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Was there a libido mismatch between your bf/gf? How did you deal

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Was there a libido mismatch between your bf/gf? How did you deal with it? Are there any tried and tested methods to increase your girls libido? I did google but was overwhelmed with the amount of topics on these.
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>>42255480
Being healthy increases libido because it produces hormones. So exercise and good food. Your body wont be focused on reproducing if you are hungry/weak. I forget who's created the theory about needing your needs met before you can move on to your wants. Whether people know it or not they need to eat healthy and exercise in order to want to be productive in life. Kind of ironic.
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>tfw no gf
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>>42255480
>increase your girl's libido
make her respect you

if she isn't giving you enough, get it from somewhere else

you'll be surprised, she won't even need to know about it and she will want you more.
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>>42255612
>if she isn't giving you enough, get it from somewhere else
Thats not how it works.
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>>42255591
Mazlos pyramid
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>>42255480
Ex husband and I were completely mismatched both in the type of sex and the amount. I wanted rough sex all the time. It was offputting for him. "Didn't want to hurt me."

Break up. You can't change people.
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>>42255680
I'm not going to breakup with the love of my life over sex. Surely there are ways to increase a women's libido. I was overwhelmed with google which is why I am here to get some anectodes.
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>>42255644
Not quite it but you helped me remember.
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
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>>42255644
maslow's hierarchy of needs, to be pedantic
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>>42255713
she's not the love of your life if you have issues this big.

recently had it happen to me, just shut up and realize life will suck for a bit before it gets better once you leave her
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>>42255713
Well, the point still stands. You can't change her. Only she can do that. Tell her what you want and the rest is up to her.
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>>42255713
Other than figuring out what turns her on and performing the ritual of it every time you want to have sex there isn't much to directly alter libido.
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i was never denied sex because my gf knows how easy it would be for me to get it elsewhere.

there are two things she makes sure always have, food and sex.
her mom raised her well i guess.
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>>42255755
>>42255755
It's not about her not denying. I want her to want me as much as I want her. I don't know how some people can still have sex knowing the other person is doing it out of obligation
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>>42255480
Is she on birth control by any chance? Different birth control can increase libido is this one is curbing it.
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>>42255755
lol shut the fuck up you larping tripfag, post body if you're going to call yourself 'Chad.' Fuck, I hate summer /fit/
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My partner of 7 years broke up with me last month because I couldn't sexually satisfy him. Thank you SSRIs for killing my libido, worst decision I've ever made. I was never in the mood for it but would have sex if he wanted it and would put effort in during the act but he didn't like to be the one to always initiate it.

Not only lost my partner but lost my best friend.

We're still friends but it's awful lonely to not have anyone to shit talk with in the evenings. Avoid medication for anxiety and depression if you can guys.
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>>42255840
lol
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>>42255840
Could you orgasm on SSRIs? also are you a boi or grill
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>>42255865
Yes & grill.

I'd looked into St John's Wort which was meant to potentially help but it would also make my contraception ineffective. Wellbutrin was an option as it can help libido but might have played with blood sugars (type 1 diabetic).

I have accepted that I am just going to be a cat lady.
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>>42256009
Why can't you just stop the SSRIs?
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>>42255612
Really blasts my bananas.
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>>42255840
I unironically wish you the best.
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>>42256034
Oh that's the thing, I did. I stopped in October 2015 cold turkey and my libido never returned. Lasting effects. I've read that some people get their libido back after years have passed.
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>>42256134
Did you go to a doctor? Surely there must be a way to get your libido back.
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>>42256097
Thanks, it's a shit situation but I can completely understand his point of view and I know how hard of a decision it was for him to make.

I felt awful for the first week and just slaved at work and the gym so I didn't have to be on my own at the flat. At least I get to focus more on me now.
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I always expected a level of treatment from her but she never met it. Tried to lower my standards and adapt to her but that only made her even farther away from me because I became not the person she met, but the person she slashed through. I'm such a faggot for not breaking it up 9 months ago. We'll break up soon. She's ignoring me and I feel like a dog. I tried to leave a while ago and she was crying her heart out that she loves me and she wants me. Anon, if what you want is never met ane it's not going the way you expected, tell her about it, discuss what you want and what she wants and see if a compromise that doesn't affect you can be made. If not, don't waste your time, believe me, because you'll really hate yourself for it.
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>>42255480
There was a libido mismatch occasionally but luckily we were both horny pretty much at the same time and if one of us wasn't the other knew how to turn us on.

