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Is it false advertising to say I'm bi when I'm really only attracted to women and really femmy guys? I sometimes get messages from normal dudes on dating sites and I hate having to ignore them or turn them down cause I'm not into normal men at all. Sometimes I just chat with them for a while to be nice, but I feel like I'm leading them on. I honestly don't even know if I could do a ltr with a femme guy anyway cause they inevitably get more masculine as they age.
Would it be more practical to just say that I'm a lesbo?
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Sexuality is fluid. I identify as gay; I've always been 90% gay and there is no reality in which I'd give the generic woman the time of day. It's just that sometimes I really, really want to bang a milf. I think it's a leftover perversion because I learned what sex was at age like, five, and I just imagined sleeping with every woman ever.
Funnily enough, I really only like older men as well. I'm sure there's something more to read into there but it doesn't bother me so I just fuggedaboudit.
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>>5973105
Not really. it's not like there aren't straight or gay people who are only attracted to a certain type of person. Gays who only wants twinks, straight women who only want Chads, etc. Just put on your profile that you're bi but only like men if they're feminine or something.
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>>5973391
This.
What's the problem with stating what you actually want.
Is it possible for me to unironically identify as 'gendermeme' without being seen as a joke?
Let me explain. My gender has been influenced by outside fads and expectations a lot. It's like the universe has 'shifts' between masculinity and femininity: for example, 2010 was midway through, and this caused me anxiety. 2013-2014 was VERY masculine with people like Kanye West gaining prominence again, and the appearance of lumbersexuality. The recent years, however, have been very femme and it feels like its staying like that, which makes me comfortable.
How do I avoid being made fun of for a legitimate, perceivable, time-measurable strand of genderfluidity? Are there any other gendermemes? Is there a potential new, easier to use name for this that still includes 'meme' because that's the core concept?
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>>5973047
yr just an extra pretentious and ~~~unique~~~ transtrender, pls kill yrself
sincerely an actual trans person
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>>5973069
>being seen as a joke after asking to not be seen as a joke
thanks anon this wouldve been you in the 90s
I feel like I can't possibly be the only gendermeme so that already invalidates accusations of being a special snowflake.
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>>5973047
I honestly am a little disturbed and enlightened how much I identify with this post. I didn't know what we were was called Gendermeme but I think we're both very gendermeme.
If we're both gendermemes I'm sure this board has to be full of gendermemes too. I'd like to hear some of your stories about being gendermeme to help me know if this is something I should start identifying as, Its already spoken to me so I'm tempted to make it my entire personality right now.
Watching anime usually makes me feel very feminine, I'm curious what memes influence your gender the most anon.
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Why are trans girls so retarded? 2016-04-05 07:04:54 Post No.5972795
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Why are trans girls so retarded?
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They complain nobody likes trans girls
Find someone who likes trans girls
>eeewww a chaser
If anything this retarded logic is evidence that lots of trannys have female brains.
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Trans girls are retards, go for traps instead
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A Question To All MTFs 2016-04-05 06:54:24 Post No.5972760
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Say you went up to a straight male and you asked him out, but he asked for your positives compared to a "real woman", and would be willing to date you if you could answer him honestly.
Cause I'm having trouble trying to think of ANY positives. Dating a real woman has many benefits to the man in question that you could sort of apply to an M2F as well, but here are your negatives compared to a real woman:
-Can't rear children and continue his genetic line. Being with you is a dead end. (And saying "not all men want kids" is a pussy way out of answering this. Why wouldn't these same men get themselves clipped and then be with a regular woman?)
-He risks injury and death if anybody finds out he's dating a transgender
-Even if that doesn't happen, it will most likely hurt his lively hood and friendships
-The most sinister one: MTF transgenders have high rates of STDs; and what if you weren't faithful? You could give him AIDS.
So please, try to think of anything that could compensate the last three. Are you made of solid gold that would be worth abandoning friends for?
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Literally only for fetish purposes
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>>5972760
straight guys don't go for mtf girls
if you met a "straight guy" as a mtf he was most likely lying and was well aware that you were a mtf
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Seen literally this exact copy and paste, word for word, a couple months back. Better luck next time.
>Are you made of solid gold that would be worth abandoning friends for?
Yes
Is there such thing as an attractive gay guy?
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>>5972392
I'm a straight guy that exclusively fucks dudes
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>>5972392
>cavill
>straight
lmao
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P sure the first one is a lesbot, pham.
