Does anyone miss those /fa/ feels threads I do We should

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>>12277264

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>talk to crush irl a bunch
>Never responds via text tho
>Fuck it she doesn't like me
>Pretty bitter
>Don't talk to her irl anymore
>She approached me irl more
>Only talk to her when she approached me
>Get more bitter
>Act totally uninterested when we talk now
>One day she hits me up on text sending a pic of her dog and gushing about how cute it is
>So bitter her talking to me actually pisses me off bad
>Idk why I'm so bitter I guess pride and insecurity don't mix well
>I'm actually fucking angry that she decides to finally text me only after I become distant
>The fucking nerve of this bitch
>Im overcome with fucking anger and I'm confused why
>I'm gonna cut her off
>Gotta burn the bridges first
>She's a fucking huge animal lover
>Cried for hours after she accidentally killed a squirrel
>Look up pics of dead dogs
>Pic of dead dog
>Looks exactly like her dog
>Shit was beat up and bloody
>Download pic
>Send it to her
>She just responds "wtf"
>She doesn't talk to me anymore
>Idk why she got on my nerves so much nobody ever had that effect on me
>Just happy it's over
I have issues

Tfw when gf wears Roshe runs

>8/10
>social anxiety
>no confidence

>>12277280
i understand being angry and bitter in your situation, most people would be.
but that is a seriously autistic thing to do, why would you not just ask her what was up?
why she was ignoring you or whatever

>>12277280
sounds pretty alpha

good job

>>12277264
yeah we really need more offtopic threads in this place the quality isn't shit enough

>>12277358
You go champ

>>12277358
I feel you Bro same thing, social anxiety has just made me not interested in girls, nightmare

>>12277280
Lmfao

>>12277264
No, I don't miss them. They're pointless and don't help me in anything related to fashion.

>never take pictures of myself
>get a family photo taken
>notice that my nose is noticeably tilted to one side
I don't know how I never noticed it until now. Now I can't unsee it, and it bothers the fuck out of me. I'd like to get it fixed, but then I'm worried about people commenting on me getting rhinoplasty.

>>12277376
>Tfw when line on my nose

>>12277264
standard responses
>people think I am gay
>girls are intimidated
>am effay in clothes but ugly in skin
>0 confidence
>fat
>sad

>>12277264
>Tfw got a compliment on a scarf within the first hour of wearing it the first time
>tfw next time I wore it a complete stranger called it beautiful
>tfw my stingyest of friends said that even for the price it was a good buy

>>12277421
>tfw this greentext is horrible and you can't spell stingiest

>>12277376
Literally me
I noticed it years ago and now i like it
I gets better anon

>>12277425
Well fuck a downvote :( I guess I lost /fa/ points on grammar and greentexting.

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>tfw spend money on clothes and skin products
>spend time to take care of my skin, hair and shit
>no friends, never go out
>only leave my house to go to school or the store
>studying some programming shit so no wymen in class
why bother lads

>>12277280
> I guess pride and insecurity don't mix well
this so much

>tfw getting my hair, skin and clothes on point after years of care
>Military conscription
And it's all shit again. Well, besides clothes.

>>12277280
If this girl was just responding well why did you just cut it off? Didn't you get what you want? That's how girls work

>Finish high school, dreaming of studying Fashion Design
>Girlfriend at the time is too possessive, Choose architecture in a uni where only 10% is accepted.
>Get in, girl drops me
>Be one of the best looking men there
>First time ever I feel handsome
>Make the most out of it, break some hearts
>Start talking to a girl from my hometown
>Fell for her
>Start going to therapy
>Feel better and want to improve, realize I didn't do shit I wanted for 2 years
>Drop out

>>12277280
relatable until
>Idk why I'm so bitter I guess pride and insecurity don't mix well

then autism ruined it.

>>12277376
you don't know pain

>very prominent left zygomatic bone
>ptosis
>lid laxity
>neanderthal browline
>crooked smile
>teeth that vary in size and are fucked even after braces, only option is to have them filed
>eyes are like fucking crooked as shit
>massive, wide nose that's wider on the left side
>nose tip deviates to right
>left jaw is wider and more prominent
>right jaw is more upward and thin and less muscular despite chewing with that side

it is hell

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>1.87 m height
>Runner core fit
>Have my own style
>Girls fuck me with their eyes
>Boys fuck me with their eyes
>People ask me where did I get those
>charisma + confidence over the top so I get stuff easly
>got a gf
>all her friend jealous because im spending time with her in shops helping her choose what to wear
>life is good

>7/10 male
>not interested in girls for most of my life
>found ones in my area boring and vapid for the most part
>meet one who's down to earth and into same shit as me
>think shes gr8 gonna ask her out
>shes lesbian
>0% chance of anything happening ever

The search goes on

>tfw when parents won't let me dorm because anything over 15k is too much and I slacked off in HS so no scholarships
>The only reason that I'm a khhv right now is because i had a 7pm curfew all through HS and couldn't go anywhere where fun drunk people were even though I got along decently with "cool" kids during school
>Now I have to live at home for 4 more years and can't come out of my shell
>I have a 8pm curfew now so I can't do anything and it's not like I'm gonna make freinds because I go to a shitty north Jersey commuter school and everyone hangs out with freinds from HS and all mine moved out
>I'm gonna miss out on being young and I can't stand it I'm so fucking hopeless and miserable and the freinds I had weren't even freinds just some fucking losers that didn't even want to have a good life
>I can't even tinder because you need pictures of you doing stuff with freinds which I don't have anymore and I'm not a 10/10 so I can't get laid without something backing it up
>I missed out on youth when I graduate its gonna be too late for first relationships everyone will be wayy ahead of me with life experiences

>>12277651
The fact that i missed out on everything a young person can do is fucking unbearable
I haven't had an actual conversation anyone in weeks
It's only necessary stuff. People actually started counting how many times I smile since it's gotten so rare and they bring it up.as a joke. I just want to have fun and have a social life and stay out late and have fun. I don't even care about getting laid I just wanna go to partys and get drunk and high with other people and do.things people my age are doing instead of lying in bed all.day. vidya and anime don't even fill.the void anymore and I just wait around untill I'm sleepy. God I hate my life so much. I have no fucking direction and I haven't had a fun conversation or hung out with anyone in a long time.
The loneliness is so fucking unbearable.
I cried myself to sleep.for the first time.in my life last night
Also every job I applied to didn't email back so I can't even get a minimum wage job so I can drown my sorrows in vidya and expensive clothes to brag about on /fa/

Get help.

