Coming out as polyamory to now-ex-gf

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So yeah this happened.
For the context I'm a panromantic polyamorous trans girl (snowflake much ?) and came out as polyamorous to my gf. As I say in the title it went a bit south but in the end I think it's for the better...
So I took this picture of myself some days ago and changed my profile pic to it on facebook this afternoon. It got many likes compared to other things I post and someone commented "beautiful creature" and then I got really sick when I saw that gf replied to them by saying "hey he's mine" (not outed as trans on fb), so I just calmed myself, thought about it for a while and gathered the little courage I could to tell her that I'm polyamorous.
I already mentionned to her in the past that I miiight have some tendencies to that, but she was always relunctant to the idea of having to "share" me with someone else.
Also it kept eating me from the inside since recently when I told crush he's crush but I already have gf and we pretty much got together.
So that was it I snapped and asked her to talk, we did, nobody got angry, but I burst up in tears multiple times, I insisted that I would absolutely not get upset whatever her choice was, we agreed that it would be best to keep a bit of distance at least for some time and said each other good bye.

The more I think about it, I distanced myself a lot from her lately, the way we talked to each other, it just didn't feel like I loved her any more... I even surprised myself feeling hatred towards her some times. So yeah I think a break was more than needed but who knows, maybe we'll be back together sometime.

Sorry for the long post but I really needed to vent this shit out.

also pls give cuddles