk me out of it.

>>6222180
Think how much you'll regret it and how even more unhappy you will be after it
I understand how much it hurts, but when I think hypothetically how it'd be if I just hooked up, it would hurt a lot more

>>6222063
Sure, where do you live?

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>>6222197
Missouri.

i got my heart broken by the guy i waited almost a year for, because he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship

we were mutually attracted to one another, and i believed him, like an idiot

now, because i'm his friend, i have to pretend like i'm really happy and excited for him and not on the verge of harming myself because i can't stand the thought of him being with someone else

every single time i fall in love i get hurt, what's the point? i'm a normal guy, i'm easygoing and friendly, and i don't have any weird skeletons in my closet or any offensive opinions or beliefs, so i don't get why this keeps happening

>>6222192
But what if I get old and I've never experienced sex? That would probably hurt too

>>6222212
I'm in Washington, sorry.

>>6222247
it's not about if it would hurt or not
it's about what hurts more

>>6222249
Lucky. I've always wanted to live near Seattle. Hopefully when I get my degree I can get a job up there.

>>6222213
this came out all wrong

to clarify: he has a boyfriend now, but told me he wasn't ready for a relationship

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>>6220188
Ok so hear me out. What if we all became like "super dom straightboy tops" or something. No dating, no conversation, no kissing. You find a slut and you put them to work. Make them suck your dick. Go apeshit on their ass and pull their hair. Try out all the stuff you have seen in porn. You use them for their bodies and when you are done, throw them away like the trash that they are.

>>6220188

I don't even understand how people meet other gays. I spent my college years in depressed isolation and my job is an antisocial cubical farm so my chances are already pretty slim.

Basically grindr and online sites are the only way I could meet someone and those are shit for obvious reasons. Do gays just fuck eachother until random chance brings them to someone they get along with? Because that's honestly what it seems like.

ITT: people with mental health issues. I don't mean that as a criticism, simple fact. I was a virgin until I'd been on antidepressants and in therapy for a few months and was more able to keep things together.

>>6222769
> sits in an isolated antisocial cube farm all day
> doesn't understand how people meet each other

what are the odds

>>6221561
Too clingy and easily attached because you don't have many other people you care deeply about?

>>6222162
He dodged a bullet.

>>6222572
Sounds like degenerate trash :)

>tfw not running your hand through his qt floppy hair and pulling him to you for a rough kiss
>tfw not teasing and manhandling him so he feels small, owned, and flustered
>tfw not whispering sweet things in his ears and holding him so he melts in your arms
>tfw not constantly comparing your corresponding body parts to remind him how qt and petite he is
>tfw not lulling him into comfort and trust then getting him naked and making him do every lewd act you can think of
>tfw not makin him dress up in slutty clothing and threatening to parade him in public
>tfw not using you hands and mouth to leave marks all over his smooth, pale body.
>tfw not playing with his butt and forcing him to call it shit like boypussy to embarrass him
>tfw not indulging in your jealous possessive streak every now and then to show him how wanted he is
>tfw not alternating between spanking and abusing his sweet little butt and being gentle, so he never knows what to expect
>tfw not making out with him until his lips are red and raw and he's breathing hard
>tfw not roleplaying noncon when you're both horny as fuck
>tfw not watching his face as he chokes on your dick, then using your dick to spread around the cum after you've shot on his face, seeing his eyes close reflexively
Oh friends.

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>>6223512
>tfw not spreading his ass open to see your cum leaking from his red, swollen hole
>tfw not filling him to the brim with your cum every way you can then wrapping your arms around him to fall asleep
>tfw not using subtle body language to let people know that he's the bottom and you're the top
>tfw not slowly falling in love as his qt feminine qualities melt your dumb, mean bully heart
>tfw not being completely devoted to him,abs trying to impress him
>tfw not making him be the little spoon whilst cuddling
>tfw not nestling your head in his hair
>tfw not pulling him close against you so he's nuzzled in your chest
>tfw not putting your arm around him and pulling him in close when it's cold
>tfw not watching his embarrassed expressions when you kiss him on the forehead
>tfw not listening to his qt moans and whimpers when you're kissing his neck
>tfw not experiencing that amazing moment when he falls asleep on your lap resting his head in your chest

>>6223520
o-okay, where are you from...?

>>6222247
Sex is as empty as masturbation if it is not with someone you love.

>>6223055
Aren't you the guy trying to lecture us on relationships on every tfw no bf thread?
>>>/out/ with your shitty pseudoscientific buzzwords

>>6222769
>Do gays just fuck eachother until random chance brings them to someone they get along with? Because that's honestly what it seems like.

Yes, thats how it works for 90% of the gay population. The chances of finding someone IRL are close to 0, search online on dating sites and forums.

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Do I count :o ?

I literally only tried a furfag dating site once, in hopes that meeting someone I liked would make me feel or care about them. Spend some time together, played stuff and slept together one day(only did some oral) but there was literally no emotion or deep attachment so I felt cold and uncaring :/
It has been 5 years now and haven't tried or found anyone, expect one guy that I felt something for but he ended up being straight >.>

Seriously though sometimes it just sucks
>dont care or feel anything for pretty much everyone expect 1-2 close friends at a any given time and sadly can get overly attached to someone that I feel they care because of this :/
>more into psychology and behavioural analysis which isn't much of a political belief, more like anti /pol/tard because simple minded people who just look at numbers instead of human behaviour will never ever manage to do anything, especially since they are driven to justify their personal negative emotions about some issues instead of a solution and want to believe the world is simple.
>So definitely can't go for a /pol/tard or a completely brainless left, at least lefties like freedom and control of one's terrible natural behaviour which I support.
>too hedonistic where only goal in life is to be successful cuz money helps in this world and find a husbando and everything else can go to hell
>not attracted to femininity or overly muscular men and more into chubby guys with normie tier gaming taste aka bioware, wow and not an edgy /v/drone that hates everything and is stuck in the past


Also
>Tfw no chubby gaming bara homo wow panda playing husbando like me to date ;_;

>>6221544
Underrated post
>dubs of truth

>>6223520
this made me blush

>>6223512
>>6223520
delet this

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Is having a boyfriend really that important? I understand losing your virginity because sex sounds nice but I don't really want a relationship it sounds like such a hassle. I became a lot happier overall once I just dropped getting laid or getting a bf as a priority. Am I just tricking myself or something?

