I'm really sick of everything around me, I just want to isolate myself or die already. I want to tell friends to stop calling me "girl", saying "hi ladies" or anything like that, but nobody I've told that I'm ftm takes me seriously. They all just think I'm a butch lesbian who's overreacting. Fml.
Anybody want to talk?
>>7265514
Have you considered starting HRT?
>>7265514
Sure, what do you want to talk about?
How and when should I come out as trans to my parents considering I live in a pos intolerant country and my father can get really angry and scary for the smallest things?
Also consider that the closest psychologist is kinda far away.
Should I just eat rat poison?
Have you told anyone close to you? It'd be good to have some kind of support system as a precaution.
>>7265270
Told my sister but idk how that would help. She was very understanding but we don't really have the greatest relationship with each other
>>7265205
>step out of narnia
>reach the closet
>open the door and get the fuck out of there
>face reality, tell everyone
>???
>Profit
getting scared by Vincent Price edition
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>>7243604
>>7243604
>>7265170
post your top3 turn ons
>>7265203
here
Who is your 2d husbando?
Who is your 3d husbando?
Who is you gaygen husbando?
Discuss.
Are we supposed to indulge in our impulses and fetish ? Or can we somehow redirect our sexual energy towards vanilla sex in order to reproduce?
Has anyone ever tried and what is the current state of the research on the subject?
Transitioning cures it.
Autogynephilia is a trouble of the mind, so there should be a psychological solution to it.
To cure the mind I'd want to act only on a mind-level, not on a physical level.
>>7265061
ive found that a lot of kinks have some sort of tie into repression. for example, fetishizing abuse or ageplay cause youre afraid to be a patriarchal hetero normie instead of a progressive special snowflake ultra-kinsey bi hippie like all your peers. or fetishizing powerplay cause you have severe anxiety and doms make you feel safe.
agp tend to feel shame over being male in some way or shame over liking ~girly~ things and therefore can only get hard if they imagine themselves as women. but it could be more complicated than that.
i guess what im trying to say, is to try to resolve the AGP you need to resolve some other issue in your life instead. but you have to find the root first. do some meditation. learn mindfulness. ask your feelings "why" when they happen.
does anybody know someone who's actually been on hormones for 8-10 years or over ?
most fellow trannies i meet are only about a few months or 2 years in at the most, which sometimes freaks me out about the realistic stability of this life style
>>7265021
its almost like most people primarily interact with other people in their age group
>>7265021
I've got many friends
i've noticed that many trannies either chose to live their transexuality publicly (or at least not hiding it when confronted) and there are others that, once able to live stealth, go full stealth and cut any relationship with the rest of the community
>>7265021
there are very few people who are still out as trans by that mark, but yeah, i've met a pretty substantial number of people who are long-term post-transition
all the people who ran late 90s/early 2000s sites are still transitioned and often still intermittently update them, and that's people who have been on hormones for twenty years or more
i think the guy who runs the transitional male is 30 years on t now or something
suicide edition
http://www.strawpoll.me/11697115
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
• Discord: https://discord.gg/qjxGSxY
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>>7264989
No, lewd edition. Pls send me dick pics chasers.
I don't like this edition :(
i dont wanna run out of hrt ;-;
>go to LGBT group at uni
>full of trannies
>go to local gay bar
>more trannies than usual
>go to /lgbt/
>full of trannies
FUCK OFF STOP LEECHING OFF OF US I CAN'T BE A FAG WITHOUT SEEING THIS SHIT EVERYWHERE
woah it's almost like the mentally ill need more support
woah it's liek they only have their faggot cliques as hangouts
>go to LGBT group at uni
Your mistake
>go to local gay bar
Your mistake
>go to /lgbt/
Understandable but still your mistake.
>>7264971
THe most annoying thing that they are also invading our lesb space and call us names like transphobic and terf if we don't want to have sex with them !
Hello,
I can't believe I would ever type these words, but my dad was watching gay porn. I brought him a drink and looked at was he was looking, and he was looking for holiday stuff, but another tab was a cam porn site. I was slightly disturbed, but I (foolishly) googled what he was watching and it was a man. I really, really hope he was at a wrong site but I can't imagine that. I think he's actually gay or bi... not only is my mother going to be super sad if she would find out, but I'm gay myself and I feel people would get really, really wrong feelings if it is discovered that he is gay, and so am I... what do I do.
Bump, advice please
im panicking sort of
>>7264838
Confront your dad about it and tell him you're gay too and become bros.
Don't tell him you're gay until he confirms that he's gay with you, or if he acts all awkward and defensive tell him it's okay.
>>7264838
Don't mention it to your mother or anyone else?
If he wants to come out, he will at his own pace. Don't rush him, be accepting if/when he does, etc.
Also post links so we can objectively rate his taste in pornography.
How do I flirt with other men?
Just have a laugh, don't take it too seriously.
Hell, I fell for a bi guy that flirted with me and drew hearts on my notebooks. Then he realised I was actually into him and backed off. Never heard of him dating guys though. Whatever. I'm obviously over it since this happened 8 years and I'm still talking about it.
