Wanting to be skinny and playful edition
Anyone is welcome, but mainly aimed at mtfs, as well as cis girls.
Most subjects are welcome, but do try to keep them relatively unique to the thread (e.g lesbianism may fit better in lesgen/tlg).
Rules
>No Trips
>No Names
>No Dominating the thread with guyish subjects (vidya, cars, etc)
>No ERP (Erotic roleplay - making up fantasies about other anons)
>No RP (Pretending you're an anime protagonist, and so forth)
>No *Actions*
>>6512019
If Trips enter and post, don't give them any attention, don't reply to them.
sup
does this count
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Previous: >>6568681
what controversial laws would you pass if you were given complete control of the united states
video games are art
Nth for transgirls who top other girls
Nth for PiV
First time here.
I was hoping someone can answer these questions:
>What makes someone a woman as opposed to a man, or viceversa? I mean speaking of gender, not sex
>How do you define your gender? What makes your gender different from the other? (if you think of gender as a spectrum you can skip this obs)
I've asked a bunch of CIS people this as a survey and only got really dumb answers.
>What makes a transgender person need to transition? How can you put into words the importance of being perceived as being from the opposite sex, by people around?
>Can you put into words the importance of your physical image as a transgender person?
Thanks!
No one has the answers? :/
>>6569522
>What makes someone a woman as opposed to a man, or viceversa? I mean speaking of gender, not sex
>How do you define your gender? What makes your gender different from the other? (if you think of gender as a spectrum you can skip this obs)
In my opinion, it's your brain's map of your body. If your brain feels like your body should have a penis, you're a man. If your brain feels like your body should have a vagina, you're a woman.
>What makes a transgender person need to transition?
Our body map does not match our physical sex.
>How can you put into words the importance of being perceived as being from the opposite sex, by people around?
Being misgendered, while it usually doesn't bother me too much (I'm pre-transition), reminds me that my body is wrong.
>Can you put into words the importance of your physical image as a transgender person?
For me, it's very important. I think a lot about my shortness compared to other guys, my hips and breasts, and my lack of a dick. Hopefully some of that will go away after transition.
>>What makes someone a woman as opposed to a man
Being seen as and treated like a woman, either by self or by others, it is relative. Someone can be considered a woman to one person but not to another etc
>>How do you define your gender? What makes your gender different from the other?
My gender is simply how i gender the people who i identify with most. I use arbitrary floating signifyers to decide wich people belong to wich gender.
>>What makes a transgender person need to transition? How can you put into words the importance of being perceived as being from the opposite sex, by people around?
Because if wee don't transition we will go insane or kill ourselves. Being perceived as the desired sex is important because it validates our identity, and basically shows that the other person sees us how either we want to be seen, or how we see ourselves. It feels horribly wrong to be misgendered.
>>Can you put into words the importance of your physical image as a transgender person?
It needs to come as close to what we want/need as possible. The further it is from that the more severe the dysphoria and mental illness becomes.
WITHOUT gay bars or suchlike.
I'm curious, are there any particular activities a young gayboy might meet other young gay boys? Not to fuck or anything, just to make friends and suchlike [spoiler]and maybe more later[/spoiler]
Other LGBT people too btw, I just feel like there isn't anywhere I can actually meet new people.
1. Go to college/uni and find your local LGBT group.
2. Realise LGBT people are mostly fucking awful.
3. ?????
4. Spend all day on 4chan instead.
>>6569097
I guess that's what I'm asking; how do I find the non-fucking-awful LGBT people.
I'm not into the "gay community" or anything like that (obviously), I just want to meet Qts, and make friends.
Oh, bonus points for Aus, NSW and Sydney.
>>6569108
>the non-fucking-awful LGBT people
DNE
So /lgbt/, I'm kind of hooked up with a friend. He really likes having sex guys, he is never the one being penetrated and he always tells me (even though he knows I like him) that the fact he has sexual relationships with men doesn't make him gay, neither capable of keeping an affectioned relationship with me (because it seems like only a woman could fill in).
I'm kind of lost here. I don't want to disrespect the gender fluidness, neither the diversity of sexual orientations, but the fact that triggers me is how he loves looking at dick pictures and enjoy seeing gay porn and that actually doesn't go beyond that (at least he says so).
Someone care to explain, spoonfeed or whatever because I've already searched that and most of the informations I got were pretty partial and either treated it like a pure lie or almost the extreme and unique "not sick" state of sexuality that men could and should have.