>lying in bed one morning cuddling
>gf gets up and goes to closet
>pulls out kinky bag of magic fun time
>pulls on red leather opera gloves to match her red babydoll
>pulls on red knee high patent leather 5 inch heel boots
>eye fucking me the whole time
>pulls out leather posture collar and leash
>"kneel in front of me"
>literally the best sexual experience of my life as she made out with me while tugging on my leash with one hand while stroking my cock with the other, keeping me on edge and teasing me for what felt like hours, before making me crawl over to the bed and ordering me to fuck the everloving shit out of her

This was like 4 years ago and I still masturbate over it.
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Fuck why is this thread right now.

Literally just confronted mg gf yesterday about how it feels like she never wants to have sex anymore, like it's an inconvenience almost, how I'm always the one to initiate, and so on.

She said "I just don't want to sometimes. I don't have as high a sex drive as You, and if you need to get it somewhere else, get it somewhere else."

The whole thing culminated in a fight, even though she pried and asked me what was wrong. We almost broke up and reading some of these replies I think maybe we should have.
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>>42256009
Epimedium.

Peppermint oil.
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>>42256280
Diffusing the peppermint oil *
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>>42256189
I haven't been to a doctor for it but have looked into it quite a bit and there isn't a cure all. When it's caused by SSRIs it would be a conversation about adjusting what SSRI I'm on, but as I'm not on one anymore that wouldn't help. Type of contraception can be a thing, I changed from pill, to combipill, to injection and nothing changed. I introduced regular exercise and lost weight to feel good within myself to see if it was linked to that, no change still.

It could even just be linked to complacency in our relationship. He's all I've ever known, my first partner from when I was 16 so maybe my libido would come back if I find someone new?

We had the same drive at the beginning but he definitely maintained a high drive throughout. Communication is extremely important, I feel if he told me he was frustrated with me the first time he felt it a half year ago then things might've been different today.
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>>42256134
i read smoking weed helps
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>>42256344
Serotonin and dopamine are made with protein.
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>>42255480
Not a gf, but when my boyfriend moved in and went on my diet and shed 20 lbs his libido went through the roof.
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>>42256344
>>42256385
Also, lifting increases test which increases libido, sensations, and orgasm.
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>>42256415
Wouldn't that be mainly estrogen for women since that is their primary sex hormone though?
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>>42256430
That is directly from a study on topical test treatment.
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>>42256368
My issue with that is I'm not sure how I would be able to manage my diabetes if I'm high. If I get munchies then I'm probably not going to be in the right state to eat and shoot up insulin mindfully.

Saying this, I know alcohol helps with my libido massively. I only drink about 4 times a year though because again trying to manage my bloods can be hard if intoxicated and I also lost my insulin and monitor the last time I got drunk.
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>>42256277
Fuck are you me.. I'm finally breaking up with her tomorrow. But I feel like she already got me out of her life and I'm just being a beta doing her the courtesy that I always provide.

I still love her though anon.. I really do..
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>>42256512
ME TOO BRO. ME TOO. I still love her even though the sex is gone, but I have needs. What's the point of a relationship without the sex? It's just a friendship at that point.
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>>42255588
>>42255644
>>42255755
>>42256066
>>42256277
>>42256344

this is an excellent thread
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>>42256430
Test will make you want it no matter your gender.
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>>42256534
This is true. Me and my ex were best friends and companions, it turned into a sexless relationship and he finally realised he was unhappy.

He had been coming to terms with it for months before he ended it with me, part of it was because he does still love me and didn't want to make me upset. He did what he had to do and I do not feel any resentment towards him for it.