>>12277280
Bro she was starting to like you again

>>12277648
the fuck is a runner core fit

>>12277657
I hate her now idc if it's irrational

Get help

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>>12277358
Same here anon
Damn i know how you feel
I get hints from girls now and then when i'm at a party or dancing wth my friends but i'm unable to approach them and express any kind of attraction towards them

There is this beautiful girl from my math lecture
Truly 10/10
Godlike taste in fashion
Slender, tall, blonde, blue eyes
I just want to go up to her after class, ask her if she understood x topic or x equation
Then drop a nice compliment and ask for her number
There is just his fucking feel of anxiety in my chest that stops me from doing it
I hate myself for this

tl;dr i'm a shy and awkward faggot who will never score due to missing confidence and self respect

>>12277393
ed

>Finally cut girl out of my life
>Start texting with other girl
>She's super interested, I don't really care
>She slowly starts to grow on me
>I get interested
>She drops me
>Repeat

>Have found my style in 2015 and super bored with fashion now

>Receeding Hairline get worse every day

>Start to work out, cause I wanna lose the skinny fat and get that ottermode
>For some reason my calves grow and my skinny jeans fit like shit now

I just wanna give up

>Ugly 18 year old
>had shit life story
>Since september to january lost 14kg
>6'0
>Now im starting to eat too much again but im motivated to stop it right now
>Want to get a part time job even if its in mcdonalds, aside my professional tecnology multimedia school course and start buying clothes and stuff i want
>Also want to start smoking some weed and shit because ive been too stressed out
im feeling good senpai

>>12277358
Same, but
>in love with a girl who lives 200 miles away
>fuck
>she feels nothing because the distance between us
>when I was in her city, we fucked up
>sooo try it again -> failure
>sometimes I feel nothing too... but now i'm in love i think
>at least she's effay

>>12277736
do not treat stress by smoking weed
go for a run, hang out with friends, whatever

>>12277280
i feel you, was in a similar situation with a girl i liked a few months ago

felt like communication always sucked on her part and then decided to cut her off

now she's sending me pictures or texting me almost daily but i'm not evil enough to do the same thing as you did

hoping she gets it at some point and until then im responding with three word texts

>feelsbetaman

>>12277758
I'm not evil wtf

>>12277761
that's what an evildoer would say

>>12277765
What evil have I done

>>12277776
you searched for a picture of a brutalized beaten dead dog and sent it to an animal lover because she hurt your ego

>>12277782
Yeah and?

>>12277812
>not realizing his evildoing when it's being pointed out to him

>>12277840
>Mistaking common mischief for evildoing

>>12277280
There's no feels here. You're just an autist

>>12277453
" i feel you nigga trust me I feel you"

>tfw when commuting to school
>Tfw when strict parents
>Tfw when your missing out on party's, sluts, drinking and the college experience

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Tfw girls don't approach you because you're too handsome

>>12277872
This
Also:
>tfw missing out on teen love because of this

>>12277872
>lived on campus
>no friends, sluts, or partying
>drink by myself
I'm not sure what is worse: someone preventing you from having an experience or your own autism stopping you.

>>12277580
what am I suppose to feel here

>>12277872
go party once you got money shiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet

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>be me
>fat sense child
>6'1 245
>lurk fa
>wanna wear slim/skinnys
>make a change
>lose 95lbs
>no lose skin
>finally can wear skinnys
>discover i have wide hips

>>12277752
i smoked before i just never had the chance again

>>12278040
tfw i lose weight and discover i have wide hips too
sad reee..

>>12278047
ive gotten better at hiding them. i think skinny through thigh and slim in leg is more flattering than skinny leg and slim thigh. plus if you wear longline coats they hid ur hips. also i doubt ppl irl would even notice ya know

>>12277376
oh my god your me :( this fucked with me so bad

>>12278047
plus i think if u get slp underweight it makes them look way better.

>>12277730
g-go vegan desu
you dont build too bulky muscles, though it may take be a tad slower. Also being bald is cool.
jus tryna help out

>>12277658
Athleisure

>>12278057
i hide mine, but it gets apparent in leg shape since i also was fat so legs arent perfectly straight

>>12277280
lol, you blew it. Idiot.

>>12277901
the drop, man
tune in
drop out

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>19
>best and only friend is a bipolar alcoholic and drug addict, also 19
>but he's a 9/10 with some cute mannerisms so everyone loves him, pretty popular
>he fucks with me because everyone around him just copies his steez and he appreciates that I'm on my own wave shit
>we've had some really good times together
>he's the only person that makes me happy
>probably going to be living with him soon, we've talked about it
>we're both straight bois
>he's disappointed that I don't talk to more girls
>I'm a 6/10 mr skeltal
>diagnosed with social anxiety and depression last summer
>I just don't want him to leave me

:/

>>12278084
I'm vegetarian actually
but appreciated

tfw some stupid faggot posts a feels thread on /fa/ and ruins my afternoon with his autism.

>>12277652
I know it's late man. But do you want to talk about it bro?

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>>12277873
I know this feeling all too well

>>12277421
what scarf nigga?

>>12277696
i truly feel you anon
i'm gonna start exercising and eating better, i'm also seeing a therapist
that'll help r-right
theres still hope ;_;

>>12277696
dude I'm retaking senior year at a new HS because I sperged out last year. I'm in a Latin 1 class with all freshman and there's a ~23yo college girl who must be a teachers assistant or just sitting in to get some credit or something, she's always in class with us.

10/10. tall, blonde, nice cheek bones and decent ass. dresses AWESOME every single day.

I just want to talk to her but I don't want to get her in trouble. We exchange glances sometimes.

>>12277696
>Social anxiety and lack of confidence
>Goes to parties
Yeah, okay anon

>>12277652
gotta get out and practice everyday, EVERYDAY. Even if you end up having a conversation with 1 or 2 people, you get better and better

>>12277416
>am effay
>fat

>>12277649
OH PINK TRIANGLE ON HER SLEEVE

>>12277280
Pasta. Seen it on /fit/

>>12277750
Are you me?

>>12278321
i have 0 confidence and go to parties
the lack of confidence kicks in anytime i try to flirt or whatever with grills

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>>12278305
>I just want to talk to her but I don't want to get her in trouble
I know this feeling so well
Good luck with her

>>12278321
I only go with my friends and stick to them
I have more a problem with strangers because i can't expect their behaviour
Only because i have social anxiety it doesn't mean i can't go to partys to dance to loud music

>>12278375
It's just that social anxiety is not commonly associated with a person who goes to parties. I'm not saying you're lying

>>12278389

Not him, but that's bullshit. There's a certain level where you are good enough with people one on one to get invited, but freeze up and have an anxiety attack in a social setting with more than 10 people in it.

>>12278392
Yeah, I get it, I just said it's not a thing COMMONLY associated with social anxiety

>have to cut my long hair because I'm applying for jobs in a bank/finance depts.
Fuck. At least money is /fa/.

>>12277696
THIS, so much.
Except I get fucking paralysed when I'm at a party, but beyond that I'm kind of a sociable person.
I can manage a bunch of people, whether they are friends, or random girls or guys I just met, but not dozens of fucking half drunk strangers

>walk into expensive store near ivy league campus across town from my uni wearing comfy cute fit
>ask for multiple pieces without really looking at them cause i need to expand my wardrobe a bit
>get rung up and the owner compliments my shoes

had a good day today fa

>>12277812
bro are you a sociopath or something

>>12278416
>>12278375
>>12277696
>>12278305
you all sound like me:
an extrovert with social anxiety, its the worst shit when all you wanna do is be at a party and having a good time with loads of people but you cant cus you overthink and overthink
i hear mindfulness meditation helps

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>Tfw crippling depression and anxiety
H-heh at least I have memes r-right guys?

>>12278322
How?

