Let's say trans people get what they want from society and government, that one's gender is defined to be whatever they want it to be and is completely independent from gender expression, biological sex, etc... In that case, what is stopping people from declaring themselves to be trans on paper just to get various gibs designed for women and trans people (say from government, LGBT organizations, women organizations, etc...)? I can say I'm a transgender woman, make my pronouns your typical male pronouns, and say my "gender expression" is male and go about with my everyday life. Nothing changes except for my access to various gibs. Nobody can question me or they will be transphobic. At some point gender will be nothing more than a legal loophole that will be exploited for monetary gain, typically by wealthy businessmen.
>Let's say trans people get what they want from society and government, that one's gender is defined to be whatever they want it to be and is completely independent from gender expression, biological sex, etc
No actual trans person wants this.
Tumblr is thataway.
>>8575192
what specific gibs would you want that are afforded to women and not to men?
>At some point gender will be nothing more than a legal loophole that will be exploited for monetary gain, typically by wealthy businessmen.
well, gender is kind of a spook, eventually it won't even exist in the far future.
Every single trans person on this website thinks that gender is biological (your body has biological sex and your brain has an innate gender identity) and there's only two of them
Fuck off
Is anyone else afraid if getting FFS? I need it there's no question, but I'm scared that I still might not pass after, in which case I'd need to kms
There are better things for you to do today than worry about that
You wouldn't need to kill your self if it turned out bad.
>tfw mtf and tend to relate better to the bi or straight ftms on this board
>tfw have the same problems interacting with or relating with other mtfs from here that I do with cis women, they all smell my masculinity and immediately treat me differently
>tfw the trolls were wrong and the mtfs here are real girls, but they were right about me, cause im a mans man manly man
>>8575119
I feel the same way desu, I'm hoping progressing further along my transition will "cure" me or atleast let me be content with my own personality.
You are not a man, op. You're a woman. You might still look like a male and your behavior might still be tainted with male socialization patterns, but these two issues can be helped. You're a girl inside and that is what matters.
>>8575133
Thats the thing its not a pattern its an essence. My essence is masculine and its totally off. I'm a clumsy, effeminate mess in real life but I still have a masculine essence and masculine instincts, poor empathy, poor innate social sense. I can try all I want but the best i can get is stapling a womans personality onto my male essence
Enjoy
lol no, i'm already on HRT at 25 and feel feminine enough to satisfy my AGP without needing to dress up
i'd like to try sex with a guy though
Yeah the future of AGPs who do nothing about it and try to repress until they can't anymore
The faces of /repgen/.
Are any of you ac tuslly attracted to just dics?
I'm attracted to guys. The whole oackage. I like dicks in sex I enjoy doing acts with them or being penetrated but I don't find dicks themselves sexy. They are just a thing.
Whenever a guy sends me a doc pic and asks you "like that?" It makes me cringe. Inlay along to make them feel good but like the fuck. Does anyone enjoy that? I sure don't.
To me a dick is the fun part I do sexy things with when I think a person is sexy but the dick on its own doesn't do it.
Pic related. Me when the guy in talking to sends me weirdly angled dick pics.
>>8574860
Almost same. Except I don't see dicks alone as gross, just not arousing. Unless they're cut and flacid, then ewwww.
I fucking love cocks. Doesn't matter what they're attached to as long as it isn't me. So yes there are people who get tunred on by dicks. I especially like uncut dicks that are semi erect or so hard that they're twitching. Jesus when they twitch they look dangerous almost but you just want to ride that danger and let him release his pent up emotion onto you. Jesus I'm getting turned on from writing this!
>>8574860
Nicely shaped dicks are absolutely lovely and when I get sent a nice dick pic my dick always gets a little harder.
That being said I'm very much into cock worship and you could probably just spend an hour slapping me with your dick/rubbing your balls on my face and I'd cum by barely touching myself.
Can someone explain why this is? Is being gay for trans people just the fetish of being attracted to the same sex? Are gay people into the fetish of liking the same sex? how does this shit work?
>>8574729
Trans people are meme masters. Everything they touch becomes a meme
>Physical appearance
>Gender
>Sexuality
>Etc
>>8574729
There are different reasons for why this happens. Sometimes people's sexualities just blossom over their lifetime. Sometimes transwomen have this awareness of "I am gay" because they do not feel straight, so they end up believing they like men. Sometimes it is because societal norms say that being attracted to men is a female quality, and therefore dating men is a way of reducing dysphoria. Another reason can be that in pre-transition transwomen with other women, they are expected to take on a straight male role, while in a relationship that is considered queer their partner will not treat them according to heteronormative expectations of masculinity.
I got a question for all the young MtF people on here.
What do you expect your future to look like?
I can tell you a little about me if you want but feel free to skip it if you don't care.
I always wanted to be a girl and I made it very clear to my parents almost on a daily basis.
Luckily they where very supportive and I was lucky enough to get on blockers and hormones very very early even by today's standards.
I looked up to my mother who was loving and caring and pretty much the best person on this planet right next to my father.
I wanted to be like her in any way and that included on day being a mother myself.
Which I now know to be impossible but back then I had no idea.
I had SRS when I was 21 and I even got a pretty good looking vagina without going to some world renowned specialist.
I never had a problem finding a boyfriend but lately it's becoming really hard.
I'm 31 now and I'm visually indistinguishable from a regular cis women.
However the problem at this age and even sooner is that literally everyone in the dating pool is looking to have their own family.
