https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=af1ePmCW4ZY
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>>5066217
>2015
>can't detect sarcasm
>>5066235
You're right, I can't.
literally who
/lgbt/, could people have gender dysphoria in their 30's, 40's and so on?
>>5065194
Probably. I think a lot of people who hit their 40s are questionable to some extent (at least in that they often fail to deal with most things like mannerisms they acquired, unexamined cultural assumptions, etc) but I've definitely known a few older transitioners I would definitely never feel justified to question.
>>5065194
Yes.
>>5065203
>live for 40 years as a man with no dysphoria
>all the sudden decide to transition because a midlife crisis
Muh I've always felt like a grill!
I just don't buy later transitioners at all, they're all bruce Jenner tier
Hi lgbt, I was wondering if anyone with any experience or advice to give to a closeted gay who is engaged to a girl he loves as a friend? I don't plan on having children and I know someday I will feel unfulfilled if I remain with her. 5 year relationship. I guess I'm pondering the idea of it breaking it off (for common reasons such as financial or dispute about future goals) without outing myself as gay.
I hope you all can take pity on me having repressed feelings about my orientation and my difficulty with coming out. I'm just not ready for my family to hear that yet. I have my own issues to sort out of course, but I'm still really new at this. I've only recently admitted to myself without a doubt I am homosex.
Maybe one of you has insight on this. I'm open to any and all advice you can offer. Better to tell the truth or lie and come out when I'm ready?
I mean, I love her and don't want to hurt her. Do girls flip out if they think they turned their man gay?
>>5064913
Theres a big chance that shes gonna be your friend after you break up.
To be gay is actually a very good reason for a divorce. She will understand. Give her time after that...
Sorry for my english.
Good luck :^)
Have you even been with a guy OP?
>>5064950
This, especially if you actually tell her.
I've hung out with a couple oldfags, including one who just came out to his wife of over 15 years and one who dealt with this about 10 years ago after being with his wife of 10 years. Long story short, if you live in a country where being gay probably won't get you killed (USA, Western Europe) then it's WAY more trouble than it's worth to get married with and ESPECIALLY have a child with a woman if you already recognize that you're gay. Handle this now before you actually get married. It's way easier to get out now than when you have a house and two kids with a woman.
I do have to ask, what was the motivation to pop the question if you still had these feelings. I'm not exactly hating on you, but I know that even in my biggest moments of being scared of being gay and the implications (my family is Caribbean so the homophobia can be strong) that I would never but a woman through that, or myself. I suppose with the right FWBs you could stay married, give her awkward sex that withers to nothing, and get your share of dick on the side. I don't think that's a fair thing to do to a partner that possibly thinks you're their other half though unless they're in on it.
If people can be MtF and FtM with transgender treatments, can they go from white to black? As a black man I have never identified with my race and have always been uncomfortable in my body because my skin color doesn't reflect who I truly am. How would you guys feel about transracial people?
>>5064910
We feel that transracial individuals should be sacrificed to Moloch tbqh
>>5064910
well there isn't a concrete difference between the brains of races that could get mixed up and give you dysphoria but if you want to get skin lightening surgery or some kind of face un-niggifying surgery I don't personally give a fuck. It's your body and life, do what you want with them.
>>5064910
I don't think transracialism is caused by the same sorts of things as gender dysphoria, so I don't think we should necessarily be associated with each other.
However, I understand you in that I would like to have skin two shades lighter and a different eye color, but I wouldn't want to be "white" exactly, either.
Is there a name for straight guys that enjoy going to gay bars/neighborhoods and flirting with
Fuck I wasn't done...
...And getting attention from gay guys?
>>5064472
yes, i think that name would be faggot
>>5064472
Attention whores or narcissists. Now go tease more gay guys faggot.
I know about plenty of older gay/bi/trans people, but I actually have never even heard of a non-binary person over 30, much less 60+.
Is this seriously a tween fad thing, or do I just have a poor reference size?
okay so here's the deal:
some people promote the idea that being trans is just "identifying as a gender" you weren't born as.
and some people say that you are only trans if you have dysphoria.
people from the first camp are seen as tolerant and cool, and people who don't know anything about dysphoria or trans issues think that because they don't fit into the gender binary they must be trans. unfortunately, they are conflating being gender non-conforming, or crossdressing, or being masc or fem to actual gender identities.
