Whats the one thing that stops you from being attractive and

>>12209151
I'm 5'6" and I mostly pull in girls due to my face and interests, over time even though I'll be in a happy relationship it gets to me and my insecurity can come out. They usually get bored and leave, then its rinse and repeat with long bouts of loneliness until I find another shallow whore to ream through.

>>12209161
that's rough anon, i know how rough 4chan is on height. Either way you're still very attractive if your getting girls at all. Just know that whilst it does matter insecurity warps reality an incredible amount and it is genuinely not as bad as you think.

>>12209151
There are more than one thing that stops me from being attractive.
I'm not fashionable because i don't have a sense of what i think it looks good because i'm too biased from my cultured that is very afraid of being gay. This shit gets so ingrained you don't know if you really don't like something or just were taught to.

my posture i feel like
im trying hard to correct it but idk
also my anxiety :D

Need to lose weight honestly. I'm 6'3 so I wear it well enough, but I still need to slim down. Other than that I'm a bit poor and the hair is thinning a tad(hasnt gotten any worse in a few years though so fingers crossed).

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>>12209196
If you shitpost a lot maybe get a chair made to support and correct your spine and look up posture excersizes. posture is important but its very fixable. good look anon.

>>12209195
Sorry to hear that anon, maybe look up very masculine models and brands for inspo and colour schemes or whatever your culture approves of. Eventually you ll probably start to let down those mental barriers, im sure you look good anyway

>>12209204
Are you on the big three for hairless anon? people tend to see results apparently and hair is important to a lot of guys so id say the side effects are negligible however im sure you'd look great bald. Its great you are making progress by losing weight, just be careful once you lose one insecurity you just make way for more of them.

>>12209151
My teeth are pretty fucked. Im also very skinny and have a hole in my chest, dont care much about that since i have a pretty face but i feel like my teeth kinda ruins it :/

personality

people seem to think I'm cool until they get to know me and realize what an awkward weirdo i am

My height. I'm 5'8" and 18. Everyone at school is at least 5 10

I have literally become weird. I just do weird stuff all the time. On one hand I can hold myself back and just calmly control my behaviour, but on the other hand I give so little fuck about anything but what goes on in my mind, that I just act like a crazy person. Most sluts are like wow anon is such a weirdo, it's so cute and then they say I'm crazy after I try to hold back from plowing them and finally stop the chain of rejections from the few girls I actually fell in love with, but I always plow the sluts and feel bad afterwards and the innocence of the time when I was still a virgin and could have a normal relationship is getting further and further away. At least I can brag tho. No hope in finding a qt virgin gf ever tho, will probably have to settle for some thot (if I want to ever have kids) who is even a worse person than me.

fashionable? canadian import tax.. but if the question is attractive probably my front teeth gap and my below average face

>>12209223
also this lol

>>12209217
I don't care about what they aprove anymore but it gets hard to distinguish induvidual taste from collective taste after many years thinking your taste was the collective taste.
My interest in clothing is very new so i have a long road ahead.

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>>12209221
I dont want to look like a shill but ive been mewing and chewing more gum and also last time went to my dentist he said my teeth are looking better and more straight. Buy some mouthwash and make sure to clean your teeth every night, its incredibly important. Maybe get braces?

>>12209224
Your platelets close at 21, you still have 3 years to growth. start drinking a lot of milk or take calcium. also regular vitamins, getting good regular excersize as long as its not to intense can encourage growth. but as i said to another anon, heights important but not as life ruining as 4chan makes it out to be.

>>12209223
Personality is a bitch, because if you ever get to the point where you start to like yourself your physical insecurities will arise. I was thought of as an asshole way back in highschool even though i tried to be nice, you just gotta keep working at it.

>>12209227
sounds like you have realized most people in life are very shallow, getting a virgin gf is impossible for most people anyway anon. atleast your getting action , you shouldn't feel bad at all.

>>12209229
moneys a bitch as well. But Canada is a very comfy place, i wish i was born there. teeth gaps really aren't too bad a problem, i had a friend with very jagged sharp teeth which he thought made him look like a vampire but everyone else literally didnt care at all and thought he looked fine.

>>12209240
You just gotta to keep going i guess, everyone has taste but it takes years to fully understand what you like i think.

The fact I live in a lower end area means that I am limited as to what I can feasibly wear in public
That and my face

>>12209204
Literally me, except hair

>>12209249
That sucks anon, i think everywhere is kinda like that though. theres always a point at which others will judge, no matter what. insecurity about your face is tough, just remember all those supermodels you see whilst they are very good looking are photoshopped to shit and have had extensive surgery, you just gotta make the best of what you have in the end, life sucks.

my height, im 165cm

>>12209151
my face is asymmetrical, one side is chad the other side is ugly

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>have a 8/10 face
>girls think I'm attractive
>hate myself, never get close to anyone
>turns out I'm a tranny

hahahahaha I'm going to die alone as a freak.

