Trans men and women, having experiences being treated as a male and as a female, what differences have you noticed between how the sexes get treated by others?
>>8218949
mtf. it's pretty much what you'd expect. people are weirdly nice to you, but you have to put up with creepy af dudes. 8/10 would transition again.
>>8219014
I don't totally know because I never really conformed to a male role. There was a huge amount of pressure to conform - to be tough and masculine - with a threat of violence if I didn't. Once I transitioned I could be my feminine self and blend in without pressure.
Dealing with creeps is definitely an issue and I was in a scary situation where a chikan was groping me. On the other hand I feel I get more positive attention and people are more helpful now. Crying can get sympathy rather than scorn. While people are more willing to help me, they are less likely to want my help and my opinion.
>>8219244
>There was a huge amount of pressure to conform - to be tough and masculine - with a threat of violence if I didn't.
What behavior exactly did they want and what were the threats, physical and otherwise?
how to spot regressing trannies?
>>8215725
Do you mean trannies suffering from psychological regression?
>>8215741
maybe, explain it
>>8215751
the word is repressed.
also you cant. i am one and i camoflafe perfectly as a somewhat misrable male. but male none the less.
however if anyone did sherlock me and figure it out. i would beat the shit out of them
FAQ
>What is a fem?
An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Most are gay.
>Are fem guys trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
>Can I be a fem?
It's possible. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
>Should I go on HRT?
You'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. There's more info in the pastebin.
>Is liking fems considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
>Spammers?
Begin cute anime boy dump.
>Pastebin?
http://pastebin.com/9Ab1SpRE
>Wiki?
https://madgenderscience.miraheze.org/wiki/Main_Page
>Discord?
http://discord.gg/faBYaap
>Eurofem for European femboys
https://discord.gg/wAVZseQ
the discord rules say
>be European
i'm a britbong does that count?
>>8215772
Why, yes ofcourse
>>8215906
I feel like an EU joke could be made out of this
Would you say feminism or mens rights are more important for trans people (transmen and transwomen) and why?
None. They are both full of crap.
>>8207325
All that image tells me is that the creator is very easy to rape.
>>8207499
and why?
The concepts of male and female socialization keep coming up in trans topics.
What gender socialization have you seen, as you were growing up or later, or used on others? From parents, other kids, teachers/schools, society in general?
My parents and friends were good to me. From the 5th grade to halfway through high school they let me have really long hair, I started to dress pretty gay in high school too. I used to wear very short shorts and two or three times I used school presentations as an excuse to wear a skirt. I went to a liberal school in a liberal city.
I just grew out of it, but that's a little too simple to say. When I finally cut my hair and quit dressing like that the response from my peers who were neutral to me before became waaay friendlier. So positive reinforcement of a male acting masculine is a thing, but I don't knock it all up to that anyway. I think I was living in a delusional state. I used to think I was cute like an anime girl or jpop idol. I look back on photos of me during that time and cringe. I was soo tall (Just under 6'), grotesquely skinny (even when women are skinny, they usually have more bodyfat than men giving them a plump/soft look) and my hair was in a state of tragedy. It is soft and wavy when it's short, but given time to grow out it gets dry and frizzy.
I hope I'm not derailing, I just typed the first paragraph and then got interested and kept typing. I'm glad I got "male socialized," though, i guess unsurprisingly. I'm a much more successful person this way, I think. For instance, when I was younger, I desired to play the female role in social and romantic situations. But what the fuck good is that? All that *means* is downplaying yourself, putting others first, and taking the backseat. I think I'm a smart person so I prefer to take charge or copilot during school assignments + in dating/flirting I find that with my height and build, guys see me more readily as someone to lean on/be lead by so why not be that person? It's cute to make a guy feel safe and protected.
>>8170877
That's very interesting. What kind of friendliness did you get from your peers when you presented more masculine? Why did you stop the short shorts and long hair in high school? How did teachers and other adults treat you for your presentation?
When did you switch away from the female role socially/romantically?
Neat that even as a woman now you're better off for that "male socialization" when interacting with guys.
>>8170903
Ok there seems to be a smidge of confusion here. I am a man *now* LOL. I've never not been a man. When I was younger, the idea of trans didn't appeal to me because I liked my penis. If asked what my future was going to look like then, I would have figured I would grow up as a twink and just indulge in crossdressing from time to time for fun.
And now I see the confusion. I didn't go from normal --> GNC. I went from GNC ---> normal.
What are your sexual fantasies /lgbt/?
The things you dream of to relieve your gender dysphoria or because you aren't out of the closet or they are simply fantasies that could never be true. The things you read erotica about.
