Met a guy to hook up with on grindr. I'm 23 and he's 48 lol. I told him I was gonna take a shower and then text him and I texted him 30 minutes ago and he still hasn't responded :l
Is this normal lol am I gettnig stood up
>>6426421
pls respond
>>6426421
>he's 48
For real, if that's what you're into, just keep casting that net. You'll catch many, many fish soon enough.
>>6426505
Oh 38 my bad not 48
I'm not into that particularly he's just really handsome and funny
How rare are long term relationships concerning gays?Does love actually exist or am I fucked?
This is a general life question. I do hope love exists, it's kinda the only thing stopping me from killing myself.
>>6426292
So long as you steer clear of bisexuals, you should be golden.
>>6426731
I'm bisexual myself.
Who /agpandproud/ here?
Pure cultured /agp/ girls:
>bro tier personality, a healthy balance between masculine and feminine
>not suicidal because of body dysphoria
>not as likely to have mental illnesses besides being trans
>have patrician tier hobbies like vidya and anime
>more likely to be successful and independent because of less mental illnesses
>are more pure than pleb trutrannies because we know what female purity is
>more attractive, because we know what makes women attractive
>less likely to have stds because stds make girls impure
>more likely to be redpilled and vote for good candidates like Based Trump, generally more inclined to care about more political issues than muh trans rights
>typically keep our soft feminine dicks
>won't get triggered by everything
Dirty truscum peasants:
>shitty hyperfeminine personality with a dose of self-entitlement
>constantly want to kill themselves, many have attempted it
>often have other mental illnesses that make them intolerable in social situations
>have plebeian hobbies like drugs, cutting themselves and blogging about white privilege on tumblr
>usually are either whores or leech off their parents/partner because they're too insecure and self-entitled to sustain themselves
>less pure because they don't know what makes a girl attractive, just a warped idea
>less attractive, clueless about what makes women attractive
>typically riddled with stds because they are degenerate that think "getting railed by black guys for money" is a real job
>are bluepilled and vote for whatever candidate tumblr tells them to vote, are single-issue voters that think republicans literally want to murder them in their beds because they're delusional
>want to lop their dicks off and get a neo-vagina, usually from a cheap surgeon so it looks and smells like a moldy cow udder mixed with goat cheese
>triggered by everything, can't hold a conversation with them w/o tiptoing around their feels
>2016
>still being trutrans and not agp masterrace
Is it possible to have like partial agp or something?
Like I really like guys, only want to date guys, I'm going to get SRS but was patient and non desperate enough to get on a long wait list for a good doctor, I do lots of trutrans stuff, but I also have some agp feels, and my transition has been both validating and a bit gratifying, also I like video games and anime. I also don't get too hung up on idealistic shit, the way I see it I used to be a boy, I don't get hung up on all the I WAS ALWAYS nonsense.
Don't some cis girls like getting put in their place as girls and stuff? Can they too be agp? It just feels like I'm lying to myself to say I'm not at least a little bit agp.
>>6426291
You meant Femboy overloads. We do all that and have AAP so get off on being a qt twink dating guys.
>>6426291
>2016
>still being trutrans and not agp masterrace
Here I thought you were trying to get guys to date AGPs over HSTS.
My Parents are very homophobic and don't know should I tell them i'm bi or just wait till I move out?
>i'm bi
you dont even has the need to tell
>>6426261
>telling your parents you're bi if they'll make a big deal out of it before you move out
Come on now. There's no reason to feel pressured to come out soon.
The thing is though I wanna be myself and not have too hide it. on one hand I tell them I possibly get accepted and can freely express my sexuality or get kicked out and/or sent too a camp. on the other hand I don't tell have too hide my sexuality and never know whether I could or could not have expressed myself.
>>6426282
So i'm mainly concerned that I will lose function of my d*ck while on HRT and since i'm too poor and too scared to get SRS I kind of want to still jack off and stuff until one day I magically get SRS or something, so
>any other trans girls on estrogen still able to cum/maintain an erection?
>>6426228
I can still get strong erections and "cum" when (and shortly before, and for the better part of 12 minutes after) I orgasm. I'm 6 months and 4 days in, though, and the cum is basically just a clear slime.
Plenty report their penis still doing this sort of thing after years, and others report losing the ability after very short periods. HRT is a lot of a mystery.
Most who report continued function report having manually stimulated it periodically.
>>6426228
As for me, after couple months of hrt my libido dropped almost to zero and even though i still can masturbate, i just don't want to. (Maybe once a month or so)
Feels good not to be addicted to porn.
>>6426228
softgasms are bestgasms desu
Male
Straight girls think I'm gay
Gay boys think I'm straight
Pretty much limited to other bisexuals, who are scarce around these parts.
Find girls attractive too, but I'm looking for a relationship with a guy.
Shit at telling I'd someone's gay.
What should I do? Is it time to accept my fate and prepare to die alone?
Pic unrelated.
Sorry about formatting, on mobile.
what are you asking
>>6426795
How to go about letting people know I'm Bisexual without being Tumblr about it. I want people in interested to know without outright saying I'm into them but I'm not going to wear a fucking name tag that says Bisexual on it.
â–¶ Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
â–¶ Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
â–¶ Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
â–¶ Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
â–¶ Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
â–¶ Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
â–¶ HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/0000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
â–¶ Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
â–¶ IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
â–¶ Zeemaps: https://www.zeemaps.com/map?group=1843968
old school shit >>6425009
>>6425786
it may as well be
wales is economically as far left as you can go but there are fuckloads of chavvs, edgy as fuck teens, dickish doctors etc.
