In about an hour I'm going to come out to both of my parents as trans over dinner.
This is the first irreversible step and I'm so scared.
Does anyone have any advice?
Who is that on the cover?
Are you dependent on them?
Do you have backup plan when they tell to gtfo?
>>8527201
gl anon, expect them to treat you like you're mentally broken and simple interactions may become unnecessarily awkward from now on but fuck what other ppl think as long as u think it's the right decision.
PROGY-TAKIN'
>>8527133
FAGGOT FUCKIN'
LGBT-APPROPRIATIN'
SOCIAL JUSTICIN'
>transitioned at 26
>one year 5 months on hormones
>don't pass
>in debt because of suicide attempt and hospital bills got me in debt
>can't afford ffs any time soon
What do I do now should I keep trying or am I hopeless?
>>8527061
>can't even kill herself
At least you know you're a real woman!
>>8527061
>in debt because of suicide attempt and hospital bills got me in debt
That shit makes me feel like half a communist desu
>>8527079
Do you seriously think it's fair that people suffering actual unavoidable ailments like contagious diseases or congenital birth defects should be paying for the healthcare of people who harm their own bodies, whether by direct self-harm or negligent lifestyles?
Please stop posting on r9k
Please keep your faggotry to just one board
Just quit it. Leave the poor lonely souls there alone you fucking demons.
I've never been on /r9k/, Mr. Angry Tomato man!
/r9k/ is nothing more than a suicide-inciting machine. It was a mistake, should never have been created, and the people who frequent it lack strong parental models in their lives. They need help and compassion.
I fucked up /lgbt/
I fucked up real bad
>be straight
>speak to cute girl over the course of a month
>its like we've known each other for all of our lives
>fall in love with her but don't tell her yet
>tells me she's actually a trap in a long winded text
>can't accept it
>planned to bring her home to parents one day
WHAT DO
>>8526957
You love who you love, maybe take it slow and spend some time with her?
Try to work through it. You will be able to get past it eventually. You don't want to make a mistake and let someone you love go, you will regret it if you don't at least try to work it out with her.
Everything will be fine anon.
>>8526957
don't do it
I've got a trans gf I love dearly, but never having kids and the familial disappointment eats away at you.
Get out before you get emotionally attached and torment yourself for the rest of your days.
>>8526957
Just give it a shot. She's still the same girl you fell in love with, just with a different medical background. As a side note, it does depend on a few factors, of course. Do you want biological kids eventually? That can be a dealbreaker.
Also, how old are the two of you? Understand that if you're both still young, it's statistically unlikely for this relationship to progress more than a year.
I'm also curious about her mental health. Does she pass? Is her family supportive? When did she transition? Is she depressed? These things have huge bearing on a trans girl's mental health. If she shows signs of being emotionally unstable, it could be worth avoiding this relationship.
im an 18 year old boy who is cute (so im told)
i keep hearing a ton of people telling me i have to go on hrt or something stat.
i really dont want all the negatives of going on hormones but i hate always shaving all the time and occasionally dealing with shaving bumps.
is there any good longer lasting hair removal for legs etc than shaving?
>>8526911
Waxing, epilating, laser, or electrolysis.
>>8526931
ok. is it worth it? do handsome guys even like twinks or are they into more masculine men
>>8526931
does epilating hurt?
Alright guys, i need some advice. I am interested in following pic related. I don't consider myself trans(I want to keep my dick), although I honestly just don't really give a shit about gender, I personally believe that it doesn't exist. I am moreso curious, curious to see how pretty I can become. The main things holding me back are 1. I am 6ft tall, and barely 18 so still growing, and 2. I have a somewhat masculine face(defined jawline, big Adams apple etc). I figured that since this routine doesn't involve hrt I could give it a try and if I end up looking like shit I can just go back to lifting and eating meat with no long term damage. Is this a good idea or a horrible one that will fuck me up permanently?
>>8526860
Well exercising and eating healthy is great for you and I encourage you to do it of course, but to actually feminize yourself and see actual effects means you'd be nuking T and you would grow boobs and of course your dick is affected.
TAKE MOANS AND GROW CONETITS YOU NIGGER
The guide is shit and myths desu.
Do anti psychotics suppress trans feelings?
>>8526797
If your gender dysphoria is caused by schizophrenia yes, it's been done multiple times now actually.
>>8526797
If they did so effectively, they'd be prescribed instead of HRT
>>8526801
[citation needed]
>at a gayy bar
>literally hundreds of shirtless dudes
>no one talks to me
>this is what shooters feel
How can so many men find me repulsive?
Its like i have an antigay aura
gods of the internet bless me with gay attraction
Theres guys bigher than me, hairier, nerdier, more awkward, actual neckbeards and they're getting hit on
Rreeeeeeee
try putting your phone away
>>8526696
Perhaps try approaching someone? Idk.
Maybe you're giving off a no-social vibe sitting by yourself?
We don't know. Get a drink or two in you and maybe strike up some convo with someone.
Jesus fucking Christ! Could hormones and FFS actually do this to me?! I actually have a little hope for myself in the future. Where should I start?? I'm not ready to start hormones yet for social and financial reasons, but if this is the result I would get I would be so fucking happy!
>>8526303
hormones
ffs
makeup
those three will make you look like that if not better
>>8526303
it looks like plucked eyebrows and makeup, you don't even need hrt for that
>>8527002
Old nigga know what's up.
>Be straight male
>Have fetish for being called a faggot and being forced into sex with men
Does this make me bi or just a straight dude with a very strange fetish?
>be straight female
>have a fetish for being called a faggot while having consensual sex with men
idk tbqh
>>8526052
Pseudo bisexual tbqh M. Night Famalam
you're a bisexual, harry
I don't know how you people actually find the courage to transition. A lot of people say they hit rock bottom and decide to transition but I'm basically already there. My life sucks I hate myself I want to die I have no friends. The only thing I have is parents that seem to care about me and to be honest maybe that's why I can't seem to transition because if they hated me too I probably would kill myself. Well you people are stronger people than me for sure.
If it makes you feel better a lot of still occasionally want to kill ourselves.
your parents will very likely care less than you think
I used to think my mom was pretty homophobic and wouldn't accept me being gay let alone trans and I was completely wrong
>>8525586
It's not courage, a lot of us just get to the point where we have no choice other than suicide.
So why do the trannies here misgender people they dislike?
>>8525566
It's the worst thing they can think to say because they know how much it hurts.
>>8525686
So it amounts to a severe lack of empathy, then? I mean, if they know how much it hurts, you'd think they know better than to perpetuate misgendering as an acceptable thing.
>>8525566
usually because they were born late enough so they could transition in their teens, and as a result view anyone less passing/born earlier as inferior and thus acceptable to misgender
Does anyone actually belive the more than two gender thing?
Like I'm BI and I have trans friends but to me it just seems so dumb and entirely unproven
Enlighten me pls
>>8525142
nigger everyone here thinks there are only 2 genders as well if youre trans you transition from one to the other
>>8525142
mtf, I sure as fuck don't
*male* to *female*. Two genders.
intersex
poison ivy edition
• Makeup tutorials : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_fIi6F7CUw
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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>>8523318
Who is Ellie?
I don't recognise the name.
>>8523341
sorry, i just go into an uncontrollable rage when people have opinions that are different from mine
Sup sheen