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>finally meet a gay guy in real life at workplace (previously, every gay I'd ever met was through an app or dating site)
>he's extremely handsome
>he doesn't deign to even notice my presence

Every day at work is a fucking emotional roller-coaster in my mind. I don't let it show, but I always feel like shit. Finally meet a gay guy in real life, and I'm not good enough for him? He's too perfect - so perfect he only makes my own flaws and insecurities more visible. I see him walk by my desk with his perfect body and it makes me realize how futile my efforts at going to the gym and eating right are; I overhear him talk about his social life and his out-of-work activities and he makes me realize how boring and pathetic and even bitter I am. And just today, I overheard that he's taking the day off work to go to Houston to help or offer some aid - and everyone fucking loves him, and it makes him look like a perfect, selfless hero.

His mere presence just highlights how terrible of a person I am. He's everything I wish I could be but could never actually be even if I tried. I fucking hate him.
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>>8797768
Probably should just kill yourself.

Or grow up.
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>>8797768
There's nothing intrinsically wrong with envy if you use it as a guide to what you really want.
You can use those people as examples of what you can become.
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You're jealous.
Take everything about him that you hate and use it as motivation to become a better person.

Start with working out, since that one seems to bother you the most.

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So... my co-workers know that I'm dating a guy and they're totally cool with it and also super intrigued and in my business because fag hags. What they don't know, though, is that I'm his gf and I live my life as a female everywhere outside of work. I sort of want to tell them so that I don't have to keep stepping around it but I don't really know how. Nor do I know if it'll be a good idea. What does /tttt/ think about this? Should I come out to my co-workers as trans? They haven't noticed my boobs or anything yet somehow. They actually seem incredibly dense.
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>>8797556
>They actually seem incredibly dense.
Cis women.
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tell them and they'll probably leave you alone forever after that.
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>>8797992
I'm not sure. They're California liberals so...

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A spirit offers you a deal: your ideal body in exchange for becoming a fanatical proponent of the party and political ideology you currently hate the most. Do you take it?
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>>8797434
>your ideal body
Magic not required.

Hit the gym
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>>8797446
>Magic not required
It is for tranners and manlets
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>>8797446
Which workout do I use to lose 8 inches of height?

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How do I make my married lover to divorce with his ugly old bitch and marry me?
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>>8797386
without that bitch there to act as a barrier blocking all commitment to you he wouldn't even touch you
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>>8797532
Why is this board so rude
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>>8797386
Be a good enough lover

My theory is that trannssexuals women are on a trip, like an LSD trip and they do not have an accurate perception of reality. This whole "I am passing as a woman" is absolutely a trip, except that it is not induced by LSD.

Months ago I met online a trans-woman and we became friends. During our conversations, she mentioned that she is deep stealth and she had hesitations meeting me in person, because she is completely stealth, but, either way, after chatting for months, we finally met. We lived only 80 miles apart. We met at a Starbucks and as soon as I saw her, I could immediately tell that she was trans. It was super obvious to me but, then, I said to myself "that's probably because I am trans too, and most people would not clock her".

Anyway, among other things, she mentioned that she was going to a language school and that she was terrified someone from the secretary of her language school would find out she was trans when doing a search via social security. A few months forward, ironically, I met another person who happened to study at the same language school (which is popular in my area) and the person mentioned that there is a "tranny" at the school and that she is weird and everyone makes fun of her behind her back. I was shocked and appalled. This person thinks she is stealth and nobody clocks her and yet everybody knows she is trans. Should I tell her or not?

This reminds me of another case, years ago, when I was working as a paralegal when someone who was trans consulted our law firm and she mentioned that nobody knew she was trans at work and she was concerned that she might be outed by the HR personnell. To make a long story short, every single one in the company, even the janitorial personnel knew she was trans.

Maybe we should embrace ourselves as trans women and realize that stealth is impossible. Hell, even I thought I was stealth and apparently I am not.
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I agree with you on the trans being on an acid trip but there really are some trannies that pass. they're very rare though, think bailey jay.
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>>8797360
you need to see them in real life, not in pictures. In real life, nobody passes, trust me. In pictures, even a hon can look passable. The ones that don't pass in pictures, don't pass in real life. The ones that pass in pictures, don't pass in real life.
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>>8797368
bailey jay has been documented enough for me to safely say she passes, by that I mean I've seen videos of her where I have to remind myself that it's a biological male. the frame, head size and shape, nothing shows the signs. I've seen 1 or 2 other trannies on cam sites throughout the year that give me that impression too.
people had they not transitioned that would have been incredibly feeble looking men...