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>tfw just kind of go along with it when people ask if I'm asexual because it's easier than explaining I'm repellant

>>6224645
Depends on your personality. A lot of the people in this thread have never even had a boyfriend, so they yearn to know what that's like. It's a lot different from jumping from relationship to relationship out of fear of being alone. I do however think that in order to be in a successful relationship, you have to be content with being alone first.

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>>6223512
>>6223520
oh

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>tfw lucked out with Grindr & found bf

pretty amazing 2yrs together tb.h, sometimes the internet can surprise you if you try

>>6224905
>tfw lucked out with Grindr & found bf

Lucking out with Grindr is like lucking out with a brothel and marrying a whore. You were lucky, but it doesn't make the act any less degenerate.

>>6222249
where in washington, buddy?

>>6222063
Age? Height? Race?

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>tfw intimidated by good looking men

>make OKC account
>message several people here and there
>get 2 responses
>get quite a few likes
>only 5 of whom actually started a convo with me
>conversations fizzle out cause they suck at holding up a conversation

And you wonder why their accounts are years old.

>>6226149
Pullman. You're probably on the other end of the state?

>>6220188

> tfw when I was 15 I had a girlfriend
> had some girls following me in HS
> felt weird
> knew I was gay as hell by then, too...
> college now
> no bf

though a friend who's a girl is setting me up with someone I think ; ) we shall see

>>6221763
Slut detected

>>6220188
>/r9k/

>>6222769
same

>>6220188
>tfw no bf to lift together
>tfw no bf to male Germany great again together

I know that there are /pol/ gays out there. But finding then is hard.

>>6229508
>Tfw no bg to eat together

>>6221465
Or you could stop being a troll and just talk to guys. I've had plenty of dates in a non hook up fashion, you just have to learn not to drop your pants on the first date and that will scare away all of the mansluts

You're just as stupid as the women who complain about men if you think EVERYONE wants to fuck, you aren't a special snowflake so grow a fucking pair and get a social life


So tired of whiney faggots like you trying to throw pitty parties because you fantasize about tumblr profiles, actually sickening to think people are this pathetic

>>6229508
How do we subtly show it?

>>6222162
Yeah, he did the right thing.

>>6229508
It's so gleefully entertaining knowing the trump supporters and other nazi gays are the ones dying lonely

Sweet sweet justice for you pathetic worms

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Too much text in these posts, probably from stupid faggots quarreling.

>tfw no right wing conservative twink bf that similarly disapproves of PDA and acts just like bros in public but super romantic in private
>tfw no bf that likes innawoods and plants/animals
>tfw no bf with a good taste in music instead of the vapid factory issue faggot pop-star taste palette

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>>6220188
>tfw want be in a gay nerd relationship
>someone that loves the vidya but knows when to take breaks and enjoy stepping out of the house
>someone that has a cute smile that I can compliment them on often
>someone cuddly and would want to hold hands in public
>someone sociable but wants my company more or will check up on me at outings
>someone passionate about something
>someone intelligent that can teach me some things
>someone I can fall asleep next to and gladly wake up to even if I'm not a morning person

I'll be honest, the more I typed it, the gayer it got. I feel like I described some kind of cliche yaoi thing.
Ah well, my nerd is out there and seeing as how I'm not getting any younger, I'd love to make them stick around for a good, long while.

Oh, and:
>someone that LOVES to get lewd

>>6222572
Lol this iwas literally me from 18-22 except I was also targeting them for being white, husky/stocky/chubby and/or a bit older.


Basically people opposite from me who I can disassociate from, completely detached.


Found out a lot of high school inner city teachers love being fucked by Black boys, honestly it's gross what I did. But after my first love left me I spiralled out.

At least I wore a condom and never liked oral sex.

>>6222572
Source on that gif?

>>6229598
Don't know. Pose in SS uniform on dating sites maybe.

>>6230033
Girl it's from the HBO flop Looking

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>past gay death
>work for law enforcement
>Don't like slutting it up
>Ugly
>Can't do any modern dancing (nobody waltzes at the club)
>Not particularly well off, so can't go out drinking or on shopping sprees
Not a surprise I don't have a BF.

>>6230831
Gay death only applies to retarded twink fags who refuse to grow old gracefully

>>6230909
Good thing I was never slight of build, fem, and cute, r-right? Better to have never had those things at all, right? I hate the fact that I have such huge twink envy. I never could've been one either.

>>6230909
>>6230933
>Not being a cute twink in your teens and transition to handsome otter in your 20s

The older I get, the more succes I have, specially among guys my age.

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>>6229941
That lists everything I want in a guy too. Sadly I'm only most of those things.
Dear anon would you say your just like what you look for in a guy or do you like to be a little different and have 'roles'? You sound a Lil submissive.

>>6231042
This.
I got hit on a lot by other twinks or crypto-pedos when I was younger and slim, but now that I'm in my 20's and work out, I get hit on a lot more, and by the men I want attention from (aka handsome muscled 30 years old).

>>6229941

This sounds totally like a friend of mine and his boyfriend, they recently got married.

Does anyone here want to be my bf?

I too am a virgin, but I was an outcast at school and become a shut-in afterwards.

