It's probably better than not transitioning and killing myself later on in life right? Or am I at the age where it just doesn't matter if I wait 5 more years since I'm already fucked?
>>8264078
Genetics matter as much as age. Some people transitioned at your age or later and turned out fine.
>>8264083
I have no hopes for myself given I have bdd. Is 24 better than like 26 or 27 in terms of what HRT will do?
>>8264140
Yes absolutely. Men continue to age until they hit andropause
>age, orientation
>do you watch too much anime y/n?
Juukyuusai no geina otoko da.
Maa, miru kedo misuginai darou...
20, gay man
no i watch just the right amount
>>8264064
84, due north
Only corey in da house and other Disney television shows
I'm too fucking cynical to be a girl.
>>8263796
Girls can become cynical after trauma, it's understandable. Also, there are some famous cynical girls in fiction, like Daria and Enid.
>>8263796
id fuk the shit out of your cynical ass
>>8263796
Elaborate?
As self-loathing biscum here, yes.
>>8263773
Why comrade?
Yes bisexuality is an inconvenience but it sure as hell beats being gay
How exactly did a faggot, which has pic related shows more traditionally refers to a bundle of sticks, become an anti-gay slur?
>>8263683
Hitler
>>8263683
In the medieval ages, gay men were thrown onto a bonfire during public executions, as one would toss on bundles of sticks onto a fire, hence the name.
people used to throw bundles of sticks onto bonfires as kindling. Gay men were also commonly burned at the stake.
Drinking edition
What's your pleasure?
Discord link https://discord.gg/e9g8HnM.
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>>8263623
May be finding a job and moving out of my parent's house soon. Like, in a week or so.
Can't wait to start fucking freely again.
>>8263720
good on you
I'm just graduating in two weeks
>>8263623
Jägermeister
>tfw exam term
>tfw can't have any alcohol
>just have to look forward to the week after my final exam
So according to /tttt/'s top scientists ( https://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/thread/8249080/#q8255792 ) your hips stop getting wider at 16. After that they only get bigger and bigger and that's about it.
>"b-b-but I started at 17 and now I have childbearing hips!!!"
Sure you do, hon.
>>8263379
Must feel bad for people who started at 21.
>>8263452
>tfw started at 21 but had naturally big hips anyway
thanks genes
>>8263452
More like 15-99.
It doesn't matter whether you transition at 16 or 61, your hips are still going to be shit due to missing the crucial hips widening window. (according to our scientists tbqh)
How do the """late onset suffering""" males here reconcile being the very people who were the tormentors and abusers of HSTSes/legitimate effeminate MTFs throughout their childhood and teenage years?
Why do you expect them to accept you and respect you now?
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>>8263056
I started crossdressing during puberty, so I'm not late onset.
I got bullied by early transitioners in middle school.
I'm a bisexual man, but don't feel like a member of the LGBT community. I feel like I need to tread lightly and word things carefully to not hurt the feelings if an LGBT person. I feel like an outsider, and don't know how to approach gay and bisexual men, I only know how to talk to women. How can I make myself feel more like I belong?
>>8262855
I'm in the exact same boat OP, except I am better talking to men than women, generally
Nice dubs
>>8262866
It is good to hear that I am not alone at least, thank you. So are you a guy? If so, how do you treat men that you are interested in? Maybe we can derive something from each other.
Really? I'd imagine lgbt would be thrilled to have you, since it's more common for bisexuals to disengage from rather than engage.
But to start, I'd say make your presence known when it comes to lgbt organizations or pride parades.
How much does HRT change your face? Can you go from unpassable with long hair and makeup to passable? And i mean this for post puberty people (20+)
>>8262451
makeup hair and weight loss can go a long way. as far as I can tell all hormones really do is make you gain weight like crazy.
>>8262473
thermodynamical impossible, think about it. Increased appetite is also not a common thing, it depends. New tissue tends to go to your hips, your face, your chest. Maybe thats why you get the feeling of 'gaining weight'
Only with increased caloric intake weight gain is possible. The changes will also be more prominent in that case
>>8262787
>Only with increased caloric intake weight gain is possible
This is true, but estrogen also slows metabolism considerably, so energy expenditure is much slower. And it does increase caloric intake; most report greatly raised appetites on estrogen.
