for those of you that are promiscuous or use dating apps for ONS's how do you get over the paranoia of getting diseases fucking randoms? I know of BC and PreP and condoms, but there are still relatively benign viruses that I do not have and rather not get.....like cold sores.from something as seemingly harmless as kissing
do you simply not care? or are you in a "YOLO" mode when you get too horny?
Its definitely a "YOLO" deal that is a lot easier to maintain when you're young. Same attitude you have with drinking and going to parties and shit and not worrying about dying in a car crash or getting arrested or whatever.
Anyone over 30 who is still fucking around with randoms is almost guaranteed to have some kind of serious problems. Normal sane guys usually start building a group of good close fuck-buddies in their mid-late 20s so it's less of a risk... not much less realistically, but at least you can sleep at night.
>>8498142
Or you can not be a stereotypical faggot. Hope you get pozzed, slut.
>>8498106
Do you walk around constantly in life terrified you'll get the common cold or a staph infection?
Likely not. In the same sense, you don't go through a sex life constantly terrified of getting a disease. You play it smart and take precautions, but if you do end up with something, you deal with it.
STDs are diseases like all other ones--they just have a bigger stigma.
Socially rejected by yet another lgbt group for my appearance
The modern lgbt community only accepts handsome gays and pretty girls who are lesbian or transitioning to male and anyone who tries to tell me otherwise can go star in a middle eastern snuff film
>>8498037
>>8498037
Perhaps your ugliness is on the inside.
>>8498037
This isn't just an lgbt thing... ugly people get rejected everywhere.
At least we will always accept you here on 4chan.
What's the magic behind it all?
>>8497849
Craving the neediness of trannies, a dick in your orifice (if only one), the prospect of lots and lots of dirtiness, and the blood pumping peril of social diseases?
>>8497849
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNAvCfnusHM
When I was a teenager my sister couldn't understand how I could enjoy games despite not being straight, I honestly don't remember what even lead to that, I just play fighting games, I just thought about how much hetereonormitivity was shoved into games like kingdom hearts, devil may cry and dark souls, and just fighters in general and could barely find any
Like one example was adolescent love, which I e experienced, another was getting a boner from a female(DMc) even that was indirect and we've all gotten and can relate those, and the last would be that alternate ending in dark souls 3 I think, like you fall in love or something, another thing I've done heteronomatively
Why do I need to be straight to enjoy killing things
Why would she say something like that, it honestly confused me and made me feel weird about my passions
What's wrong with women? Why can't they just understand somethings fun because it's fun and immersive, not because of what you fuck
>>8497577
I'm bi so I can't really say for everyone but I honestly think most people seem to think you can't be gay and still enjoy being masculine.
I say your drive to perceived dominance is inherent regardless of sexuality.
>>8497577
Cause women tend to treat gays like shit and impose a lot of retarded rules onto gay guys.
>>8497646
??
are you being forced to have sex with them?
So trying to find a good Trans/Drag bar in NYC for tonight. Been extremely sick, don't have much time to live, so I wanna go out regardless. I've been told about some places like Barracuda or Dont Tell Mama.
Any hints are greatly appreciated.
PS: No, I'm not dying of AIDS
>>8497571
>pics for ants
which one are you?
>>8497571
There are actually trans bars? What trans person would even go there? I can only assume only prostitutes?
>>8497571
>So trying to find a good Trans/Drag bar
I didn't even knew a bar filled with drag queens and hons existed.
Can you give the address to some muslims for some religion of peace symposium?
Also drag queens != trans don't do this to me fampai it hurts.
>tfw straight friend wont let me rub his feet
Foot fetish is gay
Why not remove the friend and keep the feet?
So if expression is how you outwardly express your gender in terms of mannerisms, appearance, personality, etc, and sex is biological, then what the fuck is gender identity? I know this person who says they are genderqueer and demands they them pronouns, but they are a cis passing female bodied person who dresses mostly feminine and has mostly feminine interests, but is "not a girl". I feel like the idea of gender identity is too abstract to really understand. Am I missing something here? I mean I'm cool with calling people what they want to be called but I just don't get it when you have people who are clearly female with female body and female interested and mannerisms but want to throw a wrench in the works with the genderqueer shit.
>>8497205
Fuck if I know. The older I get the more I see young'ns changing words around.
I'm old, ama
>>8497205
Gender identity is how you feel your body should be. Gender expression is how you act, in relation to gender roles.
For example. A trans man can want a beard, a flat chest, a lot voice, and muscles, but still like the color pink and doing his finger nails. His gender identity is male but his expression is female.
Or a trans women can want soft features and a curvy body, but still like buying from the men's section and being very competitive. The gender identity is female, but the expression is masculine.
Gender identity relates to sexual characteristics. People who are comfortable as they were born are cisgender. People who aren't are transgender.
People whose gender identity and gender expression don't align are called gender non-confpriming, regardless of they're cis or trans. People tend to be stricter about gender identity with trans folk than cis folk, though, calling people transtrenders if they don't toe the line wrt to their desired gender's roles.
That being said, before trans people physically translation they tend to overcompensate in their desired gender's roles to help manage their gender dysphoria.
So I don't think your friend is actually a tranny.
Piggu edition
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• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
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• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
First for the 80s was dogshit and everything went wrong again.
>>8497090
is that a new thread i smell..?
