>tfw you hear the happiness in your moms voice when you tell her you're detransitioning over the phone
>detransitioning
>>5209702
congratulations!
i have no idea what compelled you to do what you did in the first place but im glad youre reverting
What made you realize that you weren't a girl?
>been dieing to come out as bisexual for some time now
>finally build up courage to tell my psychiatrist
>he laughs and tells me I am probably just horny and perverted
>I insist that it isn't a phase, and that being in the closet is negatively affecting my happiness
>he immediately changes the subject
What the fuck. This guy is actually quite progressive when it comes to sexuality. Maybe he was trying TOO hard to say, "It's not such a big deal, Anon."
But it didn't have that effect. It just trivialized the whole thing. Maybe I should just continue to repress this and hide it from everyone? Better luck next time?
>>5209486
>Maybe he was trying TOO hard to say, "It's not such a big deal, Anon."
I did this when my friend came out as gay in high school. It hurt his feelings pretty bad and I didn't really realize til later. I never apologized :(
If you're not in a relationship with a person of the same sex, there is literally no reason for you to come out.
>>5209486
That sucks that you got a bad reaction from someone you trusted, but try not to take it too hard. People in liberal areas have gotten so accepting of LGBT people that coming out as bi probably will just elicit a reaction of "huh, ok" unless you're actually dating a member of the same sex.
How do you know the difference between legit bisexuality and just being desperate for affection of any kind? If so how can I get rid of these false feelings ?
Stop watching porn and miring your sexuality in lust. If you can't have passionate eye contact with whoever it is you're having sex with the entire time you're in the act, you shouldn't be having sex with that person.
>>5209457
You're bi. Straight people basically never think about the same sex. That's what it means to be straight.
>>5209457
im in the same situation i really think its just loneliness though
like i know the idea of fucking and cuddling a cute guy can sound appealing but come on dude
were above that
were not really gay were just super lonely but well make it so dont go off sucking that cock just yet
give it time
I think I'm gonna order some more poppers.
whats in your shopping basket?
That guy seems to have quite a long neck.
Has /lgbt/ tried out the new gay hookup app yet?
>>5209265
Yeah.it was aggressive. This guy pushed me down in my house.
I hadn't asked for s&m but I was kinda game to try it.
He kept hitting me and calling me faggot. I was only in a jock and had lubed myself up in preparation for the hookup. I rolled on my stomach and he punched me up my asshole. Gave me a nice rosebud. He got freaked out and left
My hole is prolapsed now. Help??
ahaaha i thought his handle was mattynice ahahahahahahahahahahahaha
>>5209265
ahahahahahaahhahahaha
>>5209286
try an arm bar
masc4fem master race desu
old: >>5206046
>>5207854
first for fem4fem or nothing else
again, does anyone know how to bleach or otherwise make my lips less red? i hate it.
>>5207859
You're pretty masc
/lgbt/, I'm going to be honest here. I'm a straight dude. I don't really get how the whole trans things works. However, I have a friend who was just diagnosed as trans (or whatever they call it). Instead of getting help and taking his meds though, he's throwing fits, getting into fights, and started working out.
His mom asked me to try and talk to him because he's my best friend. But to be honest I don't know what to do. When I tried talking to him he said things like:
> " It doesn't matter how I feel about my body"
> " I'm not that weak. "
> " I won't be weak. "
> " I am not a woman. "
> " I'm not some little bitch. "
Thing is, if he's been going to counseling (he has), his shrink isn't just going to diagnose him for shits and giggles. He had to have said things that lead to this, and even given affirmation.
So then why would he fight and struggle when he finally gets what most trans people dream about? He's still young enough to have this change his life for the better. Why is he fighting it?
Any advice on what to do or how to help him?
>>5207190
He's "manning up". Don't worry, he'll get around.
>>5207190
Show him pics of hons and tell him that'll happen if he doesn't do something now
>>5207190
>So then why would he fight and struggle when he finally gets what most trans people dream about? He's still young enough to have this change his life for the better. Why is he fighting it?
