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>Try to come out to my SJW friend >Talk to him about gender

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>Try to come out to my SJW friend
>Talk to him about gender dysphoria, how I hate my male body and all that
>He just starts carrying on about his gender fluidity and how he sometimes feels like a girl and how "don't worry about it just be yourself and try different things"
>Tell him I really hate having a male body
>He tells me I have to deconstruct what a "male body" is

Jesus christ, why are SJWs so thick headed? I genuinely support what they are doing and of course I love my friend but hearing all this bullshit makes me want to gas them.
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>>5174951
now you know that gender fluidity is just attention whoring bullshit. It's all "ME ME ME ME!" with them.
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Make better friends OP.
Or spam them with psychological and medical docs about how gender dysphoria works. And then make better friends.
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>>5174951
>He tells me I have to deconstruct what a "male body" is

Follow his advice and try deconstructing him
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>>5174973
kek
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Next up, on things that never happened
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>>5174973
this too
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>>5174951
Get into a opression olympics contest with him. It's easy to win those if you know how to argue right.

>You're erasing my struggles
>you don't understand how difficult life is for transpeople like me
>you undermine our hardships and make it difficult for cis people to take us seriously when you make a joke out of everything like that
>transexuality has been supported by science, genderqueer special snowflake fluidity has not.
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>>5174995
>transexuality has been supported by science, genderqueer special snowflake fluidity has not.
Like that would work, he'll just say science is a product of the patriarchy.
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>>5174995
>transexuality has been supported by science, genderqueer special snowflake fluidity has not.
This is too based on measurable, rational thought. Before you were good with appeals to emotions but SJWs don't like science.
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>>5174995
inb4
>"passing is a cisnormative concept and inherently cissexist, you should be proud to be Trans***"
>"who cares what cis doctors say, they haven't lived the Trans Experience"

queer theorists are infuriating and there is no getting around their dumb ideas.
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>>5174951
How is OP's friend in the wrong? The advice sounds good to me. Someone please explain the logic, I don't want to be ignorant.
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>>5175034
>inform your friend that you have a serious psychological condition that could lead to suicide if left untreated
>don't worry and just be urself :)
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>>5175034
>>5175047
Dysphoria isn't psychological. It's not just some disordered thinking. It's real, physical discomfort because of brain abnormality. You can't just wish it away.
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Because they dont give a fuck about anyone with actual problems.

They cry about how society treats them, how things against them are unfair, and shit like that but any time someone with an actual problem (even one they claim they deal with) they just try to make it out that they have worse.

>Tfw Physically disabled autistic transsexual who got the talking too by a pink haired obese SJW DFAB "masculine" non binary who always wears dresses about how they are always opressed
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>>5175047
I'm still not following. How is being yourself not a logical advice to gender dysphoria? Being yourself is being the gender you see yourself as. It doesn't sound like OP's friend is suggesting to hide or suppress the feelings.
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>>5174951
According to some people on this very board genderqueer and transgender are the same thing, so its not always sjws
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>>5175064
Maybe I used the wrong word. Is neurological better?

>>5175098
The point is that OPs friend has zero grasp on the gravity of the situation and basically just said "don't worry; I feel that way too sometimes."
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>>5175004
But.. but, MUH patriarchy.
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>>5175113
Ah, I see. I personally wouldn't know what more to say to a friend, and I guess that's part of where my confusion came from.
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>>5175098
Being yourself is not bad advice. The problem is that OP's friend seems to be saying that being yourself on its own is an adequate way of dealing with dysphoria, which really isn't the case.
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>>5174951
>I genuinely support what they are doing and of course I love my friend but hearing all this bullshit makes me want to gas them.
You sound like you're transboardual. Do you find yourself hoarding bits of rope 'just in case?' Do you involuntarily scowl when you see kikes in the street? Do you sometimes feel like you're in the wrong board?
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>>5175152
You do realize OP is a tranny, right?
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>>5174951
>SJWs
>I genuinely support what they are doing

That was your first mistake. As soon as you hear someone describe themselves as an SJW unironically, or they say things that are too tumblry, blacklist and avoid entirely. Nothing good will come of it.
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>>5175152
LOL no fuck /pol/, those people want me dead.
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>>5174951
Because too many people, mostly teens (how shocking), have started clinging to anything that makes them "special". Nobody wants to be boring, plus if you have all of that white cis het "privilege" then you have no grounds to whine EVER.

So now these kids that are really just guys or girls that don't happen to be stereotypes of their gender think they "must" be some sort of snowflake bullshit.

You're not a "demisexual genderfluid AFAB", you're a girl that actually has to have some level of commitment before you fuck and isn't a petty princess 24/7...like most fucking women.
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OP he your friend sounds like an asshole.

heres wat you gotta do
1) friend dump them
2) continue on comming out
3) start mones
4) hopefully pass after some time
5)??????
6) profit
7) win at life being a stealth transgirl
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>>5174951
(fwiw i'm non-binary myself)

Your friend sucks, OP. What's this about "deconstructing a 'male body'"? Not everything is grey, some things actually are black and white. You know who you are OP, you're female. this friend really ought to be more understanding.
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>>5174951
>Genuinely support sjws

I'm really glad you've removed yourself from the gene pool via transitioning.
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>>5174951
>you already have a girl's body because you are a girl ;^)
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>>5174951
I'm some one who gets called a SJW and even I think your friend is being an ass,
I would have just asked what pronouns you want me to use and if there was anything else I could do to help.
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You have an abnormality of the putamen in your brain giving you a false gender perception.

He's an idiot but you are mentally disabled
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>>5175064
Just because conditions have a neurological basis, doesn't mean it's not psychological.
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>>5178774
Kek, what is your armchair science explanation for why FtMs exist? They transitioned to get a harder life?
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>>5175004
>science is a product of the patriarchy

Holy shit. I pray to God that we never hit this point in which society actually thinks this.
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>>5179471
>pray to God
kek
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>>5174951
You need to pick better friends.
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>>5174951
>I genuinely support what they are doing
>>tumblr.
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>>5176919
>being stealth
>win at life
Kek. But it's ok, it's not the 60's.
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>>5174951
what if by "deconstruct" they mean get a sex change
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>>5174995
>>transexuality has been supported by science, genderqueer special snowflake fluidity has not.

Funny how said "science" is never, ever available when someone asks you to produce it.
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>>5184909
literally just google transgender science and you'd probably find dozens of research papers on the subject
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>>5184963
>just google it!

yawn.
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>>5184909
http://www.mediafire.com/view/?brq4uevp3r8mwk4
http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v378/n6552/abs/378068a0.html
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7477289
http://jcem.endojournals.org/cgi/content/abstract/85/5/2034
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11826131
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16870186
http://informahealthcare.com/doi/abs/10.1080/09513590400018231
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15724806
http://brain.oxfordjournals.org/content/131/12/3132
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2754583/?tool=pmcentrez
http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychires.2010.05.006
http://science.jrank.org/pages/2061/Diethylstilbestrol-DES.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/7689007.stm
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19341803
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>>5174951
Maybe as genderrigid person you should realize you are mentally privileged compared to your friend.
How does it feel not to be at the winner of oppression olympics?
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He's not SJW enough. Just start calling yourself by female pronouns and watch him bend of backwards in order not to offend you. Don't forget to tell him to stop mansplaining to you and accuse him of transmisogyny if he keeps trying to deny your gender identity. :^)
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>>5174951
>not knowing SJWs are just brainwashed plebs
Come on mate they don't even know what they're saying
You can't stay mad at them
They're like little children
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