Do what you need to do to be happy.
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>>42256441
Then just don't eat. Munchies are just like wanting to eat when you're cutting. Ignore it and you'll be fine.
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>>42256441
>>42256575
Alternatively, 2-3 scoops and some flaxseed oil.
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>>42256556
I can't tell if you're being sarcasmal but it is a really important thing for people to talk about. I still see the board as health and fitness, the fitness part can play a role in helping the health particularly in this thread as others have pointed out - whether it's been successful for them or not.
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>>42256344
>i have better understanding and research methods than a doctor
why do people think this?
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legit an actually good thread
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>>42255480
Best: 24/7 hours, not many people go there. Only two squat racks and I've never had to wait. Tons of bars and plates.

Worst: Absolutely filthy, always shit smeared in the bathroom, no attractive women. Only one platform for deads & nowhere to do oly lifts.

$36 bucks a month...better than planet fitness though.
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>>42256677
Kek
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>>42256623
The only doctor I trust is my diabetic specialist because I feel she has the time for me. GPs in the UK have a quota and rush appointments, I never feel like they listen to me and they've misdiagnosed me multiple times.
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>>42256677
Giggled twice
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>>42256534
Man, the sex was never frequent anyway for me. We had it twice throughout 2 years. I was horny as fuck the whole time and she had depression but I didn't mind, she was my soulmate and I wanted to see her bloom... everything was going the right way until she found a waitress job and works nightshifts. She'd call me every break and we'd talk for 30 minutes or so and I'd drive her home and come by. One day I said that I was feeling low and that those 30 minutes talks don't make me feel so good and she was surprised by it. She was shocked that my sexless, special-moments-only relationship wasn't making me happy so she started creating more and more distance between us. She fucking cries herself to sleep every night and I can do nothing but watch. It's fucking horrible man, I hate this and sometimes I think to myself, why the fuck did I ever do this to myself. I HATE that we cant have any moments because of her job but I always encouraged her and told her how proud I was of her for trying to cover up some of her tuition by herself and not her parents money. But IDK man, I just don't know.. I find myself questioning if this whole thing was right at all. Only thing keeping me is that I love her, but she says it's unclear for her and she'll take some time to think about it and i dont know wtf to do at this point other than get as depressed as she is and feeling like I can't do anything.
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>>42255609
It is okay. We all die one day.
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>>42256677
Topkek

/thread
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>>42256926
Is her name aleksa?
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>>42255480
Right now I'm the one with the lower libido. It's psychological though. I can't afford to move out of my parents and hate having to have quiet, soft sex (all the time at least). Don't ever raise your kids in socal or they'll be forced to live with you forever.
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>>42256262
Damnit I didn't come here expecting to get this turned on
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>>42256430
Test (although in much smaller amounts than males) is necessary for female health and is also responsible for female sex drive.
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>>42255480
Women don't need to fuck like men do. Thats just the way things are
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>>42255480
are you the same faggot who posts these threads about your asexual gf? I've seen three today already.

Not really fitness related btw, but I answer nonetheless.

I broke up with my gf of 4 years because she was always low libido basically and she was always busy with her studies.

No sex = shit relationship
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>>42256134
last time i was on SSRI i still had my libido but i remember it was really hard to get a bonner
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>>42257191
Then how come most couples have healthy sex lives with both their libidos matching.
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>>42255713
honestly nothing you do will really help. Like some other anons in this thread said, if she gets fit then it will increase libido. So you can help her try to get fit but that help will only go so far. Being fit has to be a decision she makes. and wanting sex is also needs to come from her.

Also I don't know how fit you are but if you've gained weight that could be a contributing factor. I know with my girlfriend when I was fat sex wasn't enjoyable for both of us. Now that I lost a bunch of weight and have muscle she wants to have sex a lot more.

tl:dr just work out faggot and jack off every once in awhile
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Last girl I was seriously seeing would want to fuck usually 3-4 times a night and then twice in the morning before work. It was fun for awhile but eventually it gets hard to keep yourself well... hard for all that time.
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>>42255803
She is, yes. She goes to a clinic every week to see her specialist. Sometimes he's not there though so she has to see him in the week. He must be good 'cos she's always texting him about sex and stuff.
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>>42256926
this is sad anon. My gf kind of did the same thing. She was going to community college during the day, waitressing at night, had a second job for weekend. Some weeks we'd get maybe a night together. Once she finished 2 years at the community college she transferred to a uni 5 hours away from me. So now we see each other maybe for a weekend a month. It's hard and I think about ending it all the time. The only thing that's keeping me together is how much I love her and I'm kind of enjoying the time to work on myself too. Best of luck to you and your girl anon
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>>42257333
Ejaculationless orgasm.

