How can I pass as a girl when I'm a manly man? I just know I'll never be pretty or passable even as an ugly girl. Meh.
Put on a lot of make-up, wear sunglasses, grow out your hair until it's really puffy, and buy a huge double-breasted trench coat. Cough at every person who walks near you on the street.
>>8230328
Post your body, doesn't have to be naked, but don't wear baggy clothing. We need to see your build.
come to terms with your body and embrace your masculinity. It's much easier to find a girlfriend with a nice masculine body than it is as a transbian hon
When did you find out you were a fucking flaming homo?
>>8230262
the first time my dad hit me
>>8230272
if pic is related, it was probably for the best.
When I started getting called a flaming homo.
homosexuality between old people (30+) is disgusting, prove me wrong
>>8230148
Not for the old people it isn't.
Obv you will think it's gross for people having sex outside of your age group.
>>8230148
Well eventually everyone grows up
>>8230158
but a lot of older gays prefer young people
i'm a bi twink and i'll only date women after gay death (even though it's boring)
Sup fags
Long time homo, been exclusively attracted to males for a long time
I think I'm getting romantically attached to this girl at my university, she's.. I dunno. She's fun, and it feels like some part of me wants to be with her. I don't know how she feels, we're friends and she seems to enjoy my company, but I dunno if it's just as friends; it probably is, right?
But either way, I don't know what to do with this. I tried jerking off over girls but I can't cum, and I think if we did get together.. well I don't know how well it'd go in the bedroom.
What do you fags reckon I should do?
Have some Aztec shit, pic unrelated
Go ahead, anon, date her, fuck her, knock her up, get married and start a family, you piece of shit biscum.
>>8231749
Ouch
>>8230068
Idk I think if there's no sexual attraction then you don't really like her. Without sea a relationship is just a friendship.... at most she'd be like a sister.
I understand you though. I hate men and I wish I was a lesbian.
My life would be so much better if I was a woman who fucked women.
I'm a CIS gay man btw not a creepy AGP. This is more about man hating that fetishising women.
Is AHCA passing going to affect trannies?
Not the ones with jobs aka the ones that deserve to live.
>>8229910
Considering it won't pass the Senate, no
>>8229975
t. increasingly nervous man
I'm thinking of detransitioning, lgbt.
I was assigned female at birth, had gender issues starting at a young age, and eventually developed crippling depression. I transitioned thinking that what I was feeling was dysphoria and that that would cure me. But it didn't help at all. Not only that, but being a gay man is harder than being a woman. I don't hate being a man, but I don't feel like that's who I am. It was just a lie I told myself because it was easier than being miserable for no apparent reason. So now I can either be a short, scrawny man with no dick, or an ugly, hairy woman with no boobs. What great options. And I'll still be unhappy either way.
Not even sure if it's worth it to keep trying anymore. I'm not suicidal but those thoughts do creep into the back of my mind. I'm tired and weary and I want it to be over.
Has anyone ever felt similar? Any advice appreciated.
>>8229870
How far have you transitioned? Time on HRT, what surgery, etc?
What is it that you disliked about being female? What isn't you about being a man?
When you say being a gay man is harder, in what way do you mean?
Ignoring your actual options, if you could choose between being a tall guy with dick and a woman with tits and not masculinized, which appeals most?
I'm sorry to hear that transitioning didn't work out for you. I sort of went through the same thing, but luckily I realized transitioning wasn't what I wanted before I saved up enough money for top surgery.
My advice is to find other detransitioned women (there's a small but growing community on youtube/tumblr, Cari Stella comes to mind) and see what they've posted about their experiences. Detransitioning is totally possible even after top surgery and years of T.
I think a good first step is to look for catalysts of your depression besides your gender situation.
You said transitioning showed you that dysphoria wasn't the only thing that was bothering you, I don't think detransitioning would be a cure-all either. It won't necessarily affect this depression that stayed around after your transition.
So what are some things that make you sad or frustrated besides your regrets about transitioning?
How do gays and lesbians know if they'll be sexually compatible?
Do you ask someone what their preferred "role" is before you consider dating them? Do you just go to bed with them and see what happens? That could get pretty awkward if you both want the same role.
>>8229678
I'm pretty skinny and small and people just seem to expect that I'll be the bottom. I guess that's okay cause I like bottoming.
>>8229678
I'm a switch, I'm compatible with everyone.
>>8229678
Butch/HSTS type lesbians seek out submissive/AGP type lesbians.
The same patters is inverted for gay men.
See the video here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoIM56XlhxM
This transperson seems to have integrated themselves well into a framework that supposedly worked for them. Personally, as a white, cis, almost-bi, male individual, I don't see an issue with this. I think more countries should follow suit. What does /lgbt/ think?
It's interesting considering the Armed Forces is typically perceived as a very masculine force with 'hypermasculine' cis, white men.
>>8229481
The armed forces are for protecting the country, not inclusion. If including women, gays or trannies makes it function worse, then that shouldn't happen. To hell with political correctness.
>>8229578
Gays objectively wouldn't make things worse. Women and trans is debatable if we're talking about the front lines but there are plenty of roles in the military they could fill without any notable difference.
