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Hello everybody. I'm extremely confused. I just discovered I might be trans, as in I really just dicovered it. I've never had this kind of thoughts, but I digress, I'll start from the beggining. I'm a 23 year-old biological male, and I have been crossdressing for about 3 years now. At first, I only did it for the arousal, so it never crossed my mind I might actually be a girl, but I've been feeling happier and happier when I do it, to the point where putting on a skirt makes my day in a way not many other things do. Also, I've been feeling more emotional than normal. I've seen all these trans people who knew it since they were little, but I've only had two experiences like this in my youth: First, I used to put on towels on my chest to simulate breasts, at about 15. Second, I used to want to become one of the witches from a popular series back then. I just wanted to know if there are more cases like mine, and what did you do to deal with the situation. I don't even know who I am anymore. Thank you very much.
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TL;DR 23 year-old biological guy wonders if he might be a girl for nearly the first time. What do?
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>>6702386
you are not a special snowflake
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>>6702386

>I used to want to become one of the witches from a popular series back then

Charmed?

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My boyfriend is taller than me, but I'm far more muscular and masculine.

He has feminine inflections in his voice and it is Totally obvious who is the top/man in the relationship. Nobody ever asks if we want split bills or if we need separate rooms. It kind of upsets me.

I don't want to be pegged as "the one who fucks the fag" and to be labeled as some kind of failed male.
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If people assume you are gay together at first and not brothers or friends, you are doing bfs wrong. Somehow even if there are two """masc""" dudes, something about their relationship makes you think lol gay.

Luckily now I'm so comfortable with my bf and I like seeing the reaction to he's my partner haha.
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>>6702245
okay then...other than altering his gay ass speech patterns and high voice, how do i convince people? I am a pretty str8 looking guy. I love to hike, fish, and whittle. He spends more time in the lab than I do. He likes movies and cooking more.

Basically, it is obvious that we are complimentary in roles and that he is my partner. There is no rule that says you have to have some sort of straight man friends camouflage.
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>>6702253
>There is no rule that says you have to have some sort of straight man friends camouflage.
You just answered your own question. Just let go, who cares what breeders think lol.

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>Hey /lgbt/
>I'm a Straight White Cis Maleā„¢
>And I'm very not gay, not at all
>But I want to fuck a femboi

The image to end every filthy breeder who wants to infest this board in the future.
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>>6702203
Is there porn of those two?
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Fresh off the meme machine.
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>>6702275
YOU'RE A MEME MACHINE.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hB3ibdil2UM

Hellow everyone ! My partner really wants to turn into a girl. I'm supporting her %100. The only problem is we both don't know how to start. We'll see a doctor about hormone treatment. How is voice training, exercise, meals, etc. should be ? Detailed info would be nice.
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>>6702185
I mean in here some guys posted a lot of tutorials and stuff. I can't find shit in google.
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>>6702202

Okay. Assuming you aren't going to self med, which IMO you probably should at least minor AA...then voice training can be done within 1-12 months depending on the person. To be honest, most people have shit bone structure and shit musculature and are pretty tall on average, so there's only so much you can do. If I were them, I'd start very skinny before hormones, then slowly increase calorie intake to gain about 1-2 lbs a week until around 20-25% bf like most cis females who aren't athletes.

Now if they are starting out fat, it's very YMMV since some fat trannies have shit genetics already and others luck out pretty well.

Here's some resources.

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Since age seven I have been cross dressing, at first harmless curiosity, and the occasional daydream of being a girl instead of a boy. I first started with bras, then progressed into dresses during my middle school years, then onto makeup I overdid and came up with very slutish results. The makeup can around the time I had started getting into porn around age 15, immediately clinging to the she male categories by default, and occasionally browsing boy to girl makeup transformation videos on YouTube. Prior to getting into porn I had a sexual Epiphany, I was bisexual. I remember masturbating to the thought of a friend on my football team and alternated between the image of this girl I knew had a crush on me. So my cross dressing went on, though fifty pounds overweight I made a damn good looking girl IMO. I passed, albeit a bit rough, but I was young with clear skin, and my hips have always been a bit wide for a guy. This habit went on and nothing much came of it. I started to incorporate my mother's hair extensions into the get up when I had the chance, and always fashioned my silky hair into bangs which suited my soft rounded androgynous face. During my initial fascination with the sexual side of cross dressing I began to focus on myself, orgasming as I looked in the mirror, seeing a girl, being lonely, confused and definetly horny as any hormonal teenager usually is. Just 5 months ago I had began to stop taking sexual pleasure in doing this, my agp seeming!y morphed into a repressed longing to be accepted as feminine, and to live day to day as a passing female who just does normal people stuff, none of that freakish hon bullshit. But I know I will probably never come out. I have had severe anxiety and clinical depression, so I was indifferent to letting my body go to shit, I gained weight throughout the years, always feeling awkward and alone. I'm now 284 lbs, and worst of all, 6,3 probably stopping at 6,4. /continued/.
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>>6702152

Yeah you'll never pass to be honest most likely and from what you've said you seem to be hella AGP legitimately.