Anything is fine, no matter how simple or convoluted. Mention which one you like to imagine being if you describe a scene with a sub and a Dom or something.
>>8170366
Being the cute chubby lesbian wife of a fit dominant cis lesbian who slaps me and pulls my hair whenever I say bad things about myself.
>>8170366
Alien abduction, mostly. They teach me their culture, integrate me into life on the ship and eventually someone and I take a liking to each other. The details vary, but that's the gist. And then I never return to Earth or, if I do, I return as a genetically modified ambassador. It's mostly a romantic fantasy. A sexual component is there, but unspecific. I've been hurt enough that I would prefer to reject the whole of this rock and its inhabitants. Not being edgy or anything, that's just what I dream about.
>parents won't pay for gay conversion therapy
>they just keep saying I should be proud of who I am
>tfw don't know how
help me please
>>8263231
just be really obnoxious about being gay and they'll get you the help you need.
e.g. talk about the yummy cummies your big black boyfriend is giving you every night at the table and you should be golden
>>8263231
You asked for that, why?
>>8263231
Just treat yourself with conversion DVD off the internet. Get a PO box if your parents will see them in the mail.
birdy is repressed edtion
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
• Size charts:http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
previous >>8260576
birdy needs to stop the repression and transition soon before the hairloss starts
>>8262153
rude
xth for is it possible to reach orgasm just from nipple stimulation
asking for a friend
If attraction to MtFs and FtMs is a distinct sexual orientation of its own, then is pansexuality now a legitimate term? What becomes of the word bisexual, wouldn't a heterosexual and GAMP man be bisexual, but also a heterosexual and homosexual, but not GAMP man?
If being attracted to MtF/FtM is a legitimate orientation, then MtF/FtM are not legitimately F/M, but would be separate.
I think "pansexual" is actually kind of offensive since it's pretty much just another word for "chaser" or "fetishizer"
>>8261986
>then MtF/FtM are not legitimately F/M, but would be separate.
I mean anyone who isn't dumb understands that trannies are a kind of intersex imo
>I think "pansexual" is actually kind of offensive since it's pretty much just another word for "chaser" or "fetishizer"
I don't mind someone saying "I like trannies too" though, also I don't think its fetishistic, its a legitimate attraction.
>>8261998
>imo
no doubt
I'm a cis gay guy, and I see FtM as legit men, imo.
I don't see any reason to attach a new label on myself. It just seems like some kind of special snowflake value signalling for people who don't really get it but think they are being "super progressive".
>it's the best orientation
>>8260905
But I am.
who isn't these days?
>>8260905
Because although I love women and I much prefer them to men generally, the idea of having sex with one physically repulsed me.
Like even the idea grosses me out.
I also really enjoy being gay, like I wouldn't even want to be straight.
do men have it worse?
pic related, a young man talking about how men are less privileged.
only passable ftms answer pls
>>8260898
I really hope she wasn't lying and she actually hasn't gotten FFS, or else I have lost all faith in it.
>>8260947
yah i mean that chin just got covered in fat guiisee, also theryn meyer said she had procedures done but deleted her tweet
1/2
>>8261003
shes evidently lying. check her old vidyas and new vidyas.
Explain to me
>is beeing otherkin a real thing
>do you do accept them if so
>>8260763
No, it's just people being retarded online.
They're just furries in denial, kinda like people who label themselves as "Zootopians" and create characters that totally aren't fursonas.
why the fuck is this screenshot from android 2.2
ITT; we pretend we are LGBT from LEDDIT
>>8260682
i can't believe they desecrated that map's corpse
>>8260682
upboat if you wwant to buttfuck all the wweird little the midgets on game of thrones lmao XD
Hello, r/transpassing ;). I've been on HRT for 3 months already, do I pass? I'm so happy I can be the woman I always wanted to be now ^-^".
Only dumb assholes post here edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Reducing Muscle http://www.trans-health.com/2001/lose-muscle-gain-fat-dieting-for-mtfs/
• Size charts:http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
Previous thread >>8259296
RIP ash
>>8260582
nice try Drake
hi
How many women (straight and lesbian) are willing to fuck a tranny?
>>8260189
Probably no straight women and for lesbians I think it's heavily contingent on whether they still have a dick or not and how passable they are.
Obviously everyone is going to have a different answer and I'm sure some girls are into that.
>>8260189
I've heard a lot of stories of GFs sticking around even after their partner's transition, so it is definitely possible there are some straight ones who would.
>>8260214
It also depends on what OP means by fuck. PIV sex is an absolute no-go for me, but if I met a cute MTF and we got along, I'd be willing to use my hands or mouth or a strap-on to get her off.