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Should I just give up? She is 5'8" and last time I checked she was 175 pounds. She is always complaining about how she needs to lose weight and that she is too fat, then she hits me with this. How did you get your SO to get /fit/?
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>>35004713
what did you reply with?
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get fit yourself, soon theyll follow out of fear.. if they really love you that is.
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>>35004738
probably something really edgy otherwise he wouldn't have censored his own shit
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>>35004738
Telling her how the "obsessing over diet" is an excuse that lazy people use to make diets seem like an eating disorder and how counting calories is easier than she thinks. I just didn't want to post it because we use emojis when talking and it's embarrassing
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>>35004713
>I'll love you when you have a body that's actually worth loving.
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>>35004765
You should have just told her she's a fat piece of shit
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>>35004713
Dump her she's only gonna get fatter
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>>35004784
^
You deserved better, baby boy.
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>>35004713
>She
>175 pounds
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>>35004779
>>35004784
Trust me, I've gotten to the point where that will be the next answer. In the past, though, I see how emotional she gets over it and I decide to take it easy. I have resorted to small subtle insults but she doesn't seem to budge
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>dating fat chicks

how does it feel to be a c.uck OP?
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>>35004819
Worst part is she used to be >110. That was before I started lifting and I was able to carry her easily, I'm still able to carry her easily at 175 so I guess she's a testament to my gains.
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>>35004765
>being embarassed about using emojis with your gf
>being completely fine with asking for relationship advice on a image hosting board for Indonesian mink rugs
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post a pic of her body
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>>35004713
>watching what you eat and portion control
>not a diet

She's pretty stupid desu. And probably delusional if she can't lose weight doing that.
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>>35004830
I started dating her when she was skinny, we've been together for 5 years and it's been a progressive weight gain. I'll try to find pictures
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>>35004852
Hey arsehole. I sent the moneys.
Where's my rugs?
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>>35004713

If you've already got one foot out the door, I suggest you find some groups focused on some kind of physical activity. Jogging groups, yoga group, rock climbing groups, volleyball - anything you can drag her to as a 'date'.

The goal is to convince her to choose a healthy lifestyle for herself. If she enjoys it, she'll realize she has to get her shit under control to get better at it. If you know how to be flirty, spitting at qt's in the group will get her in gear.

If she decides to sabotage shit, you'll already have a new social circle set up when you cut her loose.
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>I don't think I'm fat so you have to love me

Women logic.
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>>35004850
Your girlfriend is Milo of Croton's cow?
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>>35004956
topest of keks
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Be honest you fucking weak faggot.
If you can't be honest, then how exactly do you expect yourself to get a stronger body and more importantly an even stronger mind.

If one is not honest with the people around them, how is one expected to be honest with themselves.
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>>35004713
Need before/after pic of her
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>>35004936

Almost this.

Approval & love.

Approval = find me physically attractive with my fat ass fatass despite it meaning I'm lazy

OP if this chick is your gf you have low standards for yourself or are not an attractive enough male to get better women.

I'm assuming the former not latter.

Tell her whats up and say it's biological. You're a male and your brain is wired to find biologically (not socially) healthy women and her face/body/behavioural traits are indicators of what is healthy and define if she would be a worthy mate to have children with.

Her physical appearance, the way she dresses, how she thinks all fucking matter and if she can't see that is has this effect on you on a biological level she can find someone else that would take her as she is.

If you communicate this effectively and you're of value enough in her eyes she'll change and get fit without hesitation.

I've done this with 3 different girls, two were chubby when I met and got in shape after dating me and one that I was seeing for longer, got lazy, started slacking because she was in a relationship with me and thought she could relax.

Didn't end up with these women because I'm not into having a monogamous relationship but they still train to this day.

Handle your shit anon
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>>35004869
That's even worse then. Especially if you've improved how you look and she's just grown increasingly worse.
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>>35004713
Post before and after pics OP
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>>35004956
Patrician kek
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>>35004850
>tfw when gf is testament to gains

Youll never be able to gf press though
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>>35004850
>she used to be >110
she's still >110
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>>35004713
I told my wife if she got fat I would stop having sex with her because I simply would no longer be physically attracted to her, and there was nothing I could do about that.

I encourage healthy choices like low calorie meals, calmly discourage eating sweets or multiple servings, and actively invite her to participate in fitness activities like lifting weights, running, and fun games like badminton, etc.

The best thing you can do is not to tell her she needs to do something, but to find a way to make her WANT to do it. Make healthy choices more convenient than bad choices, find ways to exercise that are fun, and the whole process becomes much less painful.