>>12209249
I used to think that about stylezeitgeist, are people wearing that wacky avante garde shit in like, Ohio? I guess they all live in hermeticcally sealed cool city enclaves

cannot escape the feeling that even though I love life and living in general that everything is pointless and that one day I'll just cease to exist

also I'd rather spend all my money on music equipment

>>12209294
yo fuck the mirror, love emanates from your brain. figure it out stupid. there are no surgeries in the jungle, or dresses.

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>>12209151

>My insecurity and lack of love for and confidence in myself and qualities

That probably isn't just one nor is it the only but it's probably the biggest.

Are you assuming that I consider myself ugly and badly dressed? Because I don't. Is all of /fa/ seriously this insecure?

>>12209592
dude this is 4chan ya kno?

Can't find the right kind of glasses that suit my face. My eyebrows are blonde as fuck because too aryan so I thought thick black frames would be good for that but nope. Plus weak chin

>>12209151

Money, knowledge and the provincial place Im living at. Cant wait to graduate and fucking leave this place for ever.

my hair is kind of shit but i'm too scared to get it cut since i'm studying abroad and don't know the language shit

>>12209161
> Manlet

Only way out is to become a powerlifter

Biting your nails.

>>12209151
>Big Nose
>Asymmetrical eyes
>Asymmetrical Jaw
>Fucking Neanderthal tier browline (and no, asshole. It doesn't make me into some super badass alpha as fuck man. it makes me look like a knuckle dragging idiot)
>Large eyes
>Long Neck

Such is life I guess :/

>>12209294
>turns out I'm a tranny
No you're not, you're just desperate to find happiness. Believe me when I say you definitely don't want to chop your dick off.

>>12209909
I'm keeping my dick desu :^)

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i'm 5'6''
i'm really anxious and i have low self-esteem, so i'm always afraid of walking into stores, especially if i don't feel like i'm dressed fashionably enough
(this is stupid as fuck i know - especially when i see stupid fat fucks decked in poseurcore walking in and out of those same stores)
so i order shit online from time to time
sometimes i pass groups of impeccably dressed models in the street and it makes me feel so bad
my faces look alright i guess at least in /fa/ standards - i'm usually rated between 7 and 8 - but i have occasional bad acne breakouts, especially when i get real stressed out which happens frequently
i'm always tired, and i never concretize my creative endeavours
i have obscure hobbies
it's hard to relate with anyone

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>>12210029
god damn this hits way too close to home

>>12209294
>watches I am Cait once

>>12209224

Anon, trust me, you think of your height 1000x more than anyone in your life does. Everyone is short in some way. Girls care about their boobs or skin. Dumb people care about whether they are "smart" enough. Short dicks etc

>>12210084
>tfw when bad skin, stupid, short, and small dick
Kill me.

>>12210084
it's harder to find clothes that fit when you're short

I am attractive and at least somewhat effay. I guess the only thing keeping me back right now is money.

>>12209161
If you can get a relationship, then you can keep it.
Losers like me who cant even atract girls should feel but not you

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Ok If this is feels and support thread then here I go
I'm 23; balding, noticed it kinda late, now taking Minoxidil, trying to fight back.
I still have acne if I eat junk food and drink soda, trying to control myself, but I just dislike normal food.
Have weird body propotions, trying to get fit doing exercise.

And most of all, social anxiety which leads to losing friends, low self-esteem, self-loathing.

I'm trying to fight back, but I'm constantly getting feel that It's worthless. Suicide no longer feels like something "weird".
I've been struggling through this for 2 months, since I learned that my GF cheated on me.

I'm going to visit a psychotherapist next week, if it doesn't help, I don't know what to do.

Unfortunately, this is the only place that will listen (I'm sorry /fa/, this belongs on /b/ I guess)

Thanks for reading this, I appreciate it.

>>12210269
>but I just dislike normal food
Fix that. I used to be the same way. I started to learn how to cook and forced myself to try things that I thought I wouldn't like/didn't like before. Now I'll try most things (still struggling with strong flavors like kale).

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>>12209151

I don't know if this is the right kind of thread but I need to get it off my chest

I actually made a list of several things I hate about myself and what I can do to change (pic related). I'm very short, I have dirty brown skin, messy frizzy hair, brown eyes, bulbous nose, baby face, gaps in my beard, a caveman brow and several other physical issues like a shit zygomatic angle and negative canthal tilt. On top of that, I have joint issues which make it hard for me to lift weights and a few scars on my head which fuck up my confidence.

Apart from my physical insecurities, I also have a lot of mental issues and insecurities to work through. The vast majority of my friends (especially due to me being an imigrant) are far taller than me and mock me for my height and race in a jesting tone, but it really hits hard. My father is also a ladie's man that frequently recieves love letters and has great success with women due to his strong personality and amazing looks. I also got severely bullied ever since I was young. all this has left me with crippling self hatred and confidence issues as well as making me extremely docile and submissive. I'd often let people humiliate and beat me up and they do. I'm a constantly shifting, neurotic, nervous mess, constantly worrying about my posture, where I'm standing, looking at my face in the mirror for several minutes at a time, frantically brushing my hair, etc.