I also still get acne despite being 23.

>>6232527
Do you live in California?

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>tfw polgbt relationship made with a guy i met through 4chan

its possible brahs just keep looking

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>this thread
So anyone willing to hunt boyfriends with me?
I can get the tranquilizer gun and the car.
You gotta get your own lunch though.

>>6220188
Only on person ever considered me worth it, and it was an online thing.

>>6234000
Why didn't you meet him IRL?

>>6234050
We had a huge falling out the month before I was scheduled to. Had the money saved up and everything.

They live somewhere else, now, with their current partner.

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>tfw chaste virgin
>tfw waiting for the one

>>6234078
Same, where do you live?

>>6231556
I enjoy variety, but I'm very much the more dominant one. I just like the idea of doing little things for my guy.

>>6231707
That's great. Nice to hear that things work out for some people.

>used to be a lonely bfless (you)
>finally stop being a lazy, whiny sack of shit and start putting effort into finding a bf
>try grindr, ignoring all the slutty ones
>some nice guys, dated one of them
>he stops responding after a few dates
>whatever, moved on
>one day see a guy on 4chan
>we message each other
>things go great
>LDR starts up as we plan on meeting up
>meet up a month later
>yadayada yada
>we're now living together

>>6234084
Around Dallas, lad. Nobody has been able to meet my standards, which is pretty sad.

>ambitious, intelligent
>politically aware/active, but not a leftist

>>6220188
>>tfw will never have pure virgin bf
>>tfw my only options are reformed sluts

OP, pls no. This is borderline nightmare fuel; imagine their loose butts and teh AIDS.
Is there any way to attain bf before the age of 20, by which point almost all of the single guys have become sluts? I'm scared I'll have to settle for someone younger than myself (ageplay is my turnoff) or someone who isn't a virgin.

>>6234110
How long you two been living together?

>>6234129
I live in Dallas and meet those standards, but I am cripplingly autistic.

>>6234183
>cripplingly autistic

How so? Are you a Trump supporter? :^)

>>6234208
M-m-maybe

It's more that I just don't understand people outside the bare minimum to hold down a job and function in society. Any social interaction beyond casual and professional interaction I cannot handle.

>>6234132
>Is there any way to attain bf before the age of 20
No, you have to hurry and find a bf as soon as possible by all means possible lest you will have to settle for a reformed slut.

>>6234224
I'm sort of like that too, anon. I've been getting better, though.

So, where do you see yourself twenty years from now?

>>6220188
>>6220188
TFW only slept with women, before I dropped out of social shit all together. Will never know the feel of Benis.

>>6234288
>slept with women
>liking women
Absolutely disgusting

>>6234245
I haven't had many chances to practice. I tried to date a few girls in high school, but obviously it did not go well. I had a weird online relationship with a guy once I met over a vidya, but I don't think we had much chemistry besides that initial spark.

In twenty years, I'd like to hope I would be an AVP/Director of modeling and analysis in preferably insurance. Luckily I picked a trade where my autism is a favorable trait. Insurance is also really autistic and technical so it works even better. I'd also like to think I would have a nice big house in the suburbs where I could have lots of dogs and cats.

Moralizers are inherently antiseductive. If you are unable to look at what a person is when you meet them and only in that moment, people will be repelled by you. It's just simple psychology

>>6234237
Why can't it be easy? Heteros can do it; why's it so hard for us?
"Reformed" sluts always relapse after a year and beg for an open relationship.

>>6234384
Because the LGBT movement has been rampant with promiscuity since it's conception. Even if someone starts out as moral he will sooner or later be corrupted by it and join the hordes of sluts. It doesn't help that it is extremely easy for male homosexuals to have sex. If you want to find a pure bf you have to do so before he enters the hookup and LGBT scene through toxic faggots. Hurry and find one while you still have time if you are younger than 20.

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>>6223175
>>6229617

>>6234431
>not realizing that it was a samefag leftard

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>>6234132
I'm 20 and I'm a unkissed pure monogamous virgin
let me tell you that it takes a whole lot of willpower to not crack
I spent most of my time daydreaming about cuddling and partnership than actual sex, though I'm a real slut inside (for one person only)

>tfw put off by faggot fairy degenerates
>only good guys are straight, and women have no clue about how lucky they are so they treat them like shit
I'm going to invest in a dog

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>tfw cant imagine anyone not being utterly repulsed by me
>dont want to make a grindr profile because it would feel awful if i got 0 replies
>cant hold a conversation and everyone intimidates me
most likely going to hit 30 without having even gone near any intimate encounter with anyone

I don't know what's wrong with me
>cute, passable tranny, willing to use her penis
>funny and geeky
>not needy or weird
Am I just a shitty person?

>>6220188
I-if I had anal sex once but never cuddled or kissed or held hands can I still post here?

>>6234544
Area?

>>6234556
Only if you now understand that what you did was the highest possible form of subhuman degeneracy and are against all those who participate in such encounters.

>>6234564
Texas....oh shit, maybe that's why.....

>>6234597
Y-yes
I feel so gross

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>>6234303
>tfw no reply
O-okay.

>>6234110
>>finally stop being a lazy, whiny sack of shit and start putting effort into finding a bf
>>try grindr, ignoring all the slutty ones
I'm going to do this once I get abs so I won't have to complain here anymore, I promise

>>6234696
The only non slutty ones on Grindr are those who got bored of hooking up after their 1000th "date"

>>6234511

Literally me. The mere thought of posting a pic of myself on Grindr fills me with shame.

Wouldn't even know what to do if someone did message me.

>>6234703
Then how do I meet guys?

>>6234925
this

Where do I meet guys (already tried OKCupid and Tinder, and not doing grindr)

>>6221470
How is it possible to be gay and a /pol/ or fascist? You do know were among the inferiors to be killed right?

