I've been going out with this girl for about a month and a half, and she's relatively unfit. We started off and I said I liked her for her, but for some reason I just can't seem to want sex anymore. She "runs" every other day (she jogs at about a walking speed for 3 miles), and she constantly complains about how fat she is (she's a little on the chubby side). I've been working out for about 5 years now and I wouldn't say I'm strong man or front cover material, but it's plain I definitely take care of myself. She's expressed interest on me making her a workout plan and a diet but I'm doubtful she would follow it. I keep seeing all these attractive women around me who definitely have interest in me, but I like this girl because I get along with her and she's only a little clingy.
How do I say this? Would you be in a close relationship with someone unfit and unconfident? Would you end it if you couldn't be physically attracted to someone?
>>39279955
>She's expressed interest on me making her a workout plan and a diet but I'm doubtful she would follow it
If she wants to get fit help her out
If you see the potential for her to become more attractive in your eyes then keep dating her. I don't know what you guys look like, but if she is just a little chub and you help her get fit, then you guys will share a strong bond. If you don't care about her then leave her. It's still early. Be honest with yourself and it should work out.
I've been in a relationship with a chub, and I had to force myself to have sex sometimes. We had some things in common and enjoyed each others company, but I couldn't move past the fat gut so I called it off.
>>39279955
You sound like a lazy borderline-DYEL, and she is pretty much like you.
She will drag you down into chubbyland in no time.
Also, if you don't want to fuck the girl you're with it's time to break up. As simple as that.
>>39280026
I've already written it up, and I have it ready but I don't want this to be for nothing if I decide to give up on this. Maybe you're right, if I push for things to get better or help her improve herself I can have my cake and eat it too. If not, then the only thing I've wasted is faith.
Rate me boys ;*
Yeah im a gamer girl Yes i workout
Im bulking btw im not fat
Looks Goood!
>>39279398
Thanks sweetie ;*
>Rate me boys ;*
4/10
>Yeah im a gamer girl Yes i workout
Evidence?
>Im bulking btw im not fat
Yeah your are
So I took a week off from lifting
what should I expect?
Never go more than four straight days breh
>>39278938
Typically muscle atrophy occurs after 2 weeks.
So that's not really a concern.
The real concern is that you have 0 willpower, drive, or commitment to this.
Enjoy being 130 lbs for the rest of your life baka
>>39278938
not OP, but aren't rest weeks a thing you're supposed to do once in a while?
Post your picture, we give you an estimate.
>me from 2 years ago when I had a jaw
I fell for the dreamer bulk meme and realized just how fat I have become, and I want my fucking face back. What % was I at here? Gonna try and get that face back, and hopefully keep my gains.
>>39278910
15%.
>fell for it.
I have some timeshares for sale, interested bro?
>>39278941
If you had told me 6 months ago that your timeshares were laced with gains and all I had to do was buy more of them if I wanted to get big, then you'd be a very rich man.
>>39278910
12%
Is this achievable natty?
>lordosis
why do all sluts this
>>39278882
>autistic
>can't get a gf
Johny Bravo is typical /fit/izen.
>>39278913
But he actually tries. /fit/ is deluded enough to think that lifting will make women magically flock to them; JB fails every time but he's constantly making an effort and doesn't let failure get him down. If anything, he's the opposite of /fit/
> Japanese students study their writing systems throughout their entire grade school
> That feel when you won't be able to even remotely come close to being proficient in writing and reading Japanese in your lifetime
No amount of lifting will be able to help me with this. Hold me /fit/.
>>39278843
Why the fuck would you want to learn japanese?
>>39278843
It would take you literally two years of studying every day to become reasonably fluent in Japanese. Quit being a fuck head and do the stuff you want to do.
>>39278843
Who gives a shit, anon-san?
how do you get this body
>>39278703
>find him
>wait till he is alone
>drug him
>cut off his head
>replace with your own head
then his body will be yours op
>>39278703
Eat nothing but tofu, rice, legumes and veges
>>39278703
Be skinny your entire life
Be active as a child
Decide to eat more and workout seriously or ride a few bikes.
???
Profit
>thicc little girls edition
REEEEEEEEE WHERE IS REST OF WEBM
>>39278566
/fit/ BTFO
>inb4 another thread full of gymcels whining about artists
>>39278456
Likely neither of those people are living a healthy/balanced lifestyle
>>39278480
But one of them looks better than me so I'm triggered
It's OK, we're in the locker rooms, talk about any questions you have about improving a mind and well try our best to give you our best physiologist impersonation to give you the best advice an anonymous board can give you.
No interest in finding a girl because my standards are too high. No interest in sex because of the risks and probably shit performance.
Do I just continue life as is?
Why the fuck would a physiologist give advice on metal fitness? Sure, they're a physician, but they would refer you to a psychiatrist.
Going to jump into the nofap meme, any tips on keeping my monkey brain under control?
>Suppose to be cutting
>Just ate a bag of chettos and a bunch of halloween candy from trick or treating
>>39278330
You know what month of the year it is right? Why are you cutting?
>>39278330
>from trick or treating
what are you, like 12?
>>39278334
because I'm over 25% bodyfat.
seriously they look too much like women to tell the difference...
Shoulder/collarbone to waist+hip ratio. Most women don't have the bone structure men do.
t. trap pro
>>39278298
Shoulder-to-hip ratio
>>39278298
It shouldn't be a problem after staring at dudes all day on this board
Things you do at the gym
>spin the plates of fortune on the barbell, if it ends up with the number facing the top or bottom i believe i win will extra gains if i complete the set
>get a half boner before i bench if there are qts nearby
Unfortunately my chub disappears where i exert myself, how to keep benis while benching?
Pick things up and put them back down.
>>39278401
>>39278411
>gets upset when someone makes a good post
stop shitposting
Why am I always rejected by women /fit/. I have a perfectly working penis but not able to share it with anyone. I'm not even ugly...I'm a 5'9, 140 lbs, Northern american descent man, do a lot of acting, have some muscle definition, and am what appears to be a normal functioning 25 year old man.
Yet, the one human need that I should be able to have no problem having, sex, is an uphill battle. And I've been called so attractive that I must be gay. Yeah...not even looks are helping me.
Don't get me started on Tinder. What a USELESS fucking piece of trash app that doesn't even work. I match with around 1-6 people a day, yet NONE of them ever meet up with me. I thought it was a hookup app? Why does everyone flake, stop talking to me, or say they aren't looking to hook up? IT'S TINDER YOU MORONS!
Anyways, I'm ranting here, but I REALY REALLY don't want to be stuck with porn again. Or looking at couples on the street. God, please, can I just have everything fall into my lap just this one time? Guys shorter than me, worse looking than me, meaner than me, more ethnikkk than me will be getting their dicks sucked by qts. Why not me?
>5'9
Uh
>>39277906
post face
It's possible you're hung up on this issue that women are picking up on it in one way or another and it's a red flag for them.
Do you treat women like human beings, or do you treat them like some kind of mythical creature?
what are the most /fit/ things i can give to kids and shitty preteens next halloween
>>39277870
they will all throw away anything that isn't sealed candy straight into your bushes the moment you close the door.
>>39277870
>>39277887
jokes on them i don't have bushes, we do desert landscaping