>>12278468
No it's just a fucking pic
It's not really that fucking awful unless your a huge pussy or a small child

>>12278489
I hope it does, cause I've been wanting to hop into that shit for a long time. It really is all about overthinking for me, I care too much about what other people could or could not think about me and I know that 90% of the time it's all just in my mind

>>12278489
so its not pathetic that i want to go to parties even though they are my worst kind of social situation? i'm really good around regular people but at parties i just cling to one or two friends and dont talk to anyone else

>>12278040
You can still look good in skinnies, I got a wide butt and I look great in black 510s

>>12278182
You guys sound like such great friends, I bet you're cute as hell.

>>12278538
This!

>>12278126
Kys

>>12278489
I wanna have an active social life and be around people all the time but the fear of humiliation and rejection has been a very prominent part of my psyche since I was young and I stutter so I just sit in the back of class and then go home and nobody texts, snaps, calls me and I just waste my time on 4chan and Twitter. God I haven't hung out with anyone since December I wanna kill myself

>>12278627
Anon, your life sounds like my deepest fears and for the fact that you're going through this I respect you and give you all my support

>>12277901
Nothing desu I just wanted to tell you my story, thought it was sad but I had to see it.

>>12278638
Tbh I'm barely making it through this
I can talk to people in class but I'm terrified of taking it further than that. I don't wanna ask someone for their number or out to lunch or anything because I'm scared that they will reject me. And if I stutter it's even worse. And I know most of them are good people that could see through it but I'm a fucking loser and I'm still insecure. Plus I'm short as hell (5'5) and that's another big blow to my confidence. I'm really gonna live my life like this. I think my 30s is where I'll commit suicide if things don't get better

>>12278672
Have you ever considered talking to a therapist? Or studying meditation? I bet that could help. Even you can see that most of the people around you are good, so you're not lost yet

>>12278678
Different guy, but does meditation actually help? I'm someone who is constantly distracted but it always seemed like BS to me

>>12278681
I've heard great things about it from many people I know, you just kind of have to find the best "version" of meditation that suits your needs. It's like physical training, you have got to perseverate and exercise

>>12277264
>one of the few hot girls I know who I have good convos with
>/fa/ af
>slim but with curves
>5'9 or something, which is perfect
>has a boyfriend
>'nice shirt anon, it looks good on you'

Don't fucking mess with my feelings like this.

How we met:
>first day I ever met her was when we worked together
>she kept trying to talk to me but I tried to keep it abrupt cos the boss didn't like talking at work
>as she leaves with her boyfriend to collect her last pay check there, she looks me in the eye and nods her head goodbye
>I do the same but try to keep my eyes forward away from her

Thank goodness I tracked her down a year later to ask her to act in my art project. Visited her periodically at work cos we worked near each other. Most contact we got was when we hugged and wished each other a merry Christmas. Sigh, how come the good women are already taken?

WHERE THE HOT SINGLE WOMEN AT? REEEEEEEEEEEEE

Also it's so hard to meet a woman who isn't autistic these days.

>>12278263
mcqueen

>in love with qt girl in my major
>she has emotional problems
>makes her even more irresistable

>>12277361
>says he understands
>doesnt understand at all and asks a stupid question instead

im 5'6 so i might aswell off my self

>>12277736
I don't get how people smoke weed to "alleviate stress...".When I smoke I just start thinking about deep stuff, I think that's better ways, like doing sports or whatever

>>12278182
Live together, who gives a fuck

>tall
>white
>handsome
>confident
>nearly finished on my wardrobe (thank you grailed)

I am scared I wont know what to do when I am fully effay. Will I escape to a higher plane?

you don't know suffering

>tfw turn away women because embarrassed at the fact that I'm living with my parents
>tfw pile of friendzoned female friends
>tfw ex and I still like each other enough to prove I am capable of being loved
>tfw celibate on purpose

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>find someone you love
>long distance relationship gives you lots of self doubt and amplifies insecurities
>eating disorder and body dysmorphia emerge
>spend days lying in bed lost in my own hurtful thoughts
>he calls you beautiful and tells you how much he loves you everyday
>rushes of anxiety every time he speaks
>feel lonely and dismal because of the fact you're so far away from him
>cry self to sleep every night until you cant cry anymore
>nothing ever changes how hard you try
>cant do anything
>"i l-love you too"
>"you okay?"
>"...yea"

>>12278040
I felt really sad reading this thread but then i saw someone use the pepe gif I made! it made me happier knowing people are still using my pepe :^) <3

>going on a second date tomorrow
>campus poetry reading, we'll probably be around a lot of people the whole time
>will never be comfortable enough to try to kiss him first if we're not alone
>skin broke out since the last time we hung out, scared he'll stop thinking i'm cure
>he seems really disinterested when we text, not sure he even likes me/would even want to kiss me
>feel like i should give up before i start taking it personally and start hating myself
having crushes is the fucking worst

>>12278882
He probably likes you if he agreed to a second date.

>>12278850
>Turn away women because embarrassed living with parents
I'm a fucking college freshman but I'm too embarrassed to bring girls home because my parents are fucking weird

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>>12277264
that feel of utter contentment, at one with the hi lo variable transmission and smooth shifting 5 speed gearbox, the comfort of knowing heavy sleet nor mud can stop you in your tracks, the open air of the removable soft top in your hair, the feeling of absolute bliss that can only be found with a 1992 Geo Tracker, the official car of /fa/

>>12278857
Sounds like you should talk to your boyfriend. Your needs aren't being met and it's not fair to him that he's totally unaware of it. I'm sure he wants to make you happy but he can't help you if you hide that you're hurting. Wish you the best.

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>>12278882
>date
>campus poetry reading

There's nothing more romantic than listening to a demisexual homoromantic unicornkin do slam poetry about how daddy abused it

>>12277893
Join a fucking club or fraternity jesus fuck it isnt hard to make friends in college you neet

>>12278946
He's back

>>12278968
That ship has sailed. I'm out of school now. Still no friends, sluts, or parties. Only regret.

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>20
>6'3"
>7/10 on good day
>have stable short term living situation
>have alright-paying job, despite only having 12 years of school
>Lot's of spare time due to not having a 100% work position
>Cut out a couple of people who were of negative effect from my life
>Have small group of great friends
>Slowly making more friends
>Started going to more and more local conserts and events
>Worked up some actual confidence

But when I go bed and the bedroom shuts behind me.
>Why do I feel like a burden to the people close to me?
>Am I really better off dead?
>Will I ever accomplish anything?
>Am I just a cog in the ever moving machine of humainty?
>Will anything ever matter? Do they only matter if I belive?

So many questions, yet I have no answere.
CAPTHA asks if I'm a robot.
I don't know, CAPTHA. Am I?

>>12278902
Funny you mention that my friend stopped getting texts back from a guy she likes after a second date

>>12278946
Greentext it next time faggot

>dog hoes
>want a gf
>no chick worthwhile trusts me

>>12278980
Question for ya
Do you make and hold eye contact a lot?

>>12278979
same.

>>12278991
yes?

>>12278999
Okay just wondering. Outward confidence with low self esteem is a common, albeit unheard of, symptom of adhd. Inability to hold eye contact is another. Was going to ask some of the others and see how you stack up to the list

>>12279017
>>12278999
I should point out, the low self esteem is characterised primarily by feelings of not achieving your full potential,worthlessness and usually coupled with high risk behaviour.

>>12279017
wait wtf for real?