I'm slightly right wing in that I hate Islam and Muslims (we'd be the first to have our heads cut off) but being lgbt does conflict with those who share my political views sometimes

>>6221693
Not all of us Bis are sluts and attention whores. I personally am 90% towards guys and 10% towards females (there's just the rare one that makes me hard) and am still virgin. I want a relationship that is lifelong and meaningful. If I can't find that I'd rather just die virgin than sleep around

>>6229508
/pol/ gays? Is that even possible?

>>6235404
Not him or a fascist but you can be Ernst Rohm's vision

The way he saw it gay men of the master race were superior to all others because they would be unburden by wives or children which would allow them to devote themselves completely to the party and fatherland. He also thought that once the war was won they should create a warrior caste of hyper-masculine homosexuals since there were no family concerns.

>>6235404
Being gay and Fascist is by no means impossible. Gay men were actually overrepresented in proto-Fascism and the vast majority of Fascist excluding retarded skinheads have no problem with us. In fact, the British Fascist party has openly gay men among it's ranks. See link related http://ironmarch.org/index.php?/topic/1084-faggotry/&page=1

Ernst Rohm was one of Hitler's closest associates and the second most powerful member of the Nazi party, and Hitler was fully aware of his homosexuality

" Hitler had long been privately aware that Röhm and his SA associates were homosexuals; in their defense Hitler had stated that "the SA are a band of warriors and not a moral institution".[13]"

The reason Rohm was purged was completely unrelated to his homosexuality. Himmler fabricated fake evidence of him being a traitor because he feared his power.

>>6236997
Fascists only have a problem with the promiscuity ridden LGBT culture, they have no problem with gays. The only ideological difference I have with them in that regard is my support of gay marriage, something most of them reject.

>>6235404
How it's not? Look at fucking gay porn for a moment and you find out it's full of fascism-inspired themes: masculinity, domination, daddies(respect for authority), BDSM. And the most popular type is the masculine, dominant white top.

>>6235377
Try 4chan.

>>6234136
About 4 years now.
>>6234703
Never assume. It gets you no where.

>>6235377
You keep trying what you're already doing and give Grindr a try. People act like they have to commit to it when it's really just more options to choose from. Just don't respond to the ones you don't like.

Try 4chan too lol.

>>6226438
Me everytime

>>6229941
Will you be my bf

>>6232527
Well see how

>>6229941
Don't forget
>is a furry too
I assume you are one yes? From the pic and I assume you're the same guy posting in gaygen?

>>6235449
Hi there are you me

>>6235449
>I'm bi
>I like guys way more than girls
>virgin

Every single time.

You were me 8 years ago. Find a guy to experience yourself with then you'll be homo. I still have muh waifus though in a 'I don't find her sexually appealing, but she's still appealing' sort of way.

>>6237009
People often forget that fascist didn't like any kind of open presentation of sexuality, which is probably more rampant among straight people these days(modern African American "culture" is absolutely disgusting).

Anyone here from the Balkans?

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>>6220188
Why would I go to the outdoors bored if I'm a slut? Are there people to fuck in the woods? An untapped market?

>>6237772
there's lots of bears if that's your thing

>>6237772
Out as in out of this thread. It's a meme you dip

>>6235469
Why not ? You can agree with many things on /pol/. Except for the kill all gays part.

>>6238149
>i agree with everything hateful angry retards support because it makes them feel better and superior and right
>But i am not ok with this ONE thing that is about me
Woah, typical /pol/tard hypocrites

>>6237045
>>6237067
How do you find a date on 4chan lmao

>many
>haha he said everything XDDDD

Also
>people not agreeing on everything is somehow hypocritical

>>6238212
To
>>6238200

>>6238211
Ask for Skype or Steam info

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>>6234511
It ain't easy. I'll likely end up a wizard too.

>>6220188
I don't know anon, I'm in the same boat as all of you guys.

I'm 21 years old and have never kissed anyone, let alone lose my virginity.

It isn't the sex that bothers me, it's the fact that I've never been in love. I could care less of being a virgin. I could die being a virgin and it wouldn't bother me that much.

But to never love someone and to never have someone love you. That's the worst part.

I want to hold hands. I want to cuddle. I want to wake up next to him. I want to talk about our hopes and dreams. I want to be there for him when he needs me. I want to go on long rides with him as I lean in and play with the back of his head as he drives. I want to watch scary movies with him under a blanket and have him make fun of me when I close my eyes during the scary parts.

Yeah, I've never been in love and being so long without it, I don't know if I can.

>>6238559
I'm looking forward to telepathy myself, anon.

>>6238898
have you ever had a crush on anyone though? Like someone who seemed to care for you and like you but was straight etc.

But i guess everyone has their own type, the problem is happening to be nearby

>>6238919
Not really no. I've wanted to have sex with people but I've never really had a crush on someone.

I'm not one of those people who develop crushes on their straight friends. They're my friends, and their straight. That's two reasons for our relationship to never go beyond platonic.

I guess I don't really know what it means to me intimate/romantic as I've never been in that situation before. I'm jealous of my straight friends for being able to have/develop those experiences so young.

Just created an OKcupid account and found a couple of virgins qts. One of them already rejected me because he disliked my morality despite wanting a lifelong relationship himself. He saw nothing wrong with dumping someone like a used condom after getting bored of the relationship and used the "people become different and grow apart" meme which translates to "my wishes change and they are more important than my relationship so I don't give a fuck about his feelings if it doesn't personally serve me" It is this hedonistic way of thinking that leads to divorces 60% of the time. They become different and grow apart, and instead of trying to fix their relationship they divorce and search for new meat to satisfy their emotional needs because their bond means nothing to them beyond satisfying their personal wishes.