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Are there any other trans here that go to Quest Labs on Bank Street in Granby, Connecticut to have their blood drawn?
Just wanted to ask some questions because I think I recall seeing a thread here a while back from someone who said they werent there and they mentioned being abused or whatever and I wanted to know if it matches up with my most recent experience.
Basically just want to ask questions, any help would be appreciated. I hope you're here and see this, whoever you were.
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Is trans blood even human? i always wondered this.
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>>5972064
No we're immortal superhuman vampires blessed with the power bestowed upon us by the ancient stone mask.
But seriously please help if you can.
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Please respond.
Does this board have issues with gender fluidity or demisexuality? Obviously different people are different just wondering if it's generally a more inclusive board or not. My first reply was kinda hateful
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>>5971859
back2tumblr with your memegenders
alternatively kys
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>>5971859
I can't speak for the entire board but I think demisexuality/gender fluidity are ridiculous concepts. I don't hate the people, I just think they're confused
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>>5971859
>gender fluid
>demisexual
straight cis people hijacking lgbt
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So I need a question answered. I currently dating a transgirl, first time for me dating a transgirl. Going through hormones and has good development. Shes still working on voice training. I keep wanting to make sure I am saying the right terms and everything. So I asked her some questions like "How do you refer to your genitals as to not offend?" which she was very pleased with me asking before assuming. She refers to her penis as a clit, I don't always want to say that as the word clit is cheesy and will eventually be awkward to only say that. What are some other terms I could refer to it to not sound like an ass?
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>>5971566
Oh boy are you in the wrong place, m8... Ask her about this, for real, she'll appreciate it.
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>>5971613
I would, but im trying not to bring it up anymore to stop reminding her.
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I would just say private area.
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Am I the only one who stopped watching RuPaul's Drag Race after Season 5? It seems like the show went down hill from there, especially with Carmen Carrera's extremeist SJW campaign against "She-Mail" because it sounds like "She-Male"
>Durr dah durr
Is it just me or has the show gone down hill not only with the quality of drag queens but with the pc bullshit, with whatever that phrase is that they replaced she mail with.
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Season 6 was the best tho. This one probably will be even better (and let's just pretend that s7 never existed).
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>>5971561
four was the best.
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>>5971561
Haven't watched, what was bad with season 7?
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Can someone explain to me why the gay community is so racist? I can understand not being attracted to X, but why do so many of you allow this lack of attraction to dictate your social behaviors? You do realize that you don't need to be sexually attracted to someone in order to associate with them, correct? Is it just traditional racism, where you prefer to associate with exclusively white people, or are you people literally so sex crazed that you feel like you must experience sexual attraction just to talk to someone? Which is it?
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>>5971250
>talking to people you are not atracted to
For what purpose? What can they give you someobe you'd like to fuck can't?
Unless you have the obligation to talk to them (like your boss), it's a huge waste of time
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I went to china just over christmas and I felt the same thing. Why were these chinese so racist for just hanging out with other chinese people? The lack of diversity really bothered me.
Later I found a group in a slightly seedy bar that told me that many chinese were racist. Rich chinese people were often fair skinned and liked to travel to places like Thailand, were they discriminate against the thai-chinese that are more brown skinned, and they would not hang out with them. It seems the lighter your skin is in china the more you are revered. Really disgusting.
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>>5971441
>No one ever talks to you because you're so unattractive.
It's so lonely being me.
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Is it offensive to trans people that androgen blockers for "chemical castration" are sometimes offered as a form of punishment for sex abuse felons?
http://www.citynews.ca/2016/04/04/could-chemical-castration-cure-gordon-stuckless/
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>>5971022
One more step to the end of masculinity, I'm for it
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>>5971022
No it's hilarious
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>>5971022
Why would they find it offensive?
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Legit asking, is it possible to have a male friend who's straight?
I recently made friends with someone and every time we interact, I get a slight erection. I very much want this to be friendship only, but I can't help it if he has a cute face.
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Yes.
Act like a goddamn adult.
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>>5971008
Just don't catch feelings for him. I have a straight who I didn't think much of at first but then he got too comfortable near me and now I have a crush on him.
I never thought that I would fall for the 'falling in love with the straight guy' thing but I did. Just be careful. I'm paying for it now and it sucks.