In short, I'm a mentally unstable, nervous, insecure mess, with body and mind issues. Plus I know my parents were incarcerated for being drug smugglers/heroine addicts, but they don't know that I know and it's a lot of weight to carry. This is just the short version of it all, I'm reaching the text limit.

>>12210029
>>12209224
>>12209161
You could have been normal sized if it wasn't for your father's stupid petite girl fetish. You must now have kids with a girl who's at least 6'3 so that your future sons will be able to compete.

>>12210349
my dad is as tall as my mom and i'm taller than my dad

>>12210326

To continue from that, my insecurities permeate my life with a constant sense of self doubt, worthlesness and unease. I'm constantly scared that people are laughing at me or considering me an idiot and oftentimes they are, especially due to how lazy I am. I feel like everyone looks at me like an overgrown child. I struggle inmensely to talk to others without contrived, fake personas I put on artificially to be able to fake being normal or having normal interests and I've realized I don't even know what my real personality actually is. I went on my first ever date the other day and I was so awfully anxious I nearly ran out. I couldn't think of what to say to this girl. She messaged me saying she had fun and wanted to hang out again and I was so happy, but then she expressed disinterest in me and kept mentioning ex boyfriends and how she just got out of a relationship and left without so much a as a hug and has said nothing since and that's rocked me even harder. To make matters worse, my only friends here have all gone back to their home countries and besides my one other dutch friend (who, to be honest, like his girlfriend, probably only tolerates me) everyone is gone and I'm completely alone. I feel so inadequate. Sometimes I really wish I simply was never born.

>>12210351
Good on you. You should still take my advice. It won't look stupid if you pull it off right. Think Joe Pesci in Casino.

>>12210326

try nofap

>>12210378

would that even help with the myriad of problems I have?

>>12209151
I'm painfully average and don't know how to make myself look better.

>>12210384
Also have a kike nose

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>>12209151
i want to be a cute aesthetic boy but im 5'5 and not as white as id like to be

>>12210382

Shilling hard for this but only because I believe in it.

For the issues you discussed (lethargy, focus, discipline, motivation, confidence, anxiety, etc) doing nofap helped me considerably. It's fucked up the degree to which watching porn can fuck with some peoples brains.

Besides, why not give it a shot? It completely rid me of my social anxiety and gave me a fucktonne of motivation to better myself, and it may well do the same for you.

In 45 days you'll feel like a different person.

>>12210392
same here
>want to be androgynous male
>5'6 and mixed

>>12209151
I have literally nothing interesting in my life so no one stays with me for more than a few months.

jewish nose

>>12210410

Issue is I am a virgin and extremely lonely. I've reached the point where I masturbate not to feel pleasure, but because I like to fantasize that I'm having sex with my loving girlfriend. It cripples me inside not having an emotional or physical release, so nofap is the hardest thing for me. But thank you, I will try. Got nthing to lose.

>>12210326
jesus fucking christ literally me except appearance

>>12210427
talking about list btw

my story is completely different
i have no reason to feel bad
i never really had to do anything
i never had to work hard to achieve anything
i have(or maybe had)few friends
i just stopped meeting with them because i felt like it was tiresome and id rather stay at home in my comfort zone
everyone in my family is outgoing and shit
and im just here
on 4chan
being a fucking loser

>>12210422

Read these:
http://yourbrainonporn.com/
https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/

Watch this and try and apply the same logic to porn as a drug addiction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nmNf37oJEvc

Good luck Anon.

>>12210445

Yeah, I feel you. My sister is a gymnastics champion, my grandfather is a retired profesional footballer and coach, my dad owns several companies, my cousin is a mcguil graduate in medicine... I'm just a dumb fuckin loser with severe personality issues and genuinely crippling insecurities and mental problems. Issue is, I can't get this off of my chest with anyone. It's too personal and I'm scared I'll scare people off.

I really want a sweet girlfriend who is into similar things as me. I just want someone to love who loves me back sincerely so we can improve each other, but I'm so dull, meek and ugly I know it won't happen. Worst of all, my friends make fun of my style and say I look like a tryhard.

>>12210452
It seems realistic, but at the same time, I don't know, it strikes me as pseudoscience. I remember reading a text a neuroscientist wrote about how this is all bullshit. still, doesn't hurt to try.

weather is always too hot

i've seriously considered moving to a different state just so i can wear layers and be comfy

>>12210029
>i'm usually rated between 7 and 8,
where? on fucking 4chan?

>>12210464
yeah can't you read?
i'm a hafu and androgynous looking, so right up fa's alley

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I'm generally very happy with how I look, what makes me hate myself is that I'm an idiot. Like, actually, really really dumb.
I can't argue with anyone about anything because my brain moves too slow to form coherent responses.