>>6238953
4chan is the best place to find a bf, I've seen countless success stories here. If i have the time and people respond well I may use this thread as a dating avenue to exchange Skype/Steam info with potential partners soon enough.

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>>6238953
Oh dont confuse straight couples as people who in love.

The vast majority of them are sadly together mostly because
1)Avoid feeling lonely
2)someone told them family is their purpose and will magically make them happy
3)because it is le normal thing to do aka social pressure.

Which leads to some sad and miserable families who are mainly together because they are used to each other and codependance.


Actual love is definitely worth waiting for, problem is finding that person that will also feel the same way for you and will make you feel that way for him.

>>6238989
You know, I don't know why but every time someone shows interest in me, I always get freaked out and back out. Every single time. I hate never being in love but am terrified of it at the same time. Can anyone explain this? It's both annoying and terrifying at the same time.

>>6238995
I guess never falling for someone at a young age prevented me from getting emotionally fucked over. But never falling for someone has had the opposite effect of me being overly cautious and essentially scared of the concept.

How do you know when you're in love with someone who loves you?

While I agree that the majority of couples, in general, are together for those reasons, there are many who are truly and genuinely together simply because they love and care for each other.

And straight people have it much easier to find that someone based off of sheer number.

>>6239029
>You know, I don't know why but every time someone shows interest in me, I always get freaked out and back out.

You can't expect to find a bf with this attitude, you should aggressively seek one if you really want it.

>>6239043
Fuck. You're right and I've been telling myself that for years. I'm just scared that maybe they'll get bored of me or that I'll get bored of them. Or that I won't be able to reciprocate their feelings since I've never really been in that situation before. But I guess I'd never know if I don't actively try.

>>6239029
I wouldnt say that, i havent really felt anything for anyone until i was like 20, and that guy ended up being straight, though it was kinda more complex since he wasnt really that sure about it.

but yeah, finding someone that you like and also happens to care about you is a bitch, especially when that someone might just see you as a friend or in a different way :\

>How do you know when you're in love with someone who loves you?
You probably think about them a lot, enjoy spending time with them no matter how impractical and probably do stupid irrational things just because it feels good to be with them.

And yeah, i said majority for a reason, i am sure many do love each other, just not the majority even though it is easier to find others.


>every time someone shows interest in me, I always get freaked out and back out
What kind of interest are we talking about? And are you afraid for a specific reason? As if you are too worried what will you do if they are not someone you like at the end?

Though i am not of the school that suggests aggressively finding someone and many dates, because both parties go in with hopes of something, which can make you believe that something exists even though it isnt.

Imo best way is finding people whom you work with and have similar stuff to do, so you ll learn about each other and first be close friends before lovers

>>6239122
>I'm just scared that maybe they'll get bored of me
Find someone as pathetic as you and he wont.

>or that I'll get bored of them.
This wont happen unless you are some kind of degenerate. Even if you get bored you should stick with it.

>>6239043
I have this same problem; it's the issue of internal conflict:
>"Oh! That guy you have a crush on is talking to you for no reason!"
>"He's never shown any interest in you before. What's going on?"
>"He's trying to make conversation, and you share loads of stuff in common! He's coming on to you!"
>"But what if he's not coming on to you? What if he's just looking for a friend and he's hetero?"
>"Don't scare him off! Act natural! Don't say anything weird!"
>"If you tell him you like him and it goes to crap, you'll lose a friend and everyone will know your secret and try to murder you!"
>Proceed to avoid eye contact with him for two months.

Aggressively seeking one is really hard sometimes...

>>6239147
>implying you have anything to lose

Isn't it your life's goal to find someone to be with? Even if you humiliate yourself it should be irrelevant.

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>>6239122
Dont actively try, i tried this see image >>6238995

I didnt know either so i decided to find someone, he was friendly and nice, we had a couple of common interests and even slept together once, but there was no bond or emotion. So CLEARLY if you dont have deep feelings for someone then you wont magically fall in love with someone just because he is nice and you are friends.

>>6239139
>Even if you get bored you should stick with it.
>sticking in a bad relationship
What are you talking about? If people love each other they dont even need to try, because both of them wants to be with the other and enjoys each others company.

If you are bored from the start you wont magically develop feelings out of nowhere, the best thing you ll do is create some codependency which is far from love.

>>6239177
>If people love each other they dont even need to try, because both of them wants to be with the other and enjoys each others company.

While this is almost always true at the very beginning it more often than not changes with time. When that time comes it is one's duty to preserve the relationship for the sake of the memories, emotions and investment that went into it from the beginning.

>>6239163
My life goal is to find cures for some major diseases and save 5,000 lives (although being less lonely would be nice).
Also, my issue is less with humiliating myself and more with not becoming homeless/being beheaded by a swarm of wild muslims. I just freak out and panic about messing everything up.

On the plus side, he kept talking to me after I stopped cutting him off; it's like he didn't notice I was actively avoiding him.

>>6220188
>tfw had girlfriend when still repressed
>forced me to finally have sex with her
>trauma
>now accept myself as tranny
>starting hrt soon
>never had boyfriend
>live in poland
>meaning never will have one either
why live ;-; i havent had any intimate contact aside from (if it even counts....) handshakes with a guy ever :(

>>6239220
>becoming homeless/being beheaded by a swarm of wild muslims

Are you from the middle east?

>>6239220
>tfw my only life goal is to find a quality husbando
I ll just stick to being good at my job and making money for that future goal, the world can burn for all i care.

>>6239130
Damn, I could not imagine falling in love with someone who just naturally could not reciprocate. That must be pretty heartbreaking, sorry about that anon.

In a way that's kind of what I'm scared about. I'm scared that one of us will lose interest. Or that one of us won't be able to reciprocate. And although I am completely for working on a relationship rather than abandoning ship too early, I don't want of either of us to feel obligated to be in a relationship with nothing but an unhappy future. It's how my parents are (cue the cliche) and that's just not where I want to be.