[spoiler]Not gonna lie I'm hoping it's bullshit because I really want him to give me a chance. However, I prefer asking to face reality[/spoiler]
Pic related because it was how I felt after he explained how he felt about his sexuality
Yes, some people are indeed bisexual...
>>6568924
If he has sex with woman and men then he's bisexual.
It sounds like you and your friend are 'friends with benefits'. If you can't accept that's all he wants out of the relationship then you need to break it off. You're only going to hurt yourself if you try to pursue a romantic relationship with this guy.
>He really likes having sex guys
You should also get yourself tested since it sounds like your friend is a slut.
>>6570265
Well, he took my virginity away, so you can have an ideia how much I like him. But here's the deal: we are actually really close friends and everything further than that happened only twice (once it almost happened after we watched a gay romantic film together wtf).
Do you think that I can get over the fact he will never end up with him while still being "friends with benefits"? I'm not dumb enough to depend on him to fulfill my sexual desires, but I do know that it has never been an issue for him to see me the same way as always even after everything.
Also, do you think that it's "slut way of being" is just an image of someone who has stopped understanding the intimacy of sexual relationships? Because he clearly doesn't feel weird or affected in any way by trading nudes with a lot of people he met. It looks to be pretty related to the fact that, for him, being naked doesn't make him feel uncomfortable or too exposed.
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▶ Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
▶ MtF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
▶ Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶ Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶ Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
▶ Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶ Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶ HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/0000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶ Cis women of all sizes to make you feel better about yourself: http://www.mybodygallery.com/
▶ Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶ IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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Nini mtfg I love y'all please be nice
>>6568686
Goodnight bb <3
Sleep well <3
Have nice dreams <3
FtM genderqueer, on T, post top surgery, post hysterectomy. Not planning bottom surgery, usually I'm okay with that, tonight I'm not. I try to stay body positive but sometimes it seems like the whole world thinks pussies are disgusting. Please prove me wrong.
>>6568316
Transguy here and can confirm vaginas are weird and disgusting. Delete this thread and take a couple sleeping pills to forget about how fucked your body is like I do. Saging.
>>6568316
I'll be positive about your pussy. I love pussy. They aren't weird or disgusting like that other guy said, they're beautiful and feel amazing.
FtM is born girl but changed or changing to guy right?
Hi, I'm just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience to me. I'm 27 and I've felt gay my whole life but I have always wondered if something happened to make me gay or if I was born gay.
When I was younger like 3-5 years old, I used to experiment with kids in my daycare in the bathroom (it was a christian daycare lol). There was like a group of 3 or 4 of us boys I can't remember. I remember that one of the kids showed us how to play with ourselves and then we all kind of went along with it.
Fast forward to me being like 5 or 7 and I'm showing my older cousin (he's like 8 or 9) how to kiss and suck dick. And go on to teaching neighborhood kids what I learned in kindergarten.
Again, fast forward to freshman year after the homecoming game and I'm 13 and my best friend is sleeping over. I tell him I'm gay and try to seduce him? Anyways give him a blowjob and he pretends to be asleep.
When I turned 20 I finally had sex for the first time with a drunk straight guy who literally raped me (I was definitely bleeding), but for some reason I loved it. Helped him get home after he freaked out for having sex with me and slept in his bed...the next morning was so awkward.
I feel like all the guys I go for definitely don't want a relationship. They just want me for sex and then get rid of me. I think that's why I like straight guys, because I feel like I don't deserve love. Has anyone been through any of this or can relate in any way? Haven't told anyone any of this...
TLDR: i'm sad and lonely
Never told anyone this either but shit your opening up so so will I. I was around 7-8 I think. I had this friend who lived in my neighborhood. He was the son of my mother's best friend at the time. Now his older cousin in his early 20's molested him. In turn my friend who was around the same age as me would teach me some of the things his cousin showed him. I was raised Christian but at age 7-8 you aren't really taught being gay is bad (maybe I just didn't understand it) but I went along with it willingly. We used to get naked together and touch each other. It came to a boiling point when my friends cousin tried to get me to let him suck my dick. I said no, and he didn't force me to. Eventually I told my mom and she told her friend. The cousin committed suicide and my friend moved far away. I'm 18 now and that was the first and only gay let alone sexual experience I have ever had in my life. I think its probably why I'm Bi and probably attributes to my dysphoria. It used to hurt a lot, now I could care less. I just want a bf
TL;DR I'm sad and lonely too
>>6568304
we're fucked up bro
18 year old bi male with dysphoria.