Tfw might have adhd. Never been able to hold eye contact well and have always had this outward false bravado but terrible self esteem when alone

>>12279017
high risk behavior?

>>12279021
>not achieving your full potential

fuck

>>12279028
>>12279027
>>12279026
Alright here's many common symptoms of adhd
>poor eye contact
this is also a symptom of autism, many people with adhd were misdiagnosed because of this
>difficulty in conversation
typically when someone says one thing there's almost a trail of subjects with loose correlation in the persons head and they respond with something that seems altogether completely different. Many people say it feels insulting, as if the person does not pay attention or care about the topic of conversation
>poor with scheduling
frequently late to work, class etc
>poor memory of names, dates
>frequently misses key points of directions
(skip a page on a test, forget a portion of an assignment etc)
>low self esteem, coupled with the feeling of not achieving your potential
>knee jerk saying something without thinking through what you are about to say
>need to move
>aggresive driving/impatient
>mood swings
>Crowds (bars, concerts) are uncomfortable and can be overwhelming
I can keep going if need be

>>12279041
I have all of those except the social ones. I think I'm just a terrible student lmao.

>>12279041
other things
>high risk behaviour
>>12279027 usually through taking drugs, but any activity that produces a reward in the brain like caffeine or alcohol. Seems like you have an addictive personality. For myself, I could drink 2L of coffee a day easily.
>poor sleeping habits
>compulsive eating
Can be to procrastinate or to pass time. Almost second nature and without thought.
>>12279047
doesnt mean you're bad socially. I was voted best sense of humour and voted to do two speechs for my high school graduation. It just means that you sometimes (frequently) say things that seem super off topic, seem bad at listening
ADHD is due mostly to an improper amount of dopamine within the brain, it's easily corrected though.

>>12277651
Damn I feel you man, because this might be me in the near future and I don't want to live like this.

If you want to talk man, just tell me. We can play some vidya or something.

>>12279017
I think I have adhd then, I could never pay attention in class but I never thought I had adhd idk why and I also was really social in school but I'd be sad as fuck at home

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>tfw wearing a new fit
>feeling pretty good
>strangers drive by and heckle you

>>12279067
potentially anon. It's actually quite common. Get tested, if you do then a medication and a few quick sessions with a therapist does wonders.

>>12279052
No I just mean the social symptoms didn't seem quite right. Still think I'm going to get tested though. Besides medication what else would you do to help lack of focus?

>>12277280
the first part was good but the second you fucked with the dead dog pic, that's when it turned autistic.

you fucked up

>>12279066
I don't play much but you can add me on steam
I don't really hit people up first either but I respond fast
I'd/Caprisun640

>>12279083
oh so much anon. The medication and a therapist will help you notice and understand what is you and what is ADHD. Being mindful of the symptoms will make controlling unwanted aspects of it much easier.
A diet low in simple sugars helps a lot, same with (I dont do this one) low caffeine
Work out, running especially helps.
There's lots and lots of resources for it

>>12279074
Just fire an automatic weapon into their car

>>12277363
This thread is better than any of the dozens of threads about sizing for yeezys or asking for opinions on the new nmd colourways or threads like those

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>have a thing with only qt girl in school
>get her into fashion and designer clothes
>one of the cooler couples
>make an ass of myself at a party so we take a break
>tell her we should be friends cuz i dont wanna lose her
>fast forward 6 month
>I've almost isolated myself
>only hang out with close friends and never party
>all i care about is clothes and building my portfolio for uni so i can move away
>still talk to her and never move on
>always see her hanging out with her lame ass friend who i thought was gay when we we're a thing


fuck it all I just wanna move and forget everything

>>12279096
Not him but like....if you're going to compare this thread to the lowest possible standard
That said I wholeheartidly agree. Fuckbois stay in your fucking general, same with hair advice and shit like that

My parents through my little sister a birthday party and the house has been stocked with sweets and shitty food and I fucked my cut up
I'm 5'5 160lb
How do I recover from this quick

>>12279096
Yeah I like these threads
Kind of builds a sense of /fa/ community and the Yeezy threads are even worse

>>12279110
Yea I mean this isn't a top-notch thread either but it's not the worst and is kind of a nice change

>>12279112
You're fine. One fuck up won't kill you. Drink lots of water to force your body to metabolise it quickly and just make sure to drink plenty of tea and water for the next few days. Keep consistent and your body will not overreact that much. Also tomorrow go donate blood. That's an e-z 500-550 calories burned right there.

>>12279116
I'd throw this thread two standard deviations above what has been spammed on fa recently desu

>>12279117
Shit donating blood burns calories?
How often can I do it without dying because I'm gonna go on a cuhrayzee cut now

>>12279122
once every 54 days. It kills a lot in one go but you cant work out that day. You're taking a massive amount of blood out of the body and your body needs to places a fuck load of cells and protein. Make sure to ewat your daily meal before going or you'll get really sick (trust me it isnt worth it at all. Also dont smoke for a bit after. You'll pass out)

>>12279108

>make an ass of myself at a party so we take a break

tell us what happened

you probably are gay you like fashion queerboi

>>12279093
I just sent you a friend request.

>>12279108
I want the story of how you made an ass of yourself

>>12278538
It's not about the pic it's that your intent was to make her feel bad.

>>12279155
My intention was to cut her off and do something that would prevent us from having any sort of relationship

>>12277652
You sound exactly like me except:
>accepted a long time ago that I'll never be normie or seen as normie
>barely try to converse and interact with people now
>just accepted that vidya and sleeping are all I'll ever have so why not make the most of it
>not like anybody relies on me or expects things
Meh, there are worse living situations out there. Not everyone can be a social butterfly

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are good feels welcome here anons

>exited hs with low confidence, borderline anxiety social skills n dressed like a pleb
>entered uni, started browsing /fa/ n learning to make small talk
>get rejected by super well-dressed/beautiful girl, take huge hit on self esteem
>probs cuz i thought wearing long dark shirts under dark shirts was /l/a/y/e/r/i/n/g/ to the max
>looked like shit
>sperg out for a year, nearly get expelled, start focusing harder
>make some horrible transitions through bad styles (buying fake designer stuff, dressed by internetcore)
>start finding my groove, get small group of real good friends, do better in school
>take things less seriously, understand everything is temporary
>so much more freedom in every way
>find my own style from stalking waywt threads and sufu, try it out confidently cuz idgaf
>start to post and get good feeback in waywt
>girls start to notice, confidence rises
>socializing becomes a breeze (mastering small talk gets you so far)
>get qt gf, cut useless people out and focus on the ones who care and myself
>continue to browse /fa/
>senior year now, have 3.5 gpa, very recently been accepted into ivy league phd program
>feels like 4chan as a whole has been here for me the entire time
>espeically /fa/
>iloveuguys

its looking up and I don't feel like im sinking in a hole anymore. no platitudes from me about how it gets better or whatever, I just wanna say you've all been fucking great

>>12279141
Honestly wasn't that bad, just got too touchy and was annoying. I don't remember really cuz it was kidnapping and I was like almost black out. If you don't have kidnapping by the way it's pretty much the girls take the guys out on a school night and make them drink as much as possible and do embarrassing shit

>>12279158
Then you should have directly stated you weren't comfortable with her relationship to you.

