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What to do if you're being misgendered in public or asked about your gender /lgbt/?
long story short
>been taking hormones for years
>still in guymode, because I thought I was a total hon -but apparently I'm getting androgynous
>had a job interview couple of days ago, dressed up slightly more elegant but still menclothes
>on an escalator I hear some teens laughing and whispering
>almost at the top when one of them asks me outright whether I'm a boy or a girl
>so shocked I can't even make a sound so I shrug and with a condescending smile walk off
>can't decide whether I should feel complimented or harrassed
I mean..how do you even react to something like this? I'm assuming these things are going to be more frequent now
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>how do you even react to something like this?
Answering the question que way you like?
I'm used to people misgendering me, asking my sex, or asking if I am trans, so I don't find this unusual at all.
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>>5502190
the*
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>>5502171
You act the same way as a masculine woman or a feminine man who gets misgendered: be an adult and decide how to react on your own.
I mean, I get asking for ways to cope with problems when you don't know how to deal with them, but you really want someone else's opinion on how you should feel? Because that's honestly what your answer comes down to: respond with whatever you're comfortable using as a response. Don't want to deal with trans shit today? Say you're a man. Don't want to hide behind a mask you didn't choose? Say you're a woman. Don't want to humor some douchebag teens? Give a smug smile and walk off without saying anything.
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Are fat dudes as touchy about chubby chasers as fat girls?
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>>5499400
Don't know about other fat dudes but I am not.
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>>5499400
What do you mean?
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>>5500841
How hard is it to convince a fat guy you like him and his personality first and foremost, instead of just treating him entirely as a fetish thing.
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>tfw "thank you young man, you're such a gentleman. You're so masculine and handsome with those broad shoulders, huge hands, and height, I bet all the attractive, feminine women are all over your huge penis. I'm sure all those women want you to fill their perfect, working uteruses with your hot man seed and have your children through piv sexual intercourse, you buff, adonis ubermensch."
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>>5497011
>Every word of praise is just another insult
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>>5497011
"Girls should care a lot for their appearance. Not like Anon, he is a traditional man. *smiles*"
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Shit homophobes/transphobes say 2016-01-10 01:25:33 Post No.5522379
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Shit homophobes/transphobes say
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>Tell someone I'm a lesbian
>"You like women"
>"And you're born a guy".
>"That just makes you a straight guy."
No... NO.... My sexuality towards women is not on the same level as a man's sexuality towards women.. Not even close.
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>>5522379
Use the catalogue next time hunty
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I think Trans-sexual's and Asexual's would have a mental disorder scientifically. Now this doesn't make them less of a person. But sexual orientation can be explained by hormone receptors and hormones they give off or are attracted to. But since being trans doesn't affect your sexual preference it means that it can't be that. It can't be something in your body either because then you would be born as the gender you identify as. So the only explanation is an irregularity in the brain. Agree? Disagree? Thoughts? Plz look at this with an open mind.
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>>5522077
Trans isn't a sexuality, it's caused by hormones before birth causing your brain to be more like the opposite sex, basically the brain is feminized but the body is not, obviously it's the opposite for ftms.
As for asexuality, I think it can be explained by orientation not being a switch that can be set to liking men OR liking women, but rather seperate on/off switches for attraction to each gender; attraction to men and attraction to women are seperate and independent from each other. So if you're hetero or homo you have just one switch on, if you're bi you have both on, if you're ace you have both off.
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>>5522077
Very insightful thread, OP
I'm glad you made it. It's a necessary thread that needed to be made and hasn't been made before. If I didn't read your blogpost I wouldn't be able to form my own opinion or experience your opinion in any other form.
Thank you OP, I'm glad you're contributing to the quality of the board.
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>>5522077
>sexual orientation can be explained by hormone receptors and hormones they give off or are attracted to
False. There is currently no evidence of human pheromones. Homosexuality is as much a mental illness as transgenderism, it's just that hurt feelings and leftism had the diagnosis removed from use.
