TS Girlfriend wants to fuck me

talk it out with her, and just openly communicate... just like other couples do?

Say no still? If you don't want to get fucked in the ass just don't.
It's not even fun it's messy, stinky, rough, and you'll feel like you just got done with massive constipation.

>>5221747
this is new to me, its come out of nowhere and honestly is a big suprise. She has gone to bed now so no chance to talk but if its what she wants Im willing to give it a go. Do I need to prepare? what should I expect?

>>5221752
saying no was the first thing i thought of while laughing at the absuridity. but its kinda her last chance so I want to give her the opportunity to experience it.

I think that's sweet, having a send-off party for her penis

>>5221767
sweet is nice but not very practical lol. Ive tried the smallest toy (its in now lol) and it feels fucking huge! and not pleasant.

>>5221739
Isn't it traditionally called for by doctors to ask patients to STOP taking HRT a month before surgery. NOW why don't you just wait until January. OP there is nothing like the feeling of warm cummies inside of you. Besides you won't be able to fit that much in your ass start with your fingers and use plenty of lube.

>>5221739
also using buttplugs are way different than actually getting fucked. try the vibrator, it will suit you more

I'll give you steps for things to do, but first things first remember: consent matters! If this is something you don't enjoy, something that hurts, or just plan something you don't want to do, YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO IT.

All that said, if you still want this, I'd recommend going to the shower to practice. Once there, get a warm shower going to relax. When you're ready, take some lube (you NEED lube, if you have none you can use non-glycerine based hair conditioner, but DO NOT use soap or shampoo, those will burn.) and absolutely slather it all all over your asshole and index finger. Then move your finger on top of the hole, not pointing at it, but covering it up. Gently push down, while relaxing your sphincter, until it enters. Then just leave it there until you're used to it. When you're ready, you can try to push in more of your finger. Once you get comfortable with one finger, move on to two, then three. After you can do three, you can ATTEMPT one of the toys.
Do not force anything. Forcing causes tearing. Tearing sucks. Remind her to be gentle with you when she actually fucks you. After all, this Is your first time.

This is one of the most disgusting posts I've read on lgbt, and that's saying alot.

As a straight man, I'm sorry to tell you but you are not straight. You are, at best, bisexual. That "girl" you're sticking your dick into is a man, so if you like sticking your dick into a man's anus then you are by definition and result of your action sexually attracted to men. You may only be attracted to "feminine" men, but it's still a man.

I have a feeling after you break up with him (not a her) you will look for another man's butt to enter, and then have another man's penis enter your butt.

>>5222022
lool somebody spends too much time praying to his lord the baby jesus

>>5222022
Correct definition would be pansexual.
It is a "her" and if SRS is only 3 months away, even more so. Fuck off with your shitty opinion.

>>5221739
>before we met
>>5222022
>you are not straight

read next time fkn tard

>>5222029

Don't homosexuals and bisexuals get offended with "straight" people misrepresent themselves? It's as if same sex attraction isn't treated as a sexuality to them, as they can claim to be straight but still have sex with same sex.

>>5222041
thats why op said before they met you fucking idiot. he never claimed to be. but you keep on looking like a retard that cant read anyway, its funny for the rest of us.

>>5222038

pansexual doesn't exist, its a made up term to make perversion sound more acceptable.

Cutting of your penis does not make you a woman, just like how shaving doesn't make you a woman, or having a penis in your rectum does not make you a woman.

Butt =/= Vagina

>>5222044
I have no idea, but the OP didnt claim that he was straight, just that he considered himself straight before hand. the only mis-representation is you.

>>5222041

I'm sorry, let me get this straight...

I'm told I have to believe that this transgender man is really a woman, right?

So what do you call it when a man has sex with a "woman"?

The OP is more confused than any of you, but I see it for what it really is. A man with a sickly developed sexual disfunction.

>>5222073
So now you choose to believe what you usually wouldn't just so you could use it against us or insult OP? Why can't you be happy that OP agrees with your views and doesn't see her as fully female but a rather bigender creature.

So you have never put anything in your ass and she wants to fuck you tomorrow? Prepare for some (literal) shit.

>>5221948
>Isn't it traditionally called for by doctors to ask patients to STOP taking HRT a month before surgery.

It is. And believe me, her sex drive will probably go through the roof in that time.

