sup folks, there is something I need you to help me with.
Every time I hear of Gay Pride, I feel I can't understand it. Why should I be proud of my sexuality? It's who I am, It's a part of myself. It's not something I created, nor accomplished, nor had to struggle with. I don't understand why there is a need to be proud of it.
I fear I'm missing something. Could you explain me?
new femboy here
how hard is it to find a femboy looking for another femboy? any programs or websites you guys used in the past that proved to be effective?
most gays on websites seem to be 30+ year old bears or dudes with pure muscles and super tall
currently in canada.
in an earlier thread >>5350082 , we were discussing making & popularizing a word for trans people to separate us from certain tumblr types that we are sometimes confused with.
someone suggested using "dtg," meaning "dysphoric transgender," since it's short, its meaning is easily understood by people who are already familiar with trans issues, & it's relatively easy to explain to people who aren't. it's also useful since it's describing our actual medical condition rather than our opinions the way truscum & transmedicalist do.
the issue now is popularizing the term, getting people to use it enough that it actually has utility. the old thread was suggesting simply turning to social media with hashtags and tumblr raids, and i think starting to advertise the term on twitter & tumblr would work just fine. other suggestions are welcome, of course.
So here's my story. Over the weekend I was hanging out with my Transgendered friend (Man to Woman). "She" has been undergoing estrogen therapy for about 8 months now. I have noticed some big changes in her and most notably in her attitude, she has gotten really feminine and has started getting mood swings. The mood swings is what gets to me, for in the past my friend used to be chill and generally thoughtful in any situation. Now I feel that I have to guard my tongue lest I trigger her emotions. Last Saturday my friend and I sat in a bar and get drunk, we started arguing (can't remember why, think it may have had to do with bar fight scenarios) next thing I know she slaps me in the face. I was shocked, then pissed, so I immediately let her feel pain from the back of my hand.... I feel awful about the whole thing and feel that I have had enough of her new personality. I can't be the only person whose faced similar difficulties. How have others handled hormone replacement therapy? -Sincerely a 25 year old straight man.
I'm going to go into super low detail on the rest of this, but don't get drunk with your friend. Her liver's under enough stress already.
Unfortunately, her emotions are going to be a mess for a while. She's still learning to deal with being expected to have and express her feelings, and an unfamiliar hormone profile to go with. Some time in the next year she's likely going to start on progesterone, and that will exacerbate the situation.
So... Might not have to "walk on egg shells", but realize you're dealing with someone whose emotional profile is more in line with a teen's (and one under heavy stress, at that) than a 20-something's.
there's fucking 0 attractive guys on okcupid -_-
How the fuck am I ever supposed to find a boyfriend? please don't give me that "go out and find one" bullshit because 1 I dunno if any of the random guys I walk up to anywhere will wanna date me 2 that's super creepy 3 I never socialize well in the first place.
During pre-transition can any mtf girls relate to covering your chest/nipples when around others?
Not mtf (probably) but fem guy. When I was younger I would often wear a t-shirt when swimming and didn't like to change in front of other guys. Not for any nohomo reasons, but because I was smaller than most of them and it somehow felt wrong. Like I somehow didn't belong or wasn't a real guy.
How do I put on weight
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How to get rid of anxiety?
>tfw cant get my haircut the way i want cuz too scared
>tfw cant get eyebrows done
>tfw panicing about presentation today
How can I become more comfortable with my sexuality? Right now I'm very upset with it.
> be 24
> be in love with 41 years old man
> find out he is married and he has 3 kids
> he tells me he considers a divorce to be himself
> he can't even send messages because he doesn't want his family to be suspicious
> he tells me he loves me and I should wait
Any advice? I have no idea what to do. I really fall in love with him, he is amazing but I am also not feeling fine to spend the nights alone and see him once or twice in a week.
You're his side bitch. He's ust another down low faggot whos going to pump you and dump you. If you have any self respect you should leave. A guy in his position has already proven he can't be trusted because he's cheating on his wife. Why should you trust him? It can't end in anything but heart break.
>think about getting help with these feelings about wanting to be a girl and wanting to die because I'm not
>look at tranny reddits
>see pic related
>decide to not get help and just ignore it more
Does the finger test apply to you? For me, yes.
Pr is the instructions.
>tfw i just want to be a hot anime grill getting pounded all day
am i to agp for even this board?
Why do muslims get a free pass when they act homophobic?
Because they make the awful women shutup and cover up while the the men hold hands and play games. It's basically gay paradise already. They just can't come out because they don't worship Yaoi, the one true God.