It seems proper refraining from all the focus minigames from books and just getting super PC tone. I have good results with the information that the pelvic floor presses on the vein that goes on the pelvis and that keeps blood in the penis.
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>>42257456
She told me she wants to see me tomorrow,
I replied with :"Can I ask you a quick yes or no question?"
>Yes
>You know I love you, right?
>We both have different definitions of love, but from your corner, you do, yes

Beh...
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>>42257686
I dont even know WHAT THE FUCK makes her think like that. Were those 2 years she kept telling me she loves me a lie? What the fuck anons
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>>42257340
heh, sounds like one hell of a specialist
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Kind of because with my first gf I had crazy performance anxiety while she wanted to fuck all the time
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i fucking hate you normieposting faggots
i lift to not feel anything, for catharsis, i just want to talk about lifting and you pollute the board
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>>42255480
She's just not that attracted to you, if you can't make em dripping wet and hyperventilating without even touching them you're doing it wrong
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I'm a dude with low libido. I've had a couple girlfriends say things like, "Isn't the girl supposed to be denying the guy sex..." and I think I made them feel unattractive by not wanting to have sex with them all the time.

If I'm banging a girl for the first time, I'm extremely attracted to her. But after the first time, I want to fuck her less and less. Anyone else have this issue?
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>>42256009
>my contraception
WHORE
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>>42257794
>"Isn't the girl supposed to be denying the guy sex..."

Man I hate this mentality . Are most women like this?
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>>42255631
why not? because some beta cuck says so?
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>>42255612
This guy gets it. Until I started rampantly cheating on my gf it got so bad to the point where we fucked only once a month. It drove me crazy for a while but as soon as I didn't give a shit anymore because I was getting it else where she went back to normal. I think I'm in the sweet spot now. I have a gf so girls want to fuck me more because that's just the way the female brain works. Kinda racking up a long blocked list on social media though
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>>42255713
if she's the love of your life just ask yourself if you can live on for years with her low libido.
if it's a dealbreaker for you sort it out. her libido will probably never change and your sexual incompitability might hurt your relationship in the long run.
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>>42257887
Are the herbs etc that are advertised on the web just scams?
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>>42257841

You realize she's cheating on you too, right?

Every cheater I've ever met thinks their significant other isn't cheating on them. They're too blinded by covering up their own trail of shit to open their eyes and see they're also being cheated on. Unhealthy relationships built on lies are truly a sad, sad sight.
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>>42257921
Epimedium is getting the rep of giving me 24hr chubs.

>>42256280
Peppermint oil is used for lip thickening, and it gives me super boners.
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>>42257965
Does Epimedium work for women too?
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>>42258003
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>>42258040
Huh? What should I takeaway from that pic? I think I'm dumb.
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I'm just going to do what I always do.
>rampantly cheat on her
>get caught or confess
>She will forgive me because I am physically more beautiful, and smarter. The only thing she has that I don't is a degree
>then I will break up with her
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>>42257794
I have that issue as well. Have no idea what causes it.
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>>42257724
Love is a really finicky thing, and no one really have a set definition for it. That's probably what she meant
Why she would phrase it in such a way probably means she feels like she doesn't feel as strongly about you as she thinks you do of her
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>>42258275
Hmm... that actually makes sense. What would you advise me do?
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>>42255612

Married anon, 3 kids, actual oldfag. This is a rare good post on /fit/. Can confirm.
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>>42258419
Elaborate. Pretty sure that guy was a troll
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>>42255840

