How do HSTS sexual fantasies look like?
Any blanchard certified HSTS here that can tell me what their fantasies look like?
Hey /lgbt/. I never come here but something confused me and i figured i could ask here without anyone thinking im SUPER weird or anything. Basically my question is, whats the real difference between "transgender" and "transsexual"? Sorry, if I'm dumb. I could google it and I've tried before but I just don't understand pls help
Transgender is someone who's gender identity doesn't match their biological sex.
A transsexual is someone who's gender identity matches the opposite of the sex they were born as.
A transsexual is a type of transgender person.
>be MtF, Pre-HRT
>be very lonely
>don't know where to find a place to chat if it isn't a LGBT chat but it's not easy
>most places are Discord but my voice obviously doesn't pass so fuck it
what to do
This is how my ideal bf looks like. He also can cook delicious food and talks to me about Proust and Nabokov. Your thoughts?
Here it goes,
I started dating a girl 2 years ago. This is when I was finishing art school. In the last years I explored femininity because of the harsh label of white cis. Eventually I started dating a girl who identified as a boy. We both regected any gender norms.
It grew into being a very cis relationship: she ended up getting pregnant, had the baby and I got a place for us. I started working construction type jobs and got very muscular. She did not take after the birth well. I asked her to marry me. She said yes. Soon, her "old friends" started showing up. One was a lesbian she use to date.
They use to do heroin together. Before you know it she started going to meetings with her and got hi on seboxin.
Soon after that she became restless and wanted to do more things. In her eyes I failed to man up to expectation while she ran around with an old lover.
I don't know how I feel about manhood. There is some legal stuff where as we are not married I can't even see my kid. Thinking of transitioning but fear it's too late. I'm mid 20s but pretty cute. I just don't know. I feel like I'll get jumped or beaten up. Defiantly feeling some hatred towards dyke home revkers gaslighting and preying on young women with a baby, who is also a girl.
>I explored femininity because of the harsh label of white cis
Feminism and identity politics are society's attempt at culling white men from the population. No wonder so many men cut their dicks off. We're labeled as second class citizens.
FtM here, how's my chest?
What do you guys think?
There are only 2
>slowly getting into mtf porn last few years
>really want to have sex with one
>kinda pansexual, would date if clicked
what the fuck do i do.
theres literally zero trans that aren't prostitutes with diseases in my area.
the only transgirl I know personally, never talks to me, she's legitimately a 10/10, started transitioning when she was like 14 and can get a chad boyfriend.
not a troll.
hey lgbt. so i have friend who i've known from high school that has started acting more feminine and has a softer/higher voice out of nowhere.
i've suspected for a while that they may in the closet but he used to be assertive and masculine w girlfriends and now he's more gentle, reserved and girly/androgynous?
pls help idk what to do about this
Eh in high school i over compensated in order to hide that i was a trans man by being so girly that no one could even think question me. I acted, dressed, talked, and everything like one of those anime obsessed pink hair big eye makeup girls. Even to the point where i wore wigs. Got out of high school and realized i was just scared of people seeing the real me and judging who i actually am.
But dont assume or anything with him. He might not be. If you want to make him feel like he can be open to you about it, talk about sypporting other gay guys or other trans women. But dont confront him, hes not going to ever budge if you straight up ask him.
he's always been a little metrosexual but the most confusing part for me is that he used to date tons of girls and sleep with them and now he doesn't ever mention girls unless they're just friends.
i actually think he's considering transitioning because he's young and would definitely pass but it could also be drag because he got real defensive about rupauls show once
Well just be a good friend to him, take him aside and kindly and gently explain to him that you're friends, and that you love him no matter if he's gay trans or whatever. It changes nothing between you two, but you're worried about him because watching drag race makes him a colossal faggot with zero taste
There are thousands of trannies willing to trade places with them in a heartbeat
It's likely women who are extremely "anaclytic". The rare women who are "introjective" are content to make use of advantages that women have. I'd wager that lower career prospects are paradoxically more agonizing to anaclytic women, as the prime venue for having something to prove.
You act like cis women who are suicidal think "wow i should not kill myself because there are people that have nothing to do with my life that would do anything to have my female body. Even though the only thing I can ever think about is my suicidal thoughts."
Are you dumb or just lack the ability to see in other peoples shoes? I'm a FTM so thats like me say "Why would a man ever want to transition to a woman when there are thousands of FTM trannies willing to trade places with them in a heartbeat."
>Tfw so small that snails are larger than me
I'll never pass, curse these small female bones
I'm honestly in awe at how big that snail is. It's the size of a kitten. Jesus.
Anyway, don't be so concerned about your size and other stuff you cant control. If you obsess about it then that's just one more thing that's out there to make you unhappy.
Besides, you'll never bump your head on doorways or have to worry about being cramped on airplanes. I'm 6'4" and that shit never gets any easier.
base trannu instincts edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
Old Thread >>8516600
I recently came out to all of my friends as trans and have said that they all still love me just as much as before. But i feel as if theyve become distant and faided unlike anytime before. Im more happy now than i have ever been in my life, but feel void without any companions to join me on my adventures
How did all of you other trans peps find new friends, when i can guess you've lost many after transitioning?
>P.S 4month HRT mark for me thus far
I started with one friend, ended with one friend who made me sympathize (a small bit) with the trans people who always get super mad when you misgender them.
Basically, the only friend I had, and still have, supports the shit out of me but constantly makes me uncomfortable anytime we hang out because he still sees me as the other gender.
Sooooooo..... how do we make new friends? We dont. Being trans sucks. You deal with being alone and working on yourself, hyping yourself up, loving yourself, making yourself enertained, etcetc.
I'm in college so meeting new people and making new friedns just kinda happened organically from me participating in Clubs and junk on campus, though I didn't really need to make new friends because none of mine really left me for being trans, I kinda faded on some of my shittier friends and have grown super close to my lady friends because we don't have that "are they gonna fuck up our friendship cause they want to fuck me" barrier anymore