If I were you, stay as a guy and fap to your hearts content or find a partner that will let you be a sissy faggot. Also, you literally weight almost 3 of me jesus christ.
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Hormones can help with dysphoria if it gets really bad, even if you dont intend to transition
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I have no doubt in my mind that my parents would eventually accept me, but I don't even want to strainour relationship. Aside from college I am virtually a NEET. I feel strange having these feelings, it is bullshit. I always doubt myself because I have a stronger preference for women, and I feel like a degenerate trying to justify being a woman while also interested in females at all. I still look pretty fem in the face whenever I put my hair down and am still shaped a bit parish, which helps with my average length shoulders. I don't know. I mean, I guess I'm confused, life is so vague. I can just spend the rest of my days as a man with minor bouts of gender dysphoria I drink away with hard liquor. I can do the work if I decided to transition, but is it really necessary for me? I would never get SRS, don't need face ffs or an orchi, Adams apple isbarely visible,and am on the fence on getting fake tits, seem extraneous desu. I'm not a pervert, I just want to feel authentic, but should I even bother /lgbt/? I could get disowned, I may even regret it, I don't know.

Hello , I am so scared and I hate myself. I have been with my girlfriend 4 and a half years and am 25 years old. I have severe anxiety and depression, I have known since I was little I wanted to be a girl but even then tried to ignore it. IT is at the stage now where I am that unhappy that I need to face it, I know my family and friends wont accept me for who I am, My girllfriend has been nice about it but said she would leave me if I chose to start this ball rolling where she is not attracted to girls, I hate how I have to chose my happiness over my life it does not seem fair, please can some one help me I am so so scared.
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You'll get a new girl no worries. Go play dress up, bby.
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>>6702082
I am scared to be with out her though :/
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t h e r a p y

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If someone you know is showing signs of being transsexual, do you have a moral obligation to talk to them about it?

I don't want them to suffer a late transition if it turns out they really are trans, but at the same time I feel like I'm meddling and maybe imagining things.
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>gf thinks her brother might be a tranny
>she kinda wants to talk to him but isn't sure
>can't even fault her for it because I kinda think he could be a tranny too

What do
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>>6702023
Ah this is called the closeted tranny dilemma. The best thing you can do is persistently say "you know it would be so cool if you were a tranny, i wish you were a tranny, you would make a good girl". Then if they sow signs of hesitation hit them with, "you are still so young you will look great if you take hormones, you will definitely develop more female features".
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>>6702045
I figured I'd just comment on his femininity and then ask him if he thinks he's transgender or something. He's not even deep closet as he paints his nails, dyes his hair and has makeup in his closet.

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tfw you realize that a boyfriend is just a guy that likes to suck the reproductive juices out of you
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>>6702037

/thread
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>>6702022
>not snowballing it right back into you
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Jokes' on you, my bf only likes sucking money and emotional energy out of me.

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NSFW images of SRS:
Suporn: http://imgur.com/a/uyukj
Chett and McGinn: http://imgur.com/a/6q7ao
Brassard: http://imgur.com/a/ihDCg
Misc SRS: http://imgur.com/a/6ueJD
Unknown SRS: http://imgur.com/a/f0jRN
Bowers: http://imgur.com/a/40Rri

"Although this was not a study criterion and therefore not scored, a foul smell of the vagina was observed in most patients." http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2695466/

What do people do? Be selective when choosing your surgeon in the first place? Special douches?
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>Not having FtM SRS pictures
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>>6702012
Are FtM's gross enough to need cutting up?
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idk. maybe buccal cell halitosis is more normal seeming? i came across articles, and like it does seem to be happening in small numbers (but one patient got a fistula or something somehow?) i could try to go find them, but idk how much seriousness i'm detecting

I cant tell when someone is a friend, only if they want their cock in me. :c
How do I make male gay friends? I just want to hang out...
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Be someone of value.
It sucks that you were born pathetic. Like, you wouldn't make fun of someone for the color of their skin or color of their hair or if they had cancer, but you were born pathetic and that's ok. Just castrate yourself by way of masturbation and die without shooting up a school, ok?

