Why does Gender Theory object to a connection between sex and gender despite biological evidence that says other wise?
Gender Theory is absolutely batshit insane and has no basis in reality as it virtually ignores biology completely.
What's worse is that the entire theory is based off of a botched experiment that ended in the subject committing suicide.
>>5944722
Gender is a sociological construct dependant on performance and societal reinforcement. The idea that sex is a strict binary dichotomy becomes problematic when you consider 1) men and women not only share but REQUIRE the same hormones in wildly varying degrees person to person and 2) the gender dichotomy defines the differences between men and women in ways that leave plenty of people in a liminal gray space, and this is confounded because even the sex dichotomy itself is broken: there are people whose sexual organs don't match their chromosomal sex, and people born intersex that this binary can't account for. So fuck off.
I think all this gender stuff is bullshit. People should be able to wear whatever they likes, rocks, dress, uniforms. But some so called social scienists get the idea to create all this gender nonsense. I remind you they doing their research for goverment money, and we pay for that, and they will do this for years like in Soviet Union many "scientists" were proving whole days that marxism-leninism is most revolutionary idea in the world.
>>5944757
how does one wear rocks
Consider the following;
>most men don't manscape
>so get ready for a man bush
>and hairy butthole
>and butthole not regularly prepped for sexy time so it's probably really dark and their diet isn't based around regularity for easy prep so it's going to be horrible and no fun
>men are generally gross, especially straight men who in general dgaf
>prepare to help them through an existential crisis after you fuck/ they fuck you, especially if it's the first time for them, especially if you got them drunk first and played on their inhibitions/ they just got out of a relationship
>add to this list
>
>>5944575
one of my fantasies it to get tied down fugged by a tranny and go through an existencial crisis, but she will help me get over and make me fall in love
>so get ready for a man bush
>and hairy butthole
this supposed to be a turn off?
>>5944575
>most men don't manscape
>so get ready for a man bush
>and hairy butthole
That is a good thing. I'm attracted to masculine physical traits, body hair included.
>and butthole not regularly prepped for sexy time so it's probably really dark and their diet isn't based around regularity for easy prep so it's going to be horrible and no fun
What are condoms?
Also, he could be the top
>men are generally gross, especially straight men who in general dgaf
Again, that's a good thing.
>prepare to help them through an existential crisis after you fuck/ they fuck you, especially if it's the first time for them, especially if you got them drunk first and played on their inhibitions/ they just got out of a relationship
I mean it's not like I'd expect a straight man to want to be my boyfriend to begin with.
So. I did it. Ordered my Spiro and Estradiol. Now, I've been doing my research, but if you kind folks can help me out any more I'd sure appreciate it.
Been exercising a lot, lost 20 lbs so far, maybe another 20 to go. I know estrogen makes it a little harder to lose weight, but how much? If I'm burning more calories than I consume, I'll lose weight. That's just physics.
Smoking. Trying to quit. Wish I could just vape or use gum but as I understand it it's nicotine itself that's the problem. How much does it increase health risks, really? I could just start a daily aspirin regimen to help cut down the risk while I continue to try and quit. How much does it impede feminization?
Drinking. I'll usually have 3-5 drinks, maybe 1-2 times a week. Not really an unhealthy amount in general, but how do hormones affect this?
Is taking the Spiro for a month before starting the Estradiol really necessary? I mean, I know in general it's unwise to start two drugs at the same time, so that you can tell which is causing what side effects, but a whole month? And won't I be exhausted and miserable that whole month with no t and no e to replace it?
I have questions and I like to understand why I do what I do, but make no mistake, I'm committed to doing this right. Thanks /lgbt/, looking forward to your advice.
You aren't a woman. You'll regret doing this to yourself
Weight is hard to lose on estrogen, but that's because fat starts depositing in places that didn't have any before. Just do your healthy thing and you'll see results. An emphasis on leg/glute exercises would help you in the end.
The drinking is probably okay, but cutting back would help. Don't take your pills with any alcohol. Try and have your last drink a few hours before you take any hormones.
You gotta quit nicotine entirely. Nicotine DRAMATICALLY increases your risk of blood clots, and can make it harder for your body to process the hormones. If you're self-medding, and not having blood work done, you can't risk it. You don't want to die from DVT.
I couldn't really say about the spiro first, but it's kind of hard on your liver for the first few weeks. If you're deadset on starting them both at once then try to keep it to one beer a night or so, at least for a while.