Posting something to get a negative reaction is not a constructive way to deal with people.

>>12279180
Good feels?
>be me
>browsing facebook at night last summer
>things have been rough. A close friend of mine had tried to kill herself and is getting worse
>like, I had to drive out to the closes national park because she was going to slash her wrists there
>I can't tell you how many times I've seen her arms covered in blood. or her legs
>constantly talk about killing herself, suicidal thoughts, wanting to die, doesn't feel in control
>so many fucking attempts. I once wrote a paper for a class after being awake for three days while in the Emergency room with her because if I fell asleep she would try something and I wouldn't let her not go there.
>worst part is when I look in her big blue eyes in those moments all I see is sadness. Not a single bit of happyness.
>I get so good at knowing her suicidal mannerisms I once stopped her attempt based on using 1 too many emoticons in a text
>see a stupid meme
>"THEY SHOULD CALL IT SIDE-EFFEXOR"
>Chuckle, thinking of my friend who is on it
>wait...
>look up side effects
>People under 25 can experience suicidal ideation, loss of control, are 5 times more likely to kill themselves
>she was showing every fucking symptom, minor and major
>Get her off it. In a week things are getting better.
>last time she tried anything I figured out what she was up to and stopped it
>She wrote me a goodbye letter, was going to duct tape a vent to her exhaust and start her car and sit in it
>fast forward 6 months, after therapy, new medication and lots of help
>she's smiling all the time, sketches flowers when bored (I keep every single drawing), laughing, like really laughing.
>first time I saw her after she got help I saw in her eyes nothing but happiness. When she laughed it was genuine.
>Honestly I cried right then. I hadn't heard her laugh in a year. I hadn't seen her cheerful eyes or saw a natural smile on her face and it's all back again

>>12279204
Maybe I don't wanna be a fucking beta loser and do everything in a nice way
Maybe I wanna be a twisted fucking psychopath instead of the nice guy
I'm alpha and you aren't
I hurt people's feelings before they can hurt mines so I'm better than you

>>12279209
Damn thats fucked but im glad it ended well, you sound like a great friend to have

awful if the doctor didn't tell her thats a huge possible side effect of SNRIs tho, at least you recognized it

thru meme

>>12279158
nigga i hope you get cut off in the shittiest way by every girl you like

>>12279215
He didn't. She has like 4 medications now though and she's world's better. Sorry my greenbelt was total shit, it's been a long day and I fucking hated that year

>>12279041
I literally have all of these

Time to kill myself

>>12279220
Greentext* thanks autocorrect

>>12279211
>Pretty bitter
>Get more bitter
>So bitter
>pisses me off bad
>Idk why I'm so bitter
>I'm actually fucking angry
Too late, you were already upset.

Assert yourself, your name-calling doesn't get you anywhere.

>>12279220
fuckk thats a dangerous doctor then

one of my best friends had a bad reaction to an ssri way back in his childhood, got violent and stuff

ironically, thats the field im going into for school lmao

>>12279228
i dun think thats the same guy

if it is thats some top tier sperg shit right there, very impressive

>>12279231
It's obvious b8

>>12279229
It was an emergency room doctor, they only try to stabilize the person. She wasn't able to go for the follow up with other doctors cause, you know, effexor. She's on wellbutrin, abilify, Prozac and metformin now and that's doing the trick, though she may need a different or other stimulant

Honestly it was fucked. I visited the emergency room for her and several other friends last year more than I got coffee from Starbucks

>>12278739
youre the fucking autist here dude.

Chick is taken and knows you know that, so shes being real with you. I tell my female friends they look good all the time, get over it.

Move on ffs, this post is so friendzone it hurts

>>12279235
did you ever reach a point where you felt trapped? like, starting to resent having to do that for her, but knowing that if you didn't, she would just kill herself?

if so, how did you deal with that?

>>12278532
start somewhere. Do that "tactic" for a while, since you're a robot. Then learn something from that and try out a new one the next day. Keep doing until you've learned how to be yourself fluidly, and treat others like fellow humans

>>12279248
Yeah all the time. Her friends didn't realize the severity of it all, her family didn't know either. If I left her she would die but if I didn't it was ruining my quality of life.

At the end of the day I realized that I could take it. I could take not being able to relax or rest because it kept her alive. It's shitty but I'd take being the most miserable person in the world for the rest of my life if it meant that one of my friends could experience just one day of happiness in that kind of moment. I wouldn't even hesitate such a deal. I knew if she would stay alive long enough then we'd find the right prescription. It was hard, like fucking hard.

>>12278532
wait are you >>12277651 ?

if parents are the thing keeping you from living, make it clear to them that they are killing your social life, and that you are going to become stunted/completely unable to be a human being

if they resist against that, which would make sense, then fuck them, just go out and stay out and do what you want and incur their wrath, because time only goes forward and if you miss this part of your life its fucking over. life is temporary and being happy is the only thing that matters to yourself. if they can punish you worse than they are by making you miss out on your young life, then they must be whipping and raping you

if you're not that person, go and attend classes at a community college, like don't sign up just go to classes. talk to people, and if you fuck up just don't go back to that class lol. seriously even just hanging out in a class not talking to anyone will attract lonely people who just want a conversation. make friends with their friends

>>12278182
lucky u have a good friend m8

Why don't you guys use your depression to get chicks. Chicks love that shit

>>12279263
damn you're the mental health mvp friend we need more of

seriously i hope you feel good cuz that's some grade A friendship. I hope you got some recognition for that, but if not, you really deserve it. real good shit

>>12279282
its the difference between wearing all rick and wearing an outfit 2 sizes too large from a trash bag in an ally. gotta tailor it to their liking

>>12279287
>start off normal
> give off hints of being depressed but keeping it lowkey
>bottle that shit up
>explode

>>12279180
amazing feels but how PhD with only bachelors degree?

>>12279287
Thanks man. She gives me drawings of flowers all the time because she knows I love them, I keep them and any notes she gives me. Save for her suicide letters, those I've burned. But honestly I don't need sketches or other thanks though. I lowkey get my reward when I get to see her genuinely smile and laugh, I don't need much more

>>12278739
how old are you, really?

>>12279229
>>12279287
Oh yeah good luck with the schooling man. I love medical sciences but I read those textbooks for hobby, I could never do a degree or job in it (I'll stick to learning about flowers, trees and happy little moss). Keep at it and you'll get it I promise.

