>You're alone at home
>It's dark out and raining something fierce
>There's a knock at the door
>If able, you peep out, or just open the door to see a man there
>Upon closer inspection, you pick out details
>Tall, broad shoulders, wide chest, muscular physique, strong jaw
>An undercut and full beard drenched by the rain
>He asks politely if he may come in and use your phone, his is dead
>He tells you it's to call a friend to come get him since his car broke down on the way home
>For whatever reason you allow him in and he makes his call
>Says it's going to be awhile
>He then asks, reluctantly, if he can use your shower and anything he can dry his clothes with, as not to catch a cold
>Again, for whatever reason, you say yes and he goes about doing so
>He comes out later and is about to put his shirt on but not before you catch a good look at his ink
>SS bolts on his chest, runes on his upper arm
>His friend arrives and he thanks you for everything, giving you his number, says you're really nice, wouldn't mind talking agan and leaves
>You hit the hay and start fresh in the morning
What is your next course of action in the days ahead?
>>8241908
that wouldn't be how it plays out because i'd be riding his dick for hours that night.
you lack initiative
When he gives me his number I say "What are you, a faggot?" loud enough for his friend to hear.
>>8241908
I probably wouldn't do anything because real life isn't some /polgbt/ fantasy
>>8241897
Everyone's best years are over eventually.
>>8241971
Everyone wishes for youth again. Everyone doesn't get what they wanted from life.
>tfw checking my mans texts (he's latino, btw)
>see a text from this black transgender woman
>im frightened by how ugly she looks
>she's telling him "i miss being with you" and sent this photo
>he's only said "hey" back to her so far
If my bf had sex with this revolting mtf I'm breaking up and going to the STD clinic asap. How do I get the truth out of him?
>>8240662
So what are you? A cis man, cis man, cis woman, or MtF?
>>8240662
Your bf wanted sum of dat BBC.
I just had sex for the first time. I received and gave and we were both protected but I'm still worried about the risk of HIV. How probable is it? The condoms never broke but I'm scared because we had unprotected oral too.
Unprotected oral is very unlikely to transmit HIV unless you have a cut in your mouth and a bodily fluid of theirs got in.
>>8240394
I got some precum in my mouth.
>cut in your mouth
Such as? I bite/peel my lips often
did you put your penis inside of her?
Since no one seems to agree on the subject, i decided to ask specialists about it.
So, /lgbt/ let's settle this once and for all - are traps gay?
>>8238387
yes
Not necessarily
The "trap" kink seems to encompass otherwise hetero cis men, trans people, cis people with trans partners, and self-identified gay men.
What it means to you and what else you actually do is more relevant to determining your "true" sexual identity.
How do I get a bearmode bf?
Are bears less common than twinks?
How about a bearmode GF tho???
>>8237420
>How about a bearmode GF tho???
You mean butch?
4chan's first transgender mascot recently turned 10. So I'm gonna dump what remains of her epic story. Bump if reading.
(Pic not me)
So I am a lesbian and I am now currently dating a girl who wants to trans over to a man. Now still being a lesbian I am in full support of him (she prefers to be identified as a he) being a man and would still go out with them. Now my question is, would it be contradictory if I a lesbian female, continued to date a transgender female? its been something that's been kind of bothering the back of my head but I never brought it up with my partner.
>>8236602
Absolutely not. Honestly, follow your heart and fuck everyone else. And it's absolutely valid to feel weird about sex post-op too. Communication is obviously vital. You do You, and let love live.
>>8236617
At the same time I am not attracted to men.....I do have some mixed feelings about this. I feel like I would be lying to myself as a lesbian. Even if I still love them I don't think I could consider myself a lesbian anymore.
>>8236602
Not at all, because like all trans people, she is actually still her birth sex. If it makes her feel better about herself, call her "him" to make her feel better about herself. If you like, you can think of it as an extended roleplaying session.
obviously mtfs transition to escape male disprivilege but why do ftms transition?
>>8235017
well yeah that's basically what dysphoria is.