A women that can't bear children is simply not desirable at all.
Even friends and co-workers are starting to wonder why I don't have any children.
They don't know that I'm trans and I won't even consider telling them that I just can't get pregnant because they'd just tell my to find a good man and adopt and adopting is the last thing I want to do.
Not being able to bear children was always a really big problem for me but I could deal with it when I was younger.
As I got older it became worse and worse with every year and now it's the reason why no real man has any romantic interest in me.
I'd love to be married and to be a supportive wife to a loving husband but it just seems impossible now.
It's heartbreaking and I don't really know how to deal with it yet but I'm sure I'll find a way.
>>8574692
I'm your same age, a hon, and have a fiance
Sounds like hypergamy is your problem
>>8574707
I won't just desperately marry anyone just to be married.
>>8574726
Who said you should do that?
Your subjective estimate of your own attractiveness plays a huge role in determining who you are attracted to.
It's not like ugly people and fat people pretend to feel attracted to one another in relationships, they really do love eachother.
You say you look cis, maybe you are even beautiful, but that doesn't change the fact you are trans, this just sadly makes you far less attractive than any cis person.
You should reappraise your sexual market value. Your problem is psychological, there are plenty of great guys your age you are overlooking probably.
>Oh nah bro, I can't have sex with that dude. They said the word "yass" and don't look like a stupid gymrat douchebag, that means they're not enough of a man for me to have sex with.
Why are masc4masc gay guys so obnoxious?
It's like, your internalised homophobia isn't fooling anyone and pretending like you're any better than people who aren't ashamed of their sexuality isn't helping either.
There's a difference between acting feminine and acting like a queen who's sole identity is being gay.
>fems calling anyone else stupid and obnoxious
>>8574614
>Can't have sex with that dude, too far away
>Damn he aged poorly
>*Pukes* unwanted daddy types
>Masc faggot with douchebag profile
>Tfw non shallow fem
Where all the good guys went?
Why does Bisexuality tend to develop later in life?
>>8574228
Use of porn. Bisexuality is literally just a fetish (for whatever gender is the one you weren't originally attracted to).
>>8574233
Got any studies or research to back that up?
>>8574253
Just my personal experience. It's pretty easy to get myself temporarily attracted to the same sex if I watch gay porn for a bit.
Cis girl dating mtf
Why won't she have sex with me?
If I move my hand towards her breasts she covers them and shies away. If I move my hand towards her crotch she does does the same thing. If I move my hand towards her butt she does the same thing. If I kiss her she looks away. She always looks at the floor whenever I try to do anything intimate with her.
She says she feels ugly and hideous, she says she feels disgusting and I try over and over to tell her how beautiful she is and how much I love her why can't she understand? When I hug her and cuddle I can hear her breathing get heavy, I can feel her start to tremble, I know that it makes her scared and uncomfortable. But when she thinks I'm asleep she cuddles me and holds me close, she whispers to me how much she loves me and says she's sorry. Why?? I know I'm not ugly, I know she's attracted to me so why?
>>8573956
autism and anxiety
get her drunk and rape her
>>8573956
>She says she feels ugly and hideous, she says she feels disgusting
Sounds like your average woman.
Strange, isn't it?
>>8573956
>Why??
Because you want to touch her feminine benis and that's a no-no you stupid chaser.
Just my impression or a considerable number or MTFs have some liver problem?
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1whots/
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/4n6b7m/
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/gf4yj/
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/4ge8eu/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_talk:Puellanivis
Isn't kinda fucked up a lot of people with the same faulty gene chose to be traps? Or are they just more aware of their body? (inb4 reddit)
Bonus:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/27035280 bilirubin linked to scizophrenia
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3946398 estrogen is used to lower bilirubin
I haven't heard of this before. My liver is extremely healthy.
old people who take HRT will get fucked up by it
Cypro
im a cis girl dating a trans girl, ama
do you guys have penis in vagina sex
what sexuality do you identify as? what did you identify as before?
Have you been with cis girls before? how does being with a trans girl compare?
>>8573708
sometimes yes, but we have sex a number of different ways
Is being a WHITE GAY MALE the most privileged easymode?
Its literally BLONDE RICH GIRL levels of easy
What makes whites so desirable in this community?
Does having a white bf make you feel safer or more accepted in the real world?
Does having a white spouse rub off privilege and perks?
moving there for all that nice dick omg
Tumblr is down the hall and to the left.
finally!!! despite being on hormones for 8.5 months i finally got my letter from the psychiatrist today to get legitimate prescription.
he was on everything even the types of things I'm wearing the relationship my parents had, my relationship history and so on, made me feel nervous but everything went well.
does anyone feel like sharing personal experiences going to a doctor during the HRT process?
>>8572771
that's creepy as fuck
>>8572757
you piss me off
i hope you have a bad day
Howre you only 8.5months hrt god you make me feel so inadequate Q.Q
Congrats!
>come out to my mom as trans (ftm)
>she says that's normal and when she was my age she wanted to be a boy too
>wtf mom, no it isn't
>says i'll get over it eventually and i just need a boyfriend
is my mom repressed trans? or is she right and i'm actually not trans??
Are you really that fucking easily influenced that the most minor challenge of your feelings invalidates them completely?
>>8572607
but what if she's telling the truth? it could be a major red flag about my feelings
When I came out as MTF my mother said exactly the same thing.
I wonder if our moms would be trenders if they were that age now.