>>8497097
Ikr? I love the glam hair, bright colours and the electro beats. I'm lowkey jealous of Syndie
>When the non-binary person you're dating breaks up with you over text because you used the term "gender-bent"
I'm sorry, I've tried my best to relate to identity politics, but hot damn, the virtue signaling is real.
We had a great fucking relationship, I'd just booked the hotels for our trip to Seattle, but a few disagreements over semantic bullshit, and suddenly I'm a transphobic bigot who they can't ever trust again.
I never even disagreed over anything concrete, but because I use different lingo, then I'm fuckin disrespecting your damn identity, which rests on the fact that transvestite, and cross dressing, are offensive terms. Jesus fuck.
>I'm fuckin disrespecting your damn identity, which rests on the fact that transvestite, and cross dressing, are offensive terms.
lmao
>>8496873
Protip: That's not why they broke up with you.
That was just the excuse given.
Just move on.
You obviously weren't compatible.
>>8496973
I recognize there were other reasons, but 90% of the disagreements were semantic differences, me trying to respect various psychological quirks and tumblrisms and failing, which as a result let's the person I was dating typecast me as this controlling, disrespectful, transphobic whatever.
They were the kinda person who you have to talk down from suicide attempts on a regular basis, but they call you "controlling" when you ask them if they're allright.
Just gave me a new outlook on a lot of tumblr queer "activism", you're drowning in doubts and self-loathing, so you project onto other people and cut them off at the drop of a hat.
>go to pride parade to have some fun
Oh
Is pride always like this in Australia?
>>8496700
What did you have to walk upside down or something?
Sorry my cam fuged up :(
I thought I was bi, but recently since I've accepted myself as bi, I'm only attached to guys. I can't become aroused by girls, did I just force myself to like girls when I was younger? I did suppress myself for a long time, and I even thought vaginas were gross when I was younger. Am I just gay? I've liked girls in the past but I don't know if it's because I made myself think I was straight, because I only like guys now.
>>8496388
Maybe what you thought was liking girls was actually a different feeling towards them?
>>8496388
Possibly. Personally I've always been attracted to both men and women. Since puberty, romantic and sexual attraction to both genders has just been a natural part of who I am. How was your attraction to women in the past different from you attraction now?
>>8496388
>I can't become aroused by girls
gaylord detected
No matter how much time it passes, i simply cannot understand why the fuck are cishet women trying to victimise themselves through LGBT pride and LGBT protests. "JUST GET OUT OF HERE FEMINIST SCUM REEEEEEEEEEE" is basically my reaction to it. We are strong humans who fight for our own cause. And then the same feminists you find joining these protests are the same people that say "EWWW there is a girl with a dong in my bathroom, GET THE FUCK OUT YOU ARE HERE JUST FOR PEEKING" and that makes no sense. I definetly don't support the whole idea of feminism because it's a way of chauvinism and that itself makes me puke, just like machism. I don't want them to be like "hey guys, im a victim of machism, just like you" because we are basically victims of christcucks followers of the sandniggers and the barbarians that destroyed the somewhat well built at that time roman society. Machism doesn't relate to any of us, even L, because in a couple with 2 women there is no oppresive male figure that can abuse anyone. I just don't get it.
What do you think about this?
>>8496244
>lesbian
>at University
>can't find a girl or even make friends because I'm anti feminist
>feminists bully me constantly even when I don't talk about my views
I want off this ride.
>>8496310
>Being lesbian doesn't mean you have to tolerate faggots, bishits and trannies.
Funnily enough the religitard right seem to not care too much about lesbians, hot ones anyway. I wonder why?
What happens if I a high dose of flaxseed oil every day?
>>8496170
it blocks estrogen receptors so if you're taking e it won't be as effective.
other than that, you will probably just have soft stool.
>>8496205
:( I thought it was suppose to have an estrogenic effect
I'm also curious about flax but I'd be getting lignan supplements -
https://www.badmonkeybotanicals.com/organic-flax-lignans-sdg-extract-powder
anyone know if this is the right stuff to use as an anti-androgen? (I'd get the capsules)
right now I'm using 4 tablespoons of milled seed per day.
not on hormones otherwise.
>tfw too intelligent to be gay
Do you not realise that if you are male then with enough effort you could be turned on by almost anything? Have you not seen /gif/?
And do you not realise that the purpose of sexuality is sexual reproduction?
How can you let yourself be fooled by the people who tell you that you have no choice in the matter? You can dick anything you put your mind to!
Women and men have evolved to be complimentary too each other.
People in relationships have better mental health.
People in relationships with sex have even better mental health.
Vaginas are made to be dicked!
I don't understand gays.
What are the reasons for your gayness?
Please tell me
>>8495945
>Women and men have evolved to be complimentary too each other.
exactly :3
I don't have autism so I don't overthink bullshit that doesn't require any thought at all.
>>8495945
>(You)
>intelligent
If L and G are separated by sex in the acronym, then why isn't T separated into two categories for MtFs and FtMs as well? They're literally complete opposites.
>>8495670
Haha, good one OP but we all know what the two actual categories in T are.
the wholebthing is going to fall apart
>>8495709
In that case we'd probably need to separate gays and lesbians further too depending on if they're femme or masc.
Therefore, I propose the new acronym to be FLBLFGMGFBMBAGPMtFHSTSMtFAAPFtMHSTSFtM.