Maca powder has been shown in clinical studies to improve libido among women on SSRIs.
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>>42256926
She didn't have 10 minutes for a quickie in the car after work? This story is bullshit.
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>>42256277

Married anon from above. Open marriages are a good thing. If you can compartmentalize the sex, it is only an outlet, then you're in good shape. Just make sure she understands that it's open for you and not her. It's serving a specific need, and if she has that need it's a different conversation, but this is a solution to your issue and she doesn't need to get someone on the side just because.
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Yeah it's pretty much. Wow you actually put on makeup to hide all of the acne that you make excuses for when it's your shot diet and lifetstyle I'll guess I'll fuck your overweight ass
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>25
>trouble getting hard

Help me...
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>>42258715
Fuck this hits close to home.
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>>42258779
>>42257965
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>>42255612
Can confirm, as much of a degenerate that I am
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>>42255612
Are ypu meming?
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>>42257798
I initially got on the pill to help with acne and cramping issues. I never want to have cramps again so even though I see myself being sexless for some time, I'm going to stay on it.

Also, condoms look gross.
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>>42258974
Any particular website? Don't want to get some knockoff version
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>>42258984
https://www.amazon.com/NOW-Maca-500mg-250-Capsules/dp/B001DAYJOY/ref=sr_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1500932279&sr=8-3&keywords=maca

i got this one. seems fine to me. good for men and women.
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>>42259032
What's your experience with Maca. Did it work foe you? Also are you a boi or grill
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>>42259083
24/m
gave me a bit of an energy boost desu. also made boners a little more frequent. exercise is the best thing to boost libido, and wouldnt look to MACA as an one stop fix all.
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>>42259166
Dunno if it will work for grills desu. Men are easy
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>>42255480
nope - pretty much everytime I'm at her house we fuck a minimum of 3 times, usually more like 5 or 6.
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>>42259215
How many times does she orgasm? Women who orgasm everytime are prolly more willing.
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>>42258508
She never liked to be touched. She wanted every moment between us to be "special". On my 3rd week with her I tried to go for a kiss and she said it's still early for that, I went for a hug and she just said no and we had a tiny bit of bad time. I feel like 2 years spent are wasted now that I found her the job and got her out of her autism. I don't know why but I have this constant doubt that she doesn't like who I became because of her.
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>>42258984
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06VVH497G/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
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>>42259266
Why didn't ypu bail earlier
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Uhhhh idk my last ex gf had zero sex drive. I mean zero. it was impossible to turn her on.

My gf now however...check my attached pic

We can't stop having sex. Even in public she's trying to suck me off. its crazy but its awesome.

Just find a new girl
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>>42260741
Ehat do you to her exactly? Does she orgasm buckets? Women like that usually orgasm very easily so there is no uphill battle like with other women

Also how good looking and fit are you
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>>42255480
Rape her, women actually love it.
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>>42260785
No man. She's fucking tough to make orgasm. It takes forever and it requires multiple points of stimulation.I find that my fingers work best.

She's 5'7 blonde 9/10 yoga instructor and she's said I've given her the best sex ever. My advice is to fuck a girl doggystyle real slow, then pick up pace. Then keep her still and slowly drill the tip of your dick in until shes like "GIMME ALL DAT DICK" and then pound the fuck out of her. My two cents.

Also I'm South Asian but I'm 6'2 and relatively fit. By no means built but I've got some decent muscles she loves. I'm 7-8/10 desu but girls like me for some reason. I think its height

If i can do it, you can do it
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>>42256009
Horny Goat weed in large doses works great.
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>>42257948
Who cares if she is honestly. All relationships should just be open but under the table about it to preserve familial structure.
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>>42256926
I think my relationship is heading in this direction
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>>42260854
So she doesn't even orgasm everytime? Are ypu from india?
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>>42255480
>Was there a libido mismatch between your bf/gf?

I noticed this with my current gf recently. I kinda noticed that 99% of the time I'm the one who initiates the sex, so out of curiosity I tried to see if I didn't initiate if she would initiate on me.

I went 2 weeks before I caved and fucked her brains out.

