>attracted to girls
>all girls are trash or stacies, no interesting girls
Sure am glad I'm gay
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Go to bed, J
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>>5357954
IKTF
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>>5357954
just go for good looking ones, they don't need to have personality or common interests with you
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/lgbt/, I'm kind of in a bind here. My boyfriend said he'd cheat on me.
I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. Unlike most lgbt people he's been willing to take things slow and hasn't been trying to fuck after the first date.
Anyways we were talking about sex, condoms or no condoms, getting std tests done ( he offered to pay) and so on. At which point he asks me:
> " In what circumstance would you cheat on me? "
> " and don't say none because everyone has either thought about it or done it at some point. "
> " I won't judge you or be angry about whatever you say "
I came up with 3 situations.
1. I'm not getting what I want out of the relationship. If I were really frustrated and perhaps drunk, I could see myself making a bad choice before vocalizing or breaking up.
2. If he did something beyond the pale to piss me off. We're talking Hiroshima levels of rage.
3. I was star struck. Everyone has that one celebrity crush they'd make an exception for.
I then said all these would be valid reasons for him to cheat too. I mean, it would still be shitty and unacceptable, but I could understand it, even if we'd still break up.
Then he tells me there is only one instance where he would cheat:
> " My best friend. If she ever asked me to sleep with her, I would, no questions. "
> " I owe her an immense debt. It can't be paid with money or favors. "
Now, I was a bit upset about this. My situations were fantasy that would never happen. His is a real person he knows and has a solid relationship with. He told me not to worry because:
1. She's not into him sexually. She'd never ask.
2. She knows a request like (While he is with someone) that would be the end of their friendship.
But that's not a vote of confidence. His circumstance involves a real person he sees regularly. She's his best friend.
He says he understands it's a hard situation and that if I can't handle it he understands. I don't understand how he can be so casual about it.
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>>5357372
Bottom line he was talking about honor.
Specifically that the only thing which would compel him to break a bond of love is a stronger bond. U mad he has a stronger bond with his platonic friend. The solution is not to pout about it. Make your bond with your BF stronger. He sounds like a good man.
Also, chilling out would help the rship. You sound high-strung tbQh fagfam.
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>>5357404
I understand it is about honor. To be specific she kind of helped him through a tough time, when he had no friends. He was struggling a lot, hated himself and his life, was suicidal. I understand it was hard for him, and in a way she likely saved his life.
But I can't help but be bothered by the fact that he essentially said he'd let someone he isn't romantically involved with destroy a romantic relationship he has with someone else. That on a whim, he would commit infidelity.
The examples I thought of required extreme emotional and mental instability, or a celebrity (the type of person neither of us are ever likely to meet in our lifetime, let alone get to fuck) . They required being pushed to a breaking point.
His is literally some girl saying " Hey, have sex with me, pretty please? " .
I owe my mother and father an immeasurable debt, I still wouldn't fuck either of them for anything.
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>>5357423
Right. I understand what you're upset about. I think you do, too. You're just having trouble processing it and moving forward in a healthy direction.
If a guy said to any single faggot here, I would NEVER cheat except if forced to by a life debt of honor and it's never going to happen IRL anyway... they would all have their mouths on your honorable BF right now.
You could push him away with this pissy attitude. If I were him I'd be distant too after this dust up. Hearing your standard issue, less reassuring answers wouldn't help. He asked you to TEST your honor. Accept the situation with maturity. Be gracious. Work to strengthen your bond with him. I can't make this more clear. It's on you to do the work.
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Experiences with mailing hormones? 2015-12-08 04:55:52 Post No.5357162
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Experiences with mailing hormones?
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Random question I know, but I am about to be sending a friend some hormones through UPS (live in the states btw) I was just wondering if anybody has done this? How did it go? (through ups or anything really) because idk if it'll get seized or not. I know it's easy to get hormones from online pharmacies but that's pharmacy to customer not person to person. Sorry for the random and probably dumb question but I just don't want anything to go wrong.
>inb4 "omfg another tranny thread"
>inb4 "transhelpgen" sorry but I don't think I'll get a good answer there since its normally just for the basic questions
Ty in advance for any answers
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>>5357162
dude people mail like ecstacy and shit through UPS
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>>5357243
Really? Seems really dumb to do that lol, but I guess that makes me feel somewhat better
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Shameless bump for hopefully more input
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when a transgirl passes but she has the brain shattering voice of a flaming gay man
just why
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not enough spaghetti program
I keep telling /lgbt/ about spaghetti program to increase voice powers
but nobody fucking listens
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they most likely previously identified and presented as a super flamboyant gay person, before they realized they were actually trans in denial, and the "gay voice" stuck with them.
they could aslo be in the process of self voice training. when mtf's with strong male voices start to work on developing a more feminine one, they can go through phases.
