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Both my therapists (who don't specialize in gender, fyi) use the term non-binary and genderfluid as well.

It's a synonym for another condition called special snowflake syndrome, it's when you're cis but really want some of that lgbt victimhood, so you say you're non binary, it's non committal becaus you can do whatever you want, yet it bestows upon you special victim status and the ability to get offended at everything.

Euugh idk, I suppose it makes sense that some people don't feel male or female. I've never met one before though so it could be satire.

I think having separate restrooms is unnecessary and perpetuates sexism.

>A lizard at that

>>5808588
>HAHA WOW, LOOK AT THIS THING THAT TOTALLY HAPPENED TO SOMEONE ELSE, WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?

fuck off, you've already ruined your kid, it's too late.

>>5808408
Not a top, but I almost perfectly fit the description of your ideal partner. Glad to know I'm someone's type.

>>5808408
Cute, likes anal and is a huge nerd.
None of the that fake hipester nerd pure true nerd or geek.

>>5808493
What's your definition of "huge nerd"?

No.

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you can say yes
i used to lurk /pol/ way before accepting myself as gay

>>5808427
OP here. Not everyone on /pol/ hates gays. But a lot of people still do. So you could still go back I guess. Anyways the only threads now are about the god-emperor

>>5807740
desu pride parades with people wearing nothing but phallic objects is worse.

>>5807740
all but straight, bisexual, gay, and asexual are made up.
that includes anything on the ~asexual spectrum~, like "grey ace" and "demisexual".

i don't really think there are more than two genders, and that most non-binary people are either tumblr-trenders (and not trans at all) or dysphoric trans people, who are likely confused and unsure of whether or not they're really just binary trans.

I approve. To me gay/bi/straight is just looking at sexuality in the simplest way possible, I don't see the problem with people creating sub categories within these that better describe themselves, especially if you fall under the bi umbrella, which is rarely a one size fits all deal.

I was watching a interview where this gay guy was being kind of a dick to a bi guy because he couldn't understand why he wanted to have sex with men but not be in a relationship with one, so even within the lgbt community there are people with a fixed idea of what being gay/bi should entail, and when you don't fit it they try push you into a box or insult your understanding of your own desires.

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How about other gender double standards:
A man hits a woman is WRONG, but a woman hits a man is OK. :-/

>>5807165
You know when you go on a youtube video, and a guy is wearing eyeliner, and everyone in the comments section is calling him a fag?

It's the same basic principle.

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>>5807169
Or maybe don't hit anyone cause getting hit fuckin' hurts.

Idk, I wish I didn't repress my feelings and transitioned when I started to experience dysphoria. I'm an emotional wreck and contemplate suicide every day now at 22. So I guess I'm a failed tranny.

I'm somewhat curious on how accurate GID and trans diagnoses are, especially in the under 8 crowd.

>>5806469
I went the other way, buried my negative emotions so deep that I don't have them, actually worked out quite well cos I pass now and use it to my advantage in certain aspects in life.

>>5805799
what was this particular dick like. we need details.

>>5805800
It was like 7 inches, not rock hard but hard, I even deepthroated it a couple times and was surprised at how easily a dick will slide down your throat compared to a pickle.

Also the head was kinda big, other than that pretty normal.

It was attached to a slightly older dude, is that the issue?

I mean shit, at least pussy has a flavor. It can be a dicey flavor but it's there.

>>5805457
Just seek a femboy, or penis-positive trans girl, and be a good match. Don't kill yourself over something as stupid as that.

>>5805457
Will you cuddle me?

>>5805457
I have the exact same predicament OP.

You're a dude who likes a girl.
Nothing's wrong with you.
Chill brotha.

ftm or mtf nigger?

>>5804951
but he's trans.

use to be a girl

but he is now a guy.

shoot i dont even know how to say that.

is trans guy mean that was girl, but now guy?

>>5804436
Anon, that's adorable. I'm so happy that you're finding yourself. You deserve now that happiness you had then. That's you.

>>5804630
:D thank you anon <3

>>5804436

>"actually you remind me a lot more of how you were as a kid now than you did a few years ago"

That's a good one.

Here are two:

>Dad: "When you get married, I'm going to make sure I'm there to walk you down the aisle, even if it kills me."
>They start asking when I'll bring a boyfriend home or talk about my future life with a male partner, the same way they currently ask when I'll bring a girlfriend home and talk about some non-existent future as a heterosexual cis man with a wife and kids.

Though if they did either one, it would also make me sad because it's never going to happen. I'm going to die incel.

http://g.e-hentai.org/g/853141/34405e6235/

Alternate link so you can read it

Also please explain why if you've voted

>>5804171

I think it's a chaser's sexual fantasy. Though there are some parts that appeal to a trans girls, since I do find parts of it hot.

>>5804147
http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2014/10/02/trans_chasers_exploitive_admirers_who_harass_trans_people.html

Here's the gist.

>>5804178
cheers duderino

>>5804178

>Even if he doesn't secretly consider you a boy exactly, you'll never truly be a woman in his mind, either, because you've been exoticized as "the woman with something extra." Something else. Something other.

Because you ARE different: you were assigned male at birth. That doesn't mean you're not a woman, but it doesn't mean you're cis... Why do people like this author focus so much on propagating the cis meme? You can have a loving boyfriend who knows you're trans and [gasp!] might even like you for it. That doesn't mean he's chaser scum. Obviously the guy in this story who called his girlfriend a "cute boy" is a complete idiot, but blindly refuting any attempts of discussion regarding the womanhood of transgirls is only going to cause problems.

>>5803988
Sexuality can be pretty fluid and confusing, especially during your teenage years. It becomes pretty clear by around 20 at the latest though. These people who are "figuring it out" later on just consciously pushed themselves deep into the closet when they were younger. It's not a realization, it's an embracement.

>>5803988
I had a general idea of who I liked, but I grew up in a very conservative area so I forced myself to never explore it, never talk about it, never mention any of it, and bury it. Now in my 20s I'm still repressed and sexually confused, even after coming out. All of these people have been in the LGBT dating circut for years and I'm bumbling into it now like wtf am I doing pls help me.

>>5803988
Took me until I was 18 to admit to myself I was gay. I had some major fetishes (abdl) that obscured that fact for awhile - namely I would "self-insert" while looking at abdl pics - telling myself that it's the fetish, not the guy I was getting off to. Denial is a bitch.

But yeah - I know dudes in their thirties who are still "questioning" and I think it's ridiculous.

Radfems, including the subset of terfs, do not want gender abolished.
Do you even understand the different between second and third wave feminism? It's these bullshit sjws who want gender abolished and shit.

I'm not either personally, I think they're both imbecilic and feminism has been downhill since Wollstonecraft tbqh.
But women's shelters are needed, there is a demand for them. There are also men's shelters like YMCA. These places function better when divided by gender to give the right care to the right demographics and leave women feeling safe and actually being safe.

>>5803719
My experience with women only spaces as an obvious dude is that they are either A) not safe and ment to bully and exclude, especially transwomen, with "safety" just a thin veener or B) not really 'women only', but more like 'for women, mostly but dudes are welcome too just don't be dicks please'. I've been to plenty of Bs, and people are usually chill and welcoming.

>feminism has been downhill since Goldman and de Cleyre
fixed that for you

>>5803719
TERFs don't call themselves TERFs, they call themselves gender-critical. Originally that meant they were in favor of abolishing gender roles, as they were something that holds women back. However, now they view gender as a "loophole" which allows men to invade female spaces. They don't realize that discriminating based on sex is in fact enforcing the gender roles they originally wanted to abolish.