>>5222508

Maybe leave it up to the heat of the moment. If you two are going hot and heavy and you or her decide that now feels right, try to stay open to it. If you just can't do it then maybe you can at least let her finger your asshole a little.

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>>5221739
>her cock

>>5222538
This TO BE HONEST

>prepare with dildos
>let her have SRS
>preserve her feminine penis
>take it to a taxidermist
>get peen stuffed
>use stuffed peen for future sex

>>5222626
you DO know in SRS they don't just chop off the dick, right?

She will never have her penis again. Let her borrow your bottom for a bit. It gets fun when it starts hitting the prostate. I am so glad I opened myself up to my girlfriend, because now we can switch things up from time to time. Plus, giving head is fun.

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>>5222820
>girlfriend
>switch things up from time to time

You know you're in a gay relationship, right?

>>5222830
Oh no, how horrible. How am I ever going to be able to live with a lable like that? You do realize that if you date a transgirl you're not really concerned about your straightness or what people would call it right? You'd be kind of above things like being called gay. But you go ahead with your 6th grade insults.

>>5222830
I don't really mind it, so long as I can stay separate from the gay community and label in public. I quite like this straight-passing relationship. And it would be such a shame if she didn't like using it, because it is even bigger than mine lol
>>5222855
You're in this sort of relationship too? I was a bit opposed at first to taking it, but man what a prostate massage can do to convince a man.

>>5222880
Is she going to chop it off too?

>>5222884
Hell no. The thought of losing it distresses her. Though she would be open to getting a vagina if it doesn't replace her dick.

>>5222880
Nope. I was just writing like that, because I self-asserted myself into the provoked person.

I'm a tranny tho, so I can kind of relate. And I've thought of something like that too, using it for the last time before SRS, but for now no plans are even made for it.

>>5222891
I just find the idea of claiming each others virginities before the surgery to be so romantic, that both get through the discomfort on both ends to say goodbye to it and to own each other completely. To have felt your girl climax inside you just before it is gone...

>>5222899
That's pretty cute.

>>5222899
wowow, now don't get so ahead of yourself. You don't want to attract the trolls with your chaser-ish choice of words and fantasies. But I completely see what you mean.
I for myself, I never had a bad relationship with my dick. Kinda always hoped it would be a vagina one day after waking up, but even though it never happened, I don't hate it for that at all. I actually always felt comfortable with it. You know, playing with myself never felt horrible and I got kind of attached to it (get it?). Even gave it a name. I plan to get SRS one day, but I'm not sure if I would be able to live through its transformation and be happy it finally evolved or if I'd be crushed that it's gone now and I'm at a huge loss.

It kind of touches me that people here can look at their dicks in a similarly playful way and treat them with the worthy respect.

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>>5222935
I feel the opposite. I'm pretty shocked how many claim to have dysphoria but don't mind their dicks, like, wha? Pick one. I'm not happy about being in the same boat as all the queer transgenders cause frankly people claiming you're freaks do have a point.
I'm all for people doing whatever makes them happy but I don't wanna have to associate with that sjw gender is a social construct nonsense.

I don't mind calling you girl and she whatsoever, but how openly you parade your possession of a dick around is disgusting. You want people to see you as girl and then you do the most ungirly thing possibly.

>>5222992
Well, you should know dysphoria comes in many shapes and forms and frankly I'm lucky I don't get an allergic reaction to one of my body parts. Phew, nature was nice on me with this one. Don't even want to imagine what it would be like to feel this repulse to what I was born with. I feel it in relation to what i was born AS. But me being born a man and with that being born transgender is not something I want to hate. This is my only existance and I'm not throwing it away, because god hates me or some shit. Maybe it's supposed to be like this. I want to make the best out of this. I wouldn't be here anymore if I didn't try my darnest, trust me.

Also I believe in a transgender mind there doesn't have to be a hardwire to a specific genital part. Yes, sometimes when I forget, my mind assumes I have a vagina. That's all that happens for me in that department. I for myself grew up confused about my gender and my genitals, because my inner self assumed different things to happen from what was real. But my confusion didn't stop me from functioning and accepting what is and what isn't.