>>8229578
To be honest, if it means additional forces (rather than potentially replacing candidates who could prove to be exceptionally good), then surely all assistance would be welcome? They wouldn't necessarily have to adopt combat roles if they weren't physically equipped either.
I fucked up guys....
I'm a pretty romantic dude, but never had hard feelings for anyone. Few months back I met this adorable Swedish guy on FB. I'm masc4fem, and he was fucking perfect. Eben his voice was adorable and delicate. Only problem being, he was in a relationship with some mega-douche. Well, last night we were talking until 6AM (US Eastern time), and he asked to see my dick. Convo got kinda sexy, but we were all fine after that. Everything seemed fine. I wake up this morning with a message from him saying he'd email me if I got FB banned again (that happens a lot), I tried to respond to hem and....he blocked me. He fuckin' blocked me...
I'm actually kinda sad about this. Worst part, I can't really verbalize my feeling to anyone, being the "strong stoic" veteran type dude everyone knows me as. My chest feels heavy, though....
I'm getting to old to find anyone (29) and he was perfect. Fuck, I hate this.
I know it was fucked because he was dating someone, but it doesn't make it feel any less bad....
>>8229247
RIP (you)
Not that I can sympathize with fem lovers since you ruin my (cute but non fem boy) chances of getting a bf by memeing masc4fem into the normie kind of gay
>>8229247
Get therapy.
You're 29 and chasing people on FB. You're clearly immature and emotionally stunted so I suggest you get professional help.
No shade just friendly advice.
>>8229301
Oh come on now, everyone has a preference...
If, as a bottom, you've always practice safe sex, should there be anything to worry about regarding STD's or HIV?
Waiting on a blood test result and my mind is freaking me the fuck out.
>>8229046
Is your top circumcised?
>>8229078
yep
>>8229046
shameless self bump
i'm shaking with anxiety
Is there a middle ground between early and late transitioners?
>>8228772
enough of this meme you either pass or you don't doesn't matter when you started.
>>8228772
Yes, that's what 95% of the trans people on this board are.
Early: 15 and below
Late: 30+
Middle: Us
Yes, us sad cunts who need to live with our parents because of the economy but our parents don't want it so we have no choice but to live in dysphoria and depression.
Hi /lgbt/!
I am doing some research on starting an NGO (non-government organisation) in India, a honeypot of homophobia, towards helping and spreading awareness about the LGBT cause. What do you all think about where homophobia comes from, how we can tackle it in the smallest ways, and introduce tolerance towards it in a relatively backward and intolerant society? If this goes through, we would be looking at doing talks around the city- where do you think we should go, and what should we address in our talks?
love you all!
>>>bump
>>8228643
>What do you all think about where homophobia comes from
The Judeo-Christian cult.
>what should we address in our talks?
Tell them Bahuchara Mata will curse their children with transgenderism. Hahaha.
>>8228643
It comes from idiots believing in a book written by other humans thousands of years ago. And humans have been misinterpreting this old book ever since and live their entire life centered on it. even though these pages were written in old ass fuck societies that at the time may have had some basis but now don't because times constantly change as humanity progresses and learns how to understand the world instead of explaining unexplained phenomenon by naming it a god. When really its just something science can't figure out yet.
After you realize this and you are a tranny where society constantly judges you for shit they don't understand it makes you dead inside. Please save me OP. I'm just a weak fucking female born with an unfortunate sex development disorder yet people will kill me because of a book that doesn't even say shit about me in it.
>best friend a military hunk
>married with kids
>unfiltered chillbro, lots of fun to hang with
>twink mode fruitcake me
>teases me about teh gay
>"I know you want a lap dance!"
>flashes me the happy trail
>makes thrusting motions and groans
>hugged him on turkeyday
>he gets a handful of my ass
>ha ha just two guys goofin'
>we text each other gay memes 24/7
>today, get sent explicit picture of his junk
>"hey faggot you want some of this?"
H...how do I respond to this? I want to brush this off as jock shock shenigans but deep down I want to say mmm delicious give me some lol, that might diffuse the situation or make things awkward...What does /lgbt/ think
>inb4 kys
Tease him and if he takes it further, berate him for nearly cheating on his wife. Unless he's a shit dad, that would be fucked for the kids.
>>8228545
Go forth, get your muffin stuffed.
>>8228545
Just be super gay about saying you want his cock so in the worst case that he's just some seriously weird straight dude (unlikely) it can just be played of as a joke
How do I get validation from men?
Be a good person that people want to be with.
>>8228430
Let them fuck you
Not even kidding, slutting it up is your good for mental health
>>8231926
Ignore this fuck. This is what a lot of fags do, myself included and it just fucks you up more.
Men can't give you validation, validation comes from within.
Work on building up your self esteem and grow to love yourself.
What's the best way to get a femboy boyfriend?
What kind of guys do femboys like?
>>8228427
>What kind of guys do femboys like?
>>8228531
I'll never get a body like that
>>8228427
>What kind of guys do femboys like?
I like tall muscular hairy uncut dominant masculine men.
Am I a cliche?