>tfw you very almost pass
>tfw it means you would've passed if you started a year or two earlier
>>8242304
I know this feeling all too well
>>8242304
What age did you start?
>>8242304
tfw almost had it all
> incredibly weak chin
> small Adam's apple
> slight hips
> fem eyes
> fem lips
but NINTEEN inch shoulders....
"I WISH....THAT I COULD TURN BACK TIMEEEEEEEEEE"
Hey /lgbt/, I'm a 21 year old female who's identified as lesbian for the past 3 years, although in truth I don't know whether I'm 100% lesbian or bisexual. I really just want to stop being attracted to women altogether. I have found spirituality, God, whatever you want to call it, and I'm scared that this homo life is detrimental to my soul and my mind. At first when I realized I like girls it felt relieving because I felt confused for my feelings towards women. But now I fear God and want to stop. I want to like men more, though to be honest I'm a little embarrassed about dating a guy when so many people knew me as lesbian. But really that's not what bothers me, because right now I'm just not attracted to men enough to start a relationship with one. Sometimes I find mens faces good looking and handsome, and I've had a couple of sexual dreams about men before, but they were quite rare and in real life they translate to nothing. I've never met a man I wanted to date. I don't hate men or anything, in fact I like them a lot and they like me. But I always think about women, especially in my deepest thoughts I have so many erotic and sexual desires for them. I have romantic and lovey-dovey thoughts of them too. The reason why I just can't stand this life anymore is because I will never be able to have children with another woman, or live a normal life with one and I've never even had a relationship with one. I can't see a future with a woman that would be a happy one. It would be filled with loneliness and childlessness.
>>8241909
The gay life is a terrible one. I am blessed to be a woman because I think our sexualities are easier to change. But I don;t know where to start, and I don't know what I'd do if I met a woman in the future who might actually want a relationship with me. I'm torn.
Also I've quit porn and drugs completely, which has helped me to clear my mind. But actually I used to watch mostly straight porn and now my lesbian thoughts are stronger than before.
tl;dr how do I like men more and stop thinking about women? I just want to be normal and happy.
>>8241910
>>8241909
There are drugs to suppress sex drive, which will cause you to essentially be asexual. High dosages of SSRIs, higher than is normally used for depression, can be used to try to suppress sex drive. If that fails, then antigonadotropics, such as GnRH agonists, can be used to shut down the gonads, shutting down the primary source of the sex hormones, shutting down sex drive. If that fails, then try the more strange antipsychotics, the ones most likely to cause lack of sex drive.
Alternatively, go to a psychotherapist and learn to just accept yourself for who you are. In addition, there are interpretations of Christianity that state that homosexuality is fine, for example, by arguing that references to homosexuality in the New Testament refer to some weird religious homosexuality that the Romans were up to. Good luck.
>>8241943
For reference, it is not possible to change sexual orientation itself.
What's /lgbt/'s views on speech impediments, such as whotacisms, lithps, and st-stuttering?
One of my best friends stutters when he gets excited. He used to do it a lot more when we were younger. I mean, I don't dislike it, but I'm not exactly attracted to it either.
Fucking cute honestly
So ive recently become incredibly fascinated with the gay leather/bdsm scene, to the point where im seriously considering trying to get involved in the scene.
Any guys here into this sort or thing and have any advice or know any resources where i could get more information?
http://www.leatherviews.com/cols/search2.asp
I found this website which has a collection of blogs the author has written over a few years from the late 90s. It was fascinating and really opened my eyes to the legitimacy of bdsm, the master/slave relationship, the social aspect of the community, and polyamory. I really dont know what to think anymore, specifcally as it relates to me. Its really made me think about the mindset of people who have nsa sex but in a very mature and self-aware way. Kinda made me feel like it would be good for me to be more sexually active.
Idk leather scene thread i guess.
>>8241759
>Any guys here into this sort or thing and have any advice
Don't. You'll only waste your money. Just learn how to tie rope.
I guess im also interested in discussion of the gay scene as a social construct. Guys meet on scruff, may or may not have sex, and make friends with the same guys. Sex is seen as a fun recreational activity and the lines arent really blurred, theyre more or less nonexistent. These guys are very open and honest with who they are and what they do with each other and i think thats kinda cool.
>>8241759
BDSM is gross and a gateway to serious venereal diseases.
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• Size charts:http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
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• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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Tanya is beautiful thread
korra x seiryu thread!
who here bi-poly-switch masterrace?
Bonus points if trans, but only non-ops.
BI ONLY TOP MASTER RACE HERE, KYS SWITCH!
>>8241682
>poly
you are cancer
At first I think, meh, she's got no hips. I kind of look like that but then it's damn you god! Why does my ass not look like that!! Is there a way to enhance my butt?
I actually have this problem as well: Big plump butt but absolutely no hips at all.
Will HRT transform me like that or is this a plastic surgery option or as MtF's, are we just fucked?
>>8241383
I can see her starfish.
How long does it take for tits to become round and shapely?
I am 2yrs in and my "tits" are just two enormous nipples with itty bitty bit of fat on each side but absolutely nothing underneath, like I can feel bones or whatever when I place my finger where my nipples ends.