Feels bad man. Kinda wish I had a gf that matched my sex drive.
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I broke up with with my gf 3 months ago partly because the sex had tapered off drastically. I she said something along the lines of "I'm sorry my sec drive isn't as high as yours". This instantly struck me as bs, as she was a proud feminist and wasn't embarrassed to tell me she had 35 + sexual partners, a few of them being fuck buddies. I didnt show my anger but at that point I decided that it was time for her to leave and stop using me as some emotional tampon for her issues. I still misss her, she was very beautiful and elegant but I felt like she was going to fuck me over eventually. I'd rather be alone.
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>>42260903
Lol, enjoy your inevitable warts.
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>>42260974
Sri Lanka m8

She lives to serve my dick. If I stay over one night, she'll swallow my nut 4 times and I make her orgasm 1 or 2 times
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>>42255612
>if she isn't giving you enough, get it from somewhere else

>tfw I'm not the only one who does this

This makes me feel better about my cheating, as degenerate as it is.
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my God there are a lot of pussies in this thread. what the fuck happened to /fit/
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>>42261019
You made the right decision but
>feminist
>35+ sexual partners

What the FUCK were you thinking? You don't make girls like that your gf, they should never be anything more than a fuck buddy. Also, she was fucking someone else.
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>>42261019
So was she cheating? What happened to her sex drive?

>>42261003
Does she orgasm every time?
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>>42261019
35+ LMFAO
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>>42255785

It's a sexual market value mismatch. To use an extreme example, if Chris Rock entered your girl's life on the condition that she give him mind blowing enthusiastic sex every day, do you think she would have any trouble getting aroused and wet for him?

Change the scenario around for nice guy Billy Beta from accounting. Think of how dry her vagina would be trying to sex him up.

Which end of the spectrum are you on?
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>>42261061
What makes your value so high though? Your looks?
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>>42261052
>Does she orgasm every time?

Yes. But she's hardcore Christian and says she feels guilty after she has sex with me.
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>>42257456

Dude just have a mistress on the side. Ezpz wtf man
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>>42256926
>sex twice in 2 years
I would have just raped her until she liked it
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>>42261086
Looks + bank account
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>>42261093
Religious women have this mental block that they need to get over with in order for them to let go off all their sexual inhibitions. I know I am stating the obvious here but I know this since I come from a very religious family too.
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>>42261123
I see. What if I told you I habe both? I need my gf to desire me like I do. Which is why I posted the thread anyways.
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>>42261096
Unironically kill yourself.
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>>42261049
>>42261052

I had never read any "redpill" stuff until recently, and to be honest once she got with me she became much less feminist and proud of that stuff when I told her what men really think about it. I guess a took a risk but I'm certain she never cheated on me, but I think once she started getting comfortable she put in less effort. I think eventually would have cheated down the line. She was a good person, but I don't think she could be a good long term partner.
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>>42261189
Trust me, someone who has that many partners and considers themselves even a little bit feminist doesn't place any value whatsoever on female side monogamy. If you want a reason for why she lost interest in sex with you, the answer is as clear as day.
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>>42261086

It's a cliche, but it's your attitude and 'apparant' social standing. Women are pretty dumb and primitive logically, not trying to be sexist but it's true. They operate by feels over reals, so if you trigger the submission complex by acting and looking like a chieftain leader of men you'll have her. For example, being the host of a social event (extreme example is being a dj at a rave), having a crowd there -for you- (a birthday party, extreme example a celebrity)

The techniques come to some easier than others, and most men have success by doing things that make them feel higher social value as well as making the conscious effort.

I mean look at how dumb logically these women are in the following video. Their emotional centers pick up the high status and their vaginas believe it, even though he's a fake in reality.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=C9Ko6Xfa84w
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>>42261226
But they aren't really sexually attracted to him. They want to be with him because of the promise of resources. The happiest marriages where there are no dead bedrooms happen to be with good looking men with good jobs. Like this guy>>42261123

You cannot trick a women into lusting for you sexually. Sure she'll play the part in order to get money but that is veey unfulfilling to me.
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>>42261221

Ok man, well it's over now.
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>>42255480
There's probably nothing you can do. My guess is she's not that attracted to you. Just dump/cheat on her her and find someone who is.
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>>42255480
She had higher libido because I wasn't attracted to her after getting /fit/.
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>>42261277

>But they aren't really sexually attracted to him. They want to be with him because of the promise of resources.