People tend to like me initially, and then distance themselves once they realize I have nothing to say, no original thoughts, no nothing.
I feel like if souls exist, I don't have one.

Shit sucks, being dumb was only really effay for like 2 years during middle school.

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>tfw if i had clear skin id be an 8/10
so close yet so far
how do i get beautiful skin like delon
i get it the worst around my skin and jawline

>>12209223
people seem to like me when they know more about me but i always sperg the fuck out when meeting new people and am too awkward to get past exchanging names on my own so they need to do all the initiation, which never happens because i'm probably inexplicably feeling and being uncomfortable

>>12210029
>i'm always tired, and i never concretize my creative endeavours
>i have obscure hobbies
>it's hard to relate with anyone
relatable as fuck

>>12209151

Acne and my almost curly hair is aways an ugly, unrecoverable mess.

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>>12210269
>social anxiety which leads to losing friends, low self-esteem, self-loathing.
iktf
glad you're gonna see a therapist, hopefully it'll be helpful
do you have any close friends/family? I'm assuming you're single now, but being in a relationship can help too ofc
>>12210326
>>12210354
jeez man, I'm sorry
at least you have friends? idk, also it sounds like you're focusing way too much on your flaws and exaggerating or obsessing over them. that probably isn't very helpful, but try to keep it in mind. good luck with nofap, I've been trying but I'm pathetically lonely and undisciplined lol
>>12210549
you certainly don't sound dumb from how you type. and I'm' certain there are plenty of people dumber than you, maybe see how they function?

I'm a mouth breather and my mouth always hangs open; even if my teeth are together, my lips are like half an inch apart when relaxed. If I try to close them you can see my face visibly straining.

>>12210937
Are you me?

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>baby face
>jew nose

the 2 things you should never mention in 1 sentence.

just end my suffering already.

>>12210961
You can literally train yourself not to do that, and have it feel and look natural.

>>12211024
yeah I've actually been working on that, just found out about it a week ago

>>12210966
its not that bad actually

>>12211037
large, masculine nose needs to be matched with a masculine face. otherwise you just look like an oblivion character.

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I'm not really that interesting on the outside.
I generally just carry conversations or start conversations by asking others about what's happening.
I've been getting more involved in my college's theater as a tech dude, and I'm in the process of finding more interesting things to do/go to, but I'm still bland as fuck.
Plus it doesn't help that my friends have a lot more interesting shit to talk about, compared to me.

i think my main issue is just my self-esteem?

i dress okay but not great either, body is nothing special; i am a bit taller than average, slim, but body type is rather boyish with small boobs, small waiste and no ass. face is my worst feature in my opinion, some like it though. it is not hard for me to get a bf, but i think that is just because for a lot of them their only requirement is a female human being that is alive. so most compliments i get i just tend to brush off immediately. and even if they would honestly think i am cute or anything, i just think; wait until you discover the autistic socially reclused human being inside of it.

Money
I'm paying for my woman's college tuition fees, while having a 2 year old kid.
We're not married, I'm just doing it out of guilt because she had to stop schooling because I got her preggers and her parents are kind of eh.
So that means in 2 more years she'll (hopefully) graduate and find a job, then we can do 50/50 supporting the kid.
My hobbies also don't help
>computers (slowly growing out of it now)
>electric guitars
>motorcycles
Fuck I want more money.

My giant nose

Acne

>>12211302
hey this me

>>12209151
long on and off bouts of major depressive means i don't always take care of myself. my skin is pretty fucked up. the outer parts of my upper lip are fucked up from bad shaving. those areas are darker than the skin around it, someone tell me how to fix that. can't even grow out a decent mustache/beard to hide it. otherwise i'd be pretty handsome. a manlet but with nice cheekbones jawline eyebrows and some piercing eyes albeit with some pretty significant bags under them.
i've got my style down though being a skellington manlet means i can't find shit that fits me.
i'm so stuck in my own head and wracked with anxiety. i've got some pretty strange body language which would in a different case would look like confidence but given my current position and my poor physical appearance just looks out of place and makes me look autistic. i have trouble sitting still in public, i'm always bouncing my leg or shifting in my seat. given being dressed atypically but well, my poor physical health, and my odd behaviours and anxiety-induced physicality, i draw too much attention to myself.
i feel my friends kind of looked up to me in the past but while i've been deteriorating and they've been making progress in their lives, i'm just kinda pathetic now. though not completely of my own accord, i willingly isolate myself.
i'm trying to dig myself out of this hole

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>>12211283
>I'm paying for my woman's college tuition fees, while having a 2 year old kid.
>We're not married, I'm just doing it out of guilt because she had to stop schooling because I got her preggers and her parents are kind of eh.

I'll count my blessings the next time I think tfw no gf.

>>12209151
>Whats the one thing that stops you from being attractive and fashionable anons?

Being a manlet with short legs is my only drawback. Also I lift which in some senses is another drawback. But still, I am attractive and fashionable. I'm cognizant enough of my lack of height and body type and accordingly, also accordingly to just what I like, other peoples' opinions be damned and my own personality.

