>> am male experimenting with bisexuality
>> attracted to men, but never craved dick like I do the softness of a woman
>> typically dominant/ aggressive with the opposite sex
>> suddenly more passive with men but unsure if it's not just because I'm inexperienced
>> am on the "prettier" side so being dominant/ trying to "top" other men feels a little ridiculous since the guys I've fooled around with look more masculine
>> typically dominant me feels put off by being bottom because of implications
>> stuck in limbo
>> how do
TLDR; straight sex is so much more intuitive than this gay stuff, am sexually befuddled
Sounds to me like you're a bisexual who's caught up in society's penetration-centric culture.
Don't worry about it too much. There doesn't always have to be a dick going into a hole. There's a gorillion ways to get off together and everybody leaves happy. Don't bother with labels. You like doing certain things when you're in certain moods and that's totally cool. Just try different things and be real with yourself and you'll figure it out in time.
try not to over think things and just go with what feels right...
I tend to be Dominant with women and Submissive with men...but the older I get the more I am open to exploring and being more versatile...
Just be proud of your ability to explore your sexuality and dont be too hard on yourself.
Why do bisexuals get so much flak here? :/
What's wrong with liking both vanilla and strawberry?
I don't know- it just would look to me as if you saw a greyhound mounting a Great Dane or something. I mean, yeah, there's nothing wrong with it, but it just appears a little ridiculous in practice hehe.
Because your majority is unfaithful, meme sexuality, little whores.
Bis are only okay if you're looking for someone to fuck, no feelings attached.
You always go back to wanting a fat wife and 2 kids, so yeah we faggots aren't really keen on having our hearts broken by breeders.
Maybe that's all I need then :)
Although I went dancing recently and found it highly enjoyable to follow as much as lead. Maybe that says something about the bedroom.
That's so incredibly bland :/
Thanks! I appreciate the complement :)
I don't know, I think as long as there's an established premise and no one's leading anyone on, there's no harm no foul, right?
Haha I don't own any knee highs. Here's my face doe.
You know, truth be told, I always thought they looked somewhat gaudy outside of the bedroom. Unless of course the person wearing them is really really hot.
But then again, you can wear a pizza suit and look stunning still if you're really really hot haha
Aw thanks! Haha. That picture makes me look really underage, I just realized haha. Here's a clearer one.
>asian men rated favorably ONLY by asian women
>white men rated favorably by ALL races, except black women with highest average approval across all races.
It's okay, you're just an asian fetishist, no shame in having shit taste, honey.
I dunno. I like white guys. Mixed guys/ people in general, are some of the most stunning people though imho.
Truth be told, that could be somewhat dated. I think the attractiveness of an entire race tends to correlate with positive media coverage. Asian guys, I've noticed, are becoming more sexualized and noticed by non-Asian women than ever before with the rise of Korean media and strong Asian male roles in Hollywood (think Glenn from TWD). It's all relative, man.
>Mixed guys/ people in general, are some of the most stunning people though imho.
>Truth be told, that could be somewhat dated. I think the attractiveness of an entire race tends to correlate with positive media coverage.
I feel like that is a big part of it. I mean, those statistics were taken in a white-majority country. I bet you'd get different results if you polled somewhere else.
Even so, western media rules the world. I wouldn't be surprised if white men were still considered the most widely attractive race across all developed countries.
I just don't think it's a coincidence that us Asian guys are seeing more attention at the same time as kpop and k-media is soaring in the worldwide charts.
There's no such thing as an inherent "masterrace" or anything. Just if you see bananas instead of oranges all the time, you tend to find bananas the more appealing fruit. Especially if the bananas you always see on TV are always tasty looking as fuck.
>black guys are hotter than white guys too.
Well, i already said you have shit taste, so no point in repeating that.
Don't really care if you're assblasted because you're asian.
It's a 2014 research.
I do agree Korean men are the most attractive out of the whole Asian bunch, though, but truth is whites are vastly preferred by a large percentage of the population.
USA has a large racial diversity - only 60% of USA is white, much lower than any of the European countries.
So, their stats are a lot closer to the truth about all around racial attractiveness.
Still biased, but a lot less than any other feedback you'd get from another stat pool.
It's like I said; until you see more Asian men popularized in western media, it'll remain that way, nevermind diversity. Think about the average white guy. Not that cute right? Now think about all the white guys they show in media. People see media more than they do real people. It's what sticks. The average Asian male is seen on the day to day but rarely do you see an attractive one on media. I'm sure they're/ we're out there. You just don't see them/us.
So if all you see are pretty white people, you'll assume white people are the prettiest. This is just my educated hypothesis on the issue haha
I'll have to get a snapchat then. Thanks anon!
Eh, you have a point desu.
Science hasn't reached a verdict if attractiveness is subjective or objective, so i was only arguing from a cultural point of view.
Ah it says you can't receive my chat. Did you mispell your username?
As with most things, a bit of both haha. Symmetry will always be universally attractive. Cultural accents like the breadth/ height of cheekbones, body type, eye shape, etc. tends to vary based on culture. And what is media really but both an outward representation of culture and simultaneously something that heavily imposes on it?
You should have an idea of how media can impose being a part of the LGBT community, I'd think. At any rate, I'm glad we could see eye to eye there ^^
Seriously! Maybe it's all that genetic diversity. Makes for the best of both worlds, eh?
I watched straight porn for the first time in two weeks and I felt disgusting afterword. I can get off to vaginagirls still but it just doesnt turn me on the way tgirls do anymore. The change happened really rapidly and Im a little confused to say the least.
Haha thanks and I dunno. I just mean they're weird to take.
Have yet to have that done on me. I bet it feels nice.
That's interesting. I feel attracted to feminity, androgeny, and limited masculinity- by that I mean nothing more masculine than your conventionally attractive male model/ move star or something. Lumberjacks and bears kinda freak me out.
Also that orange thing is an earplug. Helps me sleep haha.