Women want money, sure, but their raw sexual drive is powered by status. Money can bring status but a master can fake it. Small ways of acting can make you seem higher and lower status too.

A pimp who makes a girl feel unworthy to lick his taint is gonna hold onto her loyalty to the point of killing herself. A billionaire who treats a girl like she's his peer or worse, above him, is gonna have a wife who cheats on hiw until she divorces him for half his stuff.

You don't gotta be a pimp and completely destroy her ego, but I hope the idea that it's the social status difference the girl perceives between you and her is getting through. When you mention money and resources you're being too logical, too much thinking like a man. Keep in mind we're talking about raw sexual desire here, not golddigging for the future.
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>>42258419
Looking forward to starting 10th grade in a couple weeks?
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>>42261367
>Raw sex drive powered by status
Stopped reading there
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I don't really enjoy sex, it's messy, pointless and I achieve the required result (regaining concentration and control) a lot quicker by having a wank, I'm only interested in such when I'm horny and the desire dissipates immediately afterwards, sometimes I lose all interest mid way through, it's like there's a disconnect between my body and my mind, I'm sure there must be something developmentally wrong with me - it's also like playing with a loaded gun because I regularly go through phases where I get those worst kind of headaches that make you want to die when I orgasm. I'm currently trying to increase my libido with a bunch of supplments because I'm sure it'd be nice to enjoy it and it would make my girlfriend happier. I'm not sure how to tell my girlfriend this because I know that she'd take it personally or as an insult against her so I stick it out.
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>>42260678
real shit tho. he's getting cucked by his oneitis here. oneitis in a relationship is still real. just got out of a very similar relationship
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>>42261367
This has been debunked so many fucking times so just stop parroting that PUA crap already. Yes women like status (as do men), IF you are good looking. If you are an ugly guy and you try to project status it might even work against you, most girls will become incredibly defensive and label you a creep.
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>>42261419
Not to mention one of the key components of a man's status is good looks.
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>>42261438
That's also true. Height for example, is one of the best predictors of who will win a presidential race.
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>>42261419

if you are a 5/10 or up and have abnormally high social status you can pull 8/10-9/10s pretty easily. My friend does it all the time. Dude's a pussy magnet, all because he is exceptionally good socially.

Anyways, I've noticed this too... being perceived as high on the social totem pole (as in having friends and being "popular") will make women much more interested in you.

Ever since I stopped giving a fuck about women, and focused more on making male friends, chicks have been way more open/flirty with me.

I'm not saying you should try to be pushy or "project" social status, but you should try to make a lot of friends, and have a lot of human connections, and legitimately enjoy them, because that is what will get you women lining up in the end, authentically too, I might add.

I know 4chan might have difficulty grasping the concept of socializing...
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>>42262327
Sure thing bro.
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>>42262572

I'm not trying to brag man, I mean shit, I used to be an incel.

Just saying women respond to social status a lot more than you would think, and you can actively do things to improve your social status and your life will better overall because of it.
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>>42261419

Men don't give a shit about status when it comes to getting laid. 10/10 looks beats out a noblewoman 3/10 for pure sex.
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>>42261055
>>42261049

These are actually considered very low and reasonable numbers for women in the western world nowadays.
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>>42255612

This fucking guy does not get it.

Do not take this dicklets advice. If you have a big enough dick and know how to use it your girlfriend or wife will crave for it. She will beg for it. This fucking guy however does not satisfy his woman. His women thinks his sex is such a shitty experience she'd rather not even have it. She's obviously fucking a real Chad and could careless about pleasing you.
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>>42263483
What if i am a dicklet. Should I start tongue exercises?
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>tfw on day 7 of nofap

I need to fuck a girl today or my head is going to explode.