>>12211518
**and dress accordingly

>>12211302
>giant nose

iktf senpai mine looks literally like a cartoon button nose

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MUST WATCH VISUAL OF 2017 VERY POSITIVE!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEAvFGOnjZs

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I have winged shoulder blades and it FUCKING SUCKS.

>>12211578
pic not me btw

fyi i don't take any of my own advice but i'd like to say i give good advice
>>12209161
don't worry about taking risks. put your honest self (plus a few selling moves) out there and see who bites. attraction happens for a reason. a rejection shouldn't have a significant outcome on your life. i know loneliness and if you're pulling, you're way better off than me.
>>12209195
if you maintain the proper interactions with those of your culture, any deviations will be accepted. just be a good fucking person. those that still reject you are those that are probably best kept at arms length.
>>12209196
be constantly mindful of your posture. i'm the same, i have a kind of slouch that i think looks cool but it conveys something that might be a negative trait to others. i keep this in mind and at random intervals throughout the day i'll remember and straighten up. look up some exercises. the important thing when trying to change your physical composition is consistency, changing your body happens very slowly.
>>12209221
i've got the opposite, i've got carinatum. it's a bit worse than having a hole cuz it sticks out. chest exercises are the answer. i'm not used to smiling and i've got slightly yellow and misaligned teeth but i kind of like my smile. closed mouth, bunched up cheeks and dimples. make sure to squint the outside of your eyes, it shows subconscious honesty. other people aren't as concerned about your smile as you are, they register the show of emotion.
>>12209221
again, the path to change is a consistency. the thing about personality is that it is shaped by outside causes. to change your social interactions you have to practice social interaction by consciously steering yourself away from the undesirable behaviour during the event. finding social interactions for practice is of course difficult but you have to do that on your own.

>>12209224
nigga i'm 5'5. if you're in a european country there ain't shit i can help you with. compensate for it with other traits and don't worry if other people recognize you're compensating. your positive traits will supersede the judgement.
>>12209227
don't settle. the issue here is that your own personal traits aren't in correlation with the girls you're pursuing. if those girls are actually your dream girls you would change yourself. right now you are in a place of complacency where your base needs are met so your ambitions are sidelined.
>>12209249
i know this feel. i live on the outer limits of a major city. the thing about lower income places is that you have to follow the social code so you don't get fucked with. just follow the code so people know you're cool when you interact with them.
>>12209294
don't be a tranny, if you're already insecure it won't actually help. people will pander towards you but it won't actually solve the real issues. if you're actually 8/10 fix the underlying issues.
>>12209302
it's a tug of war between what you actually care about and what is necessary to sustain it. i'm the same. even if it's all meaningless, you're still living it. meaning of life is life itself. even if we're not in control, believe you're in control.
>>12209574
put those insecurities out of your mind. the thing i've learned from my various own self-loathing is that others don't actually know what i think. it's me stuck in my own mind that ends up acting out and projecting those insecurities.
>>12209634
pick some glasses. eventually you'll get used to them and you and others will identify with them. any frame will fit eventually.
>>12209827
nobody cares as much as you do. also, why you livin in a place where you don't know the speak.
>>12209865
again, conscious intervention. recognize when you do it and force yourself to stop. sit on your hands or something.


ima go smoke and drink some more and i might be back to respond to others.

>>12211578
same here, who cares. start lifting you bitch

>>12211595
sike ima go to sleep.
i know how goddamn miserable i am, i have with all desire that you all live better lives than me. im a fucking alcoholic that drinks alone too often, cheers you sappy cunts.

honestly height doesn't matter that much
my cousin is 5'6'', fairly good looking, very sociable and hes's been dating since he was 14
his current gf is even slightly taller than him
being short is not the end of the world but there's nothing you can do about it. so just work on your other traits and you'll be fa

>>12210326
You can get out of this bro. Most of these problems can be fixed if you get a decent routine. I know it feels impossible, but once you start getting nice habits your life will get turned around. Start by setting easy goals for the next day before you go to bed, complete them, and gradually increase the "difficulty" of the goals.
The best tip I have however, is to get a friend in a similar position and who wants to change and get them to motivate you, and you to motivate him/her.

>>12210960
>do you have any close friends/family?
I do live with my parents, we're OK, told them about my problems, they're trying to help me.

As for friends - I am no longer sure if I can call my best friend as a "best friend", most of my buddies live on the other side of the city, so it's hard to see them frequently.
And yeah,
>tfwnogf

>>12210459
see a therapist or someone
even if they dont teach you cbt or some shit
just getting it off your chest feels great
i hear loads of great things about mindfulness too
you remind me of me anon
good luck

>>12209294
going tranny is like getting the worst tattoo. over 50% regret the decision. just be gay...fag?

