Ok lgbt I've got a situation that leads to a question for you all.
Situation: this evening my older (I'd guess 50s) neighbor comes knocking saying he's having a rough time and wanting a friend.
Now I am a late 20s male. Sexually I have been with both men and women in the past but lately I am not looking for anything while trying to sort that shit out. Regardless I do not share this with people or try and attract mates at the moment.
Being a nice neighbor I offer him a drink and assume a relative has died or something. Soon into this I realize he's just an old lonely horny dude when he starts touching my arm and complimenting my muscles.
At this point I basically pull away and state that we should head outside. Dude still tried to kiss my ass when I obviously wasn't having it but I just blew it off and went inside.
Now I just want to state that normally had someone I wasn't interested in physically started touching me without any reason I would deck their asses as I am 6'1'' and been lifting for a while. But since this old dude is so small and weak already I just talked my way out of the conversation and leave.
What I am wondering is would it be real shitty to tell this old lonely dude in the next few days that he needs to stay the fuck away from me since 1. there is no way i'm messing around with someone that isn't around my age and/or putting in the same work to their body; and 2. fuck him for coming on to me completely unsolicited.
If this is a stupid question I am sorry. But as someone that is normally aggressive enough to deal with this stuff this old dude left me at an impasse as I really do feel bad for people that are lonely. However I understand that kind of behavior is still pretty fucked up.
Again sorry if stupid. As a naive closeted faggot I accept I am probably just a moron.
Why do anything at all? Just ignore the fucker.
Stab him in the heart and when police question you claim it was a heart attack
>>6712713
>touching my arm and complimenting my muscles
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, anon.
So about a year ago I had to watch a family members house while they were on vacation. My brother brought a friend over and once he fell asleep me and his friend went downstairs to drink because we were both bored. I took some xanax with my drink and he asked if he could have some. I fronted him about 3 pills and we kept on drinking. After some time he wanted more xanax and offered head. I got excited and we went to a bedroom. It felt amazing but about 15 minutes into it everything was hitting me. I was starting to feel sedated and loopy. I became somewhat limp too. After about 30 minutes he was on top of me and we were making out. He told me I could fuck him but when I stuck it in he let out a groan of pain so I stopped and we just stuck to blow jobs. It had been about an hour at this point and I still wasn't able to keep it up or cum. I've never had this problem before so I assumed it was the drugs. I let him put it in me but after a few times I couldn't take the pain. Eventually I got slightly more hard and he tried to deep throat me. Throw up was everywhere and he started crying. I told him it was okay and from that point on we stopped. I felt bad for him so once it was all cleaned up I gave him head. He came after about 30 minutes T_T I was incredibly disappointed with this whole experience and didn't cum once. Does this still count as loosing my virginity?
C'mon help me out here...
>>6711936
since you didnt cum id say you didnt lose your virginity
the whole situation is kind of a gray area tho
>>6712386
I don't feel as though I did either. Thanks for the reply.
I want to play Dead or Alive Extreme 3. Why do feminists have to fuck it up by moaning about how video games are objectifying? If I want to spend my money on softcore porn, I should be allowed to do it.
https://youtu.be/-uGK2lqfEY8
>>6711921
It's hilarious cause they left snake boy from souls alone cause he's a boy.
Boys come out a head of the dykes yet again ftw.
>>6711970
Maki what are you still doing alive you son of a bitch.
why does it seems like the most hideous and unpassable hons on reddit and the like are the most determined when it comes to getting SRS? Like having a penis causes you so much dysphoria but you're fine with living looking like a caricature? Do they see it as like the final tranny ritual that turns you into a real womyn?
>>6711615
How well does a nu-vag age? There's a girl on campus who got one right when they turned 18. How constantly do you have to upkeep it to keep it from healing over etc. ?
>>6711629
I'm pretty sure you have to stretch it out somewhat constantly if you want to have sex
>"Why do the people with the most reason to have dysphoria have the most dysphoria? Guiz? I'm confuzeled!"
I think it is very hateful, misinformed, horrible
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7NYWd7p-zE
>>6711484
why are so many chads alt-right radio/podcast hosts?
