Is there any gay/bi people on here who're conservative? I'm a bi conservative, and can't find any others like me. Am I truly alone on /LGBT/?
You are not alone
>>7279083
You've also adapted the ways of being right sis/brother?
>>7279094
Brother, yes this is true.
Alright good people, I hope you don't mind a writer-wannabe trying to collect some data for a fascinating character inspired by well… lots of things.
I'll appreciate any answer or link to something that would give me a better understanding of this subject.
Anyway, all the questions are related to a male to female transition and my apologies if my questions are rude, it's really not my intention. (Also, English isn't my first language...)
I tried to do some research on my own and found too much questionable/contradicting stuff, so, if this questions seem weird... it's pretty much because of that. (Anecdotical stuff is welcome too)
Concerning the body:
1- Is it correct that the early the transition starts, the better the "results" are?
2- Assuming a well controlled and “perfect” transition without surgery, is it possible to achieve "indiscernible" results? (Think all the female physical characteristics outside of the reproductive organs and mammary glands)
3- Is it correct that the male reproductive organ may suffer from atrophy (or at least a severe erectile dysfunction) after a prolonged period of hormone treatment?
4- Is it correct that hormone treatment comes with serious health hazards that may lower, considerably, the life expectancy of those that are under it? If that's the case, what are the common health issues knows?
5- Is it correct that the current hormone treatments have varying degrees of success on the individual? (In some it may do wonders, in others... not so much)
6- Is it correct that some hormone therapies may have serious, (near) instant health complications on some individuals?
Cont...
>>7279068
Continued...
Concerning the mind:
7- Is it possible to change the sexual orientation of an individual? To be more specific, from homosexual or straight to bisexual?
8- This one is weird as hell and I really don't want to explain it too much because it can give too much, so let's go for this: if a prepubescent individual is "transitioned" (Sorry don't have a better word), do you think it is possible to make them accept their new body? (Assume this person receives competent help to do so)
9- Another weird one, specially since I should be able to answer it, but I really don’t know how valid my own position is: How (un)desirable is for a straight man to have sex with a trasgender individual? Please asume that trasgender individual is an attractive woman.
Concerning History:
10- How old are hormone replacement therapies?
11- Do we have any records of how Transgender individuals were 100+, 200, etc. years ago?
12- Do we know of any ancient methods used by Transgender individuals?
13- Do we know of any famous (suspected or not) transgender individuals?
>>7279068
>1- Is it correct that the early the transition starts, the better the "results" are?
generally, yes. some people just have better genetics than others too.
>2- Assuming a well controlled and “perfect” transition without surgery, is it possible to achieve "indiscernible" results? (Think all the female physical characteristics outside of the reproductive organs and mammary glands)
yes. google kim petras for example
>3- Is it correct that the male reproductive organ may suffer from atrophy (or at least a severe erectile dysfunction) after a prolonged period of hormone treatment?
yeah this is almost certain
>4- Is it correct that hormone treatment comes with serious health hazards that may lower, considerably, the life expectancy of those that are under it? If that's the case, what are the common health issues knows?
not that i know of, although their probably isnt a lot of data out there.
>5- Is it correct that the current hormone treatments have varying degrees of success on the individual? (In some it may do wonders, in others... not so much)
yep. genetics.
>6- Is it correct that some hormone therapies may have serious, (near) instant health complications on some individuals?
not that i've heard of
>>7279119
Thank you for the answers, friend.
Oh well, I think I'll bump this later or try again tomorrow.
Hi /lgbt/. I have a problem that falls within your area of expertise.
You see, I'm a cis guy and I'm in a relationship with a trans guy. When we started dating he was still living as a girl, but he has since began living as a boy. I don't mind and I still love him and feel attracted to him. I've done my best to support him by using his new name, new pronouns, etc and complimenting his changing appearance (short hair, flattened chest, etc).
But now he is seeing a therapist with the idea to eventually begin taking male hormones which will make him hairy, make his voice deeper, and make other major changes to his body. This upsets me because I know that if he does this I will probably no longer be attracted to him and it will mean the end of our relationship. I tried to remain supportive and asked him why he feels the need to change his body like that and he said that 1, he thinks it will make him feel better about his body to be more masculine, and 2, other people will see him as a man that way. I tried to explain to him that he's a beautiful man now and that if he takes the hormones he will ruin the features that make him special and that I love about him (I'm not generally attracted to men) and that I and everyone close to him already sees him as a man.