>>12279291
>start with some basic existential feels, tell her you listen to elliot smith and take philosophy classes
>invite her over, show her your medicine cabinet and ask if she wants to share
>she wants to leave so you start crying
>start talking about how everyone leaves you
>she doesn't know what to do
>tell her its fine and slam the door to your room shut
>she tries to talk to you through the door
>its too late
>you go to the window
>lean your ass out
>shit on her car
>tell her it was your ferret
>bitches love that shit


>>12279295
10/10 u the real bro

>>>12279293
did a lot of research on the school, wrote a statement of purpose that was super tailored to their program and ideals. did research in school, got real good letters of rec from professor i worked under and head of my program. did a lot of reading on the professors i was to interview with for the program, made sure to ask a lot of relevant questions and show enthusiasm. also i genuinely love the field

>start to think instagram career takes off
>full rick
>broke
>live in mom's basement
>neet

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>ok looking, fit, healthy, due to physical, outdoor life style
>well dressed
>end a 7 year relationship, it was the best move for both of us
>she was the best though, still very much in love
>only have eyes for her
>she got me, moved with me, let me feel like I could actually drop the act and be myself
>now I am alone
>I move a lot due to itchy feet
>new town every six months
>well bought up, good school, bla bla bla, so can switch on social training and sail through most situations
>never actually able to 'be myself' around people
>never make a connection
>never have any friends
>except her
>tfw doomed to float through life, wearing a mask, flirting but never getting further, great conversations but never making a friend, do well at work but never get anywhere as every 6 months I get an unbearable desire to move
>tfw the only time you've actually had an honest look at your life is in some shitty greentext on /fa/

>>12277264
>graduated last year
>still unemployed
>living with parents

livin' the early 20s hell

>>12277358
This.
Most of my relationships started because they asked me out.

>>12279367

maybe don't move so ofent, man.

>>12279425
I've managed a year in my current location, but if I stay here any longer I'm going to loose it. Have already handed in my notice and told my flat mate that I'll be gone in a month.

>>12279438
Fuck these other people, who are probably living in their hometowns at 30. Moving every 6 months is amazing

>21 years old
>social anxiety
>no confidence
>i don't get feedback because i have no friends
>i can't talk to girls, because i dont know girls
>electrical engineer
>college is shit no girls and parties, filled out with nerds
>i have good fashion sense but i'm afraid to buy new clothes
>and now, i realize i do not get any money from my parents from this month so i eat one sandwich all day and drink water
>i dont know what to do

>>12279456
Get a job, earn money for food, meet grills at work.

>>12277264
>20
>7/10 on average. I think I've balanced between toning down the arrogance and realizing I'm not an ugly fucker because of Tinder matches (Got tinder a few months ago)
>Have an interesting haircut that people seem to love complimenting me for
>6'0, gained 25lbs since this school year started. Filled out nice, no longer looking like skeletor.
>I notice girls look/smile at me every now and then, like twice a week or so. It's nothing big, but it's nice.
>Been chatting with girl for the past month or so from hometown. She really likes me, and we're meeting up this weekend. She's ridiculously cute, and we get along, which is rare for me to find someone I'm remotely interested in, and the feelings be mutual.
>Been getting progressively better at self-taught piano, slacking on learning my second language but that's just because of schoolwork getting in the way


Things have never been horrible for me, but it's nice to know things are looking up for me.

>>12279017
>>12279021
>>12279041
Sonofabitch...

>>12279489
Post haircut

>>12279455
I have such a love hate relationship with it. I am hooked to exploring a new place, meeting new people, discovering the local hang outs. But then once it all get l gets too familiar, I hate it. I have always been ok with not making any real connections with people but now it's starting to take its toll. I think I will head to Sweden for a while, maybe a whole new country will kick this out of me.

>buy shit i think looks cool and interesting at thrift stores
>never have the balls to wear it

Recently i bought this Dior suit jacket overcoat thing i found. Still havent worn it becuase i think it looks too formal with most fits

>tfw most friends besides a few are too normie to get it

>Be me, Senior year hs
>6'2", blonde, decently fit from sports
>socially retarted cause only child of divorce and no kids in neighborhood I grew up in
>Apparently 8/10 according to rate threads here
>Mid year start dressing nicer and get compliments from classmates and teachers
>Catch one girl looking at me a decent amount in one of my classes
>Never noticed her before, but actually really attractive, shes a runner and pretty thinspo
>Start talking to her occasionally in the classes we share
>Still catch her looking at me in classes
>WowImDoingIt.jpg
>One day hit her up in DM for help with a science question
>After she helps me I ask her if she ever wants to get coffee together to get to know each other better
>PleaseWork.bat
>Get generic response that shes too busy with her life rn

How the fuck does this shit work

>tfw cute girl compliments my fits so often I confuse it for attraction and completely ruin our budding friendship by going after her
Three times in the last six months someone shoot my retarded self

>>12277264
>tfw all my well fitting pants are in the wash
>washing machine is broken
>have to wear chinos that dont really fit as well

>>12279551
Ahhhhhhhh!!! Too close to the bone! You're upsetting me anon.

>>12277696
Just do it once you fucking nigger. You have missed so many opportunities already. Next time you see her youre gonna fucking ask her out. Dumbass nigger i swear

>>12279513
Rub one out before meeting your friends so you're not thinking with your pee pee. This has helped me keep my mind off the beast with two backs.

>>12279498
You're talking to an American who's lived in Sweden for 3 years. Sweden is a terrible country. Run as far away as you can.

Keep doing what you're doing though. It seems these days people actually advocate living in one place, especially the autists on this board because it makes it easier for their dumbasses to make friend circles and girlfriends. People got their priorities backwards these days

>8/10 body
>9/10 face
>8/10 charisma in shallow interactions
>depersonalized
>can't form meaningful relationships easily
>>when I do, they get weirded out

TLDR: so lonely I don't even care anymore

>>12277280
glad im not this fucking autistic

>>12277361
>y r u ignoring me :(((((

>says he "understands"

>>12278627
chill anon ;) I haven't hung with anyone since July

>>12278672
why are you afraid of the randomass sshitty people in your class?

I'm not sure why but I'm just about to fall asleep and I got sad. I'm not really sure why I never get attention from girls. Pretty much everyone that I talk to about it says I'm really attractive and I believe them. But girls rarely make eye contact with me and they usually aren't super interested. It just seems like the girls that are into me are extremely into me but most aren't. All of my gfs have been hot though I shouldn't be complaining. I just want to feel more desirable.

>>12279569
The main reason I was going to head there is I have a couple of job offers in the works. What didn't you like about it?

>>12278182
bruh u gay breh

>>12277286
dump that bitch

>>12279617
just bad people. People that are driven by insecurity and fear. I know you think that's all people, but you haven't seen it like Sweden. These people will be so afraid of what their childhood or college friends (the only friends most Swedes have) if they see them talking to someone "new", like yourself, that it will be very hard for you to make any friends there, in my opinion. In Sweden, they ignore you.

Not when they're drunk though. So i guess if you like drinking it will work out for you, but i don't drink so...

My point is Sweden is very hard to be a new guy. They're not excited by or curious about new things. Sticking with the old is the only life they know, because they're very childlike in truth. The people of Stockholm though are different from the rest of the country i will say that

>>12279699
I would based in Stockholm, the company would be providing accommodation and transport. I'm going to head out just as it's an easy option for now. But I'll keep my social expectations low. Worst case I make some money and get to go on some hikes. Did you go back to the US after sweden?

>>12277280
youre better off not being with someone capable of influencing your emotions that much or too fuck with your emotions like that. but the dead dog thing was retarded. just should have cut her off

>social anxiety

is anyone else here completely uncomfortable getting noticed when you're wearing a fucking outfit that you know looks good?

>>12279718
no

u are weird

and should end your life

>>12278979
you should be glad you didnt join a shit fraternity, having social anxiety and dealing with the most annoying people on campus doesnt mix well.