>>8234936
i don't think the feminism islam thing works for converts
>>8234936
they want to join the winning team
Are trans people destined to be unhappy all their life? I feel like no matter what I do I'm unhappy. Honestly even if my life played out the best way it could I would end up with some chaser that only likes me because I have a penis and I wouldn't even be able to have kids. I don't know I'm probably just depressed.
There are some happy trans people out there, but even they aren't happy all the time. Still, they exist. Not everyone who are attracted to transwomen are chasers.
Good luck OP. Persevere.
Only highly delusional trans people can be happy.
If you have even a drop of self awareness you're fucked.
Best to distract yourself with hobbies to think of it as little as possible.
>>8227830
Bullshit. Some turn out perfectly fine.
Imagine that we could create a world in which very feminine boys were not persecuted by other children and their parents allowed them to play however they wanted.
Do we really think that boys with GID would have the same significant rate of transsexual outcome that they do in our crueler, less tolerant world?
As much as I would like to arrange such a world, I think that it might well come with the cost of fewer transsexual adults.
>>8224456
idk if you want a scientific answer look up the rates of transsexuality in sweden or nordic countries and compare it to the US or some other less tolerant western countries.
>>8224456
Yes because nobody wants to become a gorilla boddied hon like the guy in your picture
>whines about people persecuting others
>persecutes others on /lgbt/
fuck off trans scum.
Tattoo and body art edition
Previous thread: >>8202572
Transition timelines:
http://helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com/tagged/tc
Bottom surgery info:
http://gendercube.tumblr.com/
Passing guide for AAPs:
http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/
Old sites, but still great one-stop-shops for FTM information:
http://ftmguide.org/
http://thetransitionalmale.com
>>8222066
Do you guys consider branding body art?
>>8222101
I have a brand. and yes.
>>8222103
I have several, DIY.
Rule #1 - No tripfagging, no namefagging.
Rule #2. Section A - Don't respond to shit posters or namefags/tripfags.
Rule #2. Section B - Report shitposters.
Rule #3 - Post bara dudes
>zeemaps
https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1904853
>tiny chat:
tc/mascgen
> /fit/ sticky
http://liamrosen.com/fitness.html
> Husbando Mode Pastebin (mostly meant for Intermediate lifters)
http://pastebin.com/fmyJtHVM (embed) (embed) (embed) (embed)
I want a bf without having to go through all the hassle of dating and stuff. I just want to be at the comfortable bf stage where we cuddle all day and make breakfast naked and when one of us farts we just laugh.
Rule #4 Section A - Rules are for fatties and dramaqueens.
Rule #4 Section B - Real masc guys don't follow the rules.
>>8219839
You can only get that if you're filthy rich.
>be me
>13 year old MtF
>hyper feminine and always pretty GNC
>want to come out to parents but fear they'll think I'm a freak or kick me out
>think they're conservative my whole childhood, ignoring the fact that they always voted Democrat
>age 14
>still regularly pass for female
>mom randomly asks me one day, "anon, do you want to be a girl?"
>freak the fuck out and think she was trying to get me to admit my degeneracy
>deny it and begin repressing
>years later at 20, can no longer repress and start transitioning
>by now, ultra masc and unpassable
>come out
>parents say they knew and would've supported you back then
>now I want to kms
Fuck. Give me one reason I shouldn't just kill myself right now.
Same story, except they asked me at age 13.
Started at ~20, now 22. Got ffs recently. Uncanny weird looking creature now :) the pain will never end
>>8200082
Do you think just getting brow and rhino will eliminate uncanniness? I'd love to fix my jaw and stuff but I think I'd prioritize looking less uncanny and distinct over going full agp
>>8200085
Dunno really without a picture, depends from face to face. (don't actually post one, you know why)
Basically i looked like 15 at 20, like a young boy already, cute boy.
I Had forehead type 1 done, hairline lowering, chin and jaw shave.. There's nothing left which would be considered male, yet I still puke when I see my reflection. Something's just off and I cant pinpoint it.
>what ffs you should get first
If you want to get ffs, a smooth chin and jawline is the most important to passing then brow bossing.
Didn't get my nose done because its rather small, if I will then only for beauty reasons. Dont know how bad yours is tho
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How many generals do you bastards need?
>>8182256
this is your first time here?
>>8182256
140 :^)