Never look through your partners phone. Whatever you find will

Fuck that, I want a partner who's great even when I'm not watching him.
Also how is this lgbt, this mopey shit is r9k speed

>>5217481
Well, that's how I found out that my ex bf was a cyber whore so in a way it was worth it

>>5217512
Just found out my bf used to have casual and regular hookups with a guy. Sad thing is, is that he is asleep right now next to me and I have no idea on how to react

>>5217496
I would be more concerned if you considered your dad your partner. Also the type of shit you just cannot ever unsee

>>5217520
>used to have
how long have you been together?
Do you know when he started hooking up with him?
has he stopped hooking up with him?

>>5217526
>>5217499 **

>>5217526
kek sorry I misread the OP and I thought it said your parents' phone

i deleted my post shamefully

>>5217536
>how long have you been together?
Two years (which considered is not that long but we are in the works of moving in together in a month)
>Do you know when he started hooking up with him?
About a month prior or after we started dating I am pretty sure.
>has he stopped hooking up with him?
3 months ago said "Serious with bf" and left it at that.

>>5217550
Normally I'd try to convince you to be a merciless unforgiving monster and dump his sorry bleeding ass in the gutter, but
>Serious with bf
really makes me doubt myself and my ways.

>>5217569
Yeah, just sucks knowing that, even though time, effort, and trust is put into something, it is just thrown back into your face.

>Serious with bf
Apparently not as much as I thought

>>5217579
>even though time, effort, and trust is put into something, it is just thrown back into your face.
That's why I support vengeance and shit so much.

>Apparently not as much as I thought
True, but apparently he did however decide (21 months too late I'll admit) that he wants a serious relation.
Or just wants to get rid of him and find fresh meat.

I'd plan for a possible brutal life shattering rejection, but I'd wait a few months with it and occasionally sneak a peak to see if he really changed his ways or not.

>>5217579
I think you should speak with him. Maybe you two are simply in two different places of the relationship and maybe you just 'got serious' with him before he did so with you.

Do you ever speak about this kind of stuff? Communication is the key. It's really easy to just assume that the other person thinks and feels like we do just because we know them, so talking about these things might sound really silly for us.

But experience has taught me that it's much better than just assuming things.