Ive been struggling with telling my mom for a while, trying to say I'm gay. I always stop halfway and never can get the words out.
I'm 18 and very straight acting, the gayest thing I do is shave my legs. I think telling her will be a shock, she's a little religious and that makes me want to hold off a little.
Any tips?
Trust me, any mom worth her salt can tell if her son is gay. Especially if you have brothers
If telling her is very important to you, then you can't half ass it. Don't bring it up very casually in a quick second or worse, do it as part of a joke. Have a talk about it with her and emphasize that this is important to you and that it's something you've wanted to say for a long time
If you don't think you can ever find the perfect opportunity to do it, then create that opportunity yourself. If she really does care about you she'll hear you out
>>8142477
Ok. I dont think she'd know though
>>8142421
>i shave my legs
She knows you're gay
Shy Girl edition
•Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
•Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
•Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
•Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
•Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
•Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
•Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
•Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
•Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
•IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
Old Thread >>8141265
Who here /mtfwalk/?
>>8142253
>this terrible mspaint edit
What was the original called? Autism walk?
>>8142276
No, the virgin walk.
Stop what you're doing, stop it now.
>>8142125
why would i stop playing overwatch
>>8142129
Son, you knew that I implied you doing unholy, sinful acts like sodomy. Stop it. Stop not reading the Holy Bible
>>8142133
>unironically believing mythology
could i ever realistically look that good or are the jews just trying to get me to waste money on hormones and then die an infertile abomination
>>8142040
lose weight first
>>8142040
i agree with you my man. the pic on the right is such a drastic change from the original. i mean you would probably have to wear makeup or improve your skin and then have long hair to look like that. totally unrealistic imo
>>8142071
It also shaved the jaw though
>6 weeks on hrt
>low dose estrogen (2mg)
>chest hurts like crazy
>milk coming out of nipples
IS THIS NORMAL
>>8141525
You might have a prolactinoma.
>>8141534
wouldn't that affect me before hrt
>>8141548
Apparently prolactin rises when estrogen does.
Any other transmen so damn lonely that any feminine attention makes you happy?
I am at the point where even a romantic only relationship would make me happy.
kinda. i don't really have any girls in my life since breaking up with my ex gf last summer. my friends and co-workers are mainly all male. but i also miss her too much to be concerned about most other girls...
do you guys want dating advice from a man?
>>8141603
Yes please.
Except I'm afraid it's a big different when looking for girls that are okay with you having a vagina and girly aspects to you for a while.
I realised Ive been a skelly for the first 5 months of hrt, cant redistribute fat if there's no fat to redistribute right?
so I started counting calories trying to hit 2500 per day im doing it but its such an effort, I refuse to believe people manage to do this by accident.
Ive litterally been forcing nuts down my throat for the past couple days and keeping count.
what do you people like to do to gain weight?
>>8141305
Eat calorie dense food. Energy bar manufacturers often try to pack as much calories into as tiny space as possible so they're not a bad place to look. It's an easy to pack in an extra 300-400 cal without eating a lot.
McDonald's. All three meals. Or as a snack twice a day.
Meals = large meal and a snack sandwich
Snacks = 2 or more things from value menu.
GOMAD
O
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A
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Professional friendly cooking advice edition
•Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
•Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
•Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
•Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
•Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
•Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
•Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
•Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
•Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
•IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
previously >>8139734
Boop
I want to kiss girls..
>it turns out my "boyfriend" was actually Basic pretending to be a femboy
Wish upon a star edition.
Previous thread:
>>8119066
Transition timelines:
http://helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com/tagged/tc
Bottom surgery info:
http://gendercube.tumblr.com/
Passing guide for AAPs:
http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/
Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
http://ftmguide.org/
http://thetransitionalmale.com
>>8141208
are we /mtfgen now with that animu
>>8141321
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/whining
here so you can understand what whining is
What is was doing was bragging like an asshole about the horrible thing i did because a person mildly annoyed me
How tha heck does that happen in the operation? how do you pee after? how does sex work as well as sexuality? Please explainn.
>>8141153
you have to suck my feminine benis first.
>>8141154
nu benus ples. My father says i habe to wait til I'm 5.
It doesn't, they're just dykes that want dicking and can't stand princess shit. No sex change involved
/lgbt/ help, making this thread because i would rather ask here than some fag reddit nsfw board, but here goes.
i'm trans and have a bf, long distance, i told him i'm trans, hes KINDA okay with it.
point isn't that tho, it's that he has a humiliation fetish that i can't get into. i'm pretty vanilla for the most part. i'm just lost with being dominant in general.
have a meme for your trouble.
>>8141142
look up on the internet how to gain a fetish
also, vanilla fags are the worse.
>>8145098
its not gaining the fetish that's the thing, its me not knowing how to humiliate someone. im really bad at being mean or hurtful and it feels weird. kills my boner.
>>8145274
That's the thing, you don't have a fetish for it, so being sadistic isn't interesting to you, if you learn how to enjoy humiliating other people then the rest will come naturally, it won't feel "fake"
It's not actually that sexual abuse in childhood can alter your sexuality and make somebody gay, right?
It's kind of always been in the back of my mind, like, what if I'm not actually supposed to be this way?
>>8140472
does it really matter? You are who you are, might as well accept it
>>8140472
I don't believe it.
t. bi MtF who's never been sexually abused
I believe there's definitely a correlation between the two.
Inb4 I'm a pansexual non-binary-queer-genedered-trans and I wasn't sexually abused
Yes I know that that's why I said correlation you faggot.
I used to feel pretty down and self depreciating because I was gay. Gotta be honest I considered it unfair, how I'm the only one in my entire family who turned out like this, so no one I know really understands.
But coming on this board makes me feel better about myself, knowing that while I am a faggot, at least I'm not having to deal with the shit you trans folk put up with. XD
>>8140256
Literally 2/3 of my family are gay, life is still shit. Faggotry is the least of it.
>>8140256
i guess when it comes down to it it's loneliness that fucks people up,now loneliness can come from being a being lgbt,being a minority or just being unlikeble,or being a in such bad situations that make you feel like no one know how you feel
>>8140256
Trans brought this shit on themselves just like gays brought most of the current day shit on themselves by being massive faggots
Any other Christfags on here? If so, wanna be in a group chat?
Add me on skype: Alternating__Current (two underscores)
>>8140206
make a discord
>>8140206
Im not going to join you on this crazy skype journey, but hey, whats up. Im a Chrsitfag as well.
Howdy /lgbt/,
I want to get my ear pierced because it's hard to tell i'm gay otherwise, but i feel like too much of a 24 year old autist to go out and get it done. Have any of you done it, and did it go well/did you experience problems?
>>8140178
i have, but not for the same reason. it's really not that hard. if you do it right, you won't even feel anything, or maybe just a drop of blood.
just use any thin sewing needle and make sure everything is disinfected. or you can probably buy cheap piercing gun if you're that much of a pussy.
>>8140178
if you wanna make it obvious that you're gay and not look like a fag you could get one of these
https://www.amazon.com/Exoticdream-Friendship-Rainbow-Bracelet-Wristband/dp/B012B1V8QA/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1492643560&sr=8-3&keywords=rainbow+bracelet
>>8140178
So your problem is people can't tell you are gay. This implies that you go out and interact with people to some degree. So my question is why would it be difficult for you to go to a piercer and get it done? Save yourself the concern of fucking it up and get it done properly. Treat it as an "overcoming my social retardation" exercise.