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tfw good face but the cold, dry air in the winter breaks me out despite prescriptions that will probably fuck up my liver indefinitely

tfw moisturizers don't work all day and I have to constantly reapply

there is no god

money
skinnyfat
being the kind of pale you get from being a shut in

I need to lose some weight and grow my hair out a bit. I also wish my breast were smaller. I look so disproportional. Even when I lose weight they don't get smaller.

>>12212706
londres

>>12209865
seriously buy some anti-nail bite nail polish dude, I bit my nails for a good 12 years and that stuff got me to stop in like a month

>>12210549
Just the fact that you're able to reflect upon yourself like this shows you're not dumb.

>>12211276
Try working out if you haven't already. For me that's a huge self-esteem boost and I tend to be in a better mood after a good workout!

>>12209151

my massive forehead that i had since birth

thought it was going bald recently. did a comparison pic and turns out

nah, it hasn't moved. great, except its always been fucking huge

For some reason I can't figure out, I'm pretty fucking knock-kneed. Along with pretty wide hips, I cannot stand straight or I look like a pudgy woman.

I'm not pencil thin, but I'm not fat either at 5'11" and 155 lbs so I don't think it's weight, but I dunno what else it could be :((

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My height honestly im about 5' 8" at 18. Other than that people think I'm fairly attractive.

>>12214117
its your face or personality

>>12212638
accutane is a godsend just keep at it bruv

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>>12210029
>i'm always afraid of walking into stores

I have social anxiety and also hate going into stores that require me to talk to someone.
Self checkouts at every type of store (even clothing) can't come soon enough, online isn't really an option because i want to try on the clothes to see if i like them.

>>12209151
I can deal with every other imperfection of mine, but I've had a receded hairline since I was like 16. I don't think I have to worry about it getting any worse (regardless I finally jumped on fin last month) but now that I care much more about my appearance at 23, it fucking kills me everytime I spot my reflection. It makes my forehead look so much larger than it is, and makes styling my hair a pretty depressing process each time

I'm good looking apart from that. It just really limits what I can do with my hair (mixed afro texture) and going full buzz only makes it a lot more noticeable. I don't get why so many people recommend a shaved head to those who are balding. maybe there's something respectable and attractive about a guy who can accept the fucked up fate of his hair without trying to mask it

it sucks to be so close to being content with your looks. let's see if fin can do anything positive for me. hoping to see improvement by month 3

my acne, i feel like no matter what i do it just doesn't get better

>>12214465
i feel u anon
it's even worse when you don't want to buy from the store and are just trying stuff on so you know your size when you order online
I'm not morally against it but I can't bring myself to do it
>>12214481
have you tried hats?

>>12209151
>My big ass nose
>My height would be a problem but I'm bi
>My posture would be a problem but I dress kinda edgy
>Mental illness is hell

>>12214505
Go to the Skincare General >>12197869

My problem are mostly physical, it's sad because I used to be a model when I was younger and I still hold potential.
>gyno around nipples
>no matter how often I shave my sideburns, still get acne there.
>naturally white facial hair (I'm 20, but my gf and friends think it's cool.
>my hair is so damn thick I don't know what to do with it besides look like some anime character.
>weird shaped legs (thick thighs, but they're not really fat)
>long torso but short legs
>purpleish bags most of the time
>small nose (tfw no Roman nose.)
>still have the clingy body fat from my weight loss.
Everything on this list is not a gamebreaker but the body fat kills me. How do rid of it? And hopefully it'll expose my jaw line, cheeck bones and chin if I do

>>12214117
I slightly suffer from the same problem. Start jogging throughout spring and summer, that's it. Makes your calves muscular but nothing insane and cuts down on some thigh thickness.

>>12211068
Men all naturally have a sense of humor. Find your style and make people laugh, don't be afraid to be an ass, either. Let yourself become the butt of the joke sometimes.

>>12214512
Absolutely not. There is literally no such thing as a hat that looks good

I was born with a genetic disease that basically made me stop growing at age 15.
Now I'm 22, 5'6" and 120 pounds, plus I have the face of a highschool kid.
I'm trying to get my health in order, but it's been a battle for years.

> 200 pounds
>5'7
>Hate myself
>Terrible at everythiing I try too do
Fuck me

Bf rated me 5..
>5/10 face
>I'm 5'6 (is that short for a girl?)
>average weight
I need to lose like 15 pounds to be socially thin but I want to lose around 20-25 lbs
My clothes are pretty basic but I have some nice pieces that I wear.
Does anyone else dress especially unattractively when they feel more insecure than usual? I figure if I'm just that ugly might as well just push the ugliness to the extreme..
It makes me feel better to consciously dress either really bad or really nice because one way I know no one is looking at me and the other way I know that if they are looking at least I'm dressed well

>>12209151
retruded chin, jewish nose (although it wouldnt be that bad if my chin wasnt shit), poor gonial angle, eye/jaw/asymmetry, high hairline, narrow palate

desu all I need to do realistically is palate expander + fixing my hairline, after that ill be content with looking slightly shitty desu