A lot of trans women go through this before finally transitioning. They think that if they just embrace masculinity to its fullest that their feelings will go away. It is curious that he has been to a therapist and formally diagnosed, though. Like you said, he must have told the guy stuff like "I wish I was a woman"
I don't really know what you could do for him, since self-acceptance is ultimately his burden. I guess try your best to communicate that you'll be supportive no matter what decisions he'll make and that he has the right to pursue happiness like anyone else. Btw if he does come out, immediately switch to female pronouns for him, it'll be a massive self-esteem boost
What's your favorite band, /mtfg/?
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- No bully
- No drama
- No country music
Last - >>5205641
I dozed off last night, but whatever things were cool. Good afternoon, going to school in a bit.
On thread topic: Favorite band is the Mars Volta.
There's literally a /mtfg/ on the front page of /lgbt/
Ever changing, never static.
Current: Vektor
Is it possible to have a thread where only positive things are said about trans, /gaygen/?
tinychat: gaygen
old thread :>>5204321
Fuck cars like a pussy.
>select all images with trains
I'm not trains, motherfucker.
Gaygen, I'm starting to see someone being less than a year out of the closet as a redflag.
They're usally shelfish and egocentric, you have to be careful with their feelings while they don't care about yours because they're still dealing with their coming out shit. They are bad at sex and have unrealistc expectations about everything.
It's worst if you're their first one. Even worst if they're bi.
desu it's not worth it
There isn't one so lets make one. I need something to check up on while I'm at work all day.
I'll go first. Passing on a scale of 1-10. Rip me a new one or give me advice I already asked on Reddit, but 4chans rougher so I wanna see how I do here. (No makeup or laser hair removal yet, and 6 months on mones.)
>>5205833
Jelly/10. Something's odd about your chin or jaw though. Dunno.
Do I pass?
Have you ever had an NSA deal?
I'm in my first one, and I'm afraid this dude is catchin them feelins for me, even though he was the one that stated for a no strings attached / fuck buddy deal.
How do I let the guy down easy?
>>5205674
Fake your death
Come out bi (so that he'll drop you)
Go back for (more) graduate studies, and explain that you haven't the time
Tell him you're "happy with what you've gotten out of the relationship", but you think it's "time to move on".
>>5205674
no, it never ends well. It didn't once for me and it was really rough getting over it.
Has happened to me a couple of times. I'm up front about just wanting a fuck buddy, NSA, etc... and it starts fine. But eventually feels develop on their part.
Had one guy who started developing feels but gave me an STD (after we said we would be exclusive). Dumped him and he started stalking me telling me how much he loved me.
do something with your pitiful life edition
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first for anime girl butts
>>5205641
That text image is so helpful
>>5205649
really?
my intent was sarcasm, i saved it because i found it funny
Is there such thing as a heterosexual femboy? Am i just a tranny in denial? Pls hlp
bamp
>>5205298
Who cares? You're screwed.
>>5205340
Yeah i know i am
I don't care if no one reads this I need to get it off my chest.
I used to be such a masculine guy, my whole life I used to hate on anything girly, I beat up gay people in school and out around town. I used to always do real shit like jump old beat up cars or blow stuff up. I used to smoke heavy and drink even heavier. I used to blast death metal from my truck and act like a total asshole to anyone and everyone. I used to get 3 or 4 girls in my bed a week. I was an alpha. Then 3 years ago at 22 years old I had a real bad wreck and ended up in a coma for a whole month. I woke up and I was a different person. I was just a depressed mess. I was in the bed for 4 months for recovery and in a wheel chair for another six months. All my muscles I had faded and vanished. By a year after the wreck I was a pale weakling with a slight limp. The whole time I was down I was on 4chan every day, I used to rarely go on and when I did it was on /fit/ or /pol/. I stopped going to those two boards and I got into anime and Japanese culture, got into reading and softer music, got into drawing even. Eventually I decided to sell my trucks, old cars, tools and move to the city and go to college. I didn't know what I wanted my major to be so I just went in for an associates in arts and humanities. All my old friends could not believe it and broke contact with me as I left my parents home to the city. I really didn't understand why they reacted like that, it was only school and they made such a fuss over it. When I got to my new apartment it turned out I was rooming with a gay guy, this didn't even bother me, I was genuinely intrigued and he turned out to be super normal and very clean and smart, the apartment was never a mess. Eventually classes started and after a few months I was doing great, I noticed though half way thought the semester that all the groups I was in, in every class was all women. I was shocked, it was so easy to get along with them, more than hanging out with guys.
