How to have gay sex? How do gays have one night stands when you have to prep?
>>5402562
srsly halp
>>5402562
>how do gays have one night stands when you have to prep?
You don't always have to prep. Every time I've had spontaneous sex I knew my butt was clean and it's been fine.
>>5402562
fair question i wondered when i was younger.
honestly if u have good diet and regular bowel movements u will kinda just know if ur clean or not. eat plenty of fiber and u will be fine,
Ok, so I'm gay. I'm attracted to dudes, and want to have sex with guys. But when I have sex with them, I doesn't feel good. Bottoming doesn't hurt, just mildly uncomfortable. Topping doesn't give me much pleasure. Blowjobs the same. Am I asexual? I still want sex, so I'm not sure if I count. Women don't interest me at all.
Maybe you are a panromantic
>>5402025
maybe your a panromantic homosexual cisgender otherkin/dragonkin
>>5402036
>panromantic
see that red line under that word? I find your use of nonexistent words to be very #problematic
I asked this same question on /b/ and /adv/ but haven't gotten much of a response, so I figured this was next on the list.
I've been straight my entire life but have recently developed feelings for my bisexual friend. What do I do from here? Should I tell him? How?
Bisluts are great for experimenting. Just be sure to go no contact when/if you start to develop feelings.
Nah but really, we need more to evzn attempt to answer. What kindof relation do you have ? Has he manifested any interest toward you ? Stuff like that.
>>5401500
He's my best friend, we joke a lot about being gay, hell, most people we know already think or thought we are.
>>5401519
weren't tATu apparently a "straight" and bi friend?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mGBaXPlri8
maybe linking him to this would be too subtle a hint.
maybe it would be blindingly obvious.
i don't know. i'm retarded.
Say I'm a foreigner currently living in France. Is there any way I can get on hormones? I have insurance from my home country while I'm abroad.
>>5400559
Why are you trying to get it in France?
>>5405628
foreign exchange student has a crisis in identities and wants hrt asap instead of after he graduates?
MtF or FtM
If MtF, Easiest would be to DIY through qhi. It's a gatekeeping country, there's no way a foreigner would get mones quickly.
If FtM, IDK cause not applicable.
Not talking about myself. Just asking an odd question. Would you date a self hating gay from /pol/ who considers his sexuality to be degenerate and is a white supremacist?
I would because i kinda find it hot and he would not be a slut like a lot of gay guys. Also i bet he would be brave and strong :3 while still having a soft side that only i would know about.
Not talking about me. Please don't ban me
pol4pol is best pairing, not pol4lgbt.
>>5400545
What do you mean? :c couples have to be a bit different
>>5400549
it's like you're a failed straight guy that thinks he'll have a greater chance with feminine gay men.
This guy is gay, but he is also Mormon. He accepts that he cannot control that he has urges for homosexual acts, but due to his faith is choosing to avoid what he views as sinful, and has chosen to have a wife. Do you support this man? Doesn't matter whether you support his religious beliefs or not, because if he feels he is happier choosing the life he has chosen than he would be if he chose to live a life he sees as sinful then I am in total support of him
He can do what he wants but I feel really bad for his wife. At best she has a lifetime of emotional neglect ahead of her.
I'm inclined to feel bad for both of them.
>>5400125
If she's lucky, she has no sex drive and so won't miss the fact that he would have to force himself to stick his penis in there to make more children.
>On hormone therapy since 2008, Bilyk’s features are increasingly feminine, and that has resulted in more attention from male inmates. She has been in prison since 1987 serving a life sentence for second-degree murder after a house robbery she took part in led to the death of the female homeowner.
>I kill a woman so now I am a woman
>>5399617
>She killed a woman so she can't be a woman
Meh. What if she killed a man?
"Ah yes I've been in prison for 21 years and have probably already been raped more than once."
"Better start HRT so I can get raped even more."
Also I'm kind of surprised Canada doesn't just let her get SRS, legally change her sex, and get transferred to a women's prison.
>>5399823
Get a handle on the bathroom debate and then we can move on to the prison debate.
Hey anons, long story short I am trans mtf, I am almost 18, I am diagnosed sociopathic, ocd, tourrettes, A lot more stuff I can barely remember, and was supposed to be in special ed right now. I have only one real friend, I have major social anxiety so I spend most time alone, I am in the foster system and my real family disowned me this summer. I miss my dad so fucking much and he is disgusted by me. I think I may just just take pain killers on 18th birthday (few months) and jump off the bridge nearby. Thoughts? Help? Anything? Anyone?
No one here is going to be able to give you a clear answer to that question. We can only speak from our own experiences, not yours. That, and this is still 4chan, so you shouldn't expect people to have great advice for someone in your precarious situation. About all I can recommend is getting into contact with someone who might be able to provide you with the resources necessary to stay afloat.
