so im new to /lgbt/ because just a week ago ive realized that I want to be a man
but does it mean im trangender if 80% of it is because I have a intense desire to rape and impregnate someone?
this isnt meant to be offensive to other men because this is just how I find myself to be thinking
yeah I could go for a beard, 6pack and 3 extra inches of height
I dont envy modern men though
and im actually a pretty attractive girl if I do say so myself
but I dont think id make an attractive man
so for now I was thinking of changing my image to something extremely masculine and noticeable
while not looking like a les or a freak
but I wouldnt know specifically what look that would be
This, op, I'm very curious, but I think I sorta know the answer already.
Anyway, I think most people would say that the rape/impreg thing is just a fetish, but I think it paetly has to do with gender identity. I don't think it's what's making you trans, but I think you have the desire at least partially because of how being trans makes you feel. For example, no one's really surprised when an mtf has a submission fetish, know what I mean?
Do you feel dysphoria?
I dont understand the question
the minor parts of being a man arent really a concern to me. mostly its about rape
additionally the freedom of personality that you see in the most powerful men really is a thing I desire
If thats what your asking.
sorry if this doesn't paint a great picture of my psyche
The desire to "rape" chicks is like boners. They come and go pretty randomly, and some chicks make them come up more often than others. Rape fantasies are probably just a mostly vestigial part of our sexuality from when we were less evolved. It still crops up from time to time and is stronger in some people than others. All civilized, respectable people recognize that its simply a fantasy that should only be explored by consenting partners.
tl;dr its intrinsically male but only psychos actually rape people
im normally I put myself out as your kate beaton type of gal (or at least try to)
if people found out how I really think im 100% sure I wouldn't have any of the friends I have today
your allowed to be anything but a little bish
Men must be at least a majority of the things on this list.
Not into weird things that are actually fun
Not openly emotional
And a shit load of other things as well
To not to be viewed as lesser
Women don't have nearly as much pressure - if you're pretty you can do anything and someone will support you.
it would be interesting to know if bi women are getting attacked more often by women. The fact that lesbians have a higher incidence of domestic violence than straight women suggests to me that bi women are probably getting attacked by women more often than by men.
Couple that with the fact most bisexual women are in heterosexual relationships, might suggest otherwise.
Are you dysphoric about your sex? When you see your body, does it deeply bother you on an instinctual way that you are not biologically male? Or is it just that you envy superficial aspects of the male form and what it symbolizes to you?
So far you sound like a fetishist to me, not trans.