So... I've fallen in love. Like completely in love. I met a guy online and after a few months of me being insecure and pushing him away I just gave in and fell head over heels for him. Now we're bf and gf and I love him! I'm completely in love with him! But I'm also so very scared!
I'm mtf but I'm really early along in transition (only 4 months HRT, no surgeries, no electrolysis). He knows this, he's seen pictures of me in girlmode, he says he really likes me and he wants to be with me, but I can't shake the feeling that when we meet in person he's going to reject me. He's only seen me done up and at me best. But I'm almost as tall as him, I have size 10 feet, I have to wear a wig when I take pictures because my hair isn't long enough yet. I just feel really anxious whenever I think about meeting him irl. I love him to death and if he was disgusted by me it would just break me entirely. I really don't know what to do about this. Do any other mtfs who were in ldr's have any advice for me?
>after a few months of me being insecure and pushing him away I just gave in and fell head over heels for him
that hurt so much to read
>>8579623
how do I get this
>>8579629
Why?
Not sure if this is the right board to post on as I am not gay or trans or anything, but I have a Transgirl fwb, I've only gotten bj's from her, but she really wants to to fuck her boipussy. and Idk why but she is adamant about me cumming "in her". I literally met this chick on tinder a week ago and she was aggressively blowing/rimming me within 30 seconds of meeting so I assume she has had a lot of partners.
Idk she' texting me right now asking about it, how do I say "sexily" that Im gunna wear a condom? Should I bag it up?
>>8579565
For fuckbuddies yes you should.
I have a FWB type deal with a guy and we still use condoms. Neither of us actually sleeps around but we're not dating so there's nothing stopping either of us from doing so.
Unless you're explicitly monogamous and you've both been tested it's risky. Even then there's still the chance of cheating.
>Asked me if I wanted to "cum rite in her ass"
>I replied this way
>now shes angry at me
what do??
>>8579565
>Not sure if this is the right board to post on as I am not gay or trans or anything, but I am a chaser
this is the right board fampai.
I've never felt attraction toward a guy, but sometimes I will listen to Madonna or Gloria Esteban love songs and imagine a brunette twink or femboy laying in my arms accepting me even though I'm only 5'9 and looking up at me with their pretty brown eyes giggling and caressing me
So am I gay?
>>8579545
>listens to madonna and Gloria Estefan
>am I gay
Is this a ruse?
>>8579559
But I have no intentions of being with a guy I just listen to these songs sometimes and imagine a Brunette twink in my arms
>>8579545
>I've never felt attraction toward a guy
>am I gay?
wut
we are all transbians edition
• Makeup tutorials : http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels:http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels:http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Transition time lines:http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training:https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
last episode >>8577424
First for Emma liking to harass and pick on others but not liking it herself.
=^_^= *meow* >licks paws<
>>8579453
I'm not a transbian, I'm asexual.
>tfw 90% of my problems would be fixed if I was born a girl
>>8579440
You would have cis girl problems. That you've never had to deal with in your life. Like being raped. Menstruating. Fear of pregnancy. Being seen as lesser by your family, especially your father and brothers. Unwelcome attention from males every time you go out. You know, misogyny.
>>8579480
>Like being raped.
Trannies worry about this too.
>Menstruating.
True.
>Fear of pregnancy.
True.
>Being seen as lesser by your family, especially your father and brothers.
Trannies have this and it's MUCH worse.
>Unwelcome attention from males every time you go out
Trannies worry about this too, on top of getting clocked and assaulted.
>>8579440
Implying the entire world doesn't see me as lesser than them because I'm a tranny. I would much rather deal with cis girl problems than tranny problems.
I have to get glasses soon and I was wondering if anyone knows how to choose glasses that feminize the face?
(Pic unrelated)
Imo it really just depends on your face shape and features. Like I for example I'm Asian and have a pretty rounded face shape but a bulbous nose, so I wear circle rimed glasses to complement my face and take attention away from my nose.
Get contacts
/thread
sad pre everything newb mtf anon here
i keep watching videos of all these passable trannies (the one on the pic) and crying because i look like a fucking obese redneck
the point is> does E alone make you like this??: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Qm60cnsOsc&t=103s
>>8579176
I also cry from time to time when I look at passable trannies and realize I waited to long to transition and I will never look passable. E alone wont make you look like that but with effort and maybe surgery if you're under 25 you probably can pass. Too bad I'm a poorfag.
She's passable but
>transbian
>>8579248
She's actually straight
>mtfs who wear formal dresses and footwear in casual settings
>mtfs who always find some way to shoehorn the fact that they're trans in conversations
>mtfs who support drag shows and don't think they make us look even more like a fucking joke
>>8579147
Transbians wouldn't understand the last one.
>>8579149
Why not?
>>8579147
B-but I like drag because of the pretty costumes...
How does sexual reassignment surgery not qualify as a violation of the hippocratic oath? It's literally a process of taking healthy organs and reshaping them into poor facsimiles of a desired form.