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>>5971046
Not OP but it happened to me once. As a freshman in high school there was a guy who I THOUGHT was flirting with me (even gave me backrubs) but I came out and he was disgusted.
Being gay fucking sucks.
So I'm engaged to my long term girlfriend, but I want to explore my sexuality before we tie the knot.
I've dreamed of getting fucked in the ass hard while someone else blows me.
How would I go about fulfilling this, when I only have straight friends?
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>>5970773
Bath house
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Buy two dogs
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Ask your gf is she wants to invite another guy in for a one night thing.
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Apologies if this is a bit of a jumbled mess.
First of all I identify as a genderfluid demisexual, biologically male. I've also got really bad anxiety and suffer panic attacks, as well as recently being diagnosed with adhd (which like I hear causes people a lot of trouble with friendships and relationships but i don't want to assume that's why I do necessarily)
Recently like 4 months back I had a really bad falling out with a female friend, i was having a lot of really severe anxiety due to my financial situation and constant medical garbage going on. Before it hit it's worst I had gotten very clingy, bad habid i know, i need to work on my self esteem and have been trying to but many times in the past I've tended to latch on to people I feel like "get" me and just rely on them way too heavily.
Unfortunately she also has bad anxiety and since she too has adhd I sorta leaned on her for both of those. Additionally I had a crush on her for a while which was kinda shitty, since I only ever get crushes on people I really consider my closest friends and that has a way of throwing a wrench in things.
In december I had a really awful panic attack and was scared I might try to kill myself if things got worse, and I wrote her a lengthy message online freaking out asking for support. After than everything just went silent, one every couple months she'll say something and I'll try to pick things up where they left off and it goes quite again for weeks. I've really been hoping we could meet up in person and talk since talking online I always get confused and stressed out because my reading comprehension is kinda crap and i've had a lot of social anxiety from past stuff i usually project into what people say to me online.
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I heard from a friend she still wants to be friends but any efforts at communication tend to fallapart immediately. Also it seems some of her anxiety comes from her not wanting a relationship and me having crushed on her off and on, which is shitty since honestly if I could I would just never ave romantic feelings for anyone. Relationships seem like a lot of work, sex disgusts me. I wanna be independent andjust have friends like me around. Also on my side there's the whole I feel more like a girl than a guy and want to hang out with friends that reflect who i want to be and I've just always been more comfortable around girls than guys. Guys frankly piss me off more often than not.
This isn't even the first time I've hd shit like this. I had a friend when I first moved to the city that something similar happened with. I don't even know what it is I'm asking I just need to vent it out. I think i'm done trying becuase even if it's true she wants to be friends still, trying to save that friendship has made me feel like a shitty human being and made the anxiety worse.
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Your special snowflake bullshit literally has nothing to do with your problem unless it coincides with that you're lonely and trying to make up an identify to compensate for your supposed lack of one.
Anyway, go get on anxiety meds. Your anxiety is the problem. It's off putting, exhausting and stressful to the people around you, especially if they have anxiety or mental problems themselves. People can only give so much of a shit about you and juggling your life and theirs is a relationship doomed to fail. People will tire when they finally figure out they can't 'fix' you and you can't really blame people for that either.
Learn to distract yourself and not burden everyone over everything. Try to give your panic attacks a sort of grading system. If its something you can rough out, rough it out. If its something you absolutely need help with, need someone to vent too, 'take care of you' so to speak then let that be extremely scarce. Hell, even call a suicide hotline and ask if they'll be willing to bs with you on the phone for awhile.
tl;dr learn to cope and deal with most shit on your own.
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>>5970797
I more or less have been. My panic attacks have gotten less frequent when i just distance myself from people and I'm being medicated for both the anxiety and the adhd rather effectively now. More than anything I'd like to be able to repair damages and see if anyone else out there has their own advice, but thanks for the parts of your response that were not just mean spirited jabs.
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How do I become flamboyant? 2016-04-04 22:02:13 Post No.5970430
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How do I become flamboyant?
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I've been wanting to become more flamboyant and expressive gay guy but I'm too shy. What would you recommend I do?
Note: this was not meant to be offensive to anyone in any shape or form.
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>>5970430
Why would you want to become what is essentially a stereotype made up by straight people that harms lgbt? Self hatred perhaps? See a counselor.
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>>5970481
This to be honest here. Flamboyant gays are what the media project. Usually people who go to pride parades.
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>>5970481
For attention and validation obviously.