>>5205056
Eventually one girl in my speech class asked if I was gay. I didn't know what to say, I never thought any one would see me as a faggot, I used to be a manly man with a gun rack in his truck and beer cans all over his yard, no way I would every throw off that vibe. I said I wasn't and that was it till finals. I asked her after the final since no one usually ever sees each other after a class why she thought I was gay. She told me I was very effeminate and only hung out with the girls. We traded phone numbers because she thought I needed a friend and I went to my apartment. I opened /b/ and relaxed a bit and came across a trap thread. I never went to one because I used to think they were fucking gay but this time I scrolled though and my only thought was jealousy. I was actually angry that these people were so feminine. Eventually I started spamming the threads almost daily and spent most my break between semesters looking for trap threads to spam, all the while reading endless articles and things about gender dysphoria. After a while I ended up realizing I wanted to become a trap. I was so eaten up with jealousy I had started to get horribly depressed. Eventually I locked myself in the bathroom and took a bunch of sleeping pills and hopped in the bath tub. My roommate broke the door down and called 911. The only other number in my phone was Jess, the girl from the speech class and my roomie called her and she actually came to the hospital. She was super nice and became my best friend that day. I was held under a 51/50 for almost 3 weeks, had to see a shrink, and eventually I got a diagnosis of Gender Identity Disorder.
>>5205063
That very day of the diagnosis they transferred me to the female wing of the mental hospital and gave me my first shot of estrogen and a daily testosterone blocker. At the time my hair was to my shoulders, I hadn't cut it since the wreck but I never felt particularly feminine with it. Jess came in every day and showed me how to do makeup and got me my laptop and a flash drive with some voice training stuff on it. She also signed me up for the classes coming up in the fall. It was 4 months after my suicide attempt that I was released from the treatment facility. I had been on hormones for more than three whole months at that point and I emerged looking very feminine and had small A cup breasts that were still growing. The next 2 weeks before class I kinda got back into the rhythm of life. My roomie kept the rent up and was very cool with me still, when I came home he actually hugged me and I felt better than I ever had in my whole fucking life, I had friends and felt like I had a path finally to follow. The next couple months went buy fast as I continued to go to classes, learning makeup and styling from Jess, and started electrolysis. At that point I still had almost 20 grand still from the sale of all my vehicles and junk, I even got to sell my registered AK for a couple grand because since being in a mental hospital I was no longer allowed to own a firearm, that was the last shred of my male life. Fall semester ended and so did my facial hair removal treatments, I no longer had a beard and I had 8 classes under my belt.
>>5205071
December 10th was the day Jess took me out for the first time to the mall in what I called girl mode. No one saw me as a guy anymore and I could not have been happier. We shopped for hours and got me a whole new wardrobe of dresses, stockings, blouses, skirts, cardigans, heels, my first bras and panties, some jewelry, and even got my ears pierced. We went back to my apartment towards the evening and I collected every bit of my old guy clothes, wallets, hats, belts, shoes and boots, every shred of my male life and took it to Goodwill and I donated it. It felt depressing for a bit seeing it all go, like the old me was finally dead. The next week was a blur, I went to the DMV and got a new drivers license in my girl name with a new picture, my shrink singed off on my surgery referral and he signed off for court for my legal gender change, by Christmas 2014 I was living as a girl full time. I came to terms with everything and scheduled my appointment for surgery asap, I got a date for surgery in March of this year. I did 5 classes in winter semester and did 2 accelerated spring classes before my surgery date. The the big trip to Canada came, the surgeon I picked out is a fucking boss at what he does and March 21st was my surgery date, I woke up from surgery the next morning complete but in agony. Not having anymore balls meant no more testosterone blockers and I could lower my estrogen to get even better effects. By May I was pretty much healed and moved in with Jess and her other friend in a house we all rented. Then before the summer semester started Jess died June 6th, in a car accident from a cocksucker drunk driver. I was pretty much devastated because she was my life, I actually loved her even though we were never sexual with each other. Her other friend dropped out of school and left town and I moved into a smaller place alone.
So I've been redpilled by /pol/
Jews made me gay. Can it be fixed?
>>5205050
So your parents are Jewish then? Oy vey.
>>5205065
Nope. But there influence in the media is what made me gay.
>>5205076
why does it happen to some people and not others? are you just a weak person? why would nazis want you either?