I'm a straight cis man that enjoys crossdressing but everyone assumes I'm gay or transgender due to the spread of LGBT shit. Just like rainbows, you've ruined this for me too.
>compete sub, into crossdressing
>never expressed interest in girls because I am a weak bitch
>everyone thinks I'm gay
>only ever hit on by men
>pretty sure my family thinks I'm gay
>browse /lgbt/ to test myself
Alright. I have a small little problem, but it's killing me. First of all I'll state the facts: I'm bi, born with a vagina and my friends is, and I quote, “nonbinary, gay, pansexual, demiboy, asexual, maybe aromantic, trans”.
And that's where the problem begins. I actually know what these things mean, and I have no problem with my friend using those to find and describe himself but I think some of those just fucking contradict each other. I firmly believe in LGBT but the various queer shit and other things seem like a stretch to me. My friend was born a female and considers transitioning, although his main focus would be getting rid if the tits and going to a trans specified clinic for now. And I'm happy for him you know. I'm glad he gets to express himself, but at some point I think we get lost in what is sex what is gender and social gender constructs and what is just plain personality.
How can one be pansexual and asexual at the same time. How can one be a demiboy (which for me is just acting more masculine) and then trans at the same time?
Also can one be gay (he wants dick) but then be fully female bodied. Does sex and gender fucking collide here?
Another question to discuss if you don't care about above:
Do you think gender binary should be reinforced aka there is female and male and you can transition, or should everyone be his own person, no girly or boyish shit?
I think it's culturally motivated aka gender norms are a social construct in some ways, but not entirely.
inb4 You're just transphobic
I'm not a fan of the "identity arms race" going on, but as long as people don't get pissed at me because I haven't memorized the latest 500 terms, we're good. For the sake of everyone's sanity, I think 5 widely recognized genders would be enough:
- Queer (covers everything else)
Just let your friend identify how he wants and ignore the labels: He is obviously just trying to defend himself.
Most people are going to identify as either male or female but that doesn't mean we should try to prevent other people from placing themselves somewhere between genders.
Androgyny is real and some people like to incorporate feminine as well as masculine behaviors and modes of dress into their identity.
Should we discourage this for the sake of a "social construct"?
I would say no.
They aren't hurting anyone with their behavior.
Let them live their lives according to the dictates of their own conscience.
I hope this motivates you to be a kind and supportive friend.
Why do you stupid trannies go on r9k and mention you're a tranny in every single fucking thread? No one cares that you're a tranny, stop exclaiming it to everyone and making it the only part of your identity. You're not a fembot, just a mentally ill disturbed man seeking attention. You guys are incredibly annoying so please never leave this containment board ever again.
So I plan on coming out to my parents as trans this weekend. Got any tips or stories? I know people will say don't do it, but if they wont accept me oh well it's better that I know.
Parents are both in their 50's they've loved me unconditional so far in my life, but I don't know if that extends to being trans. They aren't religious or conservative, although my mom supported trump since she wanted the wall because shes mad she has paid taxes for 35 years and illegals don't have to. My mom works with a gay person and is fine with him at work, but has made comments on the way I used to dress, things like "you look kinda faggy" and such. I don't really know with my dad though, hes said some really mean things about gays jokingly.
So my insurance will cover FFS where can I go in the US that wont fuck my face up?
I'm too afraid to transition because I would have to tell my parents about it either before or at the start of transitioning. I just can't seem to get the courage to tell them so I can either self med or go to the informed consent clinic. I would much rather tell them than have them get a box from inhousepharmacy look inside and see estrogen pills because they are nosey as hell and will look through my mail. I've been putting it off for months because I'm too afraid to just tell them. How can I get over my fear of telling them? What is the best way to tell parents? I'm not gonna get kicked out for this but they probably would be mad over it.
Just get a PO box to send the pills to and self-med in secret until you feel more comfortable. It'll have the bonus effect of showing your parents you're really serious about this and it's too late not to transition whenever you finally really do come out.
It will be fine you fucking coward I did it just fine. Just call up your local post office, ask what you need to do to get a PO box, do that, and then ship your pills there. Easy-peasy.
I can do girl voice, but why am i afraid to do it infront of people?
Always hear about trans people being involed in drugs or prostitution and what a huge problem this is in the trans community, but every trans person on this bored seems like they're just lonely autists who sit at home and play vidya all day. So just wondering where all the hood trannys at?
>pic unrelated it's just some cis femboy.
I live in nyc and looking on craigslist, there are tons of trans prostitutes that live in the hood and are black. These are just the opposite types of people as the average 4chan user.
>These are just the opposite types of people as the average 4chan user.
Makes sense, I ask because I'm currently broke and about to be homeless and thinking about going down this dark path to survive.
make yourself as a gf edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts:http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
>less than 50% of 13-20 year olds identify as heterosexual
Is this your end game? To turn the whole world gay?
Cis Lesbian General (/clg/): matchmaker edition
Its summer, and theres still alot of you who are >tfw no gf
But its okay, I'm gonna fix you all up with a qt!! just mail me a postdated check for $39.99, and you'll get paired with your very own 3D PD waifu!!!!
JUST KIDDING (in case that wasn't so overtly obvious)
single anons, you should see if you can find yourself a gf here though. whats the point of a lesbian only thread if we can't have a giant happy lesbian orgy? post a selfie or something.
For Everyone else
>whats your favorite quality about your gf?
>what is your gf's favorite quality of yours?
>are you inviting us to your wedding, and if not, why are you such a selfish bitch?
PLEASE IGNORE BAIT PLEASE IGNORE BAIT PLEASE IGNORE BAIT PLEASE IGNORE BAIT
Filter list: http://pastebin.com/hmZKdbmE
Parlez-vous français? https://discord.gg/3Ry8yaE
>some people hate colored hair
>lots of autism
>dog eats chocolate and lives
>peeps might post a new pic? we wait with bated breath
>a male cat gets his gender reassigned and becomes a better cat for it
>anon falls for her straight best friend. she's officially a lesbian now.
>sporty women > body builder women ???
>boob anon continues to successfully hunt girls and get the sex
>BUT MUH TUMBLR MENACE
the previous autism fests can be located here>>8373987 and here
>post a selfie or something
Enjoy being reposted forever by trannies, men and ugly girls.
Always voice verify and make sure the girl you're talking to is cool before you send her a photo.
If I ever get a gf, I'll write her a song and record it as a surprise. I've always wanted to do that.
Ok, I'm trans.
Now get out there and start tricking straight men into falling in love with them, then get them to buy you shit before they dump you when they see your peen.
Like every other tranny.
What's the point of transitioning if you're just going to be a hon anyways?
how to get a thin neck?
I find them sexy and find moral grandstanders repulsive
you look disgusting. and what's worse, you probably live in some wealthy western country.
how come that, living in a world with so many ways to control and improve your appearance(gyms, various creams, plastic surgery, diet pills, lasers, and much more), and having access to them and money to afford them, you still became something...like that?