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According to Blanchard's theory, autogynephilia is just the combination of ordinary gynephilia and erotic target location error, which is a paraphilia where you desire to have the traits that you would otherwise find attractive in mates.

I want to measure erotic target location error with an unconventional method: ask people what sorts of traits they find attractive in others, and what sorts of traits they would like to have.

For that to work, I need to collect a good list of traits. Ideally, traits would have the following properties:

* They are not related to gender at all, including whether the traits are attractive. (So "long hair", "chubby", "breasts" and "beard" are all out.)
* They do not signal group/subculture membership. (So nothing like "wears nerdy clothes".)
* There is not a general agreement that they are attractive or unattractive (so not "well-dressed" or "smelly").

I think red hair is a good example, but I have trouble coming up with others. Do you have any ideas?
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I'm attracted to depressed people, but I guess that's a "group." As long as they are caring and damaged, I find them attractive. In general, as long as someone is an endearing, worthy person, they are attractive. It's pretty intangible what I think people in general are attracted to, but virtuous traits like selflessness, courage, self awareness, talents or skills in a hobby or job, and a sensitivity to the world (empathy)... when I say I'm attracted to depressed people, its more attraction to toughness and willpower than the negative aspects. I also am not attracted to people who talk too much.

I have no strong desire to look a certain way or have certain traits. My dysphoria is very tempered. I am a nurturer, and I want others to be attracted to my utility in helping others. I'd also like to be considered attractive for being intelligent or clever/creative. Some of the more elaborate things that should make me attractive are my ability to be myself or love myself, regardless of what that might mean.

Does that suffice to describe some abstract traits? I personally think attraction is very superficial, so excluding those traits seems counterintuitive.
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>>8797266
>They are not related to gender at all
>They do not signal group/subculture membership.
Why not?
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>>8797306
So, there's a lot of risk at running into requirement 3 (and possibly also requirement 1, though I'm less certain about that), at least with your phrasing. Some of it could maybe be rephrased, though. For example,
> I also am not attracted to people who talk too much.
could be phrased as "People who have a lot to say" to make it sound more neutral. (Or perhaps some third phrasing would be even better.)

> I personally think attraction is very superficial, so excluding those traits seems counterintuitive.

Superficial traits are allowed.

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does anyone else feel intense prejudice against non medical trans people? I mean, it's cool if you want to play with gender norms and all, that's what """""non binary""""" is for but for people to claim they go through the same problems and feel the same dysphoria as other transgender people without actively doing anything more than shaving their legs or growing/cutting their hair just kind of upsets me.

pic maybe related idk
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>>8797246

> no dysphoria
> not going to transition
> going to become a woman and use their restrooms anyway.
> there's nothing you can to do stop me

Feels comfy desu
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>>8797260
I mean meme all you want but you'll always look like and be perceived by society as a freak without the extra pity cushioning of medical transitioners.
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>>8797285
Thing is, I don't care. What are you going to do about it?

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Which one of you is responsible for this?
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>>8797231
THE FUKK?
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>>8797231
Why does /pol/ rediscover this like every 2 months? Are all of you r/thedonald faggots so new that even this shit is a shocking find to you?

And to answer your question. Brazilians are degenerate. Stop the presses.
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>>8797231
Me

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I've always I wanted to try -> TOP <- a guy, but I have some concerns.

Should probably sound straight forward, but I feel like for me it isn't.

The type of guy I'm into is tall, masc, handsome.

I'm skinny, tall, twinky and pretty (that's according to most of my girlfriends at least), which I recognize probably isn't exactly standard for a top.

To go along with that I have gyno, when I cum its barely anything and completely clear, worst of all is I can't always keep it up either.

Until this point all sexual encounters I've had have been with women who seem really cool with all this.

But I get the feeling that a masc guy is going to see this differently.

So what are the chances that, if I even found a guy I liked that also liked me, that I'd be laughed out of the bedroom?
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>>8797227
I was about to say you sound like you'd be a great power bottom, but then I remembered you said you wanted to top. Best suggestion? Find a masc guy who likes to be pegged, based on the information supplied? I know there has to be quite a few out there.
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>I have gyno
There's treatment, you know. Just go to a doctor already.
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>>8797227
I'm a masc bottom and I'd only bottom for someone twinkish. Whether or not your partner would be understanding about you not being able to keep it up sometimes really depends on your partner, although I can imagine some guys who just want to be fucked getting frustrated.