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>>5357053
>tfw transgirls think their deep ass voices pass by being as soft spoken as possible
get a fukkin trachea shave
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>i will never have an abusive controlling ftm bf who adores me
Why should i go on living lgbt?
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>>5354475
You a guy?
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>>5354543
Girl
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>>5354475
... Because you will never have an abusive and controlling FtM boyfriend? I don't know what else is going on in your life - maybe you already have an abusive and controlling boyfriend and are lamenting the lack of variety (or adoration).
But not having an abusive and controlling boyfriend is something to be happy about.
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Money and travel is not a problem for me. Im 22 years old, 3 years on HRT. Not satisfied with the current results as I feel my face is still quite masculine. For now I think I need pretty much almost all the procedures (forehead recontouring, hairline recontouring, rhinoplasty, chin+jaw recontouring, trachea shave, possibly cheek augmentation). The only procedure I don't think I need is lips as I have nice full lips. The surgeons I am considering for now are:
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>Dr Bart van de Ven
He's probably my top choice for now. I just feel he's probably one of the best surgeon overall. I would say his strength is in jaw/chin work. I've done a consult with him and it was great.
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>Facial team
They are a close second. I really like their foreheads and nose, probably better than Dr Bart. But I think they are a bit too conservative for the chin/jaw, which is why I feel Dr Bart might be the better choice for now. Doing a consult with them soon.
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>Dr Jeffrey Spiegel
I personally feel he is overrated. Still one of the top surgeons in the world but I don't think he's the best. It also doesn't help that the pictures on his websites are really unreliable compared to the first two (flattering angles, lighting, makeup, etc) which prevents you to see an objective difference. He's really good at nosejobs so I'll give him that. Might do a consult with him.
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> be me
> be 18 y/o pretty qt guy
> know loads of boys and girls and have loads of good friends
> suffered secretly of dysphoria and wanted to be a girl for years
> at 17 after years of repression it seems dem feels are gone
> start dating girls
> i know this awesome gurl
> i fall in love for her
> she becomes my gf
> she starts telling me everyday how qt and androgynous i am
> i'm in fact rly androgynous and thin and get mistaken for a girl sometimes
> she starts telling me about how i should be protected and stuff
> she tells me she wants to dress in pastel dresses and get girl make-up when i'm with her with her caring about doing everything
> she starts giving me tips on how to care my skin and stuff to get more girly
> fast forward after days of more and more "qt" compliments
> she says she'd like to:
- Make me her own hikokomori
- Work while I stay at home doing nothing/relaxing/playing vidyas when we start living together in 1.5 years
- Get me HRT, breast augmentation and if I need even all kinds of FFS with all paid by her (she's rly loaded up with money)
- Treat me like her sweet little girl with her doing everything for me
The point is, after she told me all this my dysphoria came back and I'm really tempted to say yes to her but that would mean losing most of my friends, not working (I'm a work attached person) and being at home basically most of the time
Wut I do peeps
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don't do it, it sounds like an abusive relationship
you should think about transitioning though
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>>5352769
Sounds creepy and weird. But hell I wish I had a rich girlfriend who'd get me FFS. I got the rest but damn that would be nice.
Being poor sucks.
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I know, it's creepy and fucked up, but it is soooo tempting and idk why lol
And yeah, I actually maybe wouldn't need FFS (I'm 18 but I look like I'm 14-15) but you know, she said, just in case, she could also do that for me
But I'm quite undecided cause, you know, I already fought and defeated dysphoria one time and maybe I could do it again...
Straight cis people that browse /lgbt/, what do you get out of it? What do you feel you have of value to add? Not trying to be confrontational, just curious.
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I like the conversation.
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Don't browse often and post even less so.
Simply interested in having some sense of what the unique features of living as someone who is lgbt are. Same kind of interest that makes me read about someone living in another country, or novels from the past. Empathy for the variety of the human experience.
As far as "value to add" goes, not much. When I post, it's inevitably in response to something that has nothing to do with being lgbt.
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>>5351987
die het scum amiriteladies
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Anyone ever tried gay to straight therapy? Honestly considering seeking it out.
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>>5350983
Not unless you call taking hormones that
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>>5350993
Taking testosterone as a male?
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>>5350983
Don't be a moron
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>be normal, kinda awkward 15 y/o sophomore who likes to watch gay porn.
>not really confused about my sexuality. i feel gay and aren't really attracted to women.