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We are both straight 15, but we had a gay experience 2016-01-10 00:08:04 Post No.5521963
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We are both straight 15, but we had a gay experience
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So we were at a party with a bunch of friends however me and one of my best mates have too much to drink and decide to go lie down on the double bed, we are just kinda lying there and he hugging me and then spooning me but I didn't really care we do stuff like that all the time ( but never sexually) he starts feeling my chest under my t-shirt, then he just slips his hand under and starts like massageing my dick, I would of normally shoved any boy off doing this but I was drunk and it felt nice, 2 girls walk in the room that we know ( but he stills touching my dick) and we start having a chat to them about if the ever kissed/winched a anyone. They said no and he asks have u ever kissed each other they said yes and because we are all drunk we all so we Just start laughing, he then asks if u 2 do it we will, I was lying on the bed to drunk to care or speak so i don't refuse what he says, and within about 2 seconds he is winching me and I just kinda joined in because I didn't care who it was at the time.The girls don't do it and he eventually asks them to leave us 2 alone because our heads are sore, so Then he just immediately puts his hands back down my pants and starts winching me until someone walks in but we don't get caught. So I thought about what happened as the night goes on and I just said that he was just really drunk and that's just his personality( because he has a gf, but she wasn't at this party, and I've been with a girl Before) so a bunch of us closest friends get to stay the night(none are gay) and I'm sharing a couch with "him" not that it bothered me as I was sure he had already forgotten what happened. So it's about 3:30 am and we are leaning against each other and he starts feeling me again, but we are sobered up? But I just let him do it and then we start winching whilst he wanks me off, surrounded by our sleeping friends who have no idea. So I don't know what to do know, if I should tell someone or talk to him, any advice really wanted
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You don't have to define yourself with labels like straight or gay. If you liked it, you liked it, so what. Do what you enjoy and dont worry. Just remember that shit like this usually kills friendships.
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Let it slide, sometimes things happen. doesnt need to be a big deal.
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how much patience does an average guy have for a fwb? I've had some bad experiences with sex so I'd seriously have to know the guy and be able to trust him 100% before being ok with sex.
How long do you think an average guy would be willing to wait?
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If you are fwb you were friend before, right ? So no reason to hurry, he should enjoy your company regardles of the benefits. Or is it more of a hookup-type situation ?
Anyway if you need trust/have had bad experiences, maybe you would be better served by seeking a more commited/exclusive relationship than fwb.
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>>5521840
I'm meaning guys from grindr. I don't, and I've never had, any male friends.
The only reason I'm doing is because I have already given up on a finding a committed/exclusive relationship. I can't be loved but at least I might get fucked by someone I'm not scared of.
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>>5521848
> I'm meaning guys from grindr.
Zero patience then. They're a few swipes away from somebody who puts out.
What is it called when you're only attracted to biological females but you don't care which gender they look like?
I am attracted to both guys and girls but I am disgusted by dick and adore pussy. If Chris Evans had a pussy instead of a dick he would be the perfect guy for me personally.
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Technically speaking, you would be heterosexual. Gender doesn't really have anything to do with biological sex. Heterosexuals like the opposite sex(male/female), with or with out a preference for gender (man/woman/transgender/etc.).
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I have this problem. I'm very attracted to my FTM friend. I don't flirt with him because I know I shouldn't be attracted to him, but I think he can tell because he fucks with me. Showing me cleavage, trying to get other guys to sit on my lap. If I'm drunk I act uncontrollable girly around him, it's weird.
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>>5519452
>What is it called when you're only attracted to biological females
Heterosexuality.
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To all the true qt3.14s 2016-01-09 07:35:14 Post No.5519072
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Okay so, the sad reality is that 9 out of 10 traps/trannies really just look like men. But then, as we all know, there are a very very few that look like legitimate anime characters, that make even straight men want to fuck them.
What the hell must that be like, to be a guy that is so pretty that he can out-cute a girl. That's all I want. To be so cute that I can pull off being a fycking fairy about everything.
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>>5519072
That's what you MTF all are.
You just want easier life. You think that being qtpie will solve everything in your it. That all your problems will go away and men will give you everything you want. You think that being a qt girly making life a piece of sugary cake. So you want to ease your pain coming from this world.
Sadly this is true. It is really how it is here. If you are qt girl your life will be easier and covered with marshmallows.
but this doesn't change the fact that you MTF all lazy, crazy mentally broken piece of shits.
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>>5519072
and you too >>5519528
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>>5519528
You're generalizing based on the vocal whiney crowd that would be that way if they were trans or not. I grew up in a working class family and I've spent my life working hard and intend to keep doing so until I retire, I'm a 6"2 mtf who started hrt at 22. I did it because it makes me happy and it's how I want to live my life, I've been lucky enough to carry on my relationships happily with my friends and family which is what really matter in life and me and my fiance have been together happily for 2 years now. Not every girl is a princess and even less guys can turn into one, just focus on living your life and don't get caught up in all this dramatic lifestyle crap that's really stuck on the trans culture like a leach.
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Posting on teh degenerate bored am i ejjy yet :XXDDDDDDD
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K..... KEEP ME POSTED
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only one treatment for you
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not sure if attracted to men, or just have an emasculation fetish 2016-01-09 04:02:54 Post No.5518160
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not sure if attracted to men, or just have an emasculation fetish
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hello lgbt. just wanted to say you guys are awesome, i respect all of you and i don't want to come across as offensive. but i have a personal question about my own sexuality.
so basically, my dreams often involve sex with men. however, there is also an "emasculation" component: i often jerk off to videos of women telling me that I'm a fucking faggot and that I like it up the ass. And I like it when I think of being a man's bitch and him overpowering me.