Here's a funny image file I found on facebook while I was chatting up some of the very men you want to be friends with. Hope you can enjoy this slice from the good life.
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>>6701426
where you live?
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yea i got the same shit. i wana make some gay friends to chill with and do femboy stuff (no lewd) and everyone i meet is just a total slut who offers threesomes and shit

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What's something I can watch that's basically just the gay shit from Shameless?
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bumping you cunts
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bump gunt
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seriously?
Bump

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Can cis women be LGBT? Cis women, especially white cis women, seem far to insulated by a layer of female privilege to be considered LGBT. We should only allow men and trans people in the LGBT, cis women and non-binary women (women who pretend they are oppressed) should not be allowed.
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Without women the LGBT would just be the GBT.
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You mean lesbian? We're talking about lesbians here right?
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>>6701258
>>6701260

Trans women can be lesbians. You can't remove the L from LGBT but we should remove the cis women, they are not oppressed, they shouldn't be part of the movement.

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Why continue living? I've somehow become so absolutely depressed despite my life being pretty good.
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What the fuck do you have to complain or even be depressed about, if your life is so damned good?

Try being a depressed fuck with no friends, no job, who still lives with his parents and obsesses over that shitty bf that dumped him more than a year ago, with health problems, and then you can see what depression really feels like.
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>>6701168
Don't be bitter. It helps nobody.

>>6701127
Find something you love doing, and then keep doing it.
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Having a sense of purpose helps, it can be anything you like. Have a dream and follow it, not a lame ass dream about identity tho, a dream like "I'm going to build beautiful motorcycles" or "I'm going to expose the resurrection of David Bowie to be a clone".

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I'm so submissive that it's basically my whole personality. I feel like if I ever get into a relationship i'll let anything my partner wants to happen because I don't want to fight it. I almost feel like i'd let myself get abused, enjoy it somehow.

Sometimes I feel like my submissiveness is my personality... Is it possible HRT made it worse
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same desu
youll learn if you keep going and dont make bad decisions
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>>6700908
Just gonna stay closeted forever and be alone! ^_^ not idea but I can do it
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>>6700714
>I almost feel like i'd let myself get abused, enjoy it somehow.
I once thought this too, until I was actually abused. Then I realized how horrible it was.

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How exactly is being transgender/gender dysphoria detected in pre-pubescent children? What, in your opinion, is the right approach to treating it at their age?
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>>6700426
You don't. Far too many desist. Once puberty starts is when you should go to a specialist, then have the kid go to therapy for a year. That's how you clinically know someone is trans:
>after *beginning* of puberty
>consistent dysphoria; 6 months for adults, 12 for minors
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>>6700484

That's an interesting meme you have there.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/brynn-tannehill/the-end-of-the-desistance_b_8903690.html
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>>6700643
The study that the article cites as saying that dysphoria intensity helps to show which adolescents persist and which don't actually looked and people who turned out trans and then went back. The abstract didn't say to what degree persistence could be predicted, only that intensity generally correlated with persistence.

Additionally, the citation that of the 80% who desisted, 42% ever met the criteria anyway comes out to nearly half (46.4%) of clinically dysphoric kids desisting.

James Cantor, a notable sexologist, shared this article on his Twitter about the subject (he's in the article as well): http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2016/07/whats-missing-from-the-conversation-about-transgender-kids.html?mid=twitter-share-scienceofus. The article references what's mentioned in the Huffington Post article, and seems to have the opposite findings from the same studies. While 63.3% of kids met the criteria to be diagnosed as trans, the vast majority simply grew up to be LGB adults. Here's a study on the ethical concerns of having kids transition at an early age: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25231780, and here's another one showing how few dysphoric kids actually grow up to be trans: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18194003.

Am I against transitioning as a minor? No. I actually think it's abuse to keep your teen dysphoric throughout the entirety or puberty when transition is known to be the best option. But, being someone who knows what it feels like to be in the wrong body, I don't want cis kids to have that feeling either. So, since the studies find that between roughly half and over 80% of dysphoric kids desist, I don't think transition for pre-pubescents is a good option.

If they can get much more highly accurate results for those kids, such as through DNA tests, brain scans, and other evidence being factored into a diagnosis, I would absolutely get behind early transition. No one should have to suffer with dysphoria.

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