I'm confused am I a Goy/Dick or a Realist?
I've recently hung out with friends, and I sort of come to the conclusion that successful people will always be successful no matter where you put them.
I rememeber these guys being smarter than me, and higher in the social standing in HS.
Now that image that I gave them is ruined. They've recently graduated/almost graduated. Yet none of them have a job/career lined up, or any other hobbies beside playing mobas.
It seems to me like they're just being stagnant. I told them I quit playing DOTA and MOBAs because it a useless time sink and I got wierd looks. Told them my reasoning was it was a useless time sink. They're are millions of better hobbies out there that can improve you.
All I got was some B.S answer how the system is rigged and you need connections.
Meanwhile I worked my ass off in college, got into a really good company without connections, i'm a complete antithesis of their arguements. How does /fit/ deal with this, my friends in college are 10x motivated just as me, and when I see my friends from home it like a complete 180.