For most people losing weight / getting fit is a lifelong struggle, so it is pretty common for them to have better times and worse times. That is understandable. However, I think if your woman knows she should/could do better, and she consciously chooses not to, then there is a problem because she has made a choice NOT TO TRY.
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>>35005125
>>35005307
Kek, reminds me of when my stepmother told my dad she would genuinely break up with him if he grew a mustache because she wouldn't find him attractive anymore.
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>>35004713
>She is 5'8" and last time I checked she was 175 pounds

>79,3787 kg
>172,72 cm
>female

Delete her number
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>>35004758
This also dating a fat chick in the first place is a no-no
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>>35005307
>make healthy choices more convenient than unhealthy ones
>make exercise fun
Neither of these are possible.
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>>35005606
Exercise doesn't have to be lifting dumbbells, standing on an elliptical or mindlessly jogging for hours.

There are plenty of sports that are both fun and exercise.
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I'm a 5'8 male and I'm currently 145lbs. What the fuck man
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>>35004850

>was 110 lbs

>nearly doubled their weight

what is her diet?

sticks of butter?
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>>35005490
>>35005641
I'm a 183 cm tall male and I weight 82 kg (ottermode+)
A female 10 cm shorter than me weighting like me = man the harpoons
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>>35004713
175 is fat though. Who /delusional/ here?
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>>35005641
>145 lbs
>"male"

Not even gonna shit on your height guy, but pls eat
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>80 kg
>173 cm

Did Captain Ahab make this thread?
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>>35005633
Sports aren't fun when you're bad at them or female.
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>>35004713
>"I won't work hard to look good for you"
>"I want your approval"
This is ridiculous, how the fuck some people are so fucking lazy? Where's that sketch with the "never improve" sentence?
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>>35005690
Never underestimate us manlets
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>>35005682
I'm a 190cm and I only weight 73 kg. I don't control what I eat so at least once per week I make some fries for me, I drink 1 liter of whole milk per day and I STILL can't gain weight.

How the fuck people manage to to even get fat in the first place?
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>>35005920
You don't eat enough dickhead

I had the same mentality of I eat so much and drink milk but when you calculate calories in meals you will see you're eating fuck all. Also being tall means we have to eat more
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>>35004713
>175 lbs

tell her you are losing your attraction to her, and that it is a vital component of a relationship. You take care of your body it'd be nice if she could at least try to eat healthier.

Or some shit.

I say fuck her just dump her 175 is massive.
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>>35004779
This would fucking wreck her. Either A) she starts making a modicum of effort for you and stops being a fatass, or B) she breaks up with you and takes care of what you should do next. It's a win win, even if it's brutal.

And if you don't dump her if she doesn't lose weight then you're a fucking retard and any and all misery in life is completely your own fault for being a kuck.
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>>35005920
a litre of milk is only ~600cals... It's not as much as you think. Record what you eat everyday and youll see
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>>35005641
Fuck off m8

I'm a 5'11 who weighs 147 ffs
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>>35006578
Hello mr skeltal
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>>35006611
another guy, i'm 6'0 and 150.
I'm definitely trying to increase calorie intake, but my biggest problem is slow gains right now. Even at 6'0 150lbs, I have a babby pot belly. I need to lift more.
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>>35004713
Drop her. My girl is 5'5'' and 110 lbs, she's been fluctuating but it's going down. Waistline fantastic, just needs to work on building her ass to perfection now.
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>>35006611
Tfw not even skeletal
>Some sort of skinny fat crossed with SS

That's what I get for using my job as my primary source of exercise I guess.
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>>35006641
Just bulk desu, I was 6' and about the same, and had that same sort of body, keep lifting and it gets less unaesthetic, you notice muscle under it. Bulk to 180 and decide where you want to go from there, imo.

Also, get Myfitnesspal and weigh and record everything you eat, you'll put on weight.
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>>35004713
Abandon ship

BAKA DESU Senpai

Side note my ex gf did a similar thing, i should have dumped her earlier
I dropped off the weight lifting wagon for a while and have recently jumped back on. Current girl has started working out (at different times to me) to improve herself too
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>>35004713
Dump her, why would you date a fat girl anyway?
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>>35004713
>>35004713
>accepted the fact that i wont look like a swimsuit modle
Damn anon thats damage goods right there
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>>35004713
leave, but not too fast. Cardio kills gainz, ditch the land whale. You don't want to pass on those lazy genetics
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>>35004908

I'll go one more on this.

