/fa/malams, is it still possible to find an effay gurl using Tinder in 2017? Also post your profiles, I want to see you my boys.
ehh. as a girl I don't put any of my effay fits on tinder because they tend to be more artsy than flattering and the app encourages shallowness, conventional beauty, etc. also, I've noticed it's kind of dead compared to last year. like it's more of a procrastination thing than a "hey I'm trying to meet cool people" thing. then again, I'm at a college with like 8k students so it could be due to getting older. on the whole, it's not impossible, but you're better off finding a group of artsy people to hang out with
not sure about posting my pics (though ive posted one in a waywt lol) but i live near a bunch of /fa/ colleges and meet/fuck a decent amount of actually interesting artsy girls. feelsgood.
I match with many qt girls but I'm too much of an aspie loser to even start conversations, much less comandier one- I have my friend write replies for me because it hurts less to have someone else take responsibility, then for me to try by myself, become humiliated and fail. What do I do?
too depressive and self-deprecating
mirror selfies are not a good bet. find something that was taken by another person or at least looks the part
you have a thousand yard stare
bio does not make you sound interesting
None of us do dumbass but like other anon said, fake it till you make it. Freshman year I had plenty of wild times in the dorm but I don't stay on campus anymore so I've turned back into a hermit. Dumb girls from tinder don't know the difference though
>stay golden, ponyboy
one, stop calling yourself an autistic loser. self-deprecation is in here but not to the majority of girls on tinder.
two, do you have a webcam? Or you could even just use your timed camera on your phone. Get a beer in your hand, make a face like you're laughing and pointing or telling a story to some people. Then crop it to look like someone took a candid photo of you at a party and you cropped just you out in it.
I feel so bad that guys actually have to put effort in that shit.
On the other hand I also kind of feel bad that I would get the attention and all that, just because I am a female and I am breathing.
Get more fashionable, you won't find that on effay anymore desu since it's just MFA but worse now
R/malefashion is good r/Streetwear is better than people here say (just look at the front page) and get some decent inspo
Embrace the school shooter look and fuck edgy goth hoes
I mean the bags don't help but it's mostly just the expression your making with your face, it might feel stupid when taking a picture of yourself but just try to make a slightly friendlier face.
I used chinese tinder for a bit and matched a serious 10/10 mixed qt3.14
Ask what she studies
Ask about her favourite brands and whatnot
>oh I like UO and H&M
Seriously wanted to kill myself then
They dress better than anyone here
/fa/ is the new MFA because autists who don't care about the culture come here for advise on how to look less autistic
r/malefashion is a lot like what /fa/ used to be
A lot of Rick and obscure Avant garden stuff
r/Streetwear has a lot less Hypebeasts than it used to have and the ones that are still there have some good fits and use.
Both better than what we have here
>Or just in a cafe/library.
dude this isnt an indie movie lmao, /fa/ girls are on tinder if you dont see them then either they all swipe left on you or you live in some shithole flyover state/country
man lots of rejected nerds in this thread. ive met plenty of cool and fashionable girls on tinder. "tinder is just to fuck" says everyone who has never fucked someone from tinder. some girls i meet on tinder i only want to bone, others i want to get to know better. Its all about the interaction you have with them, i dont get why so many dudes here struggle with being normal people.
I get a decent amount of matches 1-4 a day. I do swipe right on everyone then go back and weed through it. I'm rather successful in hook ups but every relationship has ended in flames
>used tinder for a year
>get a couple of matches a week
>too much of a pussy to ever message them
>get drunk and message a qt a dumb name pun last week
>now have a date this weekend
this is getting too real hlep
Nah man. If they're only looking for one thing and good looking they're hyper sluts using tinder to fill up their days while going out clubbing to fill their nights.
Met a girl a few times, benis in vagoo every time and later saw her go to the same clubs I did. Turns out she a club fiend and a tinder junkie. But i was too, still was awkward seeing them in their natural habitat when their attention isn't on you anymore.
I don't mind sluts but when I see them slutting it up for other people my caveman brain gets fired up. Doesn't help if there's alcohol.
I've been dating my girlfriend I met on tinder for nearly a year and a half and it's still fantastic
I don't remember much about my profile other than the fact that I said I was 5' 2" and 600 lb
Most girls I swiped matched with me. Every day started with a huge confidence boost back then
>Do you actually not have any friends?
yeah, i've genuinely got no friends. I think I was in like 2 pictures at freshers (the start of the uni year) but i am barely in shot and look bad.