> mfw being trans made me an actual non-meme misogynist
Why do I simultaneously feel disgust and hate towards the female gender but also want more than anything to be a female?
>>5943869
gender=/=sex
>>5943878
What's your point?
>>5943869
Because you know you can do it better than them.
Do you pass? Let Artificial Intelligence decide for you.
https://howhot.io/
Most hons will get "female" with makeup but "male" without
Source: me
>>5942919
>TFW my most feminine pictures still say male
Atleast I made it to "nice" ;-;
>>5942919
Jack?
Is it strange that I've felt more jealous/envious of other trans women and not cis women? I also ask the same question to trans men as well. It's like cis women are some impossible standard to reach because I'll never be cis/never went through male puberty but with other transwomen many of us have the same starting place, most of got punched in the face by male puberty.
For some the damage is worse than others but I can't help but think we all start in the same pool. However when I see 10/10 transgirls or girls have been on hormones half the time I've been but look like cis girls, I can't help but feel inferior and depresses me.
Yes, I know being envious of prettier girls is dumb and pointless and I should focus on bettering myself,reaching goals,etc. It's just hard to deal with it senpai.
pic not related but HxH is coming back next month, so yay.
This actually makes perfect sense, OP. Cis women are fundamentally different than trans women. Even the pretty, passing, femboy trans women have different biology than cis women. Comparing the two is sort of like comparing apples and oranges.
But with other trans women, we were all given the same cards at birth. (Or, similar cards, in that we all were born with a penis.) So when you see another person who was also born with a penis just like you but looks so much better than you, it's natural to be a little jealous, because you can't blame their chromosomes. They're more or less in the same position as you but got luckier.
I know that isn't a comforting thought, but I hope it helps to know that you aren't alone, and that your jealousy is more rational than you think. But while there are trans women who pass better and are prettier than you, there are always ones who are uglier, started later, or pass less. Sure, feeling better about yourself by looking at them isn't necessarily the nicest thing to do, but you gotta do what you gotta do, right?
I can totally relate. The idea of simply not passing gets me so down, I can barely face my own reflection. Just looking at what I think is the ugliness of my own face and body and then looking at not only how beautiful some transwomen are, but also how well they PASS, really depresses me.
I know though that now some trolls will come on here and start complaining about "hugboxing" and bullshit. But this is a real issue. It's hard enough to go out and stare prejudice and cold, silent hatred and fear in the face and not be afraid, but to also be constantly made to feel ugly by not only your own personal comparison with someone else but the nasty bitchiness of a lot of the toxic trannies on here is extremely depressing.
Maybe I'm turning this into an issue you don't personally face, and if so, correct me. Puberty is one thing yes, but simple genetics, something no one can control, is to blame a lot of the time. The simple fact is, some people are born lucky, with good looks, feminine features, etc, which give them a natural advantage should they be transsexual. Is it fair? No, of course not. But the world is not fair. All you can do is create your own standards, and not live by what others say of you, and only then will you truly feel content. I wish I could practice what I preach desu.
I'm cis and I feel that way too.
I-I'm cis r-right?
When I was 19 I self medicated hormones (mtf) and hung out with trans pornstars and almost became one. I had a bad acid trip and detransitioned, thinking that my trans "delusion" was responsible for my drug addictions..: spent the last 6 years living as a man and I'm ready to an hero. I frequently have fetishist sex with crossdressers and transwomen when I'm in "girl mode" - I weigh 135 lbs, compulsively shave my body, eat vegetarian and exercise constantly to keep a lean figure with a waist thinner than hips. My trans friends, some brutally honest people, tell me unanimously that I'll be prettier than them if I transition ASAP.
I'm going to my shrink this week to tell him everything. But - I hear horror stories about doctors making you wait years and years, or forcing you to crossdress full time before prescribing HRT? That puts me at risk of not starting HRT until 30.
I've seen some good resources on mtfgen, I lurk here regularly and don't wanna Tripfag.
Besides fucking killing myself for being a faggot transbian freak - what's the better route? The medical establishment or informed consent?
And if anyone doesn't mind, I know it's difficult to talk about - could I get a tl;dr of the path you anons took to transition? Simply so I have some guidance
>Besides fucking killing myself for being a faggot transbian freak
>transbian
What a shame
>>5942559
I tried guys, as a gay man, but too many treated me like shit - especially when I'd be honest about my trans history
>>5942546
>30
tfw masculine athletic bisexual male.