So lonely. I don't know where else to turn. I dont know how to become more feminine. I don't know how to find a boyfriend. I don't know how to find a girl friend
>>6567994
what do you mean you don't know how to become more fem or find a bf or gf. im confused are you cis? trans? or just depressed?
>>6568018
I don't know. I hate my masculinity. If by cis you mean I haven't done anything to change myself then yeah I'm cis. I don't know how to find a bf or gf
>>6568018
I just want to be more feminine
Going to a water park, never been out in public in a swimsuit before. Boobs are there but disproportionately small. Any tips?
Bandeau bikini? Seems more fitting for smaller boobies.
I'm actually wearing a one piece because I am still a tad chunky from not losing enough weight in time.
>>6567944
>being concerned about having more up top
wouldn't the trannies be more concerned with hiding their bulges?
>You'll never find someone you love or are as compatible with as much as that ex- of yours
I wish he hadn't left me.
I wish he were still with me. He was just my type in every single way, and I don't think I could ever score such a lucky hit and get somebody as handsome as him again, because I'm ugly. I don't even know why he liked me. I don't even know why he left me.
It's been two years since we were together, but I still miss him every day.
>>6567842
iktf
>dated several people since, but no one makes me love them like her
>we we're together for 2+ years
>I was being a bitch all the time, cus my life sucks
>she told me she didn't love me anymore
>told me she didn't love me anymore and left
>im a totally different person now
>tfw she'll never come back or speak to me
>tfw shes dating straight best-friend crush
They say time heals all wounds, but separation makes the heart grow fonder...
please come back
>>6567842
Fuck off, im just trying to get over this feeling right now because thats exactly how this shit feels.
It just takes time right? Right?
Are thete any good tumblr-free lgbt dating sites that actually have people from northern europe in them?
I'm looking for a man. Not a genderfluid genderqueer pansexual into platonic polyamory, a GAY. MAN.
>>6567768
This is why more kebab removal was needed.
>sex: man
>into: men
>""""men"""" with dyed pink long hair who wear heels are suggested
very interesting
>>6567768
Do you just go about everywhere hijacking other peples' threads and making them all about you?
I'm sorry you live in shitfuckingstan but I'm not here for your oppression olympics.
>inb4 blacklivesmatter
So I heard "drink from plastic bottles" as tranny advice, but is making tea from boiling water inside a plastic bottle safe?
Also, what options are there for if you want to trial HRT, to see what you look like if you're a smidgen more girly?
>>6567728
You're a fucking idiot. Do you really think drinking out of plastic bottles and drinking melted plastic water is going to have a noticeable impact on your appearance? This is like those idiots that tell you to drink soy because of phytoestrogens, completely forgetting that dairy contains actual estrogen.
This is what happens when you let idiots skim read wikipedia articles and decide they understand endocrinology. You want to see what HRT will look like? Take some bloody HRT. Wanna try it a bit subtly first? Then only take the anti-androgens and you've basically temporarily chemically castrated yourself, so you can see what it's like to have erectile dysfunction and lowered libido
>>6567728
just take mones for a couple months, not gonna permanently kill your testes.
>>6567728
take a trial run of spiro. start with very low dosages for first few weeks/month or two. ramp it up for about 2-3 months till you get to 200mg a day. from there you can add small amounts of estrogen, like 2-4mg a day. do that for awhile.
just a heads up you could become sterile or have ED after this. while it doesn't happen to everyone it has happened to some who have detransitioned/ppl on hrt or they've had minor side effects.
>join an irc channel years ago for random forum
>pretend to be a girl because that's what I do
>we all chat daily
>six years go by
>forum doesn't exist anymore
>few of us still on every day
>literally my only friends
>few people are starting voice chat
>they still think I'm a girl
>have to keep lying to them
>cant talk to my only friends
Why not just tell them the truth that you're (apparently?) trans? If they've been your friends for like six years and can't handle that then they're probably mean people...
>>6567688
Just transition and be cute senpai <3
>>6567696
I'm not trans. I pretend to be a girl because it's easier to make friends with both women and men this way.
Hello 4 chan... Im looking for my dream girl, i hope i can find her here. Im 26 from fl. I want to find my miss right, im so tired of all these bullshit relationships and fake emotions. ...
I know she is out there, maybe here on/lgbt.
I dont care about the ridicule,or the argument about pronoun symantics, I just want us to find each other.
>>6567649
Ooof wrong board wrong time
>>6567671
Why? What do you mean?
>>6567671
I think they're a lesbian.