>>6711484
>walt heyer
This one asshole is responsible for at least 95% of the "da trannie cult bamboozled me!!!" internet content that morons like this use for shock views. The other 5% comes from Paul McHugh and his endlessly reblogged, retweeted and reprinted NYT op-ed based on absolute bullshit misinterpreted stats and studies.
Heyer detransitioned because of family pressure, but blames that on the medical community. Honestly, he's a shit of a person. It's like turning down medicine because you're Amish, but then blaming the medical system for letting you get sicker.
McHugh is literally the medical advisor to the Vatican. No bias there.
>>6711484
>mfw theryn is systematically betrayed by the rabid alt-right in the comment section
>and somehow didn't see it coming
Not so fun being a house tranny now is it?
/LGBT/ I’ve got a problem and I need your opinion. Already I can tell that this will be a disaster, but please read this.
I don’t know if being transgendered is the right of an individual or if it is a mental disorder. Should trans people be allowed to get gender reassignment or are we facilitating a psychiatric condition?
First my background:
I am a 21 year old, cis, straight male who has lived most of his life trying it become a medical doctor. I am almost always a social liberal and I want to accept transgender rights. Along my academic path I have taken medical ethics, philosophy of psychiatry, genetics, and neuroscience.
What is wrong with the trans argument?
-Someone who has a belief that their body conflicts with the image of their body is widely considered to have body dysmorphic disorder. This can be non-psychiatric in many cases. I personally think I’m a twerp, but most people think I’m athletic. However there can be extremes; anorexia, body integrity identity disorder, and possibly having a transgendered identity. In these cases people can physically harm themselves to match their body to their image. The problem I have is that the medical community doesn’t amputate the limbs of people with BIID, but we do provide dangerous sex-change operations (they’re even subsidized by insurance policies). This double standard confuses me, because on paper these dysmorphias seem identical.
What’s wrong with calling trans a disorder?
-I would argue that being gay is not a psychological disorder. If being gay isn’t a mental disorder, how is being trans a mental disorder? Gays and straights alike have the right to do what they want as long as they do not infringe upon another person’s rights. Why should there be a double standard between liking the same sex vs. feeling born of the wrong sex? Why should we stop someone else’s happiness when they know how to achieve it without hurting anyone?
Also, as a doctor I would be in some deep shit if I tried referring a trans person to a psychiatrist. Socially we have come to accept it.
Arguments I don’t like:
Genetic- Fuck this argument. Chromosomally we are assigned a sex, but gender and sexuality is not assigned by an XY or an XX. Some argue epigenetic factors determine gender and sexuality, but as a scientist I find these studies incomplete. I doubt questions of why people are who they are will ever be fully answered.
Psychiatric Classification- There are “soft laws” of psychology. Not everything can be categorized simply due to one factor or another. Maybe it should be a disorder, but a majority of society has accepted it so it has become unnecessary to treat. Our culture directly effects how things are classified and our culture cannot always be right. Psychiatry is changing so quickly that I find it futile to use it as a definitive answer.
So /LGBT/ please. Should trans people be allowed to get gender reassignment or are we facilitating a psychiatric condition?
>usually a total sub
>me and my best friend took drugs
>I topped her, we both enjoyed it
>this is the first time I ever didn't hate topping
>feel like a total AGP
>tranny jesus will never forgive your sins
Should I just detransition?
There is literally nothing wrong with being AGP.
>>6711464
That's really not what AGP means.
This meme went too far.
>>6711502
I was the man in sex. Clearly I'm just a straight man even if my preference isn't women. It's depressing desu
>transgirl starts making misandrist comments toward me
honey.....
I'm a transgirl that hates men and everything masculine, including myself.
You wanna fight about it?
>>6711440
Why would he need to fight you if you're killing yourself in the next 3 years?