I don't understand why he wants to be manly now. When I first met him he would dress up when he went out, in a dress and makeup and nail polish, and I thought he enjoy it. I didn't bring this up to him because he will think I don't support him and want him to go back to living as a girl, but that's not the case. He is just as beautiful to me now as he was then. I support him being a guy 100%, I just don't want him to ruin his beautiful body.
How can I convince him that he is perfect the way he is and everyone close to him already respects him as a man? I get that he's insecure, but if he could just see how much everyone loves and supports him the way he is he would be happy without the hormones.
It's obvious you don't give a fuck about his dysphoria, it's ridiculous you equate HRT with "ruining" his body.
Drop the relationship, don't hold him back and don't let him hold you back.
>>7278943
I don't see how his dysphoria can be that bad when I've seen him look smoking hot as a girl and rock it. He just wants to "look like a man." But everyone close to him already accepts him as a man, changing his body would just be conforming to the stereotype of what a man looks like.
>>7278861
>trans guy
>I don't understand why he wants to be manly
>I support him being a guy 100%
So much hypocrisy. Just break up with him if you can't love him anymore.
>be "straight" virgin
>desperate for some action
>create tinder
>no matches with women at all
>this trans with a huge dick gave me a super like
>"what the heck"
>we talk for a few days, exchange Whatsapp
>keep telling her I'm straight
>she wants me to at least suck her off anyway
what do? I'm afraid
>>7278218
Suck her fempenis, what are you, gay?
>>7278218
grow a spine and tell him to fuck off unless you want to get your ass violated. "sorry wrong hole" is what comes to mind
>>7278235
It's a clit, nothing gay about it. You're gay if you don't want to suck a clit.
why do flamers and the rest of the lbtq hate on straight acting guys?
are they cancer?
>>7278028
1.) it isn't "straight-acting", it's "normal"
2.) Flamers hate normal gays because everyone else in the fucking world hates flamers for being so damn gay while not giving a shit that normal gays are gay
>>7278028
they are jealous because straight-acting gays get laid and they don't.
>>7278048
Nah. It's just as performative as if not more than a "flamer".
Serious question, can gays turn straight?
>>7277873
well, can straights turn gay?
>>7277926
Can't they?
>find local lgbt group in very small town
>super happy and excited cause live in rural very small town with nearly 0 queers
>fast forward today
>it's another "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" episode
>it's another "muh opinion, muh feels, muh activism" episode
>it's another "KILL THE STR8TIES!!!" episode
>it's another "I WANT COOOOOOCK XDDD" episode
>it's another constantly smoking in everyone's faces, drinking and burping everywhere episode
>it's another gay drama episode
Point is, what are your experiences in local lgbt groups? Any horror stories?
>>7277728
>local lgbt group
Not even once, it doesn't matter where you live. NOT. EVEN. ONCE.
>>7277728
>be questioning if ftm, very androgynous
>go to school at a local uni
>there's an lgbt group there apparently
>don't go for a while
>hang out alone, bored, drawing and posting on 4chan, avoiding crowded places
>eventually get lonely
>start going at the start of my second semester
>pretty okay people
>a ftm and four lesbians on the board
>a few gay guys hang around, a few more ftms, mostly lesbians
>decide to go every wednesday because i didn't have much else to do
>a few cool people
>bunch of catty bitches though
>stay quiet and draw the regulars for my part
>don't socialize much
>election day for new board members comes up
>get pressured to run, so i halfass it
>go for VP against cisgay iraq vet who is clearly more qualified
>his speech involves lots of ways to improve next semester
>old board is offended
>my speech involves bullshitting about how much the club has 'improved my life', no plans or anything for next semester, just sucking dicks so i can get out of there ASAP
>i win the election
>new board is me, two other ftms, and last semester's president
>everyone but me is super, super tumblr
>every new member we get is also a tumblr autist that likes to call everything problematic
>president apparently can't take criticism
>old board starts gossiping about her behind her back
>tension builds up between the secretary and the president
>she starts gossiping about him, and him about her
>he ends up resigning (should have beaten him to it desu)
TLDR: not even once
Worst we had were some GSA cunts selling stupid bracelets.