1) Find those groups which do something you would like to do

2) Dump GF

3) Hook up with grill from one of the groups.

4) If (3) doesn't work immediately chill the fuck out. At least you're doing something cool.
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my wife is 5'8" and 178... 8 months pregnant

run op
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>>35004956
Lel mate
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>>35004713
Mfw my girlfriend has larded up from 120 at 5'1" to 160.... I haven't blown smoke up her ass though tell her she looks bad, if you wont be honest with her she can easily not be honest with herself. For example, told my girlfriend to try on a pair of her old jeans in front of me and after a tearful experience she got down to 150 in two weeks! Negative reinforcement goyim.
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>>35004956
Mighty kekkimus
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>>35004713
google "dread game" or /r/theredpill
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>>35005675
kek'd
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Mirin' that bulk.

Why are you dating someone with no willpower? You might as well adopt a kid, since it's more or less the same dynamic.
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>>35004713
>SO
First you fuck off back to tumblr or reddit
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Op ur gf is 10cm shorter than me but 4kg heavier than me

lol you fucking chubby chaser
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>>35004852
I know it's you, the same person, posting
>Mongolian horse breeding site
And shit. I love it. Don't stop.
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>>35004713
send her link with BMI results for her data, She can't argue with it.
Also be a man, if she loves chocolate bars and fast food more then you should dump her
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>>35004713
Ditch this hambeast, holy fuck, just fucking ditch it. With attitude like that, she will end up being 275 instead of 175 soon enough.
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>>35005911
>55.2 kg as 5'8
>Healthy

I'd love to see their definition of that word.
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>>35004713
HAHAHA WTF I'M A 6'3 male and I'm not even THAT skelly, but i weight 83 kg, which is like close to what your gf weighs AHAHAHAHAHAHA H
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I am so, so sorry anon.
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Complete opposite for me

5'4 gf went from 100 lbs to 84 lbs. Looks totally fucking gross cause she's a pile of bones now, no muscle at all and really frail. Told her to put on weight and workout cause I'm losing attraction to her.

She's now fulfilling my wishes heh.
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>>35009257

actually i got up and used that to sharpen my pencil, faggot

also have fun with your shit gf
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>>35004850
There's one trick to this. Next time you pick her up act like you struggle a bit. Like, puffing air, small, silent grunt, let her go before you reach where you intended to (like, carrying her from couch to bed and drop her at the doors) with a small breathe of relief, and if she asks if she's too heavy for you say some shitty excuse and carry her all the way, this time with more visible sings of struggle.
Thrust me bro, either she'll leave you so can find a crossfit qt or she will figure it out and lose weight.
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>>35004850
>testament to my gains.
kekkles
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>>35009215
It's if you're inactive and eat well.
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>>35009314
don't you mean nothing
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>>35004713
When talking to her about such things focus more on the health side of it rather than the image side of it.
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>>35009296
What are the disadvantages to doing this, brehs? I think I'm gonna make this my new routine, although sleeping might be a bit tricky.
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>>35009401
this pic was originally a (idk the word, metaphor maybe?) for ss, considering a cow grows at a rate of around 5lbs/week. ss would be moore controlled an linear progression as compared to cow carrying. also why the fuck yould you want t carry a cow?
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>>35009507
**originally used as, was actually some wrestler from greece but w/e
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>>35004713
so, just because she wants something this means she will get it instantly? tell her to work for your approval
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>>35005125
This is bullshit dude.

You can't effectively communicate that logical shit to women because their emotions will block out the logic. All they'll hear from that is 'you're fat', and they'll shut out any form of reason.

You CANNOT tell a girl they're fat, the only way you can deal with that shit is to let them know through your body language and other subtle shit.
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>>35004713
LOW
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Yes, she'll say the same thing when she'll reach 200 pounds, "I'm not fat at all, I'm eating healthy, plus, you care too much about looks and the gym"
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>>35004713

>Don't wanna obsess over it

REEEEEEEEE
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>>35009507

Carrying a cow would be pretty hecking badass senpai
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>>35005606
Dude, exercise can be really fun once you get into it. If you ever work out or exercise to the point that you get a 'runners high' you feel amazing and never want to stop.
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>>35004779
that's fucking brutal, jesus christ
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>>35004779
FATALITY
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bump, wanna see before / after pics
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>>35005307
This would be great cept OP isnt married. He doesnt owe his gf donkey shit, unlike you captain kuk why the fuck would anyone marry in this day and age?
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