>everyone says just date men
>not sexually attracted to anything masculine
>never met a cute crossdresser or twink.
Whats the point, girls are fucking psychotic and the males im attracted to don't exist.
>>5942424
Nice pic bro, Dagashi Kashi right?
>>5942444
Jah, kind off-topic, but backstory.
Pics as related are what got me into bisexuality.
My friend was showing me hundreds of pictures of crossdressing males that could pass for petite women, found it arousing.
Tried to jack off just to a regular dude though and I got nothing.
Which sucks, because my bff knows a gay dude that wants to jump me, I just feel nothing towards bears, being one.
The guys you are attracted to tend to also be psychotic, just a heads up.
Why don't gay men have sex with women?
If you're only in it for the lust, you would last longer, and you wouldn't have any emotional attachment?
Picture not related
>He thinks we don't know about the infinite edge slide
Fag
>>5941873
We do, just on the DL. No point in talking about it, homophobes don't need more ammo.
>>5941873
>Smash Bros.
>Smash
It's a little bit related, OP.
I'm one year into HRT but I don't think my body resembles woman's body in the slightest. I have one of those ectomorph body types so I never put on much muscle or fat but otherwise it looks more like an ideal man body (super tall, narrow pelvis, no body hair) going through a Frankenstein experiment that went wrong. All the fat that I have gained during HRT goes exclusively to my belly so I had to lose weight again and now I am exactly where I started not looking one bit different except for my oversized nipples that look out of place as fuck. I can't wait to finally kill myself so I won't have to deal with my body anymore.
>>5941375
>but I don't think my body resembles woman's body in the slightest.
Yeah because you're not a woman. You are a man.
Are you really this stupid to think that swallowing some pills will magically change you from one sex to the other?
>>5941375
Did you self med?
>>5941375
same situation here, except i have a different body type (Mesomorph i think)
i have extremely wide shoulders and muscly chest and a beer belly with body hair absolutely everywhere on the body. Both Body and face don't resemble anything female and no hope for passing.
What do?
Can we have a gay board with trans stuff and a gay board with no trans stuff? You guys are weird :( but you should still have a board
>>5940229
most "gays" are just trans in denial though.
>>5940240
I don't think that's how this works
>>5940229
Yeah, but they lumped everyone in together, even though the Ts tend to push out the LGBs and demand even more alphabet soup.
I'm a bit overweight, but losing it pretty quickly.
Should I continue to cut, then start estrogen afterwards
Or should I start estrogen now while cutting?
I'm trying to figure out what has the best fat redistribution potential
>>5939907
honestly you have to cut then bulk multiple times go actually get fat redistributions full effects while on estrogen the whole time. i've found progesterone helps the bulk and fat staying in certain places. both make cutting fucking awful stupid difficult level expert S
>>5939983
Not OP but this is good to know.
Why is OP using old pics from Bailey Jays posts ages ago when she wold post on 4chan?
>I'm a “Straight White Male” who don't really know how to talk to pretty girls.
>What I'm asking here is that I don't really know what to say.
>I walk up to a girl and I just became a “Socially Inadequate Person”.
>And after I talk to them I think oh good did I just say the wrong thing.
I don't know what do you think?
Spend a week and watch as many of the videos on this channel as you can
https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDTyler
Then go out and practice what you've learned
>>5939648
I'll take a look at it.
sup legbutts
my gf is trans (gay male here)
I dunno why but I stole 1mg of her estradiol and one of her spiros and just took them to see if I "feel different"..... I'm not into being trans myself and I've had drug problems in the past.
just want to know how your first time taking hormones / anti-androgens was..... I feel kind of... happy, which is odd as fuck. If I loathed my dick I'd consider getting prescribed this shit
also, she just got her meds upped, so the shit I took was from her old bottle that she doesn't use anymore
pic unrelated. also yeah, I know. dickhead move..
>>5938527
>>5938551
o god why ;_;
>>5938527
>gay male
Haha nope. You're both filthy transbians.
Has there been gay sex in space yet?
>or lesbian im not picky
Do you actually think guys spend a year on the ISS just doing experiments? No, they're "experimenting".
How are you supposed to get privacy on the ISS? Like even just for a fap or something?
Space sex would be near impossible
http://space.about.com/od/frequentlyaskedquestions/a/Is-Sex-In-Space-Possible.htm