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I just got into a fight with my bf and i don't know what to do.

We've been a monogamous couple for 3 months and have done everything except barebacking. I always plan to have safe sex. So just a couple hours ago, my bf told me that he wanted to bareback (i usually bottom btw).

I told him I'm really uncomfortable with that and prefer condoms. He says he's thirsty as hell for condom free sex and gets mad because me saying no to barebacking implies that I don't trust him.

.... which is sorta true. But I don't trust anybody! I've had friends who got infected with STDs and even HIV because their "monogamous" partner cheated on them and didn't tell them anything.

I just want to be safe but he's insulted by me saying no. He just kept saying "You don't trust me, I have done nothing but been completely loyal to you... etc."

am i being unreasonable?

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If you're gay or bi and you're attracted to the same sex.
When you look at your own body and you have an attractive body, do you get attracted to your own body or turned on by your own body

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How do I tell if I'm trans or if I just really, really, really, really hate women up to the extent of not wanting to be one?

I have a loose cunt and I hate knowing my only worthwhile feature is worthless.

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>Be lesbian
>In an arranged marriage to a man
>He's very nice and everything, but just, not attracted at all.

I keep trying to encourage him to go get a mistress or something, so he won't always have an erection when he comes to bed, but he's being very..... difficult about it, keeps saying that he doesn't want to break the marriage vow, despite it being something that his dad pushed him into; and it's not like he minds me and Cheryl or anything, I don't get why he's being such a stick in the mud, and it's honestly causing problems.

Anyone have any ideas?

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Are there any straight people here who are jealous of /lgbt/ people?

I've always envied them since I was a little kid. I was always fascinated by queer culture and how much more freedom it seemed to offer than the heterosexual culture.

Gay men, lesbians, bisexuals and transgender people can all choose their "role". They can be masc or twinks or butches or femmes or androgynous. They can be tops or bottoms. It seems to me that queers can choose pretty freely how to act in relationships.

If you are born a straight guy or a girl, there is no freedom like that. There are exactly two roles, male and female, period. A straight guy has to be masculine alpha jerk or he's a beta failure. A straight girl must be submissive feminine slut or she's undesirable. Individual traits don't matter. Any attempt to break the mold means you might as well accept living alone for the rest of your life.

I don't have any questions about my sexuality or gender, but I'm still really drawn to this board and reading about LGBT people in general. I guess I'm basically vicariously living through them.

I know this is a bit off topic for this board but I don't know where else it would belong.

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how much important is anal sex between two men? how often do you do it?

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Transgirls, why don't you date asexual people who are okay with/enjoy the intimacy of being close to you while you pleasure yourself?
>very nonjudgemental
>will never see you as a sex object
>generally wont hide you from family like gross repressed chasers
>get all the intimacy your brain needs by climaxing while looking into loving eyes

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Is it because they feel like the alpha male of the relationship? Is it a truly homosexual attraction? What is it?

A guy who dated me once told me that there's something about dating a crossdressing man that makes him feel like the "real" man of the relationship.

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How do I start dressing how I want without freaking out the people around me? I'm in a LTR and would like to continue being in said LTR but she doesn't do well with change and if I just broke out with the leggings and tanks and tunics and makeup and whatnot I fear it will be too much for her and she will be put off. Just eyeliner was a big step for her and I've been tempering myself by my hair growth but the last 1/2" I've started to feel really comfortable with myself and my comfort level and femme now exceeds my percieved ability to change how I dress and act and I am hitting a point where all I want to do is be cute. For now it is wholly unrealistic to even try part time but when it's just us i want to be her girlfriend, finally, as I have always wanted to be. I love her and I can't stand to think of myself not having her to go through this with and I hate that I have to observe any temperance for any reason but it is worth it if it means she is comfortable, even though this has nothing to do with her. I'm so confused ;-;

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Anyone else genuinely believe that lesbians do not exist and that all female bisexual tendencies are just a way of garnering male attention?

That's not to say lesbians aren't in it just for the attention, they are too. Every case of lesbianism is just some loser looking for a sliver of power in some college LGBT group and/or fullblown attention seeking.

It's almost as if men are the only ones who have souls. Or at the very least, sexual interests for the sake of our selves, not society.

I don't know, just my opinion. I honestly believe that two women would not bother mashing their cunts together like retards if they couldn't pretend to everyone like it was a profound expression of love and be taken seriously for it.

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Hear me out-i am talking about coming out of the closet
-gay is more accepted than ever and coming out of the gay closet is no big deal
-trans is becoming more accepted so coming out of the trans closet is easier especially with high profile names coming out as trans
-coming out brony is very difficult, we re shunned by society for being "man children" we get abuse and the only place we can show ourselves truly is at conventions. we are also accused of being horse fuckers

it would be great if the lbgt community got behind us because we are also shunned for our sexulities and identidies as all you are. peace.

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This is the Trans Help General thread. We'll try to help you here with everything related to being transgender.
This includes questioning, appearance, daily trans problems, medical info, general info and other interesting stuff to name a few.

MTF, FTM and questioning people are all welcome here to help eachother and discuss possible solutions.

You can also share your transgender related stories here. Just came out? Or you just need to get something off your chest?
Maybe something wonderful happened today! We'll be glad to hear it, it's always good to know we're not going through this alone.

Links:
Articles, Studies and General information about Questioning, Transitioning and other stuff: http://pastebin.com/CyW1dXV8
Lots of useful links about/for transgender people: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
Transgender FAQ: http://pastebin.com/8QbKyShU
Am i trans/ trans help threads archive:
http://archive.loveisover.me/lgbt/search/text/trans%20help%20general%20%23/username/annicole/type/op/

Therapists: http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Therapists_by_region
http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_search.php
sort by transsexual issues

What will hormones do?
mtf: http://imgur.com/lDBLSVR
ftm: http://imgur.com/HqTqvJg

Previous thread: >>5352880

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Comics we know of:
>http://pastebin.com/6cUfQsZx

I don't care about the story as long as she draws porn:
>http://pastebin.com/MySMkL71

Feel free to recommend new webcomics not in the pastebin, MAKE DAMN SURE you include:
>Name of comic
>Link to it
>Short description
>Whether or not it's NSFW
>Days it updates.

If you're not sure if a comic belongs here because maybe it's not LGBT enough, post updates anyway. We won't know about it if no one posts it! If you see something wrong in the pastebin, tell us about it and the Anon will (eventually) fix it.

OLD THREAD:
>>5353654
>>5353654
>>5353654

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who got you thinking your own transition was possible?

▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶Makeup Tutorial: http://imgur.com/a/JO33K/
▶MTF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/36HC6ZmT (embed) (embed)
▶Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge (embed) (embed)
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/00000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
hi pookie
▶Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶Minecraft Server: minecraft.is-so.moe
▶Discord server: https://discord.gg/0XFIQ4xa7RcYJuo1

Previously >>5415379

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Do I have a feminine body shape? I'm curious...