My question is: is this normal gay fantasy, or do I just have an emasculation fetish? I don't want to imply that being gay is the result of a fetish, this is just a a question about my own personal quirks. Since this isn't reddit I feel I can be more graphic than usual.
But basically: I often dream of being dressed up as a girl, and a guy totally dominating me. I'm definitely attracted to women, and yet in my sexual fantasy, the idea of being fucked by a man is the one thing that excites me the most. I just don't know what it means.
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You could be a sub bi with crossdressing fetish.
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All my life I've only been able to get off to emasculating fantasies of myself, so I can 100% relate to what you say here.
Until about 21 years old, I knew I was attracted to women but I hadn't really ever been interested in sex as much as other guys I knew. I also hadn't jerked myself off until I was 21, so I never really knew what kind of stuff turned me on.
I was feeling horny as fuck one day and decided to buy a pack of diapers, I put on a diaper, got rock hard and imagined an attractive girl babying me and forcing me to wear a dress and use my diaper for its intended purpose. I could feel how powerfully emasculating this arousal was to me, so I delved deeper into emasculatory fantasies.
Soon diapers just didn't do it for me anymore. I moved on to women's clothes and sissy captions online, men didn't really interest me at that pint but that changed pretty damn quickly. Soon, the captions and the clothes themselves weren't enough for me to feel that extreme emasculating arousal, I then started to have the ultimate fantasy about being a shy, girly, sjirt wearing fucktoy that would never amount to anything in life. I wanted to be a man's slave, forced to wear dresses and give blowjobs/take it up the ass whenever he wanted to do so.
Over the time of my developing fetish/sexuality, I started to develop extreme dysphoria. My sexual fantasies and who I was in real life were NOTHING alike. I felt an in congruence between my fantasies and my body. The next step for me will likely be growing out my own breasts for men to fondle and wearing girl clothes full time. Also, I'd like to have a vagina some day and be forced to marry a man. That would be my ultimate sexual fantasy.
So yes, I get where you're coming from on this and I understand the things that extreme emasculation fantasies can do to your mind.
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>>5518160
You're a sissy; textbook sissy.
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How the fuck do I find a bf as a gay guy if I live in central/eastern Europe?
The loneliness is killing me.
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>>5516787
Post country
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>>5516787
I met my boyfriend on the internet. I had to meet a bunch of shitty people before we found each other but it was worth it.
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>That feel when no muscular beefy black bf
Anyone here had a black bf? Gibe your experiences, so i can vicariously live through them.
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>>5516775
ewww
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OP here.
I think the person in pic-related is very attractive. I would like to kiss him and cuddle with him.
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>>5517331
Well, that's just your opinion, mane.
I have a slight preference for blacks. Sure, I like whites and hispanics, but there's something about black guys I like, especially if they're the beefy/burly type.
And no, I'm not black.
I'm hispanic, myself.
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Shit, /lgbt/. 19 year old straight male here, never thought I'd be questioning my sexuality until I had this fucked up dream today. You fellas probably get asked questions like these every day, but here it goes.
Basically, during the dream, I befriended and eventually became attracted to an imaginary transsexual that looked virtually identical to a woman in every way. Her silhouette and her face were indistinguishably feminine, her reproductive organs were also feminine, the way her voice and the way she talked definitely sounded like a woman, touching her skin and kissing her lips felt like actual physical contact with a woman, but deep down inside I knew that, despite feeling like a woman in every way, she had been originated from a male.
And that's the weird thing though, because despite knowing that she was formed from a man, it really didn't bother me in any way. She was so adorable and interesting that I still felt completely attracted to that woman, or at least to that image of a woman, however you think about it. And it's really bothering me, does it mean I have homossexual tendencies? Because I don't really feel attracted to men in any way, but somehow the prospect of being attracted a person that looks like a woman, acts like a woman and feels like a woman but was originally a man doesn't bother me at all.
Is this the Theseus ship applied to gender? Am I homossexual, /lgbt/?
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>>5513431
It means you had a weird dream. People who look into the deeper meaning of dreams are morans.
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>>5513431
What you have encountered, sir, is a succubus, a demon that feeds off your fleshy desires through your dreams, basically anyone you have sex with in your dream is a succubus so be careful.
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>>5513447
I aint a moron. So fuck you.
If only I started HRT at 12, I would have never ended up with non-existent hips, gross linebacker shoulders and ugly conical boobs.
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>>5511495
I don't know, maybe you would've
>Look mom, I posted it again
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>>5511495
Yeah, sucks senpai.
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Plenty of cis girls have conical boobs, there's nothing wrong with conical boobs.