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
>>5399383
Thanks I guess
>>5399373
what about your one real friend?
>tfw all of the men I see online are taller than 5'10
Why is it so hard to find short guys? Am I destined to be a bottom forever or is there a special place to order smaller men from?
Do you need the guy to be shorter than you to top them? Seriously, just fuck them in the ass, it's not that hard. Bottoms care way less about the height of the top than they do about how dominant their personality is.
>>5397598
But big guys intimidate me. I don't know why, but they just do. I find it hard to take control.
You ever consider transdudes?
>fap every other day, despite not wanting to
>be ridiculously hyped for spiro decimating my libido
>start HRT a few weeks ago
>my sex drive has steadily climbed to fapping twice a day and being always horny no matter what
send help
I fap 4-5 times a day. Have since I was 16. It sucks having an over active libido and no one to take advantage of it.
>>5397493
It's not even that. I hate how orgasm feels and I don't want it, but I have the uncontrollable urge to do it anyway. It's just silly and somewhat pathetic that starting a drug that would theoretically reduce my libido has done the exact opposite...
>>5397510
Why do you hate how orgasms feel? That's kind of bizarre. I mean, get a freaking chastity device or something if orgasms bother you that much and you can't help yourself.
I love taking pictures of my ass in leggings and posting them online for men to see.
You're just another victim of the mass scale social engineering that is taking place in the world right now
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Go and get hormones and creep on women in bathrooms
>>5397048
let's see that ass, boy
Alright guys, this one's a doozy.
Or not. Probably not.
So my best friend of 8 years (I'm 22) is super masculine, and religious. He used to talk pretty negatively about gay people. I came out to him last year and he was really cool with it; actually, he was so cool with it he was the one who made me tell him (my other friend spilled the beans).
I think the reason he's so cool with it is because I got him to start smoking weed a few years ago and I think it really helped him open his mind.
Anyway, so we're hitting the bars the night after he confronted me and he tells me this: "Dammit dude! You need to be single! What if I want to experiment?! You're the only dude I'd do it with!"
I had sincerely never even thought about him sexually before then, and it was weird to think about desu. Anyway, fast forward to tonight:
>be christmas break chillin in home town
>friend texts me
>"I'm excited to chill with you bro!"
>find out he broke up with his girlfriend
>feel bad cuz they really liked each other and he's had bad luck before
>change subject
>he's out drinking, obvious that he's tipsy
>texts me when he gets back to his place
>we sparked a bowl at the same time
>mynigga.jpg
>asks me if i broke up with bae
>haven't yet, but told him that it might happen soon
>"you said that last time anon"
>he just brought that up
>I tell him its hard
>"what your dick?"
>mfw
Dude. Is he hitting on me? Or am I stoned as fuck?
fuck now and regret decisions later. thats my motto
>>5394527
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That is fucking awkward.
It sounds like he is interested, but that might be due to your biased narrative. Straight up ask him if he wants your dick.
I'm a closeted trans woman(I think) and I'm short(5'6) but have a VERY manly bone structure. My wrists are fucking huge. My calves are gigantic(guys ask me my routine).
I basically look like shit while wearing overly-fem clothing and want to at least achieve a more fem figure before presenting in public at all.
Stop eating... Pretty obvious.
>>5394331
Pretty much. Adding on, losing weight is a lot easier if you're counting calories. Use an app like myfitnesspal or something to track them.
>>5394326
won't going skeleton mode make you look even more manly?
uhh, the fuck are you doing seriously
If every guy who likes trans women is gay then why don't gay men want me?
>>5393475
Damn
>>5393475
sexuality is more complex than tom and jerry or Right and left
Men who like trans women are not gay or straight
>>5393475
If your features pass, i.e. they cue people to register you as female, you will attract straight men, sometimes dangerously straight men. If you're in the gender uncanny valley, it becomes more complicated, and you might attract straight women sometimes, but not gay men who already know they have a huge supply of (subjectively) better options.
I'm trying to reach twink status, my current boyfriend is a cute otter mode with little to no body hair, but I'm a 6'3'' skinny, but soft in the middle and chest area 160 pound guy, I cant seem to get rid of it, but I want to be twink.
Is it genetic, or does it take work? Thanks for the help.
>>5392241
A lot of it is probably muscle and bone. To get rid of it, starve yourself of proteins and fat in general. Whenever I go back to being skeletor I eat <1000 kcal a day. If you're 6'3, you can't be really feminine. You have 7 inches on me lol.
>>5392482
>You have 7 inches on me lol.
you'd rather have 7 inches in you though, right?
>>5392482
7 INCHES