>>12279723
no u

>>12277393
stop. this is hurting me. id never noticed

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>18
>live where everyone knows everyone and its like that throughout the country
>no friends but some acquaintances
>used to be popular but drifted away and became a loner
>everyone knows i'm basically a loser now, talks shit
>trying to get away but poor fag
>cant get job
>want to go somewhere where no one knows who i am

>>12278321
no true scotsman

>>12277648
jelly

>>12279659
I'm probably gonna if she don't get her swag up
I bought her gel lytes, club C's, and old skools.
I'm gonna try buying her some NMDs and if she goes back to the Roshes I'm gonna have to do it

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>>12277280
enjoy your relationship virginity and anger issues beta-chan :^)

>>12277280
I'm gonna do.this with a bunch of bitches I hate

>>12278946
>Feels threads are back
>Geo tracker shitposting is back
Does mwwt or whatever his name was still post here

I'm 19 years old.

I am handsome, smart, athletic and virile.

I have a novel that is in it's final editing stage, and a creative writing professor at my college has read the first draft and thinks it's saleable.

I have a girlfriend who is confident, articulate, playful and spontaneous.

I have a small group of interesting friends from different social and academic backgrounds, and I also have many other acquaintances who see me as a reliable source of humour and good company.

Both my parents are alive and in good health.

I have no regrets.

I have already experienced three existential crises, the latter of which was described as having the depth and profundity of a man twice my age.

I am a passionate lover, a sharp thinker, and a trader of witty repartee.

I am not self-pitying, meek or needlessly humble.

I will live a good life at your expense.

>>12279869
lol

>>12277264
i was unhappy but i just stoped giving a fuck, i dont mean like you should do heroin just dont give a fuck and people started to like me more and girls too i just go to a girl and talk the most stupid shit and i dont give a fuck and the always like it

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>slowly got skinnyfat
>at the end of 2016 started to work out and eating healthy
>slowly destroy fat, getting some muscles, not much but a lot better than before
>cheeks are still slightly puffyand so I'm not satisfied with my appearance
>tfw

>Be tall, attractive (acne scars ruin it a bit), good fashion sense
>People think i get pussy all the time
>Actually hopeless romantic
>Makeout with girl at party
>Get some feels
>Meet her once to return her sweater she forgot at the party
>Express interest in seeing each other more
>Delete Tinder because its a waste of time
>Get flaked on constantly
>Cut contact for a week now
>Text some of the girls I went out with in the past
>No replies
>Lonely as fuck
>Also leaving for my masters degree in a few months and unemployed till then so no regular social life

I'm torn between getting on Tinder again and texting the flake again. What do /fa/?

>>12279507
Don't phrase it like a date. Invite her to do something fun like a hike or mountain climbing. She's a runner so she should find that fun.
Also play it cool for now. Don't act butthurt and talk to her normally. Ask her a month down the line again and if you get the same response it's time lose hope and accept being just her friend. Talk to other girls too

>>12279558
>what is fear of rejection?
the post

>in love with a completley asexual girl
>she's 18 and never even kissed someone
>idk if it's her or me
Life is suffering (sometimes)

>>12279718
>avoid dressing "too well" to avoid drawing attention to myself because i know if anyone comments on it i'll just sperg the fuck out
life hurts

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>>12278297
Godspeed, anon
I hope you will get well soon
Don't loose your hope

I'm a short, awkward, stuttering mess
And I have shit grades because it's hard for me to pay attention.
I have a fucked up fat ugly face
I have weird puffy hair that grows out like a fro but it's not curly
Im scared of stuttering and being laughed at or making things awkward so I don't approach people or initiate conversation
None of my freinds ever hit me up and I see my main group all hanging out together on Snapchat and they didn't even invite me
My mom is a religious nutjob and wants me to be one to so there's always constant arguing in the house and I cant ever relax

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>never had a group of friends in high school
>go to college
>meet kids i can relate to for the first time in 5 years
>everything is going pretty great, making up for all the time wasted in high school i spent watching tv alone
>have nothing to complain about, i should be happy

sometimes i'm in a great mood and full of energy, love myself and everyone and everything. other times i'm anxious, sad, and just feel ugly and truly hate myself. it even switches between the two within hours at times and i'm not sure if i can take it anymore. i'd say i get sad the most when i'm alone though.

anyone else feel like this? sometimes i feel like i should go see a therapist

>>12280131
>Never initiates conversation
>Looks always uneasy
>Expects to be invited
It's ok to have flaws, man. So what if you stutter, your friend will give you shit once but if they're truly your friends you should be able to give some banter back or own it.
The deal with your mom sucks though. The thing is to just be chill about it. Listen to her or don't listen to her. Don't argue about it, don't get into shouting matches.
Look up mindful meditation

You're all the same.

>M-muh depression.
>M-muh social anxiety.
Get fucked, you're just lazy and comfortable.
Sure you want other things in your life but your excuse for not changing anything is because you're depressed or anxious?
You're just a mediocre person.
There's nothing unique about you.

Fuck it girls/guys come and go, if you can't move out or feel like you're missing out. You aren't. Your own experiences are better than what others could have.
That's where you can be unique.

Get hungry with your passions and become exceptional. Express yourself through art or some other medium. Don't worry about other losers because as you can see everyone suffers the same shit.

>>12280137
Read more

>>12280177
You mean take risks?

>>12279999
Hermit mode and make as much money as you can. Do shitty temp jobs or something.

>>12280177
Stop this at once

>>12279999
tinder you pathetic fool. got i almost wish i was green as you.

>>12279209
...nice

>>12277617
Nah m8, from the looks of it your primary problem is

>autistic

>>12279308
what's the field may I ask??

>>12280200
Too real 4u?

>>12279308
Brilliant

>>12280177
Y....you're right anon

>>12280177
thank you for this

where the FUCK do you meet girls after college

>>12280177
This

>move to austin for work
>start going to coffee shop
>start chatting up with the effay chick from croatia
>hang out all day one saturday
>it goes so well
>we get dinner a couple nights later
>she tells me she isn't looking for a boyfriend
>pretend it's not a big deal
>only talk with her when i see her IRL
>she texts me a couple weeks later saying she wants to hang again
>tell her if she has anything in mind let me know
>nothing
>text her a couple weeks later saying we should hang out again
>she say she just started seeing some
>my response "wow. you're an awful person."
> a couple weeks later I start seeing the effay korean chick
>we hang out everyday/night
>she gets a job in NJ

i just want to leave this overrated city. It's way to hard to be effay when its 100 degrees out for more than 5 months.

>>12280325
ooouuutttsssiidddeeeeeee. scary.

>>12280325
Become friends with younger relatives if you have any? Lol like 19-20 year old ones.

>>12280343
Girls r weird.
Move so you can be effay th

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>tfw suicidal again

pfffffffffffffffffff. I need a gun, but it's tough to get one in my country. I'm seeing a girl in 20 hours. Maybe we will have a good time, maybe not. I'm not very good looking, but I'm not terribly ugly either.

>>12277730
Everyone on /fit/ will hate you for having god-tier calve genetics and not being a liftbro.
It's like the only muscle group that truly depends on genetics in order to grow.

>>12277264
i am becoming more and more schizophrenic.
I stopped going to my meetings six months ago because i was on a speed binge and became paranoid that my doctor hated me, just a couple of months ago i tore up a majority of my clothes because i was sure my doctor had wiretapped them and that they were injecting heroin into me when i did not notice
>help

>>12278182
This is literally me with my roommate. Love this bro more than any girl i've been with.