Whip out your cock and compare lengths.
>>7264542
>show me u dick
>*image of your penis*
Do FtM's have it easier than MtF's?
>Closeted FtM's can wear men's clothes in public/have short hair and no one will care
>Feminine looking FtM's pass way easier than masculine looking MtF's
>Can just chop off tits, lift, and chest will look masculine
The only thing i think MtF's have easier is SRS
I'm glad I'm ftm rather than mtf. Really the only down side is the worse bottom surgery options + mtfs can have sex "like a woman" even without surgery.
>>7264134
aidens don't pass any better than hons do to someone who knows what aidens look like, it's just that there are fewer people
back in the 70s/80s, trans women who today would be blatant hons could pass because people didn't recognize mtf traits
same deal now with ftms, but normies are starting to recognize ftm traits so that will not hold true in the near future
also, top surgery scars are already an immediately-outed trait, so good luck with that masculine chest
>>7264134
why is there a pic of an orthodox priest blessing an mt-lb
Whenever I look in the mirror I see an ugly freaky bug-eyed dude with prominent alpha male jaw and long Jesushair yet I get mam'd and guys call me cute. I even had guys touch my naked body even though I know for a fact my body is disgusting and fridgebod-like and my tranny conetits repulsive and moob-like but they still didn't mind touching me.
I don't get how anyone can think I am cute or even touch me when I myself feel like vomiting at the sight of my body.
>>7263981
Can you please die? I have no idea why someone would make a thread on /lgbt/ just to humblebrag if they weren't 100% pathetic in real life.
>>7265130
Yeah this is pretty sad lol
Fuck off you bdd bitch, let girls with real horrible bodies suffer. At least you dont have a big chin and chiselled brow like me. I mean yeah sure sort of cute well off programmers and some maybe like averagely sorta cute 6/10 guys might be willing to cuddle but theyre just chasers and are okay with my gross manly shoulders and adams apple and gross big chin and the same goes for the 3-6/10 girls who message me and find me hot so fuck off you dont know what suffering is. I havent been dommed or gotten oral or had someone hungrily pursue my body in like a month, im in fucking agony over my hon loneliness
Each masc man's secret fantasy is getting his ass destroyed by a cute dickgirl
>>7263906
Bailey has the strongest jaw on Earth and still looks good
what a god
>>7263920
Having a strong jaw/chin isn't that big of a deal. The worst thing to happen on a transgirls face is heavy brow bossing or a long midsection.
Every gay mans fantasy maybe. I consider myself straight mostly and have zero wish for any dick. That feels so ugh submissive, not masculine at all.
Same way I cant really understand bi males who like to suck dick or bottom, a man should be alpha, those are the least alpha things someone could do.
Any Objectum-sexuals here?
As in, people who are attracted to and/or in love with inanimate objects. If so I'd love to hear from you, I've been feeling some objectophilia-ish feelings recently and would love any advice or guidance you could give me.
Thanks
>>7263596
This is illegal and stupid, cause inanimate object can't love you back.
>>7263608
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2074301/Woman-with-objects-fetish-marries-Eiffel-Tower.html
>>7263608
In what possible way could it be illegal?
Reminder that this is on.
Thoughts on the new series so far?
Less entertaining than "Looking"
>>7263383
Stop browing /tv/!!!
>Please
How do i truly know if im Trans/Gay/AGP/Bi/Lesbian ? ( As you can hear, i dont know what i am )
I have been feeling trans tho, ever since my friend told me that 'you can also be trans', it clicked in my head, and i instantly thought that i was trans, without really thinking much about it.
Thats why i am scared.. i dont know if im actually trans, or if im believing something thats actually not true. I mean i could also be Gay right? So how do i know?
How do i prove what i am?
My friend doesnt believe when i tell him i have trans feelings / thoughts. He says that its something i started believing in to just have something to believe in. He says its some kind of identity crisis. That im trying to find myself and shit like that.
My psychologyst says the same things. She wants me to forget about about trans, and just live normally as a dude like i always been doing. So i did that, but i kept feeling weird, i dont know if its dysphoria or what it it, but i feel like that im different than most other people and that i have to transition to enjoy life.
I have no idea what dysphoria is really. Ive just heard its something you feel when you feel something is wrong. I kinda feel like something is wrong.
Like im not a 'real' man and probably never been, and i sometimes act like a girl, if i get the chance.
Sexually, i dont know what im attracted to. I rreally dont like men that much, they are very hairy and act like pigs sometimes. Girls, well, i dont raelly like the way pussy looks sometimes, but i still masturbate all the time to normal cis porn with dicks and pussys.
But yeah i dont know.. Do i like girls or boys? I dont know.. How do i find out? I have been looking at different kinds of porn and pictures to see what turns me on. Any tips here?
Also, i was thinking trying to get hormones to see if i like it? I feel like i have to test myself. I cant just be wasting my precious time anymore. I just turned 24. I want hormones but i dont think i can get them easily..
>>7263210
Trender > trans
>>7263249
whut?
>>7263363
Just because you feel different doesn't mean you're trans. Since when do you want to be a girl?