>>12215070
just jump on dat dere HGH and steroids you stupid negro

have some pretty bad acne scarring on my chest and back, been getting over it slowly over the past year but no one has seen it irl just in pics

cant seem to shave my beard right. i prefer about an inch of growth, nice and taught, but i let it grow out so i can try to fix it and get it right. idk how often to "maintain" it once i get it the right length, too. its a full beard, just don't know how to use it right

bad dental hygiene. never understood brushing my teeth as a kid and its punishing me over now. still have trouble getting myself to brush them, but i do it at least once a week

have very hairy eyebrows and want to clean them up but don't know how to do that without shaving them off entirel. theyre not thick, just got lots of excess hair around them. my body has crazy amounts of hair on it, the backs of my hands are covered in it too, makes me feel like a monkey

>>12209847
Pls do not fall into this lifting meme. I competed in physique (5'7") and achieved all that I could have hoped for in terms of my body and it made my insecurities about height that much worse. I'd say I'm objectively a 6.5/10 with 5/10 being truly average looks. Go to the gym for general fitness but please guys don't fall for bs from /fit/. I have never been more unhappy in my life than after I achieved the body I thought I wanted and would help me in the sexual marketplace.

inb4 personality matters, of course it is crucial but if you can't love yourself no one will ever love you.

>5'6
And to put it in perspective there were two other guys my height out of about 250 males in my graduating class
>recessed chin and jaw
>uneven jaw
>assymetrical eyebrows
>shit teeth due to overbite and uneven jaw growth
>white stains on teeth from mouth breathing
>no bone under my eyes
>no cheeks
>flat face
>balding
>high hairline
>close set eyes
>upper eyelid exposure

>>12209151
nothing, all it takes is confidence :^)

>>12210692

try raw honey on da face. google it, helped my sister alot

>>12215463
>white stains on teeth

U wut m8?

5'11", 19 with really severe self-loathing, held back from seeking help for a long time but started last spring when my behavior went way over the edge and it turned out I was a BPD motherfucker. now I'm isolating myself more because nobody deserves the burden I throw on them just by entering a room
also I'm broke

>>12209151
Protruding mouth and asymmetrical jaw that makes my profile look like fat fuck despite being 5'8/120.

Also increasingly uninterested in other people lately

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>>12209151
>one thing
-big hook nose
-odd head shape
-big ears
-one bottom tooth is slightly moved out of placed but not drastically but photos say other wise
-scrawny
-hairy to the bone literally most hairiest in family

>>12209249
I love in a near ghetto in Chicago. There's some moron who walks past my house wearing Rick Owens every morning while I'm on my balcony having my morning smoke break. Looks totally stupid.

Might make sense if he lived in the gold coast or something, but not in a shitty neighborhood most people in the city don't even know exists.

>jay-z tier lips

>>12209151
Acne

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>>12209273
Same desu

>>12216237
are you sure he's not homeless?

jk luv u rick

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>ugly voice
i'm average looking (7/10), my dick is average (6.2 in), midget tier (5'7), but the high pitched quiet slur that comes out of my mouth whenever i speak is unbearable

>>12216358
no fucking way you're 7/10

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>>12210029
>Go downtown to take some photos thinking I'm dressed like hot shit
>Walk past a group of Asian exchange students by the art university
>Decked head to toe in Rick and SLP
>They're not even looking at me but I can feel it

>>12210084
this is almost correct, but you need to have some intelect to even consider the thought of not being smart

>>12209151
I am 5'6, and my constant anxiety prevents me from being attractive.

I absolutely loathe this anxiety and it makes me never approach women I like.

anyways I try to stay fashionable, but I am not attractive at all.

>>12210087
Hey man you're probably not as dumb as you think, atleast you're smart enough to feel stupid.

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I look like shit, dress like shit, am skinny, unfashionable, look juvenile, and probably stink of rotten piss.

22 in that pic. Sorry for the faggy pose.

Crippling self-esteem issues

>>12217592
nice compliment fishing you vain cunt

>>12217599
>Vain
>/fa/

Terrible rosacea even tho I take good care of my skin gives me terrible anxiety around people wondering how they're judging me

>>12215439

Do ppl routine for aesthetics

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Im absolutely incapable of having a normal relationship because I'm clingy and need reinsurance non-stop because of self hatred. I'm pretty successful in my job... other than that I can pull in girls and fuck them but can't keep a relationship and its fucking me up horribly. I fucked up my life and that of others pretty bad some years ago. I got fired from my job as a member of special police forces in Germany because of a crime, which I went to jail for, for 3 years.
Have a pic of me.
Please comment. I'm in a destructive relationship right now and just want to talk...

>tfw a red nose

what the fuck should i do about it

>>12218145
you need to chill, my kraut friend. Sorry you had to do jail time. Get out of that relationship.

>>12211499
but she chose to keep the lil parasite so...