>>12278514

underrated post

>>12279198
>Girl gets you drunk
>You get drunk
>Touch the titties because fuck it lmao
>cucked again

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>>12279999
we're the exact same person bruh

i feel you. It'll be okay

>>12279745
Email people where you want to go and just start asking for a job. Knew a kid in HS who sounded like you, the day after graduation he had money saved up and jobs lined up in New Zealand. I see his snap story now and he likes way happier.

>be qt Asian twink, blessed with soft facial aesthetics
>meet equally qt Chinese girl
>she already has a boyfriend
>this makes me upset because her boyfriend isn't even qt
>decide to get back at her by becoming even cuter than her
>spend hundreds on skincare products and clothes
>am now cuter than 90% of the Asian girls in my Uni

>all the Asian students only hang out with people that speak their language natively
>still no friends/gf

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>finishing secondary school
>forced to pick courses for sixth form
>have no interests at all
>take economics and politics because i'm good at them
>fuck it
>take textiles because i have a surface level interest in fashion
>think being a fashion designer would be fuckin cool, if not a stylist or something
>month later
>realise a surface level interest in fashion isn't going to carry me through a 2 year course that isn't even about fashion
>no experience at all with sowing
>suddenly realise this is going to be a repeat of GCSE when I took computing thinking i'd love coding when I'd in fact never tried it and then spent 2 years doing a course I hated
>keep trying to tell myself that i'll like this and i'll be good at this
>it's not working
the only emotions i feel are despair and panic :))))))))

>>12280469
holy fuck man

>>12280480
Thanks for the concern anon. Hope nothing but good comes your way.

>>12278807
5'8 here can I join

>>12280137
sounds like mood swings, which are normal when you're young and possibly still feeling effects of puberty
if not then probably bipolar but i'm not a doctor anon

>>12279017
Oh no.
Does this mean undiagnosed ADHD

>wardrobe is actually pretty good
>best friend is based as always
>realised people actually like being around me
>my grades are good even though idk how
>crush has started flirting with me and I'm going to a party with her in two weeks
life's pretty good

>>12279999
Do both, get tinder again but with low expectations.

>>12280177
This. Complaining doesnt fix shit. Take action and quit being a whiny bitch.

>Checked investments today
>Overall 25% increase in value over past 2 months

Thanks Papa Trump!

>>12279869
wow u sure sound like a cunt :)

>>12278182
that guy sounds like me

> tfw too autistic to get a job and be able to buy all the things i want including clothing. even the government agrees.

>>12280523
You fucking idiot. Now everyone will think you're gay because you take textiles.

Nt. Drop the subject, or take another doss one next year (drama, IT, BTEC science) and do that for a AS level. Why did you go for textiles??
Dude why textiles

started dating a new girl about a month ago. i really like her and id like to think she feels the same. found out today that before she started dating me she was in a relationship where she cheated. now what i just saw as slight communication problems seem a bit more significant and ominous

>Parents never helped me out in enrolling in college so I'm out of school jobless because nobody calls after I do without no gf to treat to nice shit

At least I'm not ugly

>>12280912
wut

>>12280881
what even

>>12280924
i get a small alimony from the government and do not have to work. i was deemed "handicapped" by the government because i am too autistic apparently.

>>12280922
Lmao what's no to get

Decent looking dude going through an existential crisis like most guys my age

>>12280498
Post butt pls

>5'6"
>average on a good day
>only good trait is wit and humor which isn't even exceptional
>no self confidence due to years on fa
>somehow got a girlfriend a month ago
>laughs at all my jokes, finds most of what I say funny
>pretty and outgoing, lovable, basically complete opposite of me
>rarely get to see her because she's always busy with sports and a job while I go to class and then go home and waste my hours on 4chan reddit and Instagram
>constant fear she's going to realize how inadequate I am and dump my ass to the curb
Having a girlfriend isn't as great as it's made out to be

>>12280975
can you still live by yourself?
would you mind explaining the process you went through/what it is that makes you too autistic to work?

>>12279574
I feel you man. Except I'm not an 8/10 body or 9/10 face.

I'm quite charismatic when I put the effort in small talk and generally hanging out with friends. Girls even begin to form feelings for me, but when its one on one I'm the most awkward motherfucker ever and fail to follow-up or connect with people. This leads me to making bad decisions and overall ruining everything.

I had a pretty bad break up with my last girlfriend, that eventually separated my friend group. At this point I just want to be alone and have no relationships with anybody, including my family, it's such a drag.

>>12277416
this minus the ugly in skin and fat part

>>12281072
I went through the same thing a couple years back, just decided that socializing wasn't working and cut myself off from everyone

Two years later and i feel like dying everyday from the crushing loneliness

>>12281105
Loneliness is something that I've spent sometime reading about and observing. It seems miserable, but at the same time I feel like I can't build any positive relationships with anyone.

Were you hoping to get a fresh start? Like hitting the reset button? Or were you just done with all the bullshit?

>>12279074
fratboys or rednecks

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>>12277280
>cute girl in lecture
>get her number
>ask her out
>doesn't even want to sit close to me
>keep pushing
>apologize next day for pushing her too hard
>invite her to 2nd date
>just friendly conversation
>she goes on vacation
>become bitter, probbaly she's fucking other guys abroad
>ignore her
>comes back from vacation
>texts me that she got me a gift
>meet for 10 minutes, take the gift
>ignore her
>1 month later
>"hey how are you doing? why didn't you come to the lecture?"
>blablabla .... "wanna watch a movie tomorrow?"
>"good idea"
>watch movie
>fuck her

That's how you do it faggot. I understand why you got bitter but you have to master your emotions.

>>12281141
>Or were you just some with all the bullshit?
It was this. The first few months were great because I suddenly had loads of free time for my hobbies. Picked up piano, got time to play the vidya I wanted to play, even made music when I felt creative. But then as more time passed I started realizing I'd much rather spend Friday night with some pals than practicing piano for three hours and watching tv for the fifth week in a row.

I've only recently started doing something about this. Right now I've just been doing little stuff like practicing smiling in a mirror, making small talk with strangers, looking for meet ups or events I can go to by myself. It'll be years before I can get back anything like the close friendships I had before I stopped, but I try not to think about that and just focus on making progress.

Don't let your friends and loved ones go, they're one of the most important things in my life that I've lost

>tfw permanent bags under eyes

how do i fix this, i was told it's hereditary but there's got to be a way i can mitigate it

>>12281072
I can't talk to my oneitis one on one but I make her laugh and can talk to her in groups
What's wrong with me

>>12281175
She only talked when I didn't give her attention and that's bullshit
I want to cut her off and prevent my future beta self from hitting her up, hence the dog

>>12281203
I wish I had bags under my eyes, I love the way they look
Post pics and we can see if they are the good kind

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>>12281226
I don't want to post a picture of myself, pic related looks exactly like mine, non puffy and looks almost like i got punched in both eyes

How do you make friends at university though? I'm loving with my best friends from another state but I want to meet other people as well, also the way my course and uni is structured doesn't give me a lot of contact hours

>>12281257
Looks good tho

>>12281273
then i guess the question would be is how do i make it work