another trans thread
>mtf
>see multiple therapists/psychologists to confirm
>come out to gf of 5ever
>shes fine and supportive of it
>ff couple months
>slowly starts bring up more and more how the therapists/psychologists could be wrong and maybe it isnt the right thing
>i'm supposed to be her man and why am i doing this
>goes between this and supportive depending on the minute
>slowly bringing up how I cant give her kids etc, try to break things off and she gets hysterical and loses her shit so we stay together
>still together but she continues to switch between how i'm never going to be able to be the partner she wants to fully supportive
>stressing the shit out of me but i love her so dont know what to do
anyone else deal with this?
what did you do?
what was the final result?
To become a butterfly you need to go through a cocoon stage. Sharing a cocoon gives space issues.
>>7080103
>has gf of 8+ years
>come out as mtf
>initial rejection/disbelief
> she tries to make it work anyway
> I leave her after 7 months of constant nagging, outbursts and an attempted rape.
I don't see a bright future for your relationship, sorry.
I hope you may at least divorce as friends.
>>7080133
>attempted rape
wut
Everyone here likes to talk about how FtMs are all super chill and stable while MtFs are all crazy ugly monsters. Has anyone here considered why this situation is the way it is? I mean, when people go on a rant about how all trannies are mentally ill or disgusting or whateve they're often only talking about the MtFs.
According to what I've seen here, FtMs often pass better and integrate better into society after transition since most of the outright hatred and scrutiny is focused on MtFs. MtFs often cannot pass as well and face discrimination, violence and prejudice at multiple angles, even after transition. As a result, the FtMs are more psychologically stable and agreeable or simply unbeknownst to the general populace while the MtFs are more prone to mental health problems and less agreeable due to a wide variety of factors including, but not limited to, social stigma and the ability to pass.
This makes me wonder if gender transition really is a good treatment for alleviating gender dysphoria but due to a variety of factors it is often less effective for MtFs
>>7080092
FTMs technically never assimilate no matter how much the meme around that propagates. Rather their "integration" and "passing" is never questioned due to the stigma around the idea that woman exert control over the aspects of gender and thus their acquisition of the male image is never questioned. The upbringing of most male's lives are based around being made in the mother's desired image, and then the rest of their lives are based around contorting themselves to the desired image of women. Thus when FTMs make themselves within "the male image" they're not really mimicking the opposite sex, but rather masking themselves in an ideal, aesthetic, imagery etc. that they created. As long as women have command over gender presentations and ideals then AFAB will alway be more "accepted".
>>7080092
i'm a trans guy and most of the other trans guys i've met were crazy ugly monsters, but most were aap and struggling to access transition (which as a general rule of thumb is far more restricted for trans guys than trans girls because of hysteria about 'steroids' -- i eventually turned to self-medding and it took four years to even pull that off)
all trans people are more psychotic than the general population but i've come to the conclusion the presence or absence of a*p is where the line is really drawn, with the presence or absence of free unrestricted transition access at all ages being an important subfactor
Due to questions of human identity and agency, transition is basically the only treatment for gender dysphoria that is considered humane by doctors and psychologists
Who's the most patrician subset of lgbt and why is it trans girls?
We're the absolute worst, though. The most patrician subset is cis lesbians that are normal and haven't succumbed to crazy left wing politics. Either that or straight FtMs.
>>7080088
That's an odd way to spell homo guys.
>>7080088
degeneracy, the most patrician subset of lgbt are bisexuals with our homoheartbreaking, breeder and trans attracted powers.
>>7080187
qt (bi) boys are the best!
You have a dick or a vagina, no in between. Sodomy and taco bumping should be banned, pedophilia is wrong and disgusting. And beastiality is gross. If you disagree then you are a Janissarie and prepare to die by the sword.
>>7079992
Are you from /pol/ or /tg/? Both?
>>7079992
>magical realm board being anti lgbt
Clearly he's a /pol/ shitter
Can I turn my dick into a vagina
What's the best way to get a boyfriend? I would particularly like someone cute but my main focus is personality. Crossdresser or trans is also preferred. Plus looking like Yohio is an instant win kek.
>>7079824
u go up and grab him by the balls with a firm grip, keeping eye contact while doing so
>>7079882
Anon is correct. Firm grip is important.
>>7079882
I thought that was only when it came to pussy
Do you think it's inevitable as a LGBT person to lower your standards in order to not end up alone forever?
No, theres enough of us that we can find someone about the same level of quality as us same as any cis person. Altho depends on ur area I guess
>>7079857
>same as any cis person
Most LGBT are cis, dumbass
I swear trannies act like they own this board these days
Not always.