>start social transitioning
>look like a hon, but hopefully hormones will save me
>guy at work who looks like obelix (pic related for uneducated burgers) comes up to me
>"i'm trans too, i'm ftm"
>he's been working there for a year
>i never noticed the signs but they're obvious now
>tfw i'm second rate garbage in his passing glory
I never thought this would be the second worst experience apart from meeting an early transitioner. Testosterone is fucking cheating.
D8 him
>>8262304
I'm not a lesbian.
>>8262262
What was the experience with meeting an early transitioner?
Olenna Tyrell is the grandmother every gay man wants.
>>8262222
Theon/Ramsay scenes make me rise again harder and stronger if you know what I'm talking about
>>8262222
She's also the girlfriend every /CLG/ poster wants.
>>8262222
Lies.
I love my sweet, loving, caring, generous, charitable and beautiful in every way grandmother.
The other one's a bit more Tyrellish but I don't love her as much.
Hi /lgbt/. I'm a gay guy and a few weeks back started hrt. It seems to be becoming a trend for people like me to start hrt, not doing it for dysphoric reasons but rather cosmetical ones. I wouldn't consider myself trans and although there are probably things about me that could count as symptoms of dysphoria, I'm fairly sure most of it is just coming out of me being a naturally subby fag rather than dysphoric since I have never really felt like a girl trapped in a male body or anything. I'm also not agp by definition. However, being femmy is my idea of being desirable despite being attracted to actual men. Seeing cute femboys and traps fills me with jealousy which is probably one of the main reasons I resorted to something as drastical as hrt. I have above average genetics to be femmy and I know there is a lot I could achieve just be sheer effort alone and I do try a lot but it feels that no matter what, people who actually do hrt are doing something extra to become what is my ideal that I strive for and are always going to come out on top. As silly as it may sound, if I didn't start hrt I would just keep feeling obsolete and left behind. There is also the part that I'm really scared of male aging and if I get to choose between being a middle aged man or a middle aged manwoman freak, I'll probably pick suicide although there is some chance that I'll not end up '''''completely''''' terrible looking after years of hrt and I'll probably look more desirable atleast for the next few years than I would otherwise.
And apparently my post is too long so I'll continue below.
Anyway, my point is that I have noticed it becoming a trend with a lot of people like me. Trying to make themselves more desirable through very drastical means of hrt and possibly since it feels like it's the only way. Either play with your biology and mess up your life or start feeling obsolete and unwanted under the flood of more and more guys estrogenising themselves. It's starting to feel like a competition and it's scary but I don't really see a way out of this meme.
>>8261968
I hope to god your only taking bicalcumide and estrogen OP as those combos wont break your dick. also add a serm to block boob growth.
Btw OP I grew up as an emo twink cam whore so was pretty much jelly of all the cute fembois in my life I even envied traps like bailey jay, bee armitage etc. aspired to be as pretty as bill kaulitz, yohio. obsessed over bl manga self inserting as the uke. Now I took full doses of hormones and it broke my dick and gave me cone tits cause biccalcumide was not a thing 3 years in im saving for ffs have switched to bicca and am hoping to retain my youth a bit longer but honestly if biccalcumide was a thing when I was a teen I would have swallowed those pills so fucking fast I even had a delayed puberty for maximum effectiveness did get hair on my face or body til 22
glad im not alone and there are other gaymen who think this way tho.
>>8262160
I don't think I care if my dick gets broken or not. I'm on spiro but I'll switch to Bica soon for different reasons.
>talking to QT cis grill
>relationships come up
>"it's okay anon I'm sure you'll find a girl who likes pretty boys
>mfw I'm 5 years deep into transition
>mfw I don't even look anything like a guy
>tfw she broke muh heart
How can a passable, self sustaining, go with the flow, trans girl like me find a gf that won't just see me as some "pretty boy" ?
u dont
Cut off ur dick tbdesu with you fampaitachi.
>>8261830
Hahaha I would have killed her right there
Is this a real guy or am i being catfished?
>>8261549
Wtf are you even asking?
And why is your battery on 7%?
I freak out when my phone approaches 50
I put battery saver on when it's at like 90 lol
>>8261549
Looks handsome as fuck if that's really the guy's picture.
>look like crap
>take 500 pics of myself before I can get one that makes me look like a half-decent human
>get messages from cute guys
>ignore them because I know my pics are false advertising
>the one time I don't ignore one the guy ends up being my boyfriend for 2 years
>mfw it was a crappy relationship and I'm glad it's over