>>12218151
lol same

>>12218145
Go see a therapist or something.
There's like a social stigma around seeing a therapist, but there's nothing wrong with it really.
And it could turn your world around.
Or if you're self-disciplined and can figure it out your problem yourself, go read up on psychology and philosophy.

>>12209221

boi, I got fucked up teeth, a big nose, I'm SUPER skinny AND I've got a hole in my chest.

Fucked over 60 girls. Chill. You got this.

>>12218166
>>12218180
Thank you so much. I'm so happy that someone cares even just a little. I moved towns and kept everything secret... the downside is, i can't really open up to someone.

>>12218145
im curious about the crime you allegedly commited, but if you dont want to talk about it its fine.

as the other anons said, get out of that relationship and seek professional help. i wouldnt advice on the self analysis because it takes way longer and an outsiders view will be far more objective and effective when coupled with years of study on the matter.

you seem to be troubled but ultimately a good person, i hope you get better in the future bro.

>>12218222
I robbed a fuel station like a retard. I was high at that time to numb my sorrows and just did it. I think I will really see a therapist. This could help.

>>12209161
not a manlet but same feels. it wouldn't be better if you were tall

the fact that i cant afford anything :^)

>>12216827
? why are you doubting me having an average face

>>12215384
5'6 is a normal height for a girl. No worries

>>12218145
>I got fired from my job as a member of special police forces in Germany because of a crime, which I went to jail for, for 3 years.
Shit, man.

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My fucking numale appearance.

tfw balding and lack features to look anywhere decent with buzz & still overweight

tfw 5'11 KING of manlets

lost 70lbs so far, guess I'll keep going

JUST

>>12218560
that JUST FUCK ME UP hairstyle, you might as well shave that thing off.

>>12218560
>>12218574


My hair is so blond and wispy it makes me furious. Any wind at all, even just from simply walking, and it looks like I have a Trump toupee. When buzzed I look like a fat cancer patient.

Would like a 5-7 guard all around be ok? I wish I could go with a 1 or 2, but I've tried that.

Also the growth on my top of my head in that pic literally took me 1.5 years to grow lol

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>>12218575
I guess I'm asking what length/style my buzz should be with a joke hairline and hair almost so blond it is clear. If I had dark hair I would have buzzed without question.

What would you guys do knowing full well the transition would be from hot garbage to cold garbage.

I should say that I have at least shaved since this pic to slightly escape full numale

>>12209161
5'6"? lol im 5'3"

>>12218145
You look like you kill women for fun and it all started as a child when you shot your dog and felt funny inside

>>12218629
I always thought The Guy was attractive in High Maintenance. I wonder what your hair would look like with some decent length.

DISPROPORTIONATES CALVES
D I S P R O P O R T I O N A T E S
C A L V E S
Too big are a killer, never let your kids be fat
That plus relatively wide hips and gyno is suffering

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>>12209151
I feel like for the most part I'm relatively handsome.

Biggest two flaws are:

>My face is where I take most of my weight, so I had to work hard just to keep my face chiseled, which it currently isn't
>Broke as fuck so have barely any clothes. The ones I do have are shit

If I can fix these two problems I should be just OK. Not exceptional or anything, but I should be considered attractive.

>>12218911
Oh shit forgot about this (>>12209221)

My teeth are pretty bad, but the worst parts you can't actually see unless I open wide and point it out.

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Resting bitch face and I don't like to smile.

I'm also hungry throughout most of the day on a sedentary cut.

>>12218666
>Satan is a manlet
explains a lot really

>>12214325
thanks for the motivation lad

Nothing, I'm pretty attractive and /fa/ already. I'm just trying to improve

>>12209151
I'm 5'10" on a good day

>>12209151
manlet with acne

Am /fa/t. Have a nice face and straight teeth. I'm 6'0" and the only thing stopping me is being fat. I have a better sense of style than most people. Still look good being big, but I know that being skinnier I could be my best. I know I might get a some of "LOSE WEIGHT FATTY" and shit like that but thats fine and true. Most people on this board might not relate but for those that do, lose the weight and be your best.

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>insatiable foot fetish
>don't want sex
>literally only get with girls for their feet
>they eventually leave after I never fuck them

I hate it so much

>>12221662
Just fuck them to make them happy then play with their feet. both satisfied.

>>12221690
this person's right. just fuck em

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>>12209221
>pectus excavatum
iktfb

Money. If I had all the money I ever wanted, I could appear perfect at all times.

>>12218145
Joseph Blake pls leave.

>>12209909
You shouldn't give people unsolicited advice on things you know nothing about, anon.

>>12221639
cut carbs including grain stuff. this literaly saved me from going insane of being quite /fa/ but never living up to my potential cause of trying to loose and always failing.

I have terrible hair. I also have acne, but its not as bad as it could be. It just doesnt seem to go away. My teeth arent super white either, but theres no problem with them according to my dentist.

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>>12221662
I have a similar thing but its with wanting to be beaten up, sat on, stomped on, verbally abused etc. I also wish I was a girl, but that's a different matter.