I do go to university. And there is an LGBT club here but I'm not particularly fond of the clique/exclusionary attitude so many in these clubs tend to have.

At my fairly young age (again I'm 21), so few of us are really willing to form a serious monogamous relationship. I don't want to fall in love with someone who only sees me as a fucktoy. I'm really appreciating the advice though, anon. Thank ya

>>6239220
If finding a bf is a secondary, optional aspect of your life then you shouldn't even be in this thread senpai

>>6239177
So I should just let things be as they may?

I think you're right though. I should be more open with the possibility of being in a relationship despite having zero concept of what it means to actually be in one.

I guess the only way to learn is to first try.

But relationships aren't perfect and I don't know if I believe in love at first sight. To know if someone is right for you at the very beginning is something that I just don't know exists. I think that for the most part, when people begin relationships, they should be more open with themselves and others. About what they are comfortable with and what they looking for a relationship. From there you can evaluate if you want to go any further.

>>6239262
Honestly, the safest and imo best path is simply to be more chatty and open with people at your work or your hobbies, that way you can slowly get closer to people and create better friendships, if that is possible since some might just not care.

But if you get closer to people like that there is a higher chance that you might meet someone that you might really like and enjoy working together before moving to a more relationship level.

Though that really can be hard in some areas since there just not be as many gay people in some areas and there are already few in the general sense.

Online dating where you chat first or do 1-2 fun activities as friends together might also work, but i am kinda afraid of that myself since either me or they could be hoping for more even if we both agree it is just a friends thing

>>6239236
Well i cant say you ve said anything wrong there. If you both just try to stay together just for the sake of habit then it usually isnt worth it, you could both try to keep it and more importantly be really honest with each other and how you really feel about things to avoid doubts or negative assumptions so you can be on the same page.

But you really arent wrong that many gays these days are just some stereotype or slut in the lgbt clubs so i would avoid them too.

Cant give any other advice desu unless what i just said to the above guy

>>6239234
Same here anon, my only life goal is finding a qt husband, everything else comes second. If I had a husband I would be fully content with my life no matter how crappy everything else would be.

>>6238961
>it's better to waste time fixing a failed relationship that goes nowhere than break up
pls don't be that guy

>>6237168
That's me, yep.

And naw, they don't have to be. I'm lowest of the low tier furfag anyway.

>>6237159
If you can put up my nonsense.

>tfw im ugly and fat
>tfw im only into older men
>tfw i just want to die in my sleep so all will end

>>6242578
Lose weight. Then you are only ugly.

>>6242583
Nothing wrong with being fat, it makes you cuddly and more caring :3

>Tfw no dom top fat hairy bara husbando to cuddle with and watch terrible horror movies and play wow

>>6239222
oh hi there

>>6222212
417?

>>6221499
maybe because he doesn't want to be a degenerate slut

>>6221453
>he thinks we are satire

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>tfw no native american redpilled bf
K I L L M E
I
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M
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There's no way I'd find such a snowflake.

tfw just want to be a stay at home husbando and clean, play vidya, do outdoor activities, watch scary movies, and cuddle.

>>6243516
Why so specific?
Either way, Peru is full of pure bloodied native Americans

>>6243546
Like I'd go from my shithole of a country to another shithole of a country

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>>6243560
Oh yes I forgot
>redpilled
I can't date naive people, I can't STAND naive people
>native
Cause it's the only type of people that still gives me that are hot enough to shut off my distrust.

There's still the fact that most of them are fat tho.

>>6243582
You can always find someone apolitical and slowly redpill him, it's easy unless he is a tumblr tier faggot.

>>6243591
Yeah but you don't just happen to bump into one on the street and say "oh look such a delicious redskin, I'll take him home and comb his hair while telling him stories about how Jews are behind every evil on earth."

>>6243372
Every bluepilled normie does

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>>6245933
>he thinks that 50% isnt trolls laughing at the retarded brain dead hateful nationalist getting buttmad the world is changing xD

>>6246042
Nice bait

>>6238898
>>I'm 21 years old and have never kissed anyone, let alone lose my virginity.
Fret not dear anon, it took me until 25 to do all of those things.


>It isn't the sex that bothers me, it's the fact that I've never been in love. I could care less of being a virgin. I could die being a virgin and it wouldn't bother me that much.
This was my thinking up until then too.

>But to never love someone and to never have someone love you. That's the worst part.
I would keep myself awake for hours with thoughts like these.


>I want to hold hands. I want to cuddle. I want to wake up next to him. I want to talk about our hopes and dreams. I want to be there for him when he needs me. I want to go on long rides with him as I lean in and play with the back of his head as he drives. I want to watch scary movies with him under a blanket and have him make fun of me when I close my eyes during the scary parts.

>Yeah, I've never been in love and being so long without it, I don't know if I can.
Again dear anon, it took me until I was 25. Then I fell in love. It was amazing, I did all those things and more. Love is amazing. Its over now, it ended in a rather volatile way and thoughts of him haunt me daily. Believe me when I say falling out of love and wondering if the person you were so madly in love with ever felt the same way about you hurts me more than the fear of not yet loving ever did.

So have hope, dwell in the fear every now and again if you must, but have hope, love will find you one day anon. Just hope you don't loose it when it does.

And to join in with the rest of the thread:
>tfw no bf to hold in my big arms
>tfw no bf to throw around the bed
>tfw no bf to cuddle in bed
>tfw no bf to carry around and maul and tease
>tfw no bf to ride on my shoulders as my tongue goes to town on his tight little hole
>tfw no bf to cook and provide for
>tfw no bf to love

>>6246107
Why did you break up?