Look around you. Chances are you will find a lot of relationships where you find one person 'just settling' with another person because they believe they won't ever get any better, and they will be 'miserable'.
I see it a lot.
Everyone can be, and is a beautiful island on their own. Find something else to shift your attention on. A new hobby perhaps. Go do things that you normally wouldn't. Expand your world.
I will die alone. Yes, there are some days where this upsets me, a lot. I have a bruise on my right hand currently where I've been crying my eyes out and punching the ceiling of my car.
But, on the other hand, I'm finding something else.
I'm beginning to learn how to cherish my friendships a lot more. Keep less friends, and keep them extremely close. They will leave eventually, but for now, they are like my family.
I might not have the intimate connection of a lover, but that's only one of the few downsides of trying to live just off friends and immediate relationships.
Some of us are made to be alone. Some of us will realize this and move past it, and deal with the hardship and trials that this path comes with. Some others will settle, with the risk if still feeling alone.
No matter what path you choose in life, and this goes with almost anything, you will have something that will suck about it.
We're humans. We adapt.
dialectical edition
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• pleb is completely wrong about how she looks
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
cheto
last one
>>7077998
Pls inject me with semen
whats up?
>>7079505
I want in on this degeneracy
Can anyone who is attracted to trans people maybe explain why?
Is your attraction to them greater than your attraction to cis people?
Would you openly date a trans person?
Would you date one who doesn't pass that well?
>>7079327
I'm attracted to MtF's because I'm a FtM and it makes me feel like I'm in a normal relationship.
>>7079327
Transwomen and androgynous men & women tend to look better than cis women 99% of the time. I don't feel much attraction to female presenting AFAB.
I wouldn't date anyone ever (cis or trans) but I feel comfortable admitting to people that I like trans and have many times before.
Why is transtrenderism so attractive to cis women ?
what did he mean by this
seriously im really tired and I don't feel like figuring it out
>>7079213
I guess he means colors have genders or something
>>7079217
that makes sense like pink is for girls and blue is for boys
Is it possible to turn asexual or "aromantic"?
How can i do this?
>>7079147
yes.
>>7079179
kek'd
I'm aromantic but I'd like to fall in love just once to feel how is it.
boiboob lovers edition
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>>7078856
Source
>>7078730
Thats not me.
>>7078554 (You)
>>7078256 (You)
>>7078235 (You)
>>7078015 (You)
>>7077814 (You)
>>7077484 (You)
>>7074439 my face for proof.
All these are me I can see why people use trips now.
Ugh where did /lit/ /mu/ anon go ive been listening to Niccolò Paganini and wanted to know if he enjoys his beautiful soulful composistions. My dad introduced me from the devils violinst
Retoast.
How are you cuties tonight?
>>7078856
HAHA BAD SELFIE TIEM! I'm not a womyns I promise(it's a lie).
How to diy while still living with parents?
I still live with my parents (going to college locally) and they're adamant against me transitioning. I was told to get everything delivered to a PO box but I have no idea how to do any of that, or the best sites to order from. Pls help
>>7078576
Do u have money and are 18+? I went to an informed consent clinic and was on mines for 9mo before I told my parents.
>>7078622
I don't have insurance that covers it, and I hear it's cheaper to get them online
>>7078576
If your parents know that you are trans that actually makes things more complicated because they will be more aware of any feminine change your might get. Good luck.
Where can I, a desperate white tranny, find some disease-free black guys in an all-white country? I want to try out the infamous chocolate stick for science's sake.
>ALL
>WHITE
>COUNTRY
>>7078543
What country?
>disease free
>black guys
I think you know how many of those options you're allowed to choose
GET IN HERE GUYS, Beibs is kill.
I repeat BEIBS IS KILL
Sources say that he mysteriously fell from the canopy of his Los Angeles bachelor pad into the unfilled pool.
>>7078294
doubt.png
>>7078294
Isn’t he in London rn?
>>7078385
He's in a casket.
What are some deal breakers for you when it comes to the person you're dating? Physical aspects and personality.
>>7078283
They can't have a vagina, be a leftist, or be a liar. Other than that, I don't have that many deal breakers on who I'd date. I do tend to like guys with darker hair and pale skin though.
If they don't like cuddling, I'm not interested. That's the big one. Other than that, my dealbreakers are totally normal. I don't like to date people who are trashy, stupid, unhygienic, or have extreme political views. Cuddling is the big one, though, because I need cuddles.
Guys who cut off all connections with their family. Can't be with someone like that