I also believe you should never have to hate your body for any reason. This isn't about body shaming. Our bodies are the only connection between this earthly realm and our humble souls wandering this earth. If I really hated this place and everything it stood for. Would I have a reason to be here anymore? Couldn't my conciousness just move on and not be here anymore? Through suicide? But I don't want to go on. If I did I would be long gone. So, I learned to accept my fate. You see in theatre there's always comedy and tragedy and if you can't cry about something that disturbs you, maybe you can laugh about it. Laugh fate in the face and tell it: "Not now and not with me".

Well, I'm sorry that this is not possible for you, because you work different. But try to understand me in that way. And let's face it. This joke we call life. The only thing we have going on is being dickgirls.

>>5221739
Do you even really need to prepare? Shouldn't her dick be tiny anyway? It's not like you're going to take 8 inches or something.

>>5222935
I get what you mean. Perhaps it is like a nice strapon, fun to have when it is relevant to use but you wouldn't want to walk around town wearing it.
>>5222992
My girlfriend and I keep it a secret from everyone but me, her and the doctors. I do agree, that those who flaunt their genitals are a bit iffy, but that goes for everyone. The idea of having a male form would distress her but she is fine looking like a tomboyish and cute girl. And she tucks.

>>5223038
I understand that and it's cool you can still be happy with your body, but the fact we're both put into one and the same box easily breeds distaste when I have to put up with all the stigma about dickgirls when I find nothing more repulsive than exactly that.

I say I'm trans and the first thought people have is my dick and how sex with it looks like. Feels pretty shitty and pushes me into a closet.

Sure, It'd be healthier if I said fuck it, but that'd be about the same as telling a straight guy he should have gay sex. Very discomforting, no matter how you put it.

I wasn't talking about accepting my fate whatsoever, perhaps I should, but all this scrutiny whether I'm stable enough to live my life as woman, totally disregarding the fact that I couldn't care less as long as I get HRT and SRS, feels a bit unfair.
I'm very ungirly, I know that, I don't care, but for some reason I'm expected to adjust to society to get the issues I got with my body fixed? Why?

Ah well, european gatekeeper shit, probably doesn't even concern you.

>>5223233
There used to be the term transsexual but that was deemed too un-PC... I do get what you mean, and it would be pretty much avoided if people would just simply not talk about others' genitals. It is the concern of me and my girlfriend, and that is all it should be. This is why she stays stealth.

>>5223233
I didn't say I go around telling people I'm a tranny and encouraging their fetishistic views on me. It would be very hard for me to do so. What is this shemale thing that surrounds us anyways? A girl with a penis. Well I can verify that, but what else is there to it? The fact shemales go around fucking straight peoples assholes. Alright. I'm not doing that. In fact I dislike chasers a lot and the fact they ONLY see the fetish in us, rather then a person. That's not the fault of me accepting my genitalia though. It's the porn industry and people getting off to it. I don't want to go to lengths as to why girl with penis is arousing to people, but the truth is there are completely healthy and natural reasons for it. And I don't fault people for being curious one bit. I'm not gonna fulfill their desires, but I can talk about it in a mature way. But I rarely had people ask questions about my genitalia. I mean what's so special about it? Yes, I have a penis. No questions anymore? Moving on.

You being put into a closet and people being curious for your sexuality are not the same thing though. Sure, if a person is really eager on trying to fuck you, that's not a nice feeling. Knowing it is only because of your genitalia especially. But what I experience way more frequently is me feeling isolated from other girls and their cliques. That is not because they have weird sexual stigma about me, but rather the fact that I am different in any way and they don't know how to deal with it. Obviously they don't have to do anything, but thinking about it is still awkward for them.

And yes. I had my fair share of european gatekeeping. I went through 1 year of RLE here in Germany. Wasn't fun, but atleast I gained some perspective on things. And that's what's important to me. Possibilites and a choice.

>>5223445
The chaser shit really sucks, and it goes both ways too. If people found out that my girl was born a boy, and still uses her boy parts, I would be labeled a creepy faggot in the closet, a chaser who only cares about "tranny cock" and cares not for long term relationships, and many terrible things, all because the love of my life, my best friend and one who i can always trust, the one I will soon marry, is trans. I cannot have that. Thankfully it gives greater incentive to enforce the stealth thing, and we are practically a team in that regard.

>>5223350
No, transsexual has a very precise clinical definition. It is also still very much in use. Most transgenders don't fall under it. Transgender is an umbrella term including may different types of people with alternate gender expression.