>Why did the NHS say you weren't trans? This is bullshit right?
they thought i was autistic or something so sent a fucking 70 pg questionarre with the most fucktarded questions like "do they have an interest in unusual things (i.e. traffic lights)" for my mum to fill in
>of course it's not your fault, you don't need to wear a dress to be a woman, it's how you feel inside.
yeah but then i just worry that i don't have nough dysphoria or something and i cant even express myself well anyway to explain my feelings
>>6425817
what? you hate me
First for boys are cute.
Straight male here.
Or am I?
I love the idea of men dressing as and looking like females. When it works well I am left very impressed. It arouses me mostly in a sexual way, but sometimes it arouses me in an artistic way.
However, I am not very attracted to trans people. I guess because taking hormones and growing implants has a permanent effect on one's body, and is a life-changing devotion.
I would probably go as far as to have sex with a man dressed as a female, if it was convincing. However, again, trans folk are very subjective to me, and it would all depend on a variety of factors, such as if they are convincing and their level of sanity.
What is my sexuality?
Pic related, a guy dressed as a Disney princess.
let me ask you this? How aroused do you get with the idea of being fucked by a man in drag? answer this and you have your answer. It is possible to be straight and want to dress it is a fetish, but if you enjoy the idea of one sex dominating you vs the other then that will help determine what your sexuality is.
>>6425802
Autism.
>growing implants
Hey /lgbt/
Would you date a guy with scars on him?
Would you be worried youd hurt him if you guys had sex?
How would you react if he didn't tell you and you saw it when he pulled his pants off?
Pic related
>>6425775
I don't think I'd really care. Maybe if they were from self harm I guess, but even then I don't think I'd care as long as they weren't a whiny bitch about it
>>6425775
>Babe does it hurt you if I touch you here?
>If yes, be careful not to touch
>If not, just keep going
I think scars and such are cool in a way, so I don't mind a little bit
Is that your scar, OP? Do you feel insecure?
dude scars are badass
Anyone know of any actual research that proves or disproves the notion that bisexual men will string us along then dump us the minute they want to cash in on het privilege and settle down with a girl?
I'm told that this perception is a ZOMG ULTRA SUPER BIGOTED BIPHOBIC STEREOTYPE YOU SHITLORD but it's actually happened to me before, and to other homosexual men I know. Why is the discourse around these behaviors on such tight lockdown? If it is a myth, where is the research that can dispel it?
>>6425544
Why don't you just ask about their past dating experience?
If they say they've never dated another guy then you're probably going to be in for a rough time. If they've only ever dated guys it's probably safe to say there's not that much risk.
>>6425597
Sounds like a good rule of thumb.
>>6425544
>Anyone know of any actual research that proves or disproves the notion that bisexual men will string us along then dump us the minute they want to cash in on het privilege and settle down with a girl?
See: the whole of human history.
I'm sorry but, this bitch is fucking retarded
>>6424821
literally who?
Her popularity is an enigma to me - probs boobs
>>6424821
Who the fuck is this?
It's amazing how quickly "gay" guys turn bi when they see an attractive girl make advances towards them
>>6424660
im bi, hard to imagine someone who is so gay they have literally zero attraction to women
>also men are pigs we just love to get off sometimes
>>6424660
How old are you, OP?
How can a straight man find handsome men for secks while still being anonymous? Dont want anyone in town to see that shit, ya feel me family?
Grindr, jackd, scruff etc just don't use a face picture. Mention in your profile you're curious/discreet. Prepare for dick Avalanche.
>>6424270
But my face is actually attractive but I have a pale hairy dad-bod. They will be pleasantly surprised.
>>6424261
>How can a straight man find handsome men for secks
Stop right there. Why do you feel the need to keep up a delusion to yourself?
I despise gay culture. I really do. I see it as degenerate and disgusting. Yet, here I am. A dirty homo. I never fucking asked to be gay. I know I can't fight it, but how the fuck can I manage it when I see gay people as degenerates? Please /lgbt/ HALP!!
kill yourself faggot
You can be gay without being a faggot.
Just like dudes and be normal, don't stick dildos to yourself and pole dance. Itll be harder to find a boyfriend if you're openly homophobic, but you could try masc4masc dudes. They tend to also hate faggy homos.
Not all gays are degenerates. Fags are degenerates. Pick a side.
>>6424032
>I despise gay culture. I really do.
We all do.
But we can't escape.
Ever.
Send help.
PLS.
How did people treat you passing mtf's differently than when you presented as a guy? Do you think there's any kind of "privilege" on either side?
>pic unrelated
I'm MtF. Homeless men shout sexual things to me on the street now, I've caught coworkers checking out my ass/chest, and my new boss talks down to me like a 60s movie secretary. It sucks, but the only thing I miss about being a dude is being able to stand and pee on the side of the road during long drives. I'm pre op, but my junk has shriveled to the point of having to sit to pee, which is okay. I just use a stand to pee device like an FtM on long drives now. Everything would be perfect if some of the men around me (it's certainly not the majority of men) would grow up and stop acting like I exist for them to use sexually. I have a professional job so I can't speak for the wage gap or whatever.
>>6423841
>stand to pee device
w h a t
>>6423862
They're nifty. I only use it on long drives because the standing makes my dysphoria go weird, but if you've ever tried to squat and piss on some godforsaken roadside in the middle of Nebraska, you know what I mean. They're called Urinelles. They're disposable and come in packs of like 20. Trans men often use a similar device made of silicone (often dick shaped) so they can pee in men's urinals.