How do I hook up on Tinder tonight lads? Most women are fucking terrible at making conversation and respond with retarded shit that just nose dives the conversation into the floor.
It's almost like they do that shit on purpose just to watch men's performance as they try to salvage the conversation.
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>>42257025
>not just pounding your girl out in your parents house with no regard for noise


Cuck. I've been making bitches scream in my parents house since junior year and my parents have never even mentioned it except for my dad giving me the nod as the girl leaves. Unless your parents are some Mormons or something they expect you to be fucking when you and a girl are alone in your room. What are they gonna do, ground you? If anything they'll be happy you're actually getting laid.
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>>42255612
Virgin detected.
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>>42255480
Lift more faggot. If you look good shell wanna fuck. I know thats not what you wanna hear but thats the only solution
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>>42261061
>chris rock
Why the fuck was that your go to metaphor
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>>42263720
Just out of curiousity what do you do for a living?
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>>42263483
Lol this is why you dont go to 4chan for advice
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>>42263775
I work at Costco during the week and bartend on the weekends.
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>>42263792
Thats about what i figured
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>>42261019
picture?
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>>42263792
How shitty is that bar you have to work min wage to make ends meet
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>>42263796
Is that supposed to be a bad thing? I make plenty of money and enjoy both jobs. What do you? 6'4 chef at Wendy's with a 12 inch cock making 140k a year?
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>>42263806
I make 15$ an hour at costco and get full benefits. It's actually a great company to work for.
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>>42263831
You should set your bar higher m8
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>>42255840
You literally are my ex, i even started going out with her at 16. It was never about the sex, it was about feeling unwanted and forgotten in the past. Still love the fuck out of her. Feels better to pretend we hate each other though.
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>>42263861
Nigger I make almost 50k a year at 23 with a high school education and bank almost 2/3 of it I'm quite happy with where I am. Debt free too. Don't judge someone you don't know.
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>>42263817
I work high rise construction. 6 inches ~100k after taxes. My point was your parents sound white trash. I guessed fast food but i guess retail sounds about right
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>>42263890
Ya. Like i said. Set the bar higher
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>>42263890
>im happy working two shitty jobs
Ill never undrstand people
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>>42255480
me and my gf didnt have sex for a month in our worst dry spell

It basically made me really annoyed with her. I stopped answering her texts and hung out with her less often and basically was just a dick to her and then we broke up

If you have a high sex drive and your bitch is not trynna fuck its not gonna work out bruh. Unless its true love, but I guess I havent really experienced that yet
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>>42263879
My parents have been separated for 20 odd years but they call every week and my mum crocheted cardigans for my new half sister. My dad visits all my mums family when he comes over with my stepmum.

That was a bit of a tangent, but I think it helped me to accept me and my ex separating but still being able to remain friends. Its an important thing that had to happen. He really did nothing for himself: I would organise his meetings with an accountant, sorted out his driving lessons, took care of all household bills and shopping etc. This will really give him a chance to grow and to learn to be an adult. It's also wiped a lot of responsibilities off me and I get to focus on my own self-improvement.

I can imagine its incredibly rare for a breakup to end this way though.
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>>42263904
Construction workers dont make 6 figures. Lie better
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>>42264058
Sure thing kiddo
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>>42255480
had a gf whos libido was higher than mine at 18, dont get me wrong i wanted to fuck at least once a day but she was insatiable
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>>42263720
I've been with this same girl for over 8 years so things are different. Besides, I don't need my parents to know about those details.
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>>42264058
Got buddies making 30-40 an hour. Not quite 6 figures, but theyre right about it when working 5 hours OT per week.
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>>42261093
Good job on driving a spiritual wedge between her and God. Maybe you should make sure to have her sign a contract with the devil to cement her a spot in Hell.
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>>42257814
Enormously self conscious? You bet.
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>>42255480
>Are there any tried and tested methods to increase your girls libido?
Yes. Don't be fucking repulsive.
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I had a girl who was horny ALL THE FUCKIN TIME. I have a high libido myself and we would literally be fucking for hours every day but at some point my dick just needed some rest and stoped getting hard for a couple of days.
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