>be in relationship for 8 years
>in beginning, gf was thin, tweeish, and maintained herself well
>now gf is bit chubby, no longer really tries
>christmas eve family party rolls around, everyone expected to dress well
>"anon, what do you think of my outfit?"
>outfit consists of mumuesque blouse over baggy polyester business suit bottoms and Payless flats
>"honestly, it looks like something my lesbian grandmother would wear"
>gf silent, goes into bathroom and starts crying
Why the fuck would you ask for honest advice about clothing when you a) know you look like shit and b) only want a bullshit answer?
I CONCUR IN THAT HYPOCRISY IS DETESTABLE, AND THAT HONESTY IS CARDINAL, BUT YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN RUDE AND SNIDE, ESPECIALLY IF YOU —MOST PROBABLY— KNEW THAT IT WOULD HURT HER FEELINGS.
TRUTH SHOULD NOT NECESSARILY BE HARSH.
>>12078668
this tbqh senpai
Yeah that's pretty autistic. You were being a dick. Who gives a fuck what she's wearing just say it looks good and move on.
>>12078660
You're pretentious, to the point where you don't give a shit about your SO's feelings.
Now post fit faggot
Just don't behave like a total dick towards the person you love. That's really autistic. Just talk to her quietly and politely. I think you don't want to lose the person you love after a 8 year relationship because of the way she dresses.
>>12078688
>just say it looks good and move on.
see:
>>12078668
>TRUTH SHOULD NOT NECESSARILY BE HARSH.
There's no reason to lie, nor to be a dick.
I can relate, its hard to not destroy her soul when she gave up trying long ago, but try make it sound less hurtful. I am also quite harsh but say it in a way that tricks her into not being offended, "eh looks like trash babe, wear <thing> that makes your <good feature> look good" then just put her in some outfit that looks good enough and try ignore what life has become
>>12078741
For a fucking family christmas party where everyones going to kiss your ass regardless? I could understand if they were going to a major event but you dont need to be decked out in any fucking thing when visiting family.
>>12078777
I don't think you comprehend what you are reading.
Improve your your reading comprehension, fellow.
>>12078782
the fuck are you on about? you're just as autistic as op. what, did you make the same mistake and then your girlfriend left you after she decided you're a dickhead? chill out.
>>12078791
>fuck!
>shit!
>dick
>y...you're the one who needs to chill out!
>>12078795
>shit
where did i say that? maybe stop projecting and fix your own reading comprehension. you're so angry you're seeing shit, bucko
>>12078799
is b8?
>>12078782
I read the post just fine sweetheart.
>>12078791
>>12078795
>>12078799
Lol nice
>>12078795
>>12078810
r u guys retarded?
>>12078660
>christmas eve family party, everyone expected to dress well
>you dont need to be decked out in any fucking thing when visiting family
>I read the post just fine sweetheart
weew
woops
>>12078819
meant for
>>12078811
btw
>>12078819
It's a family gathering. Dress well doesn't mean decked out at all. All she needs to do is throw on a nice blouse and trousers or a simple dress and cardigan. Fix your reading skillz, almighty grandmaster.
>>12078819
looks like you did not read their post at all and youre trying to bag on someone elses reading comprehension?
WEW LAD
>>12078827
>outfit consists of mumuesque blouse over baggy polyester business suit bottoms and Payless flats
seems like she didn't do even that
here's that (You) you wanted for christmas
>>12078839
>here's that (You) you wanted for christmas
>im going to pull out the most generic, latest buzzsentence because i have nothing else left to contribute and knew i was wrong the entire time
>>12078660
not your personal blog, faggot
delete this
Why are people such fucking autists. How the fuck did you get a gf in the first place if you behave like you never talked to another human being before
>>12078839
....but thats exactly what she did
>>12078857
Found the numale
>>12078857
probably started browsing 4chan some time within those 8 years and changed for the worst
>>12078866
redpill me on numales
>>12078877
a buzzword that neo-/v/ uses to describe anyone they dont like
basically nerds calling other nerds nerds
>>12078877
The modern numale is the Western version of the Japanese herbivore male, just before he snaps from a lack of physical gratification from his love interest (because being a gentleman and leftist generally never leads a thirsty male to pussy, despite the narrative), and goes full MGTOW.
>>12078877
it's what failed pick up believers call any dude who treats girls like humans. it's basically interchangeable with "cuck" on 4chan. it's way overused on this website.
numales are those clear frame glasses wearin, red wing boot wearin, blue jeans not fittin, plaid shirt loving, lumbersexual vibin, skinnyfat twitter feminist guys with thinning hair despite the fact they're in their late 20s/early 30s
patchy beards too.
Talk shit post fit you fucking new fag.
>>12078886
>because being a gentleman and leftist
fidel castro literally fucked his assassin and she became his mistress.
>>12078886
>numales
>leftists
numales are too milquetoast to ascribe to any ideology with full force. numales are usually center-left/right or left-lib
>>12078660
offer some advice with it, congratulate that colours matched her skin/eyes/whatever. Always finish with positive note. go shopping together.
[spoiler]I really don't know noone loves me :D[/spoiler]
should've left after her thighs started touching
dont listen to these fags, OP. You did the right thing.
comforting people into accepting mediocrity is terrible.