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>>5222022
>look ma! I'm le armchair psychoanalyst on the internet
You go bud.

>As a straight man
I bet you are just a trolling tranny.

>>5224082
fucking a tranny is fucking a man no matter how you slice it.

>>5224012
Perhaps, but wouldn't the person I responded to be qualified to be called a transsexual?

>>5222632
yes, but in this case...

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>her cock

>>5227641
I'm that person, I do say I'm transsexual, but shrinks don't differentiate. To them I'm a very confused tranny who doesn't know what she wants.
I usually just say transgender when it doesn't matter, because trying to explain the difference to people who don't know is just tedious and never leads anywhere.

I know my first "specialized" shrink did in fact not know the difference.and turned the whole ordeal into a nightmare for me.
That's what's so maddening.

>>5221739
holy shit, even comes prepared with poppers!
youre one lucky bastard

advice: some hours before, douche your ass clean
use lots of lube, and i mean a lot if its your first time and youre not accustomed to anal
let her violate your boypucci and remember it forever

>>5227823
That is quite terrible. It is a shame more countries can't just follow the American informed consent model and just let adults go their way on it. But alas. The only enemy here is the system, not the non-ops, and all too often it creates tensions and divides and conquers the trans communities.

>>5227729
she has the prettiest (and most feminine) penis i've ever had the pleasure of taking in my boypussy

>>5227930
I'm still stumped how progressive the US, out of all, has come to be in this case. And considering what happened in Paris yesterday I'm not sure what's keeping me here anymore.
A year ago the US would've been no option to me even just for holidays, today I regret living on this side of the ocean.

Things being as they are, I'm gonna take what I can for free and in some 2 or 3 years I'll see what I can do about moving in with a friend in San Francisco or alternatively Canada.

>>5227986
It may seem strange, but keep in mind that in the US, up until recently all trans medical shit was done out of pocket. The gate keeping model would not work here because nobody wants to pay out of pocket to not be given hormones as an adult, so the IC system was formed. If not for early transphobia in the US, we would not have the best trans care model in the world next to Thailand.

>>5228220
Objectively I guess you got a point, but consider what I wrote about my treatment. I've soon been 19 months on HRT, over 2 1/2 in "treatment" with the gatekeepers and I have no legal prescription whatsoever to this day.
I am in fact paying for absolutely everything myself, but given the very strict customs, I rely on QHI which is the only EU store I can safely order from which until recently stocked only the most basic meds (Spiro and Progynova). Estrifam is still more than twice as expensive as Progynova, but Progynova falls short on getting my E to desireable levels, so I'd be a fool to not opt for sublingual E, regardless of price. Progesterone still seems entirely impossible to obtain. If only it does a very minor effect, that's all I need to fill my bra perfectly, so yes I do want it.

I feel pretty shat on, desu.

>>5228259
2 1/2 years*, Sorry.

>>5228259
That sounds all too typical of what I've heard of in Europe. So many hoops to jump through... Year-long RLE without HRT, months between appointments, mistreatment from therapists, just stupid bullshit all to get some damn hormones. Which is stupid because of all the black market sites out there lol

>>5228274
>all the black market sites
As I said, the only thing I'll get across my country's borders is QHI stuff. ADC ship from either India or the US, I'm not sure, but either way it's not an option, and Inhouse has retreated from shipping to Germany at all. There are many many online pharmacies that do sell stuff, but only if you've already had a prescription once. There was a dutch site before that I ordered my first batch of contraceptives from, but they shut down quite fast.

I've been trying to negotiate swapping my pills for my mom's prescribed estrogen gel, but she seems not too happy about that idea. That's proper black market, lol.

My next appointment is 3 months from now. Go figure.

I'm gonna get my FFS and then I'm the fuck outa here before I get blown up or raped.
Sorry for ranting so much.

straight male here

talk it slow, used plenty of lube, and DO NOT insert it too far!

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>>5228381
>straight male here

>>5222038
His opinion is no less valid than yours, regardless of how it makes you feel. It is two guys, btw, and they are both gay.

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>>5231383
OP already said he doesn't give a fuck and all your opinion earns you is making you look like a dickhead, but go ahead and do that and keep posting disrespectful shit on 4chan for literally no purpose at all.
At some age most people wisen up and realize some things are best kept to yourself. I'm sure you'll get there eventually.