>>8579106
>while having sex
If this trans "woman" was penetrating people with her penis, no wonder she misses it. The only mistake on the surgeon's part was not screening her better. People should really think over their decision to get surgery, any surgery can result in pain and regret, even something less major like BA.
She also doesn't say which surgeon she went to, which could have made a big difference. Bowers "vaginas" really are just flaps of meat.
>>8579138
What procedure is BA? Also, are you saying there are different models of neovaginas on the market?
>>8579106
Abortions are violation of the hippocratic oath.
>tfw I'm MtF and mostly into girls but also fascinated with gay hookups and fantasize about going to a nice, clean club with baths and saunas and lots of young men
>tfw the idea of getting with gay guys and partaking in that sweet boi flesh is really hot and enticing
>>8579008
So MTFs are basically bi guys?
>>8579017
I don't think you'd say I'm "basically bi guy" if you met me anon.
I just want to rub dicks with a nice young guy with a beard
>>8579020
Looking and dressing like a girl is one thing, but in terms of personality and sexuality?
Why do agps get so irrationally violent when a lesbian woman, who has a vagina, rejects them because they have have a dick?
>>8578853
For the same reason they get instinctively angry at feminism or instinctively angry at someone insulting straight men.
>>8579065
+ rejecting them because they have a dick is based in the instinctive protectionism toward their "natural state of masculinity" being challenged. Hence why they're obsessed by traditionalism and the alt-right.
I don't, I respect their boundaries. I hope they'd word their rejection more tactfully though.
>>8579065
I'm not angry at feminism and I'm not angry at calling out straight cis guys. Why do you keep ignoring me Cara?
How do I stop being scared and actually start wearing female clothes?
I'm too terrified to go out in girl mode even though everyone says I pass (yeah, right, sure...) because the possibility of getting sir'd in girl mode would fucking crush me A LOT (getting sir'd in boymode is acceptable because it doesn't feel like I'm as much of a failure), I know that it's bound to happen even to the most cis passing trannies at least once but I simply wouldn't be able to deal with it. (yeah I know this is what I should've expected as a tranny)
How the fuck do I get out of my shell, even just going out dressed androgynously I get stares and I get mad anxiety and stare at the ground, start sweating, hyperventilating, even with benzos my anxiety is through the roof, they don't help....
How do other people do it? Don't tell me to JUST DO IT, because it doesn't work, I've tried going at a small pace from dressing manly to more and more androgynously but now I'm stuck....
Also I'm sorry if this post is all over the place.
>Don't tell me to JUST DO IT
But that is how get further, to the next level..
It'll be easier each time you do it but you have to do it the first time too.. if you have a local small store with few people you could try that, just put on a skirt, t shirt or something and don't think.. Just set a goal to what you're gonna do.
>>8578870
But that's just going straight into girl mode....how do I slowly advance to that from androgynous mode?
Like...wearing a skirt would be obviously female...basically what do I add each time to my androgynous outfit so that it's more and more fem?
I feel like this is the only way but also I know that after pushing it to a certain point that it's more fem rather than androgynous I'd get scared again and revert back....
>>8578875
Well going straight to full girl mode will you more comfortable with all kinds of womens clothes faster, but as for gradual, male to female t-shirts aren't all to different, and women trousers wouldn't be too obvious in itself either, but many of those don't have real pockets so you'd probably be a purse as well anyway..
I don't know at which andro stage you are now though, no women clothes at all?
A simple full girl mode style I enjoy these days during summer is tshirt, skirt, cardigan and flats..
>transbians
>not a straight males
lol
>>8578701
>this thread
>not the 5000th iteration of it
go jack off in a dumpster about how you're hsts or whatever with your fellow straight tranny whores (dont forget to post the pics in /soc/ for validation afterwards like all the good goy straight trannies in this site)
what about transbians that are dating other trannies?
>>8578701
Referencing people's genitalia is rude, but I'd rate saying "Sorry, I'm into women" to a trans-woman as more transphobic than "Sorry, I'm not into dick."
>be me
>be bisexual
>be called "scum sucking piece of shit" by LGBT group
>be me on new account
>ask them to be mature
>get called a dick
>be blocked again
This is actual bullshit
This has happened to me many times.
Welcome to the world of straight diseases, where the straight diseases lie and say they're gay, then act like ordinary straight diseases.
>>8578685
You biscum are not wanted in our community.
You invalidate homosexuality and vocally claim that people aren't born gay.
Fuck off and start your own pervert community.
The LGBT community is not about sex, and that's all biscum care about.
Get over it and fuck off from our spaces.
L
G
T
Get rid of the B
>>8578703
I'd rather get rid of trannies instead of biscums tbqh. At least the biscums are about sexuality.
I want to fuck a tranny so bad, post green text stories of you guys fucking trannies, so I can get boners
What if, instead, the trannies posted greentext of them getting fucked?
>>8578695
That would be great so I could pretend I'm you instead of a hopeless unlovable shut in
>discover 4chan
>discover every debauchery one can get from 4chan
>got curious
>craigslist
>tranny meet up
>topped a tranny
>got curious
>tranny meet up
>topped by a tranny
>???