>watch youtube coming out videos and all the gay people look happy and confident with themselves
>sister finds gay porn on computer
>tells parents
>i come out and tell parents that i am gay
>soniamdisappoint.jpg
>fast forward 6 years
>i am 21 and a senior in college
>i am attracted to girls now
>look at girls butts and tits all the stupid shit straight guys did that i thought was stupid when i was younger
>tried gay sex and straight sex and like straight sex better
>only interested in guys on some days not all the time like i used to
>can't wait to get married and have my own kids
>none of this is forced and i don't feel bothered by this at all
>meet beautiful girl and we've been talking for a while now
>but scared if i turn fully gay again
why is this happening?
how do i reverse come out? my parents and family have accepted that i am gay so it'd be awkward to just tell them that i'm not as gay as i used to be and i like women now...especially because when i came out my dad used to remind me about how i had crushes on girls in elementary school and i was just confused
plz help me
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inb4 die biscum ( i don't think that i am bi. is this a transitioning period to me turning straight?)
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bumping my thread. stupid trannies.
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Really it does sound like you might be bi.
But idk, I was obsessed with a female classmate of mine when I was 21. I forgot about her when I met her bf and he was so hot that I thought 'yep, that's what I like'
Relly, reversing coming out shouldn't be awkward. I really doubt anyone would be sad that you got a gf instead of a bf. Surprised, maybe, but not sad.
Sexuality is not a rigid thing. Of course you won't be straight one day and gay the other one, but it's not rare that sometimes you feel more attracted to some things, and less attracted to others.
So yeah, to me you're a bi guy who's more straight leaning atm.
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>>5350459
should i just avoid asking her out and wait a few more months to see if things change?
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>tfw white girl trapped in black man's body
There is no end to my level of pain.
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>>5348701
The feel of being hit by a smooth criminal
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Don't worry OP, in a few years when transracials finally start gaining acceptance maybe there will be treatments for that.
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>>5348701
At least you can get half way there. Maybe 3/4ths if you use skin whiteners.
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Agender/genderfluid/nonbinary is just "She wears short skirts, I wear t-shirts" the gender, everyone still knows you're dfab
It literally means nothing
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Now Taylor is the one wearing short skirts
the ironing is delicious
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>>5346987
i agree, i cringe everytime ppl tell me they are one of this.
same goes for they pronunce.
you are ether xx or xy , male or female, if you dont look your birth sex, live as the opossite but then use the opposite pronounce and dont make up bullshit terms to feel special.
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>>5347073
like not look*
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Trans are Mentally Ill 2015-12-06 07:02:12 Post No.5346196
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Transgenders accept a lie. They can't accept that they are gay and are lying to themselves
I'm a liberal gay who has lived under the domination of feminism my whole life. I hate religion and I view the transgendered movement as a religion
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But anon, I'm a trans girl who likes girls
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wrong you are a effeminate male that likes girls. get out of here cis male you don't belong
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>>5346196
>liberal
>opposes bodily autonomy and individualism
. And you've gone so far off the deep, you're indistinguishable from all the radical and fundamentalist groups that have mistreated you.
Also, Jenner is despised here.
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Who /closet case/ here? When are you gonna man up and come out?
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and lose family, friends, all respect from anyone, and financial support? fuck no!
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Fuck off ginch
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>>5336867
Well, I for one am getting my SRS paid for by grandparents. Sure worth coming out.
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Is dysphoria necessary to be trans? 2015-12-05 23:38:33 Post No.5344355
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Is dysphoria necessary to be trans?
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This is the first time I've been on this board, but I need to have a serious discussion and this seems like the best place to post this.
I've been fighting with my friends a lot lately because I'm a firm believer that you need to have dysphoria in order to be trans, because I don't spend my time fighting with people about how it isn't a choice, only to have people come along and completely ruin that argument by acting like it is. Apparently this makes me truscum, but I can not for the life of me wrap my head around how people can think that this line of thinking is okay. If I could choose not to be trans then I would in an instant, it pisses me off to see people wear the trans label like it's the latest fashion trend.
I'm not posting this to have angry arguments, I really want to know how many people there are that agree with me, versus how many oppose me. Let's have a civil discussion here.
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>>5344355
I agree with you
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>>5344355
Being trans basically means that either you don't want to be the gender you were born, or you would rather be a gender that isn't the gender you were born with.
As a result, it can encompass a lot of people, including those that get little or no dysphoria. This is because even though someone may not have dysphoria, transitioning can make them feel happier with their body and themselves.
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>>5344390
The problem I have with this argument is that there's no reason to not want to be the gender you were born if you have no dysphoria. Why would you fix something that isn't broken, y'know?