>>6246121
The tl:dr of it would be that he went through my personal messages with people, found things they had said as they were concerned about all of the red flags this guy was throwing up that I was ignoring and allowing him to take advantage of my love for him. The messages were from months back and at the time he read them no longer held the same context, not to mention they were private between closest friends and family and myself. Anyhow, he read them, flew off the handle, stormed out and i've not seen nor heard from him since. And its fucking killed me.

>>6246167
You should have let him know as soon as they stopped holding the same context.

>>6246208
I tried. We had a very lengthy argument afterwards - explained to him that they were from months back etc. I explained it all but he wasn't having it. Wouldn't listen to any reason. I can recall the entire event with distressing clarity, i really wish there were things we could choose to forget.

>>6246225
It's tragic how a misunderstanding can ruin a relationship. That's why you should never keep anything secret from your partner.

>>6246245
It wasn't so much a secret as it was a discussion at the time between myself and my closest friends. Not something that one really goes off and shares.

At the time, the bf had just done something that had me feeling the worst i had felt in my life and then he went and stormed off for a few days with no contact. Friends noticed I was super down, reached out, and so we had the discussion. Anyhow, that all got patched up and we moved on and all seemed to be on track again, then he went and decided to look through the messages for I know not why.

I was always very honest and very open about everything, I don't know how not to be.

Anyway, no sense in dwelling on it now. Whats done is done.

>>6246062
>implying the entirety of /pol/ isnt b8
Oh wait, there are some actually who genuinely take it seriously xD

Yes human nature cucks, follow your nature, that totally leads to great place instead of getting self awareness and controlling it.

Who cares if others are hurt as long as you feel good and superior ;^)

>>6246262
Please be my bf

>>6246347
I dunno anon, would you be ok with a 6ft1 chubby (working on it, lost 2stone these last 8 weeks) bear bf who wants to cook for you, cuddle you, snuggle you, be tenderly lewd with you and be happy with you?

>>6246375
Pick me instead

>>6246375
Sounds perfect, do you like skinnyfat otters?
>stone
I take it you're across the pond?

>>6246404
>I take it you're across the pond?
Erm maybe? I'm in Ireland :)

>>6246404
Sounds perfect, do you like skinnyfat otters?
My tastes are as broad as my shoulders anon.

>>6246385
:3

>>6246447
>Ireland

RIP :(

>>6246447
>Ireland
I'm in the US. Are you by chance open to long distance stuff?

>>6246470
Sure, I don't think theres any harm in chatting and seeing if that might go anywhere :)

>>6243532
>tfw want the same
As long as they are not political, 4chan has lead many purposeless people to become politically autistic

>>6246513
Skype?

>>6246513
Alright, let's email or skype or something.
shr.rs (at) mail.com

>>6246527
See below

>>6246543
Tried adding you but did work.

You folk try adding me:
[email protected]

>>6236997
>Himmler fabricated fake evidence of him being a traitor because he feared his power.

Well that, and because he was really a communist. There were too many differences in ideology between the National Socialists and Rohm. And considering how many men he had under him in the SA, he was a real threat.

>>6247051
>he was really a communist.
No.

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>>6220188
>>6221417
Repression makes that go away
Have sex with a a girl

>>6247051
Not communist, socialist. All Nazis hated communism but appreciated socialism without Marxism.

>>6229941
Where do you live? Gerfag here

Is there any hope for a man like me?
I always knew I was gay, but I also always wanted kids, so I pursued women... so very repressed lately.
Im in my mid twenties and after a long horrible marriage to a woman which has now ended, I have full custody of my kids.
Is there a such thing as a gay man who will accept that my kids are with me 24/7?
Also I only recently came out and I dont even know if I'm a top or bottom due to the fact that I've only had and given oral to a man and loved both. Am I looking for a needle in a gaystack? Or do I need to wait until I'm 40 to find a man to settle down with?

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>>6252077
>Am I looking for a needle in a gaystack? Or do I need to wait until I'm 40 to find a man to settle down with?

You are too old to find anyone desu senpai. Only pozzed whores and sluts who got bored of hooking up in their youth and want to settle down like pic related

>>6242413
I'm up for it

>>6252077

What city do you live in?

I was chatting with a guy a few years younger than me for a long time. We agreed to meet.

He never shows up and blocks me on all apps.

Part of me thinks I got catfished. Another part of me thinks he showed, saw me, and was like "nope nope nope"

forever alone :(

I don't even care anymore, I have accepted loneliness. There was only one man that I loved and that's enough for me.

The worst thing is when you make an effort to get in shape and look your best for him and you still get rejected. Damn, I feel like such a fool.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1X8CvYAK-E

Out of curiosity how many of you are exclusively looking for a virgin as a boyfriend?

Would someone who has had sex, even once, be a no for you?

What is it about people who've previously had sex that puts you off, do you feel almost intimidated by it?

>>6250563
Gerfag? I assume Germany? Sorry, I'm Americlap-ican(?).

>>6257346
You do seem willing to be put to the test. That's a good start.

>>6262364
That's like my mom. She had a good thing in the past and that's enough to keep her happy. I find it endearing and kind of inspiring.

>>6262453
I never look for virgin guys, but I've somehow been the first for a lot of guys.

Someone that has had sex in the past just means they know more about who they are and what they like. It's a bonus. Just the same, someone inexperienced isn't bad and learning with your partner is key regardless.

>>6262459
Now, shall we exchange contact info?

>>6262481
If you feel like dropping an email/throwaway or otherwise, Skype or Kik, etc.

>>6220188
There are very few gays already, and the majority of them wouldn't be attracted to me or vice versa. I'm also too /pol/ and most fags seem to be Bernie shills, so there's that. Gay sex is a lot of work and Internet dating/using apps to meet people doesn't feel genuine. My family is largely anti-gay and I care a lot about them. They also finance me and my education, and I live with my anti-gay parents. All of this compounds itself into a general feeling of perpetual celibacy.