Is this because I have always had a skinny/thin body frame?
Gain weight
>>8241077
Have you tried Progestrone? Seriously it helps so much for breast growth
>>8241123
Well I am on cypro which is like 100 times more progesteronic than progesterone but still no luck.
My endo also called prog a meme and didn't want to prescribe me that tbqh.
so not sure if I came to the right place but here's go. So I'm a guy, not romantically attracted to men, but for a long time now I've found my self thinking about bottoming for another guy. The only thing I'm attracted to on a guy is his package. So basically trying to see if I should explore my sexuality or just ignore my thoughts.
>>8240791
Just buy a dildo, ffs.
Remember, flared bottom so your dick-hungry ass doesn't swallow it whole and send you to the hospital.
Try bottoming 3 different times . That way you know for sure if you like it or not
The first time generally doesn't feel good, but afterwards you'll want more.
By the 3rd time you'll know if you're a bottom or not, and that doesn't mean you're gay.
Just go on grindr, put looking for dick in your profile and you can pick which cock makes your mouth water. Or Craigslist works just as well. use a condom though man, plenty of lube
>>8240987
Dick feels a lot different than a dildo,
Curious as to what you guys think of this?
It was really sad.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6jSppwMxUB4
It was planned
Reading this thread I was genuinely surprised that the show is still producing episodes... 'cuz, I mean... who gives a shit?
Can't believe the dude let the episode air. I mean, I guess it would've leaked from someone, but shit. I'd have been mortified. He looks like an ftm too.
Link appropriated the struggles of transwomen by misgendering a trans character and putting on transface by wearing her clothing.
https://www.pastemagazine.com/articles/2017/03/how-breath-of-the-wild-failed-us-when-it-comes-to.html
Fatshame Vaati and I'll scream at you.
>cishet while upperclass woman complaining about [thing] being problematic.
>>8240744
>transface
Do you need dysphoria to be trans?
being "trans" without dysphoria is called drag.
>>8240430
Yes.
Recreational hrt users sets back all of lgbt's rights everytime they are seen in public.
>>8240430
Dysphoria is a possible result of being trans in an unaccepting environment or can be unrelated to being trans.
Hi y'all. I'm MTF & I'm worried about how hormones will affect my mood. I'm at university and I'm transitioning through the national healthcare system in my country. I'm worried that the stress of the drugs will mess up my studies - I've worked very hard to get to where I am academically so I don't want it to go down the drain for the sake of growing small boobs and a slight butt. Should I be worried? I take supplementary vitamins regularly so I'm used to the routine of taking pills, though none with the effects of hormones.
>>8240295
>got A2 levels coming up soon
>just started HRT
I've heard that people were only able to get their Ph.Ds because they've went on HRT and I've never heard of anyone being unable to academia after HRT. I'm worried the mood swings might affect my motivation/ability to cram but both were pretty shit anyway. I think you're worrying too much OP. Are you really not going to bother with HRT even if by some small chance it made studying harder?
>>8240295
ask in >>>/lgbt/lgbtuk
It improved my mood a lot overall, they work as an antidepressant. They do make you much more moody and emotional though. It won't fuck up your studies.
I have this problem where I want to be a girl all day and have dysphoria but as soon as I start imagining social interactions as a girl, mainly being this typical femme, I start thinking "ugh no thanks" and have doubts if I am even transgender?
I am not AGP even though I am attracted to girls, I don't get erect when drressing or imagining myself as a girl, but I only knew I was probably trans since puberty, I was never girly either.
It doesn't help that I think that I'll never find a partner if I transition
You don't have to be femme to be a girl. Be a butch transbian.
>>8240193
What the other Anon said. Women aren't all stereotypically feminine. If you have dysphoria that qualifies you.
>>8240193
https://sillyolme.wordpress.com/faq-on-the-science/
Why shouldn't I die?
Even pre-t I still have it better than most FtMs yet I still don't want to live.. With small proportions and never being able to have a penis, plus a majority of other things that cannot be fixed.
I also think I'll never be able to come out to my extended family. I pretended to be a girly girl all my life to make them happy, and even now that I am presenting more masculine I still force myself to wear girl clothes and makeup when visiting them. It's hell. I honestly never think I'll be happy and although half of my problems are "temporary" they're bad enough right now that it doesn't matter if they're gone in five years.
>>8239887
How did you want to be masculine when you forced yourself to present as a girly girl instead? What treatment made you not let yourself be masculine?
You can visit your family "presenting as a girl" without going over the top. Androgynous clothes and no makeup for example.
Do you even see them much?
>>8239887
T is fucking magic OP. You can be a small guy. There are small men. Push through. Fuck the haters. Push through. Make your way. Grab happiness by the throat.
Why doesn't your family accept you for who you are?
>>8240034
I'm 5'7 so on the Ftm scale that's pretty tall. It's just my small hands and feet and the fact I'll never be taller (likely) and the dick thing.. I don't want to live in this body. I know there are more important things but this is overpoweringly negative.
>>8239974
I have to see them maybe 10-15 times a year. I know it's not healthy to lie and force myself to wear makeup, but it's what I've always done and I'm too scared of judgment. They're extremely conservative and I know they wouldn't accept me