So nonbinary trans people with dysphoria get pushed under the bus because of these weirdos, because no one likes respecting trans people means acknowledging that women and men are different, because.... something something patriarchy?
there are a lot of older MtF and FtM out there actually, but yeah valid trans people are pushed under the bus by special snowflake fucks
>>5064448
there are non-binary people over a certain age but most are trans people who transitioned so long ago they stopped caring too much, went binary at some point along the road (which admittedly is the same as not being nb anymore), or are, like, uncommon people like Richard O'Brien or Leslie Feinberg
>>5064614
Special snowflake fucks have been a lot more useful, sadly, to deal with some massively important trans rights shit than the trutrans who whine about not being able to do much because muh precious stealth.
Hey /lgbt/.
So, my boss and I are going on a business trip to Florida from New York together.
This afternoon I was using his laptop and noticed he had the internet pulled up in incognito mode.
The content of the page was a gay porn site with a video titled "innocent virgin boy gets RUINED by strong daddy".
Should I be worried, or am I just being a homophobe?
>>5063623
Prepare
your
you're going to get RUINED
Told my sibling I am trans.
He responds with "That's fine, you can be whatever you want. You're still my brother and you'll always be my brother :)"
I say no you don't get it, he says he does and walks away smiling.
Kill me now
>>5063242
Ha. Yeah. He'd get along great with my father. People like to pretend that trolls are an online phenomenon, but it's totally not.
I feel like he took his rehearsed "You're still my brother and I love you" line he was planning to use when you came out as gay, and just said it now without thinking that it might be the wrong gendered word.
I wouldn't be too offended, he HAD only had about 1 second of experience with a trans sibling. Give him time to get used to changing the gender of words he uses.
>>5063242
ha your brother's a cheeky cunt he is
hiv test results come back tomorrow. I'm scared.
I know the odds it's bad news, considering what I've done, are very small. But they're non-zero and it still scares me.
>>5063139
it's not the end of the world if you're pos. you can still find people and you can still live your life, and there's a good chance you won't have to worry about treatment later.
>>5063265
Being pos would be the worst thing ever. I'm too nice of a person to not tell people beforehand. And let's be honest, nobody wants to have sex with the pos guy. I certainly didn't, and if the test comes back negative I still won't.
>>5063291
sex isn't everything.
>having sex with random strangers that you met on Grindr or CL
Fucking disgusting. How can you be alright with the idea of just having anonymous sex with some guy you don't know? You have no idea what diseases he may have (HIV, Hep, herpes, any number of STDs), you have no idea how his hygiene is, you have no idea how he actually looks like (implying you can trust a cherrypicked picture he posted that's 5 years old from when he was still in shape), and you have no clue as to his intentions.
>>5062926
>being a jealous permavergin
>>5063063
Jealous of what? My 2D husbando is all I need.
Fun though.
Question for MtF anons:
It's no secret you despise men who actively seek you at as "chasers" and consider them losers who struck out with real women and are beneath you.
It follows then that your fantasy is to seduce a straight man without telling him your secret and (???) --> profit, somehow. We certainly hear about your efforts from time to time in the news.
My question is why do you think this is ever going to happen? Do you really believe this is a realistic outcome?
>>5062523
chaser plz go
>>5062523
> It's no secret you despise men who actively seek you out as "chasers" and consider them losers who struck out with real women and are beneath you.
This isn't necessarily true, although I'm not interested in one-night stands or casually sexual relationships, so a lot of guys seeking me out do wind up not being options based on that.
> It follows then that your fantasy is to seduce a straight man without telling him your secret and (???) --> profit, somehow.
That doesn't follow at all. I'm biscum, so I'd ideally like to meet up with a straight or bi person who wants to meet up with me, explain being trans, have them be cool with it, and see how things develop from there.
Do you really think there's only ONE trans woman on all of /lgbt/, or something?
Also, I should explain what a "chaser" is, when the term is being used by someone not bitterly venting. They're people interested in us as a vehicle for fulfilling their fetish, first, and as people only ever after that, if at all. I for one don't appreciate that sort of thing.
And fuck you, OP.
>>5062523
I don't consider them loosers, just terribly dysphoria inducing. I hate my dick, and don't want anybody to be playing with it, but chasers want to.
What do I need to improve
>>5061373
Almost there. Just start dressing more masc
>>5061373
Now you pass
>>5061390
kek
Sucked my first dick yesterday
AMA
>>5061183
Why are you so blurry
>>5061183
Your pic is very blurry.
I'm standing under the shower
I heard this is the tumblr part of 4chan
It's the tranny part of 4chan.
Your feminists are in another castle.
>>5061020
you'll want /lit/ or the worse parts of /co/, fam
>>5061020
>>/soc/
friendly reminder
What am I being reminded of?
>>5061049
/lgbt/'s crush on /pol/?
>>5061055
But I don't have a crush on /pol/.
So it must not be /lgbt/, but just stupid people.