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Daily reminder true girls never get fucked in the ass. It's too dirty and disgusting for them. Anal is for masc pigs. If your ass isn't a virgin, you'll never become a real girl, you'll forever be a fag
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i've done anal with cis women, but ok
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does fingering count? i have never been fucked by benis before but guys fingered me
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>>8797118
Thank God, I'm not the only one who feels this way.

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What would your life be like if you were born female.
>Born female
>May or may not be introduced to gaming who knows
>Never secretly steal parents clothing.
>Still have socialization problems thanks to being an introvert.
>Might have been in a relationship since straight guys would be attracted to me
>Wouldnt be wasting my time wishing I was born female
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I'd just be a normal straight girl. I'd probably be really pretty if I was born female, too, because both my mom and my brother have done modeling. I probably wouldn't even care about sjw shit and might've been kinda popular in hs

fuck this is just depressing me, stop it OP....
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>>8797083
I'd be a really fucking odd woman with my personality. I'd still be ugly either way. It wouldn't worry me much. I'd be able to fuck men more easily.
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>>8797083
tbqhon I would be a neet regardless

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Post your pictriev, /tttt/.

>tfw 44 year old Asian man
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>>8797014
29 year old mtf, 2nd week hrt
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>>8797014
Hmm.
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>>8797014
>>8797038
Seems silly to not include your pic in the cap, the info is basically irrelevent otherwise

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>be me
>19
>never really come to terms with being gay in highschool
>let myself be gay once I got to college about 3 weeks ago
>fucked around a few times in highschool but nothing ever serious, only topped once, never bottomed, and did the other mundane stuff some

>End up not finding any guys, literally none
>On the Cross Country team
>In lockeroom showers (usual group showers with the spigots in groups of threes)
>New friend decides to eye fuck me and it gets very obvious
>This friend is about 6'5" (very fucking tall), compared to me at 6'1"
>Just say fuck it and tell him I notice it
>fast forward through awkward conversation trying to explain to him that it's chill
>we're back at his on campus apartment
>naked
>tall lanky friend has me pinned against the bed
>tentatively ask him to fuck me
> "I'm sorry anon but I really don't like topping"
>end up fucking him, kinda dissapointed in the end cause my cock is very sensitive and I jizz in a minute max
>get so embarrased that he doesn't really know what to say
>haven't talked to him in a few days


Why the fuck is this world not fair?
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why can't you enjoy the pleasure of giving a long, slow, loving blowjob without any penetration/reciprocation?
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>>8796976
Because I'm like a fucking pygmy in the gay community having not lost my (anal) virginity despite really wanting to. I cum so easily that topping is just boring and dildos feel great so
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>>8796963
gays are, like, 80% bottom

that's just how it is

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When you realize your own dogma implies transitioning is transphobic
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>>8796931
>>>/tumblr/
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>>8796931
Well yeah, transtrenders want to feel superior for not actually wanting medical intervention for the condition they are pretending to have.
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>>8796931
Who's dogma exactly? Not mine.

t.Mtf

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my boyfriend did something really horrible to me last night... we were having sex and i was bottoming as usual when he started fucking me too hard that it started to hurt. i told him to stop but he didn't listen and kept on going at it. i tried to get up but he pushed me down and starting going in and out at sharp angles which made me scream out loud. i begged him to stop but he just wouldn't... he just kept fucking until he came and the he slapped me in the face. usually he only only slaps me when i mouth off to him and sometimes he's rough with sex but this time was different. i feel violated and now i'm really freaking out inside. what do i do about this!?
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Well, you have a few options.

You can move on, you can call the police, you can talk to him.

Moving on means saying "This guy doesn't respect me, doesn't respect my boundaries, and seems to care about his own pleasure more than anything else"
Police means saying all of the above, in addition to you wanting him to face legal consequences.
Talking to him means saying "Hey, what the fuck was that? I asked you to stop and you didn't. That isn't cool, and it's hurting me that you don't seem to care about me". That can be done in person or over the phone, over the phone if you feel like things might turn violent.
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>>8796895
I'm sorry that happened to you. Be well.
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>what do i do about this!?
Accept that you're now his bitch, and learn to live with it.

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