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>>5550210
Do you just crossdress? You're not transgender, you're a crossdresser.

Do you hate your body and wish you were born as whatever you weren't? Congrats you're trans.

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>>5550441
This person nails it. If anything the term trap is derogatory towards actual trans girls. But yeah, unless you have some kind of dysphoria you aren't trans. It might be easier just coming out as gay to your parents and keep the whole "trap" thing on the DL.

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>>5550210
I feel like I should also mention I'm 15
>>5550484
>>5550441
Thanks. I think I understand that coming out as gay is probably the right move.

ill see you in hell pachelbel

>>5549079
even buttslut?

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>doesn't link prev thread

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But girls always focus on their defects and get depressed because they don't look like super models.

I think being like that comes with being tru trans

>>5547477

Right, but the difference is you start seeing those defects in the context of general beauty instead of passing or proving femaleness.

I think its less about ability to accept oneself, and more about selt hatred due to a lack of empathy from society at large. Why love yourself if you feel like no one else does?
Thats why it is so important for those suffering from dysphoria to ACCEPT others who accept them, even if they aren't "trutrans", even if they're "chaser scum". I mean honestly, how much longer do you want to be alone, and how much longer do you want to listen to the bitter ones who chased all of their support away by saying it wasn't the "right kind" of support?

>>5540650
I once let my friend suck my dick as a prank.

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>>5540659
its just a prank bro

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>>5540660

Beat me to it.

>>5549474
>I'm a straight dude who wants to fuck cute dudes
Wut

>>5549474
>>I'm a straight dude who wants to fuck cute dudes.
>>why do I hate lesbians?

because you're gay and hate women and are repressed as fuuuuuuuuuuuck

>>5549474
>I'm a straight dude who wants to fuck cute dudes
this is bait

>>5549438

>Is the only one who cares is me?

Seems the same for me. I'm self-medding and only my little brother knows I am taking hormones at all. My mother seems to be turning a blind eye to my pain, which is cold. And she broke her almost complete silence during my coming out to my parents with, "God made them man and woman." She also doesn't want me to tell my youngest brother because she doesn't want him to get "confused." My father says they still love me and that he's sad I felt I had to keep this to myself. Still, neither of them seem to think I should transition. Although, my father said something to my mother and brother about investigating my issue further when he thought I wasn't around (mother and brother knew). And my mother said something like, "Oh, leave that!" It's funny that I had hated my father this whole time when it might be that I should have hated my mother.

Tbh, senpai, I think if your parents left you on your own despite your obvious depression from dysphoria in childhood and adolescence, you won't be any less alone when you actually start transition as a stunted "adult."

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I dont want to be a hon.

>pookie bebby

Fuck Elanna and her creepy little following of pre transitioners.

>>5549378
that seems almost more pathetic than being an open fag.

That said, I'm at a place where I'd rather people not know, but if they asked I wouldn't lie and say I'm straight. So far nobody has asked, so I don't find a reason to inform them otherwise. If people can tell you're straight or gay just by looking at you or interacting with you, you're probably pretty annoying.

>>5549378
>not earning the respect of your family and peers despite your gayness

Shameful.

>>5549398

Nah, I think its silly how we've been taught that the closet is a bad thing, everyone else is allowed to keep their business to themselves while fags must be an open book, that's lame.

>>5548649
Immediately.

>>5548651
After you cum in him.

>>5548651
Wouldn't he realize sooner than that?

Australia pls

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>>5547658

>phone post

Kill yourself f a m

>>5547658
>>susansplayground

>>5546280
I was expecting porn but all I got was sad

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>friend tries to be supportive and encouraging
>friend might even be into OP
>OP n-n-noooo's and fucks everything up
>and for what

disgusting

>>5547096
Yes I realize that now, I wish I would have taken the opportunity to atleast be honest with him. There would be no chance of us having been intimate though, even if it was just a prank bro.

I saw him as a father figure more than anything. He was 5 years my senior so the thought of intimacy with him made me recoil. He made me better just by being around him and talking, I loved him but only as the most influential person in my life.

first for the straight men of gaygen who wouldnt mind fucking a cute feminine faggot

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this is the coolest pic i have of myself

Second for burly gay guys that wouldn't mind raping a straight guy

>>5545757
practice on a dildo, or a carrot, or cucumber or something along those lines.
be sure to clean yourself properly before you do anything with your ass.

have fun eating dick

>>5545775
Thanks for the advice.

Talking about anal, should I clean my ass deep inside or just like a regular wipe?

Think of it this way: you have a dick, you've already got an idea of what feels good and what doesn't. Compared to a virgin chick learning about BJs you've got a huge head start (heh)

>>5544063
If you want to learn more about your identity, go to a gender therapist. The modicum of estrogen in birth control won't do shit without testosterone suppression, anyways.

>>5544090
That's the problem, there's no gender therapist where i live, or in a radius of 50km. I live in a extremely small city (Less than 40k habitants) and there's like 2 or 3 know mtf's in the city.

I don't think conventional therapists can help me with this.

>>5544063
Therapists only verify what you feel. I can't remember who said this, but they are like a glorified way to vent.

>>5543719
Well grindr is a hookup app after all, which means the people on here are looking for sex and only sex 90% of the time.

So don't be too surprised if you are judged by your physical appareance on there. You can't fuck a nice personality, after all.

Also, you really shouldn't get /fit/ to get loved, but because you want to improve yourself. You won't need steroids either. Most men are in terrible shape, so it's not hard to have a better body than the majority.

>>5543755
I'm just kinda spooked after the therapist told me that gays on grindr are really judgmental and have high standards. Also since I've always seen myself as straight most of my life, I've always been in competition with other men(like heteros do), not showing weakness, not complimenting other men for their looks, for heteros it's all about racking up numbers(fuck as many girls as possible). Also, since I'm gay and still feel pretty hetero I still have this aggressive mannerism toward men that disrespect me or belittle me, like I'd like to sleep with some man, but If he'd be really mean to be I'd like to punch his face in.

My psyche is torn to pieces, my hetero mentality and my homosexual urges. It's really messing me up. It's hard for me to compliment another man that's better looking than me(sign of submission, weakness).

When I was straight and in good shape I didn't lift for girls, but now it seems like I have to get shredded just to be able to have the change of sleeping with a decent mate.

I really don't want to loose my male virginity to some old man, that would mess with my head I reckon.

Also, because I'm down low, I'll have to have a good torso pic. So all I can do know with my life is think about fitness and worship zyzz and spout fit memes.

I gain muscle kinda easily but It's harder for me to have a lean body.

I feel like I'm on my way developing a body dysphoric disorder, that might actually be a good thing, i don't know.

I just feel so alone... and depressed... and anxious... I wish I could restart my life(respawn) because I've already fucked it up by being aloof closet faggot for so long who avoids other people like the plauge.

So wait, you're buying into this superficial stereotype because you think... gay guys are superficial.

Oh ok hun go have a protein shake or some shit.