Absolutely refused to buy one which baffled this one girl and amused the one guy I was out to at the time.
I went on tinder and all the guys on it were disgusting.
How come the only people I'm attracted to are near-perfect feminine boys who are probably out of my league anyway?
>>7276473
Why does that girl look like Anne Frank?
>>7276473
I can't say, friend. Sucks that you are only attracted to the rarest guys imaginable. Good luck with that
>>7276473
What do you look like?
Don't you get shit on your dick?
Serious question I'm young.
I once entered my GF's ass and when I pulled it out it was green and brown and stunk and I never wanted to do that again.
Has this happened to you? Or do you.. like this?
>>7276380
Your GF has a shit diet and also bad anal hygiene
You gotta take 5 minutes to clean yourself up if something's going in
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema
lole @ the anecdote tho
>>7276380
>tfw fucked my gf bunch of times in the ass
>never got poop dick
>tfw gayest faggot here
>tfw fap to scat shit all the time
>mfw
better one that can be found in the catalogue
old thread
>>7265170
did someone's FWB move to canada recently? I've been hooking up with some guy who just moved here 2bh he's awful at sex tho
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>>7272965 #
Literally 0 effort given.
1, i am huge on paranormal shit.
2. Bitch, grindr? Im a growlr gurl i like em thiccc
3. Im a whore for SA2b so you got that right
>>7276159
i said mine moved to china and that i felt bad about it
and then someone said that theirs moved to canada to meme on me
Please, no fuckheads in this thread okay? I just want someone who is bigender to explain to me what it means to be bigender. I'm curious.
>>7276113
made up nonsense
>>7276113
It means I can't decide if I want to be like this
>tfw only black men, older guys, and the rare lesbo hit on me
What does this mean??
>>7275751
Im in the same boat. It means you are ugly or masc to the point of being intimidating.
It means you look like a tranny
>>7275776
I don't think I'm that ugly tho? I am androgynous though. wanna post contact to compare notes?
why does it matter to anyone else if I fuck who i wanna fuck and dress how I wanna dress.
>>7275345
yes because i love you
>>7275345
because homosexuals are more likely to be pedos
>>7275352
source? I have literally never heard that
Does Jazz Jennings have a cunt?
>>7274829
she's 16
the only person confirmed to have gotten srs at 16 is kim petras
jazz jennings is being forced to conform to wpath standards, which doesn't even let you go from blockers to hormones until 16 (she appears to have just started estrogen from her body shape) and no surgery until 18
>>7274847
What are these standards, blockers etc?
I'm not into LGBT terminology.
why do people care so much about what someone's genitalia looks like? you're all messed up tbhon especially when it comes to underage children...
Gay for FTM..
I'm an ftm(On T for about 4 years now), and also a very masc gay male.
I just had a general curiousity to put out there, just kind of want to hear opinions from cis gay men that have been with Transmen..
What exactly helps you feel comfortable with the female bits? Are you as "into it" as you would be with another man?
I prefer to bottom and work with what I already have, and have found some men very into it, others not so much.
I want to hear your thoughts, and comments.
Bumping for interest
>>7273604
>also a very masc gay male.
>>7273604
Cis gay man here.
Im fairly interested in transmen.
I dont really mind the female parts. When i was in high school i had been with women. I'm not physically attracted to women because of the lack of masculinity, not because of thier parts. Sex with women was more like masturbation while sex with men gets me very excited. The thought of fucking a /man's/ vagina turns me on a lot.
I think men who are uncomfortable with female parts will continue to be so, while men like me who are gay because of the positive things they get from men rather than the negatives from women will be more inclined to enjoy sex with a FTM
I have only dated and had sex with one transman, but i didn't enjoy it. He was early on HRT, and his body was still quite feminine. He was very small and thin. He felt fragile to me and that was a big turn-off during sex. He also didn't like vaginal play and that was a turn-off as well. I feel uncomfortable having sex with someone who is also uncomfortable.
I'm still interested in dating transmen though. However only masc men who like to use thier vagina.