Hey, /lgbt/, I really don't know what to do with myself. I'm 28, which isn't old, I know, but because I've spent the last ten years focusing on school and my career, I've had little dating experience since I left high school. To make matters worse, I'm also interested in feminine guys/traps/etc, but they are so rare that I've only ever met two in my life. I know that some of /lgbt/ will not approve of cis-gendered males liking feminine guys, but whatever.
So, how do I go about finding someone? Am I too old for this kind of romance? While I like feminine guys, I don't care if he's not super attractive, I just want someone I have real conversations with, someone who will be loyal to me, have a decent personality, etc. I can overlook most minor flaws, and I'm not without them myself. Problem is, I don't know what to do with myself, where to look, etc. Any help, advice, or whatever would be great.
>>5421848
What about transgirls op?
>>5424460
Op here. In theory, I would date a transgirl but I haven't ever met a non-hon...
>>5425121
Thats cause you can only notice hons. If you meet regular ones you cant tell.
>>5421848
improve your looks and lift
if you're just going for femboys you'll have to be incredibly attractive
>>5421848
>28
>looking for boipussy
Wow... that just makes me sad, you've lost your time. There was a time where you could have gotten a Frank Wolf level cutie, sadly that's all over now. I'm 28 too, it feels bad man.
>>5426033
Citation needed? Op seems masculine.
>>5426799
You're fucked, OP.
>>5426799
I don't think you're too old op. Im a trans but atm simce I got no hormones im just a femboy. Don't give up hope
>>5427232
Op here. How old are you? Just out of curiousity. While I have to admit I like femboys, what I really want is just someone who is decent and loyal, be it trans, femboy or whatever.
>>5427254
where do you live >_>
>>5427254
Im 20
>>5427274
Phoenix, Arizona. I know, I know. Not exactly an lgbt friendly place. A pretty large fetish community here, apparently, but all hetero.
>>5427337
Shit im>>5427232
And im from canada
>>5427304
I was just curious. I briefly dated a FTM that was a few years younger than me but he just took advantage of my affection for him and constantly talked about old boyfriends and cheated on me at least once before I broke up with him. I feel like I am a stronger person because of it, if a little wary of trusting people.
>>5421848
Lots of guys here consider this as a fantasy. If you are serious about making it a reality you'll have to explain why you want this. Trans/traps will label you crazy creep chaser until proven otherwise. Gays will assume you're a closet case and possibly on the road to being agp. Make it good.
>>5427371
Fuck man that sucks. Should've had the common courtesy to at least end the relationshit if he was going to go for another person
>>5427387
>accidentally type relationshit instead of relationship
>>5427397
Op here. I didn't think it was a typo. Heh.
>>5427378
Fair enough. Maybe this is my problem, but I don't feel like I have to defend my myself. I think, in its own way, this should show my true feelings...
I suppose I understand why some would want more from me to prove it, but only because they don't know me.
>>5427408
Just post your skype and I'll talk to you
>>5427397
And a meme was born.
>relationshit : a bad relationship
Unfortunately femmboys are raging narcissistic sluts so goodluck I guess
>>5427633
we're not that bad to be around
>>5421848
Hey OP, me and you are in literally the exact same boat. We can always dream though. right?
>Tfw no cute twinkish bf to lays his head in your lap so you can pet his hair
It's never going to happen.
>>5421848
I know this is completely useless to you since I'm probably not anywhere near you or anything but I'm fem and I like a lot of different body types, so I don't think you should give up all hope.
Not that I don't like other fem guys, I do, but I think chubby guys can be quite cute too and I don't mind if you have a masculine body either. I just want someone who is decently attractive with a nice personality.
>>5427949
I'd ask you to prove it, but this is a blue board.