>>6711440
>you wanna fight
this sounds like white male rage to me. we're hear to talk things out, make you can sit out and listen, alright?
is there a way to remove sexual desire? just turn it all off forever. i figure asexuals must know
>>6711245
remove testicles
>>6711245
well considering hormonal problems and certain medication can decrease libido,,,,
>>6711245
the only "kind-of" solution is jacking off all the time but that just leads to long sections of non-fap so you could just get horny again.
i'm not sure there's a way for you to induce a low libido unless you just force yourself to get depression. otherwise it's just something that comes naturally to you.
How many of the transpeople here began their transition or discovered that they were trans/had trans feelings after finding /lgbt/ or another forum?
>>6711160
You're going to get a lot of selection bias with this question because obviously the trans people that lurk here are more likely to have discovered it here than at other places.
I did sorta figure it out here, but I already kinda knew, I just ironed out the details and got on hormones.
>>6711160
I transitioned ten years ago. There probably were websites or forums dedicated to the subject, but I didn't visit them. My personal knowledge was scarce; I happen to enjoy synthesizer music and learned about Wendy Carlos, just randomly digging up information, and it's hard not be made aware of transsexuals watching shitty daytime TV.
The process was straight forward. I found my surgeon through the eunuch archives. There was no therapy, no "real life experience." Once you're cut, any doctor will prescribe hormones. At least in my experience.
>>6711160
Youtube was where i figured out I was trans by watching videos about ftms.
I found the videos by googling random questions about how i wished i was male etc.
Which was about 2 years ago and I transitioned socially/medically a year ago when I came out.
This guy is the best choice for LGBT people. He and his running mate Bill Weld cared about LGBT rights way back before it was cool, in the early 90s, back before the democrats were even pretending to care; and there definitely weren't any special interest groups to push for that either. They believed in equality out of principle, not pressure.
>>6710942
He's pro TPP
anti regulation
You know what that means, people are poorer, the economy will crash, again, because of corporate greed
Sorry, but I'll take my chances with Clinton
>>6710942
>40 times less chance of winning than bernie (the actual good lgbt candidate) had
>open borders
>pro TPP
>he's somehow more pro-lgbt than jill stein?? (if you're going the 3rd party route)
nah
>>6711018
To be fair he's not really for open borders, he wants to require work Visas.
Everything else you said is right though, but I'd rather just have equality than be pandered too, so I dislike Jill.
Does wanting to be a woman automatically make you trans?
Not if you already are one.
Otherwise basically yeah.
>>6710585
nah
most me want to be women, they just don't let it take over their lives
>>6710626
If you sincerely believe this you need to take a 6 month break from 4chan.
Do gay people fight over who gets to be top? Do they take turns or is one person always the wife?
>>6710475
Turns if youre both switch and some relationships you have a top/bottom so its usually almost always one tops and one bottoms in that case.
Imagine a guy and girl. The guy isnt always feeling like he wants to be macho dom. Sometimes he wants the woman to be assertive and all that. Its like that but different.
>>6710475
Usually no. Tops and bottoms have thier roles, and with two vers guys it usually happens organically.
I'm vers, and it has depended on my partner a lot on what he is like whether i top or bottom more.
>>6710502
I've never taken "turns" with other vers guys. More or less it usually happens just that you're making out, foreplay, sucking cock, and you feel it out. One guy will usually make it clear what he really wants at that moment. Either with words or actions AKA he will start presenting his ass or put himself in a dominant position where his cock is near the other guy's ass.
>>6710554
Also forgot to mention, but lots of times anal doesn't happen at all. Some guys prefer never to do anal top or bottom. Lot's of oral sex though.
Can you tranny whores stop pushing the tranny agenda into our autists at /r9k/?
Thank you very much in advance. Have a nice day.
you guys dug your own graves as far as this goes
>>6710551
HOW THE FUCK WE DID THAT? NONE OF US WANTS TO CUT OUR COCKS OFF AND WEAR A FUCKING DRESS STOP WITH THIS BULLSHIT OF ROBOTS WANT TO BE TRANNIES.
NO U
Can someone give tips on how to tell a guy you like them without them assuming you're joking because it's gay?
>I like you but don't assume I'm joking because this is gay
>>6710247
gently grab his dick when you tell him
5 magic words:
"i like you no homo"