I wish I could just walk outside and see potential mates everywhere like normal people do lol. Maybe then I wouldn't want to kms every time someone jokingly flirted with me (which guys do all the time wtf).

>tfw could've been normal, but ended up a fag

>>6262490
[email protected]
Don't judge

>>6262453
Virgin bf would be nice because I'm a virgin myself. But its not a no go for me to have a bf that is not a virgin. Just dont expect miracles from me in bed the first few times pls.

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>>6229508
Swamp German here

Worry not, the prophecies have foretold the coming of better days

>tfw femboy that's exclusively into other femboys
>tfw permavirgin
>tfw moving to literal island in sweden with only 1 real city in it
I'm never going to find the one, I should probably go ahead and off myself.

>>6262469
Yeah, I asked as in another one of these threads some people for pissed because I'd already had sex and they were saving sex for a boyfriend.

A lot of people seem to think it is slutty to have had sex outside of a relationship, but as you said I feel its a very good way to get to know yourself better and to feel more assertive and comfortable with your sexuality.

>>6262787
I can understand where your ideology comes from anon, however I'd think most guys are open to being gentle and progressive when it comes to first time sex. It isn't a stigma you carry with you in the real world, most people feel its nice to guide someone.

So do you have negative thoughts towards it related to the fact that you are inexperienced, or that you feel men who have had previous sexual encounters may be untrustworthy in a relationship?

>>6262495
>unironically wanting to have to have to waste your time with women, be normal and make a family

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>>6220188
>yfw I have sex with 2-5 guys a week
>yffw dorming with a fuckbuddy and we casually suck each others cocks all the time

>>6262841
Swamp German ?


>>6262919
I don't see how what I said was negative. Men who already had sexual encounter are not less trustworthy. The only ones that aren't trustworthy are the sluts that fuck a different guy every three days. I'm just worried about my performance. Like most virgins are I guess.

>>6262863
ripperoni family

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>>6234436
> not realizing Trump is actually awful

>>6222162
You don't want people in your life that can't handle other viewpoints senpai.

>>6262453
>What is it about people who've previously had sex that puts you off, do you feel almost intimidated by it?

Yes.

>>6262919
>A lot of people seem to think it is slutty to have had sex outside of a relationship, but as you said I feel its a very good way to get to know yourself better and to feel more assertive and comfortable with your sexuality.

Disgusting slut detected. You could at least have sex within a relationship but you are unironically trying to defend hooking up in this thread with bullshit mental gymnastics

>>6263240
Last had sex two years ago and I've only ever been with one guy.

>>6263052
Oh sorry, I didn't mean to poke at you, I'm just curious as to what people think of it all.

I wouldn't worry about your inexperience anon, as I was saying a lot of people are pretty understanding of it, everyone has to learn some time!

>>6263229
I understand one, I guess you feel you'd need to live up to some previous expectation they had for the guy before then?

Again though, a lot of people I've asked seem understanding of it. I'd think most people view sex as a fun learning experience, so I wouldn't worry about having to perform to a level. Again, everyone is quite undeestanding that people need to learn!

>>6262327
Raleigh

>>6262384
You still look good tho. Use it to land someone else.

>>6263347
>Last had sex two years ago and I've only ever been with one guy.

Doesn't change the fact that you hooked up outside of a relationship because muh dik and you now try to morally justify it with bullshit buzzwords "assertive and comfortable with your sexuality", similar to how SJWs say that open relationships makes you more commited to your partner.

>>6263347
>I understand one, I guess you feel you'd need to live up to some previous expectation they had for the guy before then?

No, it has absolutely nothing to do with that, I hardly give a fuck about my performance, I just want the guy I am with to be exclusive to me and have no previous sexual experience that would threaten that exclusivity.

>>6263499
I'm not justifying it, I feel no need to justify what I did, I just wished to point out that I don't have sex constantly. I did it because I wished to experience it and I'm thankful that I did.

I'm completely committed to a closed relationship, I don't agree with nor understand open relationships. If I had a partner and they were to cheat on me I'd just leave them, its not worth my time or theirs.

I understand your point on them having previously had sex making them more likely to seek another partner. I'm just being realistic though in the fact that most people will, after a set time and age, have had sex previously.

I don't wish to cause any arguments, I came here to ask some questions and get answers, I'm sorry if I offended you anon.

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>>6262986
>yfw I have sex with 2-5 guys a week
what are you doing in this thread?!! pls let us drown in self-pity & loneliness

>>6223520
>tfw no one is doing all of this to me.
Wtf you sound perfect based on this lol.

>>6221417
u can b my slut

>>6220188

>Turning 25 in a month
>Accepted myself as a bisexual when I was 18
>Came out, went to gay bars, grinded, had my first kiss with a random boy.

>Go bald at 21, have to shave it. Dreams of being 20-something gay twink faggot cutie pie go straight into the toilet.
>Have disgusting back and body hair.
>Been quasi-neet for the last 4 years after dropping out of college, only recently got an FT job I really like.
>Saving up for a car, I'd like to fuck guys again after I have my own wheels, lose weight and work out a bit.

Fuck the genetic lottery for fucking me.

>>6265432
>Go bald at 21, have to shave it. Dreams of being 20-something gay twink faggot cutie pie go straight into the toilet.
If it's okay to ask, how long did it take you to bald? I mean like from when did you start noticing it until it was too late?
I'm 22 and I'd do anything to remain a twink femboy faggot so I really want to try and catch it if it starts...

>>6265432
Being NEET isn't genetic

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>be me
>recently get back in shape, start dressing nicer, all